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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by kenzysmith(m): 12:14pm On Sep 16
we starred the same year I quit two months ago

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Tflex01: 12:14pm On Sep 16
Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr

Masturbating is good....it is not a bad thing....

First of all....you need to stop thinking it is a bad thing....so you won't be feeling guilty after masturbating.....

You know the funny thing son.....
When you stop feeling guilty about masturbations and stop seeing it as a bad thing that is the time you start to limit it without you knowing....

Lol... True though.

14 years in that "business" and I stopped like I wasn't ever into it. cool

Having a regular sex partner helped a lot.

Masturbation is really addictive.

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by iLUCID: 12:14pm On Sep 16
Too much free time

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Zane2point4(m): 12:14pm On Sep 16
properties4sale:
Mine is for the past 20 years, itself really a very big problem. It destroys your sex life.. like it kills it; poor erection. You cannoot have normal sex with girls. It's bad.

That erection stuff is real,many masturbators suffers it alot that deh depend on viagra for sex.

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by SeunAdeniyi1(m): 12:14pm On Sep 16
Do it for one more year.

10 years anniversary loading!

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by madridsta007(m): 12:15pm On Sep 16
Blackurglyboi:
Please don't laugh at my English and I'm not a good writer.

Now I have come to realization that truely masturbation is the greatest addiction ever. I wouldn't like to disclose my name cause of some reasons, I would like to keep my identity safe.

It all started far back In 2011 when I was in my jss3, I have been a pretty good boy who loves making friends, I was jovial. I interact with everyone around me and everybody loves my company.

I have lot of girls as my friends ..
One faithful Saturday morning I was having a stroll and I came across a pornography film pack and it has nudes content. It was lying by the road side, I'd picked it up and had a lot at it ..

My fellow nairalanders, that was how my journey started.

I started having the urge for sex. I felt so good giving myself self pleasure, I started masturbating once or twice a week, soon I started getting addicted, anytime I feel alone, the urge comes up and I must attend to it no matter where I am.

I started downloading phonography pictures on my phone. Fast forward to the time I finished my secondary school. It come to my observation I started pulling away from my female friends and I started keeping all to myself. I got some worst to the extent I can't talk to a woman. I started losing my friends. I only had mouth on social media .

Fast forward till today, masturbation have ruined my life totally now I have been so addicted that I get it done twice a day, sometimes I feel hurt and guilty, sometimes I asked myself i I would ever get married or if I can ever love a woman. I feel so embarrassed and ashamed of myself. I do promise my self that I'm gonna leave it but the highest I could go was a week. I don't even have that urge of hitting a woman, in my area as low as 500 you can have sex with a LovePeddler, but even though it is cheap to that extent i Would rather satisfy my self.

Till this day I have been masturbating for 9 years and it's really tearing my life apart.
Now I keep all to myself .. The only two things you could find on my phone browser is narialand and different ponographic sites ...

It hurts me so much, sometimes my friends ask when would I have a girlfriend but I would reply (oboy leave that thing make we make money first woman go come ) but deep down I feel sorry for myself ...

For those who say masturbation isn't a sin, dear friends masturbation I'd a deep sin and when you're addicted to it is very difficult to overcome it .

Please I need your advice, a problem shared is a problem solved.

There is a spirit behind masturbation. Dont listen to what anyone urging you on here tells you.
It is a spiritual problem.

I would suggest you (1) Give your life to Christ and become truly born again (2) Plead to God for mercy and (3) With a more spiritual Christian, pray and break its hold on your life.
Then pay attention to what you see, what you watch, what you read, the company you keep, etc.
It will go and never come back again.

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by iLUCID: 12:15pm On Sep 16
kenzysmith:
we starred the same year I quit two months ago


It’s like quitting alcohol, you’re fighting a losing battle
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Macsjebs(m): 12:16pm On Sep 16
Slawormir:

You know the funny thing son....
Guy you go don old o, this one u call the guy 'son'

Societal stuff adds to the guilt, even for couples, they advice masturbation for a guy that doesn't last long so as to release hormones before the main act (sex)

Besides, when u go check my signature wink

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by youngdabold19: 12:17pm On Sep 16
You need to be in a network of people who are seriously trying to quit and are working towards it.


Join this thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by PitexyBaba(m): 12:17pm On Sep 16
Blackurglyboi:
Please don't laugh at my English and I'm not a good writer.

Now I have come to realization that truely masturbation is the greatest addiction ever. I wouldn't like to disclose my name cause of some reasons, I would like to keep my identity safe.

It all started far back In 2011 when I was in my jss3, I have been a pretty good boy who loves making friends, I was jovial. I interact with everyone around me and everybody loves my company.

I have lot of girls as my friends ..
One faithful Saturday morning I was having a stroll and I came across a pornography film pack and it has nudes content. It was lying by the road side, I'd picked it up and had a lot at it ..

My fellow nairalanders, that was how my journey started.

I started having the urge for sex. I felt so good giving myself self pleasure, I started masturbating once or twice a week, soon I started getting addicted, anytime I feel alone, the urge comes up and I must attend to it no matter where I am.

I started downloading phonography pictures on my phone. Fast forward to the time I finished my secondary school. It come to my observation I started pulling away from my female friends and I started keeping all to myself. I got some worst to the extent I can't talk to a woman. I started losing my friends. I only had mouth on social media .

Fast forward till today, masturbation have ruined my life totally now I have been so addicted that I get it done twice a day, sometimes I feel hurt and guilty, sometimes I asked myself i I would ever get married or if I can ever love a woman. I feel so embarrassed and ashamed of myself. I do promise my self that I'm gonna leave it but the highest I could go was a week. I don't even have that urge of hitting a woman, in my area as low as 500 you can have sex with a LovePeddler, but even though it is cheap to that extent i Would rather satisfy my self.

Till this day I have been masturbating for 9 years and it's really tearing my life apart.
Now I keep all to myself .. The only two things you could find on my phone browser is narialand and different ponographic sites ...

It hurts me so much, sometimes my friends ask when would I have a girlfriend but I would reply (oboy leave that thing make we make money first woman go come ) but deep down I feel sorry for myself ...

For those who say masturbation isn't a sin, dear friends masturbation I'd a deep sin and when you're addicted to it is very difficult to overcome it .

Please I need your advice, a problem shared is a problem solved.

You are still a very young Man...
delete all porns on your phone and get yourself busy.
thank God school will soon resume.
Else, you will regret later because you won't have any feelings again for woman.

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Nelly4you: 12:18pm On Sep 16
this is really hard to overcome it takes the power of God to intervene
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Davoneskay(m): 12:18pm On Sep 16
In addition to my comments, I believe if u undergo any therapy or counselling to overcome masturbation, one day, just one, you may return to ur vomit. The best way is to undergo deliverance. Grace differs but I believe so much in self deliverance. Who knows if the so-called clergymen u run to have same addictions and possessions u want them to deliver u from. A victim who's yet to deliver himself can't help others. Also, please, quit sexually provocative contents. Pray the best way u can be u a Moslem, Xtian, or whatever. My own means of praying will surprise anyone but I get tangible results. Please, victims of masturbation should quit lustful thoughts n other things that could trigger such act. Determination and deliverance will set u free. You may send a PM to me if u need my inputs or help. It's well.
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Sholaco: 12:18pm On Sep 16
Well, i hope you quit,get yourself occupy with something meaningful and get marry in no time

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by sanmtiago(m): 12:18pm On Sep 16
Mtcheew just nine years You are still a beginner na

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Zane2point4(m): 12:18pm On Sep 16
Blackurglyboi:

I have been following up cases like this for over the years here in nairialand ....most people would say masturbation is healthy and it isn't a since ..for me that's a big lie , masturbation can destroy someone pemenetly .....its a big sin...

Dont mind them,how can it be healthy when a full grown man will have intercourse with his spouse and his cum will be as tiny as a tear drop all blc of frequent masturbation.
That's if your dickk rise sef grin

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by jUeLiZ: 12:18pm On Sep 16
grin grin
UDUJ:

26 years shocked shocked shocked
Your hands muscles must be fully developed now cheesy grin cheesy
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by jericco1(m): 12:19pm On Sep 16
Is that even possible? undecided
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by properties4sale: 12:19pm On Sep 16
Zane2point4:


That erection stuff is real,many masturbators suffers it alot that deh depend on viagra for sex.

Absolutely; that's what I depend on now, to have a good sex; like a real sex... if I don't use it, cant have a good satisfying sex; could be frustrating...

The good thing is, it's reversible, all you need do is just stay away from mansturbation(which is very difficukt) .. and after about 1 to 2 months, u reformat.

These are my experience

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by NaijaCover(m): 12:19pm On Sep 16
Too Bad Bro
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Pautacfm: 12:19pm On Sep 16
Stop watching porn, stop staying indoors alone for too long, and have sex as much as you can.
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by properties4sale: 12:20pm On Sep 16
ZINIBANKS:

20 pa shocked
Yeap. I started at 14, I'm in my early 30's now

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Squillaci: 12:20pm On Sep 16
Blackurglyboi:
Please don't laugh at my English and I'm not a good writer.

Now I have come to realization that truely masturbation is the greatest addiction ever. I wouldn't like to disclose my name cause of some reasons, I would like to keep my identity safe.

It all started far back In 2011 when I was in my jss3, I have been a pretty good boy who loves making friends, I was jovial. I interact with everyone around me and everybody loves my company.

I have lot of girls as my friends ..
One faithful Saturday morning I was having a stroll and I came across a pornography film pack and it has nudes content. It was lying by the road side, I'd picked it up and had a lot at it ..

My fellow nairalanders, that was how my journey started.

I started having the urge for sex. I felt so good giving myself self pleasure, I started masturbating once or twice a week, soon I started getting addicted, anytime I feel alone, the urge comes up and I must attend to it no matter where I am.

I started downloading phonography pictures on my phone. Fast forward to the time I finished my secondary school. It come to my observation I started pulling away from my female friends and I started keeping all to myself. I got some worst to the extent I can't talk to a woman. I started losing my friends. I only had mouth on social media .

Fast forward till today, masturbation have ruined my life totally now I have been so addicted that I get it done twice a day, sometimes I feel hurt and guilty, sometimes I asked myself i I would ever get married or if I can ever love a woman. I feel so embarrassed and ashamed of myself. I do promise my self that I'm gonna leave it but the highest I could go was a week. I don't even have that urge of hitting a woman, in my area as low as 500 you can have sex with a LovePeddler, but even though it is cheap to that extent i Would rather satisfy my self.

Till this day I have been masturbating for 9 years and it's really tearing my life apart.
Now I keep all to myself .. The only two things you could find on my phone browser is narialand and different ponographic sites ...

It hurts me so much, sometimes my friends ask when would I have a girlfriend but I would reply (oboy leave that thing make we make money first woman go come ) but deep down I feel sorry for myself ...

For those who say masturbation isn't a sin, dear friends masturbation I'd a deep sin and when you're addicted to it is very difficult to overcome it .

Please I need your advice, a problem shared is a problem solved.

Jeez. What's wrong with masturbation?

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Zane2point4(m): 12:21pm On Sep 16
Ghost8889:


Masturbating has nothing to do with poor erection or inability to release and have complete pleasure with a woman
Quote me anywhere it does.
If you're used to your hands,a naked woman wont get you up .

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by West2019(m): 12:22pm On Sep 16
is not good. is giving bad luck. I'm.into.for over 10.yrs noe but my own case ndey different

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by oluwaseunamos33(m): 12:22pm On Sep 16
ALL YOU NEED IS PRAYER

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Faboya101: 12:22pm On Sep 16
Lol this is my 12th year
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by chloride6: 12:22pm On Sep 16
madampresident:
The only reason you're struggling with masturbation is because you see it as a very big deal. You masturbate and the devil sells you guilt.

This is not God now. Take away the guilt. Enjoy your masturbation and watch yourself lose memory to masturbation.

Drop your Aza for funds...
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by kaynacy(m): 12:23pm On Sep 16
Abouwaza:
26 years here bro
Christ!!!
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by MadeINchenzen2: 12:23pm On Sep 16
Throw away your phone and stop buying data. Dont be alone. stress yourself with work and outdoor activity. Get married as soon as possible. Eat less. ur preaq is active when u eat too much cheesy


Though pray and fast. village people will not allow ur innocent preaq to rest in peace.cheesygrin

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Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by emkz: 12:23pm On Sep 16
Please tell us how you discovered masturbation. And then tell us how you have sustained it over the years.

If it is porn, stop spending all your time watching.
Re: Help!! I Have Been Masturbating For 9 Years Now by Zane2point4(m): 12:23pm On Sep 16
properties4sale:


Absolutely; that's what I depend on now, to have a good sex; like a real sex... if I don't use it, cant have a good satisfying sex; could be frustrating...

The good thing is, it's reversible, all you need do is just stay away from mansturbation(which is very difficukt) .. and after about 1 to 2 months, u reformat.
I swear

These are my experience

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