Princessbettyj:


Lolzzzzzzzzz before nko are we there to look at your face,lmao nobody should attack me biko

crackhaus:

Is it Nigerian women you're telling this one?

It's like you've spent too long with uncle Sam and forgotten how your sisters love to enjoy the life their father could not provide for them.

Happyguy201:
absolutely brother but then again . nigerian girls have poor mentality most of them think that when you ask them out on a date it means free food and drinks for them

jornwhite:




it very wrong to order for the next especially when you don't know what there choice might be ... even my bestie of over a decade when we hang out he still ask me what i care despite knowing we drink same thing.
Best advice, date is not by force, if you no get let her know or postpone. outing or no outing who wil date you wil date you.

Organs:


Poverty has bastardized you so much youre calling paying for food, materialism, i mean "FOOD"..... Na wah oh. Why should you invite a babe out if you are too poor to take your own self out? Bros, its not by force to flex and blame the babe. Why should a babe pay for her own food when youre the one asking her out and asking her out on a date? Remove your poverty ridden mentality from my mention. Good advice, keep your broke economic reality harsh condition in your father's house or in your wretched apartment. Nobi by force to trip babe then blame babe that she did not pay, or she use too much toilet roll at your house, or asked for plantain with jollof rice or that she did not leave her takeaway for you to use for lunch the next day. Poverty deadhead.

Munzy14:

Making order depends o... but in all, have fun and stay within your pocket....Them no deh give awards for who impress a lady pass...

Organs:


Shut up poor man. Only a poor shameless man complain about buying food for a lady he is wooing. Double your hustle and change that stupid poor wretched mentality.

Sixfeetbelle:


You hit the nail on the head.

When you invite someone out, order for them if you're not too buoyant. In fact, since you invited them out, take them to a place you can afford even if she foolishly orders a full page. Let men stop trying to overdo themselves. You're not in any competition.

Jaqenhghar:

I like me a girl with a healthy appetite so when we are going out to eat I expect her to eat well. Its part of the fun.

Alexaonfleek:
rubbish.

Some of these guys complaining about eating on dates if they go to ordinary church meeting and they don't share food they will be complaining.

armyofone:
So if a lady ask a guy out for a date, it is mandatory she pays right?

Like for example paying for crackhaus dinner (he will eat one full rotisserie chicken and finish a whole bottle of cognac )

armyofone:
We have to start from somewhere - Sharing info of how things are done. Nothing is set in stones now. Nigerian women can change, that's my belief.

lefulefu:
he can start like this..barman pls bring two malt.one for me one for her..oh would u like malt?..the girl might reply no,a coke will do.i dont think any sane lady if the guy ask her if she would like malt would now be requesting for an expensive red wine.e no dey.dats just d scope of it.Some guys just to proof dem be bigboy will tell the girl to order anything she fancy and when she order four chinken wings and 5 chicken laps plus red wine they will come here crying that a girl ate all their money .so u see the foolishness in it all.

Sixfeetbelle:


There's no need to whip anyone cause you're both saying the same thing.

If you invite someone out, you're mandated to foot their bills, be it a date or a business lunch with a prospective investor. Like he pointed out, paying for meals shouldn't be a problem if you don't have a poverty mentality.

Now with dates, you can weave your way out of footing the bills when you let your date know they'll be paying. Like you said, Mark can ask his wife to pay for their meals and she will. It has nothing to do with if she's working or not. However, you can only request for your date to foot a dinner you prompted if you guys are familiar with each other, in this case, it's completely normal to ask your girlfriend/fiancee/wife to foot the bills. However, do note, you can't pull this stunt on a first date though. The best you can get is a "split bill" arrangement.

Point is: paying for food shouldn't be such a problem in a civilised world, but I know it is being abused in this part of the world. And also, hope you know It's simple courtesy to let your date know how bills will be footed before the date.

Organs:


Spouse/wife/significant other/ is not what is referenced here. The gist is about someone you take out on a date. Mumu read and comprehend. Again, it is you that lacks maturity bros, just stick with the akara sellers and the cleaners and waiters you date. You cannot, i repeat you cannot date the people i date. You are too poor mentally to start with.

sapphiere:
The kind of drink I'd order, you'd rather prefer I go for food instead. My drinks are expensive.

Demaestro09:


So if we are familiar (me and my date) its not a poverty mentality for everyone to foot their bill when we out on a date but if we aren't then it is. Can you listen to yourself

Wait is this a joke

lefulefu:
If the guy or babe wants to be innovative in their relationship they can prepare something at home and they go out for picnic..it would make the relationship more fun.Na so dem dey do am for other places.Its not everytime u must go to resuturant but then if u know go just order what is within ur budget.Very simple to handle the issue .

Demaestro09:


You must be very stupid for typing this trash here

Who are the people you date You piece of shit? You know nothing bro, how much does an average Nigerian date cost, at most 5k. Most guys here can afford it, just that we can stand imbeciles like you making us to feel like it's our duty to foot the entire bill just because we asked her out. In a civilised society everyone pays for their thing, that's more reasonable and rational.

In the US for instance its the norm for everyone to foot his/her bill, that's how things are done in most civilise countries. And no it doesn't equate brokenness as fools like you reason it, far from it.

It's only here in Nigeria that foolish men like you think spending money on a lady on a first date means you love her or something.

I repeat, it those not equal brokenness, more like one footing their bill s but you are seemingly too stupid to get this

My point is : it doesn't takes away from me if I choose to pay for everything on a date, that's just out of my own freewill and volition. Its not a duty or a responsibility. You are making it seem like the lady is entitled for her bills to be paid be me , which makes no sense

Happyguy201:
absolutely brother but then again . nigerian girls have poor mentality most of them think that when you ask them out on a date it means free food and drinks for them

2cribz:
Me go on date. Never. Meet me for lounge,bring 1 shawama,1 barbequed fish. After ubdon dey high,pack rest go house. Fuc k u like say tmrw no dey. Shaply 7am i drop u off. No time for dates,all girls be okpo

PrincewithGod:
Dating is the precursor to fornication run from it if you want to stay undefiled. FLEE FROM ALL APPEARANCES OF EVIL!

baralatie:

so how do christains find their spouse

PrincewithGod:

Become a Born again Christian and you'll know how we find our spouses.

lefulefu:
lol na rice person never chop b4 wey im go come dey complain again

baralatie:

so you are saying born again brother will not take a born again sister on a date abi.
the born again brother will ask his pastor to date the sister on his behalf

PrincewithGod:

Mt brother, first things first, give your life to Christ, marriage is not a criteria for entering Heaven: Being born again and living holy is. Save your soul from eternal damnation first and stop putting the cart before the horse.

crackhaus:

Lmao, why else do you think most naija women hardly ask men out on dates?
It's not just about appearing cheap to a guy, it's also about being actually cheap financially.

They'd rather give a man greenlights and wait for him to ask them out... this way, he's the one expected to pay.

One has been telling me I'm owing her a dinner date for more than two months now – if to chop dinner outside dey hungry am, I wonder why she has not invited me to accompany her to a place of her choosing.
She go wait taya for my invitation mehn.

jornwhite:




Yea ! am asking you out on a date and about the bills not entirely true buh true you will be the only one to eat, me i'm ok with bottle water. so hypothetically paying for what you eat is not absurd.
stop doubting me, how real could i av been, or you want me to take you to cubana or La mango so we end up washing plates
If you are not a feminist what are doing on NL, when ur mates are on snapchat, instagram tweking or funnily moving there head 2 a music in BG why do gurls even do that shit. lol
I don't know fashion like dat buh am old skool tew, and i also have numerous hiv test reports to certify i am pure.
vic the way you keep rejecting me publicly am afraid no one will be able to beat your record o! ... begging is not in my dictionary buh i don't give up either. maybe we should just do what Op said .. eat from home, problem solved. now i know yu wil change ur mind

Demaestro09:


You must be very stupid for typing this trash here

Who are the people you date You piece of shit? You know nothing bro, how much does an average Nigerian date cost, at most 5k. Most guys here can afford it, just that we can stand imbeciles like you making us to feel like it's our duty to foot the entire bill just because we asked her out. In a civilised society everyone pays for their thing, that's more reasonable and rational.

In the US for instance its the norm for everyone to foot his/her bill, that's how things are done in most civilise countries. And no it doesn't equate brokenness as fools like you reason it, far from it.

It's only here in Nigeria that foolish men like you think spending money on a lady on a first date means you love her or something.

I repeat, it those not equal brokenness, more like one footing their bill s but you are seemingly too stupid to get this

My point is : it doesn't takes away from me if I choose to pay for everything on a date, that's just out of my own freewill and volition. Its not a duty or a responsibility. You are making it seem like the lady is entitled for her bills to be paid be me , which makes no sense