relationships like this take patience and understanding to survive

lefulefu:
probably the man might have married over there as well.Wen u see a guy overseas who is married and he"s not concerned about bringing his wife over then know for sure he has a woman there .Its not that complex when u overseas and want to bring over ur spouse to join u..except if u there illegally

PROBABLY?? Lmaooo He IS VERY MARRIED over there

Samakus:


No wonder? Lolz

I asked that because somee tribes here in Lagos don't see anything wrong with sleeping with people's wife. they say ko mean

Originalsly:


That's true..... but why would you create a situation to encourage her to cheat?

There is nothing to justify cheating my friend, cheating is cheating there is no acceptable xcuse,!So cos u are hungry is a justifiable reason to go and steal, my friend move of it!you lot are coming accross as kids!

Jonathan39:
Only a poor man worries over a woman's pussy.

correct

virginprincess:
Thanks, corrected

Not quite. It is "while the sun shines"

People in other countries don’t have their lives and every decision they make revolve around sex or lack of sex. If a couple is committed to each other, to each other’s forks, staying faithful is not an issue at all for either person.

It’s not all about sex and who’s getting what or who’s knocking who. No wonder the country is in the state that is in, you’re priorities are always on sex, look at the tv shows you worship, sucking and fvcking on national tv.

lefulefu:
i don forget where i read the story.if u see the woman she just look like craze woman but when she show the reporter her old pic on how she looked in the 90s omo she looked fresh no be small .starvation ehn can change someone's appearance

It made FP last year bro.

luminouz:

It made FP last year bro.

oh u remember the story sef

lefulefu:
oh u remember the story sef

Yes na...very well sef. Na Benin woman. Her old pic showed she was very dope then.

luminouz:


Yes na...very well sef. Na Benin woman. Her old pic showed she was very dope then.

yup na benin woman.she was sleeping with the husband"s driver and the husband in revenge dumped her and carried off his kids with him to the US.She was saying that the man should forgive her but then i dey sure say d man go don even marry another wife for there and move on with his life

lefulefu:
yup na benin woman.she was sleeping with the husband"s driver and the husband in revenge dumped her and carried off his kids with him to the US.She was saying that the man should forgive her but then i dey sure say d man go don even marry another wife for there and move on with his life

Yes you got it right.

I dont know the final outcome sha o...if the man finally forgave her or something.

luminouz:


Yes you got it right.

I dont know the final outcome sha o...if the man finally forgave her or something.

the reporter no even fit get the whereabouts of the man .according to the wife she said the man left her for the US.her children would now be adults since she said the man travelled since the 90s

maasoap:


So, you didn't see the other partner being used by you? You are funny

Not necessarily. Ppl can lead U to believe they want more than just sex.

Peacefullove:


the op is speaking from a married woman point of view. Can you now get the womans dillema?

Doesnt matter. If U love your partner n they're away then U control yourself

Peacefullove:

Sure. i know
Just that u women love attention, which can be a weakness, one Guy shower u with attention during those periods.... and anything can happen.

Not necessarily. If U open your legs just cos someone shows U a little attention that makes U very easy lol.
Sure I like attention as much as the next girl but it dnt mean Im gonna let someone jump my bones

ufotty2001:

I don't blame people like you.. I blame guys that make people like you look valuable.. running your mouth like a bug of pig that was thrown inside the ocean..

Lol very imaginative (applause for you)
Why U following me if I'm such a bug of pig whatever hmm?

Ginomel:


Let's just say you are doing it for yourself and your belief.

But simply know that your partner might have his own belief and coded actions too. Simple truth.

That can be true but if U do marry someone U should know what their morals are beforehand

larryking540:


really ,I hardly get Influenced ,I don't kw if I have been in this life before ,so I don't get freaked by sociality material

Yeah I know better now but in my teens I was easily influenced.

ufotty2001:

I don't blame people like you.. I blame guys that make people like you look valuable.. running your mouth like a bug of pig that was thrown inside the ocean..

People like me?
And why would any guys make me look valuable lol. I'm just a normal person like anyone else. I am who I am.
If U don't like what I say then don't read it it's simple. If U don't believe what I say then that's your choice.
You don't need to be rude.
Seriously tho you seem like a miserable person, coming online acting so cynical. Although your opinion dont mean anything to me you should really learn some manners...U know...just incase U don't want people to think you're such a prick. Have a nice day anyway:/

fabulous85:
definitely, after the one night stands, numerous sex partners, people like you will then realise you want to abstain and then an unlucky guy will feel he has found gold.

Lol people like me. U don't even know me.
I've had two one night stands in my life n they was with an ex I was with for years other than that I've had two long time relationships.
Why would the guy be unlucky lol. Is it unlucky to be with a girl who hasn't got a high body count. Or would U prefer your future girl to be the kind who's been with half your city?
I don't make out to be something I'm not
I'm not gold or am better than anyone else
Everyone loves their life their way n the way I live mine doesnt make me any better or valuable than the next person.
I dnt value people by their sex life. It's their own choice but I like to think I have good morals n U can hate on me for that if U like it dnt bother me

ufotty2001:

Keep on acting like a saint and be decieving people. No wonder you register a new moniker in nairaland here to clean up your past life... I have met people like you before...!!! I bet you! what you are saying is fake and misleading.. just to lieu the innocent guys in... If you are genuine, reply me with your old account.. nairaland.

I don't have another account what would be the point in that. This is my first time on this forum. I didn't say I was a saint I just try to be a good person and respect myself and others. I'm just a normal person like anyone else. Lol why would I mislead people and say fake stuff like seriously what would that achieve me? I'm just being honest in what I believe. U do realise not everyone in this world are liars, cheats n hoes etc. You must be one of those cynical people who just assume the worst of people. It's alright you can believe what you like if it makes you happy. I know who I am and what kind of person I am, as do the people I care about and that's what matters most.

MrBrownJay1:


It's the Nigerian hypocrisy again.... Parents would allow their son to go abroad fukc some other woman, but as soon as 9ja wife stand for her marriage (or God forbids, cheats), they will quickly look down on wifey. Lol!

See all of them claiming arrant nonsense on this thread.





Some people can go without sex and others CANT. that's the hard reality of life...just like some can go without money while others CANT. The minute anyone believes that EVERYONE can/should go without sex, that's when you have lost the plot on this issue.
The woman in this issue CANNOT go years without sex, and that's the reality, don't blame men for fukcing that sexually miserable woman, blame the foolish husband who abandoned her.

Lol it's not that people CAN'T go without sex it's that they DON'T WANT to

emkz:


I was in a relationship and work required that we had to be apart for three months. I like sex, but I chose not to indulge my likeness. But madam was collecting every week and fighting me on top. I didn't feel played, I saw her for her worth and she irritates me till this day. I could not even keep her as a sex friend. Everyone can do without sex. Any one that tells you he can't is a liar. Like you said, its a matter of priorities and respect for oneself and your partner.

One truth we must all confront is that after death, there is no more sex. What is our excuse? Cheating has nothing to do with sex, it is just the belief that one can do it and get away with it. Prove to them that they can't by dumping them.

Yeah I guess it's about alot of things.
Priorities, control, loyalty n love, morals.
Cheating can be about alot of things too. Temptation, attraction to a certain person, loneliness n just sex.
Yeah I wouldn't tolerate a cheat these days I put up with enuff of that from my ex n would not dead with that kinda thing again. If they're a cheat then they can find someone else to do it on n I'd wait to find someone with similar morals n loyalty as mine. There are ppl out there who are trustworthy and faithful. I think maybe not as many as who aren't but they're out there

Mrscarter:


Lol very imaginative (applause for you)
Why U following me if I'm such a bug of pig whatever hmm?

Why will I follow you. What value will you add to me. Anyway, it was mistakenly clicked on not intentionally.. I wish I know how to unfollow you...
Look at someone that said that she is new to nairaland knows all the clicks and every angle of every pages.. as far as am concern, you have an old account and this new account was created to mislead people.. keep on Deceiving yourself!!!

ufotty2001:

Why will I follow you. What value will you add to me. Anyway, it was mistakenly clicked on not intentionally.. I wish I know how to unfollow you...
Look at someone that said that she is new to nairaland knows all the clicks and every angle of every pages.. as far as am concern, you have an old account and this new account was created to mislead people.. keep on Deceiving yourself!!!

.lol isn't hard to see when I looked in my profile.

ufotty2001:

Why will I follow you. What value will you add to me. Anyway, it was mistakenly clicked on not intentionally.. I wish I know how to unfollow you...
Look at someone that said that she is new to nairaland knows all the clicks and every angle of every pages.. as far as am concern, you have an old account and this new account was created to mislead people.. keep on Deceiving yourself!!!

Tell me please what will I gain from misleading a bunch of strangers online who can think for themselves?
Mislead them into what? And to what end?
Why would I put energy into that?

Please I need your help
I applied for a visa appointment since July 2020 and I have not been giving appointment due to Corona virus and all
My question is should I reapply for another visa appointment or keep waiting