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Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by tollyboy5(m): 8:43am On Oct 08, 2020
pocohantas:
A nagging woman is most times a woman who is talking and not being listened to. How do you tell a man something today, he claims he will change and the next day he is doing same thing? Talk one and they’ll slam you the nag charge. Forgetting their tactical gaslighting. Women should learn to talk less. Let’s all be silent, we can all be silent.
I told a girl few words many months ago. I really like this girl as a friend. She told me not to worry she'll please her self . when a lady grows financially you can hardly advice them.
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Tonytonex(m): 10:08am On Oct 08, 2020
This is very apt. thanks OP for this timely wisdom nuggets. God bless you.
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Nobody: 10:56am On Oct 08, 2020
angelfallz:


Oh Lord God of hosts, you don't even know the reason why we had to break up.

you guys should stop deceiving yourselves and lying to yourselves that women nagging is a sign of commitment or love. You're just setting yourselves up for toxic relationships. And i assure you, men that condone such nasty behaviours from women, dont live long.



Doesnt matter why you guys broke up, i do tell my close pals even tho "LOVE" is not enough to save a r/ship it is enough to trigger reactions even in the most reserve being.
Nagging is mostly classified as a gurlfriend or wife thing cos its not something regular people do. imagine ur female neibor or colleague nagging @ you. why will palema007 nag 4 me.
Nagging is a defect synonymous to women just as wheel fallout is to honda accord, there is nothing men can do about it, other than to look for a lady with a tempo one considers mid or low. ... its part of there nature, the earlier you come to terms with that fact the better you know how to coexist with dem.
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by angelfallz(m): 11:05am On Oct 08, 2020
MLTR:



Doesnt matter why you guys broke up, i do tell my close pals even tho "LOVE" is not enough to save a r/ship it is enough to trigger reactions even in the most reserve being.
Nagging is mostly classified as a gurlfriend or wife thing cos its not something regular people do. imagine ur female neibor or colleague nagging @ you. why will palema007 nag 4 me.
Nagging is a defect synonymous to women just as wheel fallout is to honda accord, there is nothing men can do about it, other than to look for a lady with a tempo one considers mid or low. ... its part of there nature, the earlier you come to terms with that fact the better you know how to coexist with dem.

Nagging is not part of women's nature. You people just keep lying to yourselves. Oh but there is something that men can do about nagging women, which is to cast them. aside
i understand that many of you grew up around and dated nagging women, so you have formed the belief that all women nag.
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Nobody: 11:28am On Oct 08, 2020
angelfallz:


Nagging is not part of women's nature. You people just keep lying to yourselves. Oh but there is something that men can do about nagging women, which is to cast them. aside
i understand that many of you grew up around and dated nagging women, so you have formed the belief that all women nag.



LOLh! you must av been lucky the women around you were not created by God. its an absolute waste of time to enforce reality on anyone, wait till you marry smiley that angel you mud
I want you to observe something from the search attached below, figure it out wink

Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by angelfallz(m): 11:51am On Oct 08, 2020
MLTR:




LOLh! you must av been lucky the women around you were not created by God. its an absolute waste of time to enforce reality on anyone, wait till you marry smiley that angel you mud
I want you to observe something from the search attached below, figure it out wink


Lol you even helped me to buttress my point with the dictionary definition of nagging, as regards my former girlfriend. She did not continually find fault with me, she did not continually complain.
And yes, she was created by God. In her own words, "I am wonderfully made and created by God" that was her reply to me when i once asked her if she thought she was beautiful.
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Nobody: 12:37pm On Oct 08, 2020
angelfallz:


Lol you even helped me to buttress my point with the dictionary definition of nagging, as regards my former girlfriend. She did not continually find fault with me, she did not continually complain.
And yes, she was created by God. In her own words, "I am wonderfully made and created by God" that was her reply to me when i once asked her if she thought she was beautiful.




The way you mesmerized about your "Ex" shows you carry the love, the fact that she left further buttress why she never wasted her energy nagging over. its pointless for a woman to nag over a man she does not see in her future.
Likely seriously, are we gonna keep talking about someone called "EX" .. you better move on.

You must be a very funny man, you asked a lady if she is beautiful grin grin what other responds did you expect, NO! i am not beautiful n its my parent fault. grin grin reality await everyone when we log off
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by MrTAnonymous(m): 1:31pm On Oct 08, 2020
MLTR:





The way you mesmerized about your "Ex" shows you carry the love, the fact that she left further buttress why she never wasted her energy nagging over. its pointless for a woman to nag over a man she does not see in her future.
Likely seriously, are we gonna keep talking about someone called "EX" .. you better move on.

You must be a very funny man, you asked a lady if she is beautiful grin grin what other responds did you expect, NO! i am not beautiful n its my parent fault. grin grin reality await everyone when we log off
You are on point bro. Reality will set on him when he eventually gets married.




Incase you don't know na me talk
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Penboy: 1:51pm On Oct 08, 2020
MLTR:





The way you mesmerized about your "Ex" shows you carry the love, the fact that she left further buttress why she never wasted her energy nagging over. its pointless for a woman to nag over a man she does not see in her future.
Likely seriously, are we gonna keep talking about someone called "EX" .. you better move on.

You must be a very funny man, you asked a lady if she is beautiful grin grin what other responds did you expect, NO! i am not beautiful n its my parent fault. grin grin reality await everyone when we log off


K.O

Falality
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by angelfallz(m): 1:54pm On Oct 08, 2020
MLTR:





The way you mesmerized about your "Ex" shows you carry the love, the fact that she left further buttress why she never wasted her energy nagging over. its pointless for a woman to nag over a man she does not see in her future.
Likely seriously, are we gonna keep talking about someone called "EX" .. you better move on.

You must be a very funny man, you asked a lady if she is beautiful grin grin what other responds did you expect, NO! i am not beautiful n its my parent fault. grin grin reality await everyone when we log off


The bolded, Nigerians and their assumptive attitude. hahahahahahahahaha
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Princessbettyj(f): 12:43pm On Oct 09, 2020
Theicecode:
Igbo


Lol
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Nobody: 5:40pm On Oct 09, 2020
@ MLTR

Why will I nag at you, do I know you ri?
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Nobody: 6:01pm On Oct 09, 2020
Palema007:
@ MLTR

Why will I nag at you, do I know you ri?




Exactly my point, i guess you didnt read thru grin

Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Nobody: 6:07pm On Oct 09, 2020
MLTR:





Exactly my point, i guess you didnt read thru grin
I did. Just wanted to know why you picked my moniker
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Nobody: 6:26pm On Oct 09, 2020
Palema007:
I did. Just wanted to know why you picked my moniker


cos only you won't take it the wrong way
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Nobody: 6:32pm On Oct 09, 2020
MLTR:



cos only you won't take it the wrong way
I see.... Lol
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Tonytonex(m): 10:57pm On Oct 10, 2020
MrTAnonymous:
If You Want To Live Long, Here Are 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women

As a guy, living for a long time and making things happen is your first goal in life. Every man on Earth is destined for a reason, and before you leave the earth’s soil, that reason must be accomplished.

Because of one weakness or the other, some men were not able to achieve their aim. Any of those weaknesses apply to the case of women.

If you look at the world today, you can find that there is a higher number of widows than widowers. One of the reasons may be that most widowers typically remarry, while another explanation is that so many duties and pressures lead some men to die. Some die because of women’s problems, and I want to advise all men on this note to always disregard or avoid such things about women in order to survive for a long time.

Among the things to avoid are;

I’ll begin with your bachelorhood.

1. Avoid fighting for her with other guys.

I don’t welcome the “if you love her, fight to get her back” notion. Why should a man fight on Earth over a girl? She would not have fallen into another man’s arms if she loved you. She’s not the only girl on earth, but you know you can see a better person than her. It’s safer that you let her go instead of trying to get her back. You will end up being killed or potentially murdered during the battle.

Learn to avoid that.

2. Avoid jealousy.

More than anything you can imagine, jealousy destroys the spirit. You just put your heart into an emotional trauma, as you become jealous of every man you see around her. The same way that she was drawn to you, the same way that she was drawn to other guys. Try to consider the fact that she will still have men around her because you are still dating her, and she is a woman after all. Some men may be so jealous that they get angry every time their girl receives calls from other men; why not calm down before you kill yourself with jealousy? No man will take her away from you, no matter how they try, if the love is there.

Over to when you are married.

3. Avoid her nagging.

In this area, some women are naturally gifted because of their disposition, and if you understand that fact, it is significant. Just because she’s nagging doesn’t mean you’re going to make her a punching bag or maybe start nagging along with her. As a guy, any time she starts to nag, you still need to act. At that moment, try to realize that she is upset, and avoid her until her temper cools down. I’m going to advise you to leave the house if it begins to start triggering your own wrath. By the time you leave home for a few minutes, when you come back, buy something for her and all that will end. Life doesn’t have duplicate, so don’t confuse it on your own. I’ve got a lot of men who have died from domestic abuse, which I’m sure you would have seen too. There’s no benefit in your wife’s war, so try to avoid it.

4. Be careful with your female children.

You have all the preparation to offer them when they are still growing up, but when they grow up, you should realize that you are not going to be able to manage them100 percent again. Sit them down and talk sense into them when you see that they have begun to take the wrong path. Don’t push it on them if they continue, just step aside to prevent early burial. Experience is often the best teacher. Maybe they can realize that life is not a bed of roses when they experience life a little.

I’ve seen occasions where, one way or another, daughters kill their fathers simply because the guy doesn’t want them to flex with whoever they want. Leave her to Heaven, who will teach her some lessons to learn from experience, if you talk sense into her and she refuses to listen.

Thanks for reading, the topics covered here are available for positive progress and critical assessments. Please do well to drop a comment below.


Incase you don't know na me talk
nice one.
but it's too short.
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Tonytonex(m): 11:10pm On Oct 10, 2020
Petyprincess:
Y'all still can't live without us grin
FU
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Rockyrascal(m): 8:13pm On Oct 12, 2020
ayenale1:
Above all, don't bother checking her phone cos the day u start doing that your life battery is going down little by little... I rest my case.
underrated comment, this took a part of me some years back.
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Affamefuna(m): 10:42pm On Oct 12, 2020
angelfallz:


Nice write up. But let me ask,
why marry a nagging woman in the first place?

Also, why pacify her nagging with gifts?

Why leave your own house to avoid a nagging woman?

If a man can't find peace in his own house because of a nagging woman, then it's time to send the nagging woman packing.

Your opinion about nagging women encourages men to condone nagging women.
Three gbosa for u my brother. Honestly, the way some people go about this marriage thing with women eh, it makes me feel like men av become slaves and must fear women. A house fully catered for by a man, y condone nagging in the first place ? the op was even saying buy her gifts, like seriously? isnt that an invitation to more endless nagging?and no one should give me that bullshit that it's because am not married because I am. My wife respects me and I respect her, she knows her place and dears not nagg unnessarily. Maybe u guys out there condone it and takes all thrown at u by ur wife's because u are men and it is expected but pls don't make it look like it should be so with all others. Respect and mutual understanding should be key

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Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Chimasoka: 1:42am On Oct 13, 2020
The first Dance After The Wedding Lawrence Oyor Sang for Darasimi Bamiloye


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=On-CG2OE5sQ
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by angelfallz(m): 6:47am On Oct 13, 2020
Affamefuna:

Three gbosa for u my brother. Honestly, the way some people go about this marriage thing with women eh, it makes me feel like men av become slaves and must fear women. A house fully catered for by a man, y condone nagging in the first place ? the op was even saying buy her gifts, like seriously? isnt that an invitation to more endless nagging?and no one should give me that bullshit that it's because am not married because I am. My wife respects me and I respect her, she knows her place and dears not nagg unnessarily. Maybe u guys out there condone it and takes all thrown at u by ur wife's because u are men and it is expected but pls don't make it look like it should be so with all others. Respect and mutual understanding should be key

God bless you.
Re: 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women, If You Want To Live Long by Kingzo20(m): 8:46am On Dec 22, 2021
I thank God that am not that type that engage myself in quarreling... But what if it goes beyond my control what should I do?

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