i will give u juju.just give me her pic and name and ure own name too after u pay me

Dreyton36:


Na you need advice, na you come they advice me
Na you love pass Ozo bbnaija?

Read what you wrote below:

Dreyton36:

OP anytime her thoughts come to your mind , this is what you gonna do

Say this in your mind

"Person wey I don fvck tire wetin remain there"

Took out time to read the whole tread and is bitter to see how other people talk down on someone emotions.

I’m going through the same thing right now and I know how hard it hurts,most especially mentally.

I was so madly in love with her that I was gonna move to her. How do I know I was in love? Well she was all I could think of, I cut off other girls I was dealing with and while in club with the lads I was so sad that she wasn’t with me and easily irritated when other girls makes advances.


After much discussion we decided that it would be better for me to move to her due to her work, mind you we both are independent and was about getting a mortgage together. I’m Nigerian raised in Sweden while she is from Cameroon but raised in Canada both met in New York.

As the matter don rich, applied for my visa and paid 15k dollars for my visa application (student visa for masters) things got soured.

I was packing for vacation with my friends to santorini in August when she called me crying and telling me she didn’t want to do this anymore. At that moment I thought she didn’t mean it and my anxiety level elevated to the ceiling not knowing she was down serious. Finally landed to santorini called and she literally told me she made up her mind, and when I asked her why she wanted to path ways now that I made huge sacrifice for us both and all she could say is that we argued and I said mean stuffs to her which I apologize and moved passed

Honestly I have been trying to get through this and it doesn’t make sense, she told me she was happy in our relationship and no we didn’t argued all the time. But arguments was undeniably forthcoming provided that we both lived in different countries and coronavirus didn’t help as well,but she said boldly she made up her mind and I should give her some space.

Mehn that was the hardest of it especially breaking up from a distance and not able to reach her due to the pandemic �
I couldn’t stop messaging her, in fact it felt like my thought was constantly going from one moment we both shared together to another,I was thinking what could I have done better. I kept texting and we could talk for hours and at one moment I asked her if it was just the arguments and she said yeah.

So this is the thing with her, she hardly speak or talk about her she felt about something. Prior to this breakup I always asked her if something was bothering her she says no she is fine and each time we have misunderstandings we apologize, not knowing she had grudges towards me and me on the other hand was forging ahead trying to build a future with this lady.

My friends all gave me different advices towards the situation. Some said maybe she met someone over there which she said no she didn’t. While some of my friends said she got cold feet, some said distance in this pandemic is never gonna work, while some said maybe her family which I met probably told her to move on and not be with me,while some said she didn’t love me the way I did. I settled for the last cos if she loved me she would have told me how she felt and we would have worked it through.

I got so confused thinking where I did wrong or what could I have done better �

Well last last she blocked me on her snap,WhatsApp and took me off her Facebook and insta,And the reason is that I couldn’t stop messaging her.

So am bound to move to Canada sometime next year hopefully soon when the pandemic is over and hopefully I might bump into her while in Canada.

To the guy that made this post, bro am in the same shoes as you. It’s so hard for a man to fall in love but the minute we do, we make it count and give all we can. I’m still trying to get over mine and the early morning anxiety is the worst of it all. Hope you read this and understand you not alone going through this.


P.S: the pic was earlier this year when traveling to Toronto to visit her.

Alexgman1:
Its up to two years since i broke up with my ex (ALEX MARVEY). But uptil now I haven't gotten over her. She has moved on & deeply in love with someone new who she profess to be engaged to.
She has blocked me on every social media platforms but yet i still find a way to stalk her. Following her updates & uploads using a different and fake id.

Whenever we cross paths on the road she ignores me like we never knew before.
Despite the fact that it was her that messed up and did all the lies & cheating, yet i still forgave her for everything she did.

How can i move on and let go of her totally & for good because anytime i and my new girl are eating, walking, bathing & romancing i do imagine my ex.

You are not mature yet. When you become matured it is then you will be able to know your worth and move on

Continue wasting your time over spilled milk

Alexgman1:
Its up to two years since i broke up with my ex (ALEX MARVEY). But uptil now I haven't gotten over her. She has moved on & deeply in love with someone new who she profess to be engaged to.
She has blocked me on every social media platforms but yet i still find a way to stalk her. Following her updates & uploads using a different and fake id.

Whenever we cross paths on the road she ignores me like we never knew before.
Despite the fact that it was her that messed up and did all the lies & cheating, yet i still forgave her for everything she did.

How can i move on and let go of her totally & for good because anytime i and my new girl are eating, walking, bathing & romancing i do imagine my ex.

Try to meet new women and forget about her. I believe 2 years should be enough to get over someone

Dreyton36:
Fvck mehnnnnn
E clear

OP anytime her thoughts come to your mind , this is what you gonna do

Say this in your mind

"Person wey I don fvck tire wetin remain there"

Then start thinking of the bad things she's done to you
Her promiscuity and all , how she took ur sincere love for granted , you'll see how you grow dislikes for her in due time

Bottomline is , time heals everything

Time heals everything? Lol, Tribal mark laughing at you like

You need cleansing with Aboniki balm on your private parts

sisisioge:
She raised the bar of the kind of girl you really take fancy to...until you match or exceed that bar on another girl...you will keep remembering her...Pele.

smartest comment on this topic.....

lacruz12:


This is what happens when you give your all and expect your partner to do same. You were the drive behind the relationship and she was just a passenger hoping to alight when due, you gladly pick her up whenever she loses interest regardless of her sins.

You gotta move on bro, she doesn't deserve your love one bit. You know quite well you are never gonna be 'perfect' even if she comes back to you, so kill the feelings and see the light in your new girl.

Stop stalking her, start steering your life in the right direction. There's more to life than meets the eye, you are wasting precious time. Invest your energy and time into improving yourself. What's wrong with you is just inferiority complex.... Thinking you ain't gonna find another like her. My guy na lie

Build your self esteem and confidence, think about the lies and cheating and tell yourself you don't deserve a filth like her. No better revenge than being successful, give her reasons to see she lost a gem

follows this

Alexgman1:
Its up to two years since i broke up with my ex (ALEX MARVEY). But uptil now I haven't gotten over her. She has moved on & deeply in love with someone new who she profess to be engaged to.
She has blocked me on every social media platforms but yet i still find a way to stalk her. Following her updates & uploads using a different and fake id.

Whenever we cross paths on the road she ignores me like we never knew before.
Despite the fact that it was her that messed up and did all the lies & cheating, yet i still forgave her for everything she did.

How can i move on and let go of her totally & for good because anytime i and my new girl are eating, walking, bathing & romancing i do imagine my ex.

Its simple! Go for big brother naija, become like LAYCON and all your exes will start lining at ur door...

You never see beauty before. That's why

We're you always thinking about her juicy pu**y that is why you don't want to let go of it, there thousands of girls who are more beautiful than her but you are just too weak as a man and blind to see other women outside her, she knows you are still after her dude, stop all this nonsense and find something doing, if you are my brother I will give you a resetting beating that will reset your brain..

tobechi74:
Simp


When Nollywood actor Pet Edochie fumed at the young men kneeling before a woman, he was backlashed. Pet was comparing happenings in his youthful age against  the youth in this generation. The traditional Igbo man is highly placed in the society. During traditional wedding,the woman kneels down to propose to the man.The one who kneels begs the other for a favor.A typical Igbo man hardly kneels for his fellow man talkless of a woman . He only kneels for the gods who he recognizes as more powerful than he is.

Pet is  not alone. Many men have noticed a decline in the masculinity of men. The Alpha male movement and redpill movement are attempt to correct this imbalance.When did thngs change? When did man begin to loose his ego to stoop so low to kneel before a less powerful being. Was the change sudden or gradual?

Women were seen as irrational and emotional.Men were the rational and strong willed. Men were taught to act like men They had to suppress their emotion close to their heart. Men should never cry in public.  Expression of vulnerability  is a sign of a weak man.  Men are closed minded, rigid and structured. He should not seek fun .Men. Should always be in power, strive for control, compete.They lack empathy necessary for effective communication and connection.

In early days, male children joined their fathers in the river fishing or the forest haunting. Female spent their time with the mothers cooking. Each gender know his role. You hardly see a man in the kitchen or a girl hunting. Men learnt to act like men and women learnt to act like women.Then came the industrial era. Lands meant for farming and hunting was taking over by the government to build factory. The owners of the land were jobless.To offer compensation, the men were integrated as workers in this factory. Their male children were not allowed to follow dad to work.son stays at home with the mum while Dad went to work. Father leaves home as early as eight and comes home by six. He is exhausted, he sleeps to get strength for the next day. Fathers became absent in their son’s life. The role of dad in son life began to reduce while the role of mum in son life began to rise. Mummy passes over her feminine qualities to growing son.

Then came education. Female involvement in  education at an early age especially science and  law improve her reasoning abilities (masculinity) . Female take part in competitive games like the male counterpart. This improves their aggression.These women ended up as heads of organization.They took  decision and gave instructions . These women began to have a thirst of power . Their masculine qualities were awoken.

Girls  who enjoy highly competitive games with a desire to win also increases their aggression (masculinity). We tag such women names like Tomboy. They are ladies with highly developed masculine side and poorly developed feminine side.. Such masculine girls are attracted to  the beta guys. If a man is more masculine in nature,he will be attracted to a very feminine woman who will compliment his energy. Balance men prefer neutral women.. Masculine girls at attracted to a feminine guy or sisi or beta guy . Such guys are few as society teaches guys to wear the Alpha mask. She can only find solace among her fellow feminine women. This is the origin of homosexuality- . Heterosexual are no different from homosexual as both seek balance .

Society has widened this energy balance over the years. Civilisation is bring closing the gap. Homosexual are closer to achieving balance compared to heterosexual. Yet, Homosexuals feel guilty for not complying with society expectation. . There is nothing wrong with homosexuality, for it IS what is. However, we need to bear in mind that society at this time is traumatized due to so many centurie conditioned to comply with that. DO we want to fit in? Until WHEN? We need to learn to Love who we are, while allowing others to be what they want to be. Acceptance is the way of Life.

We should understand that each individual hold masculine and feminine qualities within us. When both qualities are not well alligned, the person is out of balance. The traditional gender roles over the years has created highly masculine males on one hand and highly feminine female on the other side.  we are drawn to certain individual that help us correct these imbalance. These highly masculine males become attracted to highly feminine female.

https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/23/sexual-imbalance/

Your type will commit suicide when the girl you bullied to get her number fails to pick your call.....not your girlfriend ooo.

hkidola00:
wait o.. I'm like d op ,na true u yan o..all dis while, Im missing my ex some other guys are shagging, just see d topics...damn

It is well with your soul bro

Carchoice:
Nothing can be done bro.


She took your senses with her. You can’t forget about her. I’m sorry.

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I never expired it

That's why you have to grow up and let her be. If you are not careful she will embarrassed you more than this. Try and heal yourself and start a new life.most ladies don't deserve to be showed love . 99'/, percent love ladies show to guys are fake. God will help you.

Alexgman1:
Its up to two years since i broke up with my ex (ALEX MARVEY). But uptil now I haven't gotten over her. She has moved on & deeply in love with someone new who she profess to be engaged to.
She has blocked me on every social media platforms but yet i still find a way to stalk her. Following her updates & uploads using a different and fake id.

Whenever we cross paths on the road she ignores me like we never knew before.
Despite the fact that it was her that messed up and did all the lies & cheating, yet i still forgave her for everything she did.

How can i move on and let go of her totally & for good because anytime i and my new girl are eating, walking, bathing & romancing i do imagine my ex.

Start having mind blowing fun and go on adventures with your current girl.......you won't know when u will forget about your ex... And trust she is aware you stalk her, any day you forget her, the reverse will be the case...


She will wonder how come you've moved on......Enjoy your current woman... stop thinking about a miss call..


Again, package yourself well, for a lady to cheat on u, and still break up, block u on her SM begs for so much realignment of your personality.... And you still stalk her after two years nawa o..

Sissy. beat your emotions

A simp sighted. From ur story you are a coward. You were the one pleading to make sure the relationship work out. She was an hoe waiting to job to another available guy at any slight opportunity . she cheat you caught her red handed and you still forgive her. But she quickly ran to the next available guy for proper service. You still open ur mouth to say you can't get over her for years. Just move on an stop been a simp. All the Malians you get me.

Makanaki127:
I was once like dis in 2016 after my GF broke up with me, make I no lie I almost kill myself out of depression, as d gal Sabi Bleep die, and anytime I remember the sex aspect wen I done miss I go like call her back, she is also very intelligent gal, she graduated with distinction back then in OND, I was down then like really down
But today I have move on completed but I can't love any gal again, I shall just day use my brain and I'm proud to say na gals day beg me to be serious with dem, some say am rude and dis am that but it just it, I day Bleep anyhow and the most sweet part of it I'm now a player, I can lie for Africa, I'm happy to be mumuing gals

Shiooooooor.

Brother all you need is to let go, GOD will bring a perfect woman your way. Maybe she wasn't yours in the first place.

Alexgman1:
Its up to two years since i broke up with my ex (ALEX MARVEY). But uptil now I haven't gotten over her. She has moved on & deeply in love with someone new who she profess to be engaged to.
She has blocked me on every social media platforms but yet i still find a way to stalk her. Following her updates & uploads using a different and fake id.

Whenever we cross paths on the road she ignores me like we never knew before.
Despite the fact that it was her that messed up and did all the lies & cheating, yet i still forgave her for everything she did.

How can i move on and let go of her totally & for good because anytime i and my new girl are eating, walking, bathing & romancing i do imagine my ex.

Alexgman1:
Its up to two years since i broke up with my ex (ALEX MARVEY). But uptil now I haven't gotten over her. She has moved on & deeply in love with someone new who she profess to be engaged to.
She has blocked me on every social media platforms but yet i still find a way to stalk her. Following her updates & uploads using a different and fake id.

Whenever we cross paths on the road she ignores me like we never knew before.
Despite the fact that it was her that messed up and did all the lies & cheating, yet i still forgave her for everything she did.

How can i move on and let go of her totally & for good because anytime i and my new girl are eating, walking, bathing & romancing i do imagine my ex.

This guy, you have problems. The girl ditched you and move on and you are still having sleepless nights because of her. Bro, move on with your life.

Her babalawo must be very good. U better go for deliverance.

The truth is, they must be something u miss abt her, from ur right up, she cheats and lies (negative signs), d possible elements that attracts u to her could be amongst others; she is very beautiful physical (and has swag), she is very good in bed (and has a tight Pvssy), she can cook for africa, she supports u financially, she obeys u like a god (which I doubt). To forget ur ex gradually, don't compare but look for the qualities in ur new girl and help ur new girl to build the qualities u like. Ur ex feels she is indispensible, but its a lie. NOBODY IS INDISPENSIBLE.

iamadonis2:
She left with your kidney?

are you kidney me?

Uhmm bro, I Understand the feelings. You just have to forget about her, stop thinking about her name or her imagination coming into your head anymore.

Alexgman1:
Its up to two years since i broke up with my ex (ALEX MARVEY). But uptil now I haven't gotten over her. She has moved on & deeply in love with someone new who she profess to be engaged to.
She has blocked me on every social media platforms but yet i still find a way to stalk her. Following her updates & uploads using a different and fake id.

Whenever we cross paths on the road she ignores me like we never knew before.
Despite the fact that it was her that messed up and did all the lies & cheating, yet i still forgave her for everything she did.

How can i move on and let go of her totally & for good because anytime i and my new girl are eating, walking, bathing & romancing i do imagine my ex.

This kind of impulsive emotion is common among a group of people. I cannot ask you certain questions here because it would come off as being insensitive and insulting. Moving on, you have to let go of the past. Imagine if there was ever a possibility of you two coming back together. If that were to happen, she would never respect you, she would cheat on you even to your face, causing you more pain. Is that what you desire in a relationship? Don't you think you deserve better? Why have you decided to sell yourself cheap?

Please move on. Channel your energy on things that would give you positive results. Sorry bro.

Alexgman1:
Its up to two years since i broke up with my ex (ALEX MARVEY). But uptil now I haven't gotten over her. She has moved on & deeply in love with someone new who she profess to be engaged to.
She has blocked me on every social media platforms but yet i still find a way to stalk her. Following her updates & uploads using a different and fake id.

Whenever we cross paths on the road she ignores me like we never knew before.
Despite the fact that it was her that messed up and did all the lies & cheating, yet i still forgave her for everything she did.

How can i move on and let go of her totally & for good because anytime i and my new girl are eating, walking, bathing & romancing i do imagine my ex.

You are insane and you have nobody to tell you.

Will you get out of this forum now?!

Makanaki127:
I was once like dis in 2016 after my GF broke up with me, make I no lie I almost kill myself out of depression, as d gal Sabi Bleep die, and anytime I remember the sex aspect wen I done miss I go like call her back, she is also very intelligent gal, she graduated with distinction back then in OND, I was down then like really down
But today I have move on completed but I can't love any gal again, I shall just day use my brain and I'm proud to say na gals day beg me to be serious with dem, some say am rude and dis am that but it just it, I day Bleep anyhow and the most sweet part of it I'm now a player, I can lie for Africa, I'm happy to be mumuing gals

Repent and be saved! God hates sin

Alexgman1:
Its up to two years since i broke up with my ex (ALEX MARVEY). But uptil now I haven't gotten over her. She has moved on & deeply in love with someone new who she profess to be engaged to.
She has blocked me on every social media platforms but yet i still find a way to stalk her. Following her updates & uploads using a different and fake id.

Whenever we cross paths on the road she ignores me like we never knew before.
Despite the fact that it was her that messed up and did all the lies & cheating, yet i still forgave her for everything she did.

How can i move on and let go of her totally & for good because anytime i and my new girl are eating, walking, bathing & romancing i do imagine my ex.

Don't move on , rather move in with her and the new boyfriend.... you get work so? OPONU

Skmoda360:

Baba, I was like this way back....but I got over her by dating random girls for fun and it works for me

trust me you didn't get over the break up