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Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Nobody: 9:05pm On Oct 03, 2020
Why do 'most' Nigerian girls have this inane mentality that they don't need to struggle or achieve things in life if after all, they'll get married. What sorta useless mentality is this? No man should marry a broke or jobless lady!

Nb: opinions contrary to the op's should be aired with civility or be met with "fire and fury".

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Vyzz: 9:07pm On Oct 03, 2020
Feminism will help us all....

Embrace it

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by MrTAnonymous(m): 9:11pm On Oct 03, 2020
Most of them are bunch of lazy rats. And it isn't their fault, it is the fault of guys that encourage and indulge them in this kind of attitude.


Incase you don't know na me talk

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by ojun50(m): 9:15pm On Oct 03, 2020
Wetin we go do

Na so them train them.....

Marriage na there life investment

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Liposure: 9:21pm On Oct 03, 2020
You can't blame them though. The patriachal status of man gives them the belief a man can take care of everything without them contributing a dime.

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Dpsychologist: 9:22pm On Oct 03, 2020
This phenomenon has occurred for a long time now.

Women have entitlement mentality starting as a teenager her mom tells her how that she will marry and her Husband provides for her. She also observes her parents.

The Most intoxicating is when she begins to grow older she gets an Overdose of attention. Even if she coughs a guy will tell her she has the most Beautiful cough in the world . Guys + sugar daddies provide her with whatever she needs coupled with Narcissistic attention she gets from 5000 friends on fb, countless msg on WhatsApp and unfettered attention on Instagram and the likes.

She is always favoured anywhere she goes for the fact she is a woman.

When she gets married she will be taken care of till death(unless unfortunate circumstance). Her work is to lie down like Log of wood while the Husband sweat himself to please her.

Peradventure she is not a stay at home mother. As a Career woman her money is her money while the Husband money is their money.

She gives birth and the Husband take care of the children.
When the children grow she will still be taken care of.


Tell me why wouldn’t she feel entitled?

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Nobody: 9:22pm On Oct 03, 2020
ojun50:
Wetin we go do

Na so them train them.....

Marriage na there life investment
its really bad.

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by virginprincess(f): 9:23pm On Oct 03, 2020
My friend shut the Bleep up, don't you see career ladies everywhere, i really pity those girls that will depend on men like you after marriage.

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by WrittyWritter(f): 9:25pm On Oct 03, 2020
Not all oh..some don't even like d thought of relying on a man

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Nobody: 9:25pm On Oct 03, 2020
Dpsychologist:
This phenomenon has occurred for a long time now.

Women have entitlement mentality starting as a teenager her mom tells her how that she will marry and her Husband provides for her. She also observes her parents.

The Most intoxicating is when she begins to grow older she gets an Overdose of attention. Even if she coughs a guy will tell her she has the most Beautiful cough. Guys + sugar daddies provide her with what she needs coupled with 5000 friends on fb, countless msg on WhatsApp and unfettered attention on Instagram.

Tell me why wouldn’t she feel entitled?
there's one 16 year old cute girl I know in my area. The attention this girl gets from men ehn, if na me I for no dey fit come outside. Elderly men,of like 36-45yrs go dey do "hey,fine girl" from beer parlour. The attention really gets into their heads.

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Nobody: 9:25pm On Oct 03, 2020
Heartlessbanker:
Why do 'most' Nigerian girls have this inane mentality that they don't need to struggle or achieve things in life if after all,they'll get married. What sorta useless mentality is this? No man should marry a broke or jobless lady!

Nb: opinions contrary to the op's should be aired with civility or be met with "fire and fury".
Is this your own way of saying you won't make plenty money to take care of your woman?you better change this your reasoning ooo,you should be thinking towards making money so you can make your woman very comfortable and happy and not what you are posting here.

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Nobody: 9:26pm On Oct 03, 2020
virginprincess:
My friend shut the Bleep up, don't you see career ladies everywhere, i really pity those girls that will depend on men like you after marriage.
I know there's a male,with saggy balls behind this moniker.........

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Nobody: 9:27pm On Oct 03, 2020
Zzor:
Is this your own way of saying you won't make plenty money to take care of your woman?you better change this your reasoning ooo,you should be thinking towards making money so you can make your woman very comfortable and happy and not what you are posting here.
I want to hurt women and treat them like trash and also take their money from them.

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by virginprincess(f): 9:33pm On Oct 03, 2020
Heartlessbanker:
I know there's a male,with saggy balls behind this moniker.........
I don't care what you think, that your fucking business.

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Nobody: 9:33pm On Oct 03, 2020
Heartlessbanker:
I want to hurt women and treat them like trash and also take their money from them.
you will end up hurting yourself

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Nobody: 9:34pm On Oct 03, 2020
virginprincess:
I don't care what you think, that your fucking business.
kk

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Nobody: 9:35pm On Oct 03, 2020
[quote author=Zzor post=94580523]you will end up hurting yourself [/quote]no I won't.

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by dingbang(m): 9:38pm On Oct 03, 2020
virginprincess:
My friend shut the Bleep up, don't you see career ladies everywhere, i really pity those girls that will depend on men like you after marriage.
the way you people just type without good upbringing is totally pitiable. Will you die if you just type without telling him to keep shut?

Bringing up emotions when reacting to comments is totally unprofessional.

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Dpsychologist: 9:38pm On Oct 03, 2020
Heartlessbanker:
there's one 16 year old cute girl I know in my area. The attention this girl gets from men ehn, if na me I for no dey fit come outside. Elderly men,of like 36-45yrs go dey do "hey,fine girl" from beer parlour. The attention really gets into their heads.
The excess attention gets to their head leading to what is referred to as female narcissism. She gets to a point she feels entitled. She sees men as "success objects" and as such begins broke shaming guys in their early 20s who are broke.

She now roll with men in their 30s and 40s( and guys in 20s that are loaded).

Till her head clears when she is in her 30s

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by virginprincess(f): 9:43pm On Oct 03, 2020
dingbang:
they way you people just type without good upbringing is totally pitiable. Will you die if you just type without telling him to keep shut?

Bringing up emotions when reacting to comments is totally unprofessional.
So you are this sensible, anyway correction taken.

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Nobody: 10:01pm On Oct 03, 2020
Heartlessbanker:
Why do 'most' Nigerian girls have this inane mentality that they don't need to struggle or achieve things in life if after all,they'll get married. What sorta useless mentality is this? No man should marry a broke or jobless lady!

Nb: opinions contrary to the op's should be aired with civility or be met with "fire and fury".
Op don't you know that if they hustle for their own money their hands will break or perhaps they can even die
Now imagine a girl saying she's looking for a guy that will fund the expenses of her breast implant.
This bitches are just to lazy to work their pussy is what they depend on. angry

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Vulcanheph(m): 10:03pm On Oct 03, 2020
Dpsychologist:

The excess attention gets to their head leading to what is referred to as female narcissism. She gets to a point she feels entitled. She sees men as "success objects" and as such begins broke shaming guys in their early 20s who are broke.

She now roll with men in their 30s and 40s( and guys in 20s that are loaded).

Till her head clears when she is in her 30s
....... And then she starts going to Shiloh and Prayerhouses.

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Dpsychologist: 10:19pm On Oct 03, 2020
ZIINI:

Op don't you know that if they hustle for their own money their hands will break or perhaps they can even die
Now imagine a girl saying she's looking for a guy that will fund the expenses of her breast implant.
This bitches are just to lazy to work their pussu is what they depend on. angry
This breast looks like it was flattened by a pressing iron.

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Nobody: 10:42pm On Oct 03, 2020
Heartlessbanker:

Oam4j,myndd44, lalasticlala,seun,Dominique
Rule 2
What happened? I don't care if I'm banned. Sincerely, I'm tired of this forum.
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Elder0001(m): 10:45pm On Oct 03, 2020
Zzor:
Is this your own way of saying you won't make plenty money to take care of your woman?you better change this your reasoning ooo,you should be thinking towards making money so you can make your woman very comfortable and happy and not what you are posting here.

It's absurd to make money because of women.
Make money because it is necessary for survival not because you want to impress another gender.
Y'all women should endeavour to make money too, don't just sit down while your credentials waste away because you think a man has to do everything for you. Why attend a university if you don't want to put the certificate to use and earn money to make life better for yourself?

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Nobody: 10:47pm On Oct 03, 2020
ZIINI:

Op don't you know that if they hustle for their own money their hands will break or perhaps they can even die
Now imagine a girl saying she's looking for a guy that will fund the expenses of her breast implant.
This bitches are just to lazy to work their pussy is what they depend on. angry
how come you can see pictures but I can't

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by CAPSLOCKED: 10:49pm On Oct 03, 2020
Heartlessbanker:

Nb: opinions contrary to the op's should be aired with civility or be met with "fire and fury".

PLEASE HAVE MERCY ON US. cheesy

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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Nobody: 10:51pm On Oct 03, 2020
Tabasco23:
how come you can see pictures but I can't
Do you wanna say post ?
Cause everyone can see pictures
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality? by Nobody: 10:52pm On Oct 03, 2020
ZIINI:

Do you wanna say post ?
Cause everyone can see pictures
I mean profile pictures

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