lefulefu:
most times if u want to know a man"s spec look at the side chick not the wife .Most guys marry women they are not sexually attracted to then have side chicks they find sexually attractive.na very men dey marry women they have a physical attraction for.

lefulefu:
character is important no doubt but any man wey tell u say na only character he go live for is deceiving.Even if u marry woman dat is super submissve,obedient and they kneel down before she serve u food and yet u dont find her sexually attractive then u must cheat .the physical things wey ur submissve obedient wife no get u will now be going out to search for other women wey get the thing .i for suggest make op go for breast enlargement surgery since the thing worries her that much

Sixfeetbelle:


That's the issue with some men. They are confused and yet they refuse to accept it. If they marry physical beauty, they need intellectual beauty to hold the fort when love fades, but without physical beauty, love will fade even faster. And since its hard to find a lady who possess both equally, then a man is always at a crossroad.

Sixfeetbelle:




Anyhow, they will find a way around their problem. What did I leave there that I'm talking about it like this?

Sixfeetbelle:


Why can't you see the underlining meaning behind the man's words?

"If only your breasts were bigger" is not a joke. That's the comment of a man wishing for something he can't have with his wife. He wishes it were bigger which means he may likely push for wife to get breast argumentation surgery or look for someone with bigger breasts to fulfill his wishes.

Now if he had said something like "see your small breasts like agabalumo" it sounds so much different from his initial comment. This one passes off as a joke and she can yab him back.

The way we word things clues in on our innermost desires. That man has seen a lady like his wife with bigger breasts and he wants it. His apology is just a cover-up.

konkonbilo:
what would you have had him done? He has apologized, said it was a joke. Why is she still not talking to him? Sometimes in life we don't always get what we want that doesn't mean he doesn't love his wife. He might be a fan of big brest, there's nothing wrong in that but he finds solace in his present wife. Before you know it's little things like this that escalate into bigger problems if you can't settle small issues like this.

Sixfeetbelle:


Okay.

At least we both know he's not joking.

peterangelo:

My husband (30m) and I (26f) have been married for two years. I try to stay relatively healthy and in good shape while he is quite overweight. Today he said to me while I was getting in the shower “wow that’s a perfect body, if only your t*ts were bigger”. I got quiet and he immediately said he was joking. I’m pretty confident in my body but I’m failing to find the humor in this statement. I walked into the bathroom and he followed me in, I asked him to give me some space and he left but came back two minutes later. I asked him once again to please give me space and he got mad at me and stomped off because he just wants to spend time with me and I am being ridiculous. He says I was overreacting to a joke and he is sorry I didn’t find it funny but he stands by the statement.

I’m not sure if he has resentment toward me because I am healthier or what the deal is, but I have been cold to him for a couple of hours. Am I overreacting?

ITbomb:
You should be lucky you have a husband that is polite enough to diplomatically tells you what he wants.

Most marriage crumpled because the couple finds it difficult to express themselves.

Be ready to accept criticism and work on it. Especially in areas of food, body, dress, mouth odor, expression. Encourage your hubby to be watching out for you, instead of giving him attitude

Don't get that mentality of "you saw me like that when you married me". Most time, partners get married for 70% good qualities, expecting the other 30% qualities to be worked on (or endured)

Nobody was ever a 100%

cigwe:
What is t*ts? Biko

Hintona:
Tell him "Wow you have become so overweight if only your dick was bigger than our neighbours sons own" and watch what happens

Don't come and complain later oo

virginprincess:
Why are you using a male moniker? are you sure this not a make up story, well if it not i guess he was just joking.

Sixfeetbelle:


I wish your preek was longer and fatter.

How does this statement sound to you coming from your wife of 2 years?

Lightangel65:


A bit mean, but he didn't compare her boobs to her mother, he only said wish your boobs had been bigger, not i wish your boobs were larger than your mom. Still a joke

Davash222:
One can’t joke or play with his wife again. All thanks to these feminists!

Girls with lime breast are always like that. Very wicked and unforgiving. It’s in their genetics.

pozehnani:
My dear, you're not overreacting. Youre on point. Next time, he'll learn how to bridle his tongue. Hes prolly seen a bigger tits out there and wishes (like he rightly told you) you have it.

Don't let him manipulate you. He meant it and out of the abundance of his heart he has spoken. But because he's seen you don't find it funny, he's tryna twist the whole thing on you. To think he's the one with the not so great body but you never complained and he has the guts to bodyshame you. Men are always like that.

Just give him the warning of his life never to body -shame you again. Then let it slide.

Sixfeetbelle:


The breast augmentation surgery has its disadvantages in this case since she's doing it cause hubby wants it and pointed it out. I don't subscribe to her doing it to please her husband though. If he's attracted to her body, then he may start objectifying her and soon she becomes just a piece of toto for him and men are quick to label women as such.

Anyhow, they will find a way around their problem. What did I leave there that I'm talking about it like this?

Juliearth:






Babe, you should learn to develop a thick skin. It is not everything that you should take to heart. Your husband was clearly joking about that. You need not take offense, but you can tell him that the line of joke is not in order

DenreleDave:


No updates abt ur journey

DenreleDave:


No updates abt ur journey

Juliearth:




Please check your mail.

peterangelo:

My husband (30m) and I (26f) have been married for two years. I try to stay relatively healthy and in good shape while he is quite overweight. Today he said to me while I was getting in the shower “wow that’s a perfect body, if only your t*ts were bigger”. I got quiet and he immediately said he was joking. I’m pretty confident in my body but I’m failing to find the humor in this statement. I walked into the bathroom and he followed me in, I asked him to give me some space and he left but came back two minutes later. I asked him once again to please give me space and he got mad at me and stomped off because he just wants to spend time with me and I am being ridiculous. He says I was overreacting to a joke and he is sorry I didn’t find it funny but he stands by the statement.

I’m not sure if he has resentment toward me because I am healthier or what the deal is, but I have been cold to him for a couple of hours. Am I overreacting?

DenreleDave:


Seen I replied u.. Thank God u realized earlier

peterangelo:

My husband (30m) and I (26f) have been married for two years. I try to stay relatively healthy and in good shape while he is quite overweight. Today he said to me while I was getting in the shower “wow that’s a perfect body, if only your t*ts were bigger”. I got quiet and he immediately said he was joking. I’m pretty confident in my body but I’m failing to find the humor in this statement. I walked into the bathroom and he followed me in, I asked him to give me some space and he left but came back two minutes later. I asked him once again to please give me space and he got mad at me and stomped off because he just wants to spend time with me and I am being ridiculous. He says I was overreacting to a joke and he is sorry I didn’t find it funny but he stands by the statement.

I’m not sure if he has resentment toward me because I am healthier or what the deal is, but I have been cold to him for a couple of hours. Am I overreacting?

peterangelo:

My husband (30m) and I (26f) have been married for two years. I try to stay relatively healthy and in good shape while he is quite overweight. Today he said to me while I was getting in the shower “wow that’s a perfect body, if only your t*ts were bigger”. I got quiet and he immediately said he was joking. I’m pretty confident in my body but I’m failing to find the humor in this statement. I walked into the bathroom and he followed me in, I asked him to give me some space and he left but came back two minutes later. I asked him once again to please give me space and he got mad at me and stomped off because he just wants to spend time with me and I am being ridiculous. He says I was overreacting to a joke and he is sorry I didn’t find it funny but he stands by the statement.

I’m not sure if he has resentment toward me because I am healthier or what the deal is, but I have been cold to him for a couple of hours. Am I overreacting?

LINTUNE:
guy e tire me..just imagine..

DennisEche:

NA WAO TO YOU O, SO ONE CAN NOT PLAY WITH HIS WIFE AGAIN. WHAT WILL YOU NOW DO IF HE CALLS YOU MADAM BIG HEAD?

Chii59:

You may think its a joke but not funny at all.
How would he feel if she said same about his di.ck?
Lets be honest, after 2 years he still makes such statement ... Las las he's looking at someone else's bress.

peterangelo:
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My husband (30m) and I (26f) have been married for two years. I try to stay relatively healthy and in good shape while he is quite overweight. Today he said to me while I was getting in the shower “wow that’s a perfect body, if only your t*ts were bigger”. I got quiet and he immediately said he was joking. I’m pretty confident in my body but I’m failing to find the humor in this statement. I walked into the bathroom and he followed me in, I asked him to give me some space and he left but came back two minutes later. I asked him once again to please give me space and he got mad at me and stomped off because he just wants to spend time with me and I am being ridiculous. He says I was overreacting to a joke and he is sorry I didn’t find it funny but he stands by the statement.

I’m not sure if he has resentment toward me because I am healthier or what the deal is, but I have been cold to him for a couple of hours. Am I overreacting?


Next time,tell him he looks handsome but this his overweight made him look like a toad.
He will mind his speeches next time.
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LINTUNE:
so she cant admire other women bress?, is that even possible...if my wifes makes such silly jokes about my dick, ill jokingly tell her, its not about size, but function...where is ur sense of humour, woman..