adioolayi:


I am talking about average earnings of Nigerians...you are here talking about being wise Proof to me that average Nigerians earn more than #200,000 monthly. If you can't, then #200,000 is HUGE!

fineboynl:
no I will not accept it just because she ask me out.

I am very selective before I date any one. I first start with friend to get to know anyone within the first 2 weeks so I would know if to proceed or not. so that's why I will not accept. so no girl should ask me out.

greggng:


If she meets my standard why not ...below are my requirement
She must be yellow girl
She must be of good character,
She must not have insanity or epilepsy in her family
She must be a working class lady
She must be from 5.8 and above
She must not 've k or bow leg
She must not 've tribal mark
She must be good in bed
She must be a good cook
She must be ambitious

AnonymousRebec:


This is exactly why divorce rate is very high. Of everything thing you said, you didn't add she must be prayerful, she must be someone who fears God, she must love your family, she should respect the biblical role of a wife. Nothing like that.

Anyway, I hope you find your requirements.

Freelane33:
Let her roast and toast me first . Then I’ll give you an answer

Burstscam:
If you asked this question few years a go, I would have said yes. I used to brag that any woman that will have the courage to woo me will become my wife. But my experience two years ago changed everything.

During NYSC, I met this lovely girl and we became friends. Along the line, she was so much into me that she started wooing me. I felt very sorry for her. First, her innocence was out of this world; I saw pure love in her eyes, but accepting her proposal would only amount to me using her to satisfy my sexual urge and then move on. I didn't feel the same way she felt towards me.

My initial plan when I met her was to get her closer and bed her, but seeing the purity of her heart, I wouldn't forgive myself if I ever used her. So I took out time to explain to her that we would be better off as just friends. It was very difficult. I won't lie, at times I made out with her, but I exercised great constraints...

Till date she still tells me that she misses me

daddymummy:
The way some males are answering this question shows how stupidly cheap men are.

Even if you would accept a lady if she tossed you, while answering this question, you should have said you would not accept.

That is what females would have done if the question was the other way round.

Females do that so that it won't appear as if they are cheap or desperate.

Even if they know they will accept a man,they will still deny it and make it appear as if they aren't interested.

After all, even if you say you would accept it if a lady tossed you,that doesn't mean a lady will automatically tossed you.

So males should have used this opportunity to show that they themselves are not cheap.

But here, they are making themselves so low by saying they can accept any girl who tossed them.

Does saying so guarantee you a toss from a lady?

Why can't males be wise for once when the issue involve women and relationship? Why?

Because of the way men have made themselves so cheap, women are even finding other women more attractive than men.

That is the truth from recent discovery in sexuality.

No one values anything that is cheap and so easy to get.

So males,stop being fools.

Rise and save yourselves.

After all,there are 2 genders in the world.

The way you need a lady as a man is the way she needs you.

But men are giving the impression that women are greater than them.

If men can shun women at least one week in 10 years, women will go down on their knees and beg. They will begin to value our sexuality.

Stop being so desperate. Sometime just act as if you are not interested.


If I may ask: How many women have you gained by being so desperate and making yourself so cheap?

Infact,if you actually want to get women,it is better to act as if you are not interested and as if you are not cheap or easy.

That's when you will get women.

But your desperation is driving them from you.

I speak from experience.



If all men can act as if they are not interested once in a month,we can regain our lost glory.

Women will start respecting our sexuality

after all,they have their own sex organ and we have our own.

One needs the other. And non should claim to be higher than the other.

weblord1900:
Who go day pay the urgent 2k...if I may ask

AnonymousRebec:


This is exactly why divorce rate is very high. Of everything thing you said, you didn't add she must be prayerful, she must be someone who fears God, she must love your family, she should respect the biblical role of a wife. Nothing like that.

Anyway, I hope you find your requirements.

Camelot65:
"She must be of good character".....

You didn't see that??

Offpoint1:

My Dada I sight you

Dem don knack me 30 years ban on my other account on top nothing o

HRHQueenPhil:
Many guys will not accept if u do it directly but indirectly..u will win their heart

Biglittlelois:



Lol, y'all think too highly of yourselves.

Anyway, why did you stop your diary on "Passing thoughts"? I was enjoying your perspective on the privileges of being female, and I notice that most, if not all your general narratives and comments is mostly centered on women, either subtle jabs, positivity or negativity, are you a psychologist on a gender research or you're trying to understand the female mind?

Oyadorf:
Sure... Courage is among things that impress me about females. Even if I don't like, the courage she has will make me like her.


But all to one condition "SHE SHOULDN'T BE ONE OF THOSE RUNS GIRL".

Candycrushy:
It should have been a beautiful thing but it's not meant for mostly Nigeria men
Ask me why

Alexgman1:
We all have one girl, lady or woman out there we are deeply inlove with but can not date or have access to her maybe because:
1) she has rejected your proposal or
2) shes beyond your level and class or
3) you cant ask her out because shes in a seriously relationship (probably engaged) and cant double date.

But if per-adventure a lady who is deeply inlove or crushing on you toast you and ask you to give her a chance will you accept?

GreatResearcher:
I went through the thread. The issues wasn't about average earning. It was about the value of 200k.

In your post I quoted, you didn't talk about average earning. You only said those who earn 200k and below should click like and those who earn above should click share.

The point is the worth of that 200k. What can 200k afford in this country? That money isn't enough for a single person talk more of a family person.
When you factor in transportation, feeding, clothing etc you will know that 200k isn't anything.

Alexgman1:
We all have one girl, lady or woman out there we are deeply inlove with but can not date or have access to her maybe because:
1) she has rejected your proposal or
2) shes beyond your level and class or
3) you cant ask her out because shes in a seriously relationship (probably engaged) and cant double date.

But if per-adventure a lady who is deeply inlove or crushing on you toast you and ask you to give her a chance will you accept?

lefulefu:
wetin happen?
abi u dey hit on one of the mod"s babes?
i recall somebody do one thread giving list of ladies here wey u no suppose toast other mod will ban u

Offpoint1:

I no do anything o, I just wake up see 30 years ban dem talk sey I break rule 19 o....

If na dia babe I toast na 600 years dem for knack me o