Dear Romancelander,

I need candid and mature advise, insult is not welcome please.

I am a lady of above 30 years old and recently separated from my husband of 4 years with just a kid. The man has been the only man in my life since when I was 17. We got Married 4 years ago and later got separated recently. He has petitioned me and filed for divorce.

It's been like a year now that I had sex last and konji is worrying me, like I am feeling like having sex but my problem is I don't want have sex with any other man. It's a problem for me. I can't imagine seeing another man touching me. But I spent the whole of my day thinking about it.

Recently, I thought of getting in touch with my old boyfriend that we got attracted each other to just have me and also I met an old man of about 55 years who has been asking me for sex but I am not pleased with the man having my body.
Or is there anything to calm my urge for sex?

Please advise.

Note: I just created this account for the purpose of this subject.

Why can't you reconcile with your hubby?Have you explored all options?

Well if you don't want any other man to touch you,sign up for a life of celibacy.

thorpido:
Why can't you reconcile with your hubby?Have you explored all options?

Well if you don't want any other man to touch you,sign up for a life of celibacy.

Try that righteousness guy
He is a good fvcker

thorpido:
Why can't you reconcile with your hubby?Have you explored all options?

Well if you don't want any other man to touch you,sign up for a life of celibacy.

Reconciliation is almost not possible as it's a family problem. I was thinking it will possible and that's the reason I have been waiting since all these days.

Just try to be patient ,you will meet the right man

Your ex will only sleep with u and go, Try to go out sometimes u will meet the right one

So who do you really want to fvck and what is stopping you from fvcking that person?

Realashbobby:


Reconciliation is almost not possible as it's a family problem. I was thinking it will possible and that's the reason I have been waiting since all these days.

Well,if the divorce goes through,you will need to move on and date someone else.

Las las you will still give him the fvck

I Can help you first borrow money buy 1 bag of rice and count it contents when you are done konji/sex will never cross ur mind again in case u dont know na me talk am

Go and meet your pending ex husband and tell him to come and perform is conjugal right pending final dissolution of the wedding or better still get a Love Machine.

So in short u still love ur husband nd don't want to separate dat u y ur still waiting..and can't imagine sleeping with another man..just try another way to cool ur Konji instead of having sex dat u don't want to have because of konji...if u later go ahead with d sex with d other guys u may later feel bad or guilty.

Try to engage urself in activities maybe na boredom dey do u

Well...you might need to move on soon though...you just have to meet the kind of dude that appeals to you...it might take a Lil while though

Realashbobby:
Dear Romancelander,

I need candid and mature advise, insult is not welcome please.

I am a lady of above 30 years old and recently separated from my husband of 4 years with just a kid. The man has been the only man in my life since when I was 17. We got Married 4 years ago and later got separated recently. He has petitioned me and filed for divorce.

It's been like a year now that I had sex last and konji is worrying me, like I am feeling like having sex but my problem is I don't want have sex with any other man. It's a problem for me. I can't imagine seeing another man touching me. But I spent the whole of my day thinking about it.

Recently, I thought of getting in touch with my old boyfriend that we got attracted each other to just have me and also I met an old man of about 55 years who has been asking me for sex but I am not pleased with the man having my body.
Or is there anything to calm my urge for sex?

Please advise.

Note: I just created this account for the purpose of this subject.

We all know it's not easy, but hold on. Keep on fighting it while you plan to reconcile with your husband.

It's not easy.. Find a means dear but not one that will harm you. If ur husby divorce you, you gonna marry again, so look for a responsible man that's ready to go that lane with you.

So you plan on staying divorced? If yes then have sex.

Lol it’s only in Nigeria we try to attach so much meaning to useless things.
Have sex with whoever you want to. You won’t die. It’s not like you’re cheating or something.

I don’t know why you’re divorced but if it’s for a terrible reason then don’t go back begging because of “sex”

None should have a taste of your cookie. E get why!. You can start a new relationship but my candid advice is to wait after your divorce. It's safe and better for you as you can freely move into the arms of someone who loves and care about you. FYI I'm available.

I will advise you to pray for God to lead you. Taking wrong decision can mar your life. Don't let konji lead you to destruction. I have seen someone that had sex with a wrong person and maggots started coming out from her vagina. So don't take the wrong decision.

Sex during separation can lead to many pitfalls and can have a negative effect on your divorce and it is important for you to know how it affect you. The best thing you can do is focus your attention on settling all outstanding issues and save the dating and sex until after divorce

Realashbobby:


Reconciliation is almost not possible as it's a family problem. I was thinking it will possible and that's the reason I have been waiting since all these days.

You have a conscious that's why you even seek for opinion before thinking of having sex outside your matrimonial home.

Honestly many woman would go for it without second thought...

Don't know what to say further..Good luck anyway

Whenever you feel the urge, pray.
Don't do what you'll later regret.
Pray to God. Ask the holy spirit to guide you.

am here for u, I can be your starboy

Wtf is this? If you wanna go fvck your ex-hubby go fvck him, if don't wanna, then fvck another person, if you won't fvck another person then fvck yourself. Simple.

Why do people take sex so seriously? Come on, there are more important things than a trivial thing as sex.

scientists have failed on this aspect
there should be a drug to suppress this feeling. since we have drugs that can suppress natural things like sleep i don't think having anti-Hot drug should be hard

I'm single and maybe we can hook up, mail me if u're interested,

Realashbobby:
Dear Romancelander,

I need candid and mature advise, insult is not welcome please.

I am a lady of above 30 years old and recently separated from my husband of 4 years with just a kid. The man has been the only man in my life since when I was 17. We got Married 4 years ago and later got separated recently. He has petitioned me and filed for divorce.

It's been like a year now that I had sex last and konji is worrying me, like I am feeling like having sex but my problem is I don't want have sex with any other man. It's a problem for me. I can't imagine seeing another man touching me. But I spent the whole of my day thinking about it.

Recently, I thought of getting in touch with my old boyfriend that we got attracted each other to just have me and also I met an old man of about 55 years who has been asking me for sex but I am not pleased with the man having my body.
Or is there anything to calm my urge for sex?

Please advise.

Note: I just created this account for the purpose of this subject.

I feel your pain, I really Do. But CONJI is a no respecter of principles, walahi that thing na bastard. If u no wan to handle another man candle, Nne go arrange CUCUMBER

chai

I have good cucumber 4 you , just forget about that stranger let role together

uruba23:
Go and meet your pending ex husband and tell him to come and perform is conjugal right pending final dissolution of the wedding or better still get a Love Machine.

Unfortunately, we stayed in different city, I hate seen his face at this moment because of what he made me go through. Even if we meet now again having me is a no no for now.

WrittyWritter:
So in short u still love ur husband nd don't want to separate dat u y ur still waiting..and can't imagine sleeping with another man..just try another way to cool ur Konji instead of having sex dat u don't want to have because of konji...if u later go ahead with d sex with d other guys u may later feel bad or guilty.

Try to engage urself in activities maybe na boredom dey do u

Hmmmmm, I have tried this o, I am a very busy person that work 8 to 6pm but I can't help it jawe