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Types Of Girls To Avoid Dating by SamuelTurner(m): 12:11pm On Oct 14, 2020
Types of girls to avoid dating

Here, we cut to the chase and let our experiences be your teacher. Here’s a shortlist of the types of girls you should NEVER fall for. Behind the charming smiles, hot curves, bouncy hair, and sweet exterior may lie a personality that’s far from what you could have expected or even prepared for. Thus, be warned and avoid these types:

#1 The Material Girl. To her, your role in her life is to shower her with gifts as your way of loving her. After all, it’s all about the money and the objects and what you can give her. From the get-go, she’ll likely compliment your car and your watch, and she might even ask about your job and how much you make.

Her type seems to have a yardstick for the guys they date—and that’s your annual salary. She’ll be such a sweetie if you buy her a necklace, but never ever come to her empty-handed, because she’ll be the coldest witch you’ll ever know.

#2 The Barbie Doll. She’s pretty, she’s charming, and she has a great body. Every inch of her is perfect—well, except for her low IQ. While she may not have retained anything taught to her in school, she seems to have a PhD in bed. Plus, she makes guys look at you in envy when you two go out together.

However, just hope she doesn’t open her mouth to speak her mind because that’s when it will all go downhill. These types of girls may be great to be with temporarily, but you won’t be able to bring her home to meet Mom, unless you want to witness a disaster.

#3 The All-About-Me Woman. She thinks the world revolves around her, so she feels entitled to everything, even your love. You may admire her confidence and strong will, but underneath this exterior is a selfishness and self-centeredness that makes her insufferable. Be in a relationship with her, and you’ll find yourself constantly drained as you try to do what it takes to keep her happy, while she languidly takes what you can give without any reciprocity.

#4 Ms. Cripplingly Insecure. Men and women can both be achingly insecure, but this type of girl takes it to a whole new level. She’ll talk negatively about herself *or worse, about other people* just so she’ll feel good about her flaws. She’ll constantly fish for compliments and affirmations, completely believing that these will validate her self-worth.

#5 The Drama Queen. She’s the type who believes with all her heart that the world is out to get her. But don’t be fooled. Drama doesn’t just follow her—she has a way of whipping it up all by herself everywhere she goes. It’s like everyone and everything is against her, so you’ll hear nothing but how she’s the victim of everything her mind can conjure. The problem with her is that she’s incapable of owning up to her faults and taking accountability for her own actions. Soon enough, this blame game will seep into your relationship, making it all too toxic.

#6 The Nitpicker Extraordinaire. She can be considered a perfectionist who prides in keeping her world pristinely spic and span, and expects other people to be the same… or else. That, or she just has something to say about any fault she finds in other people. She’ll crinkle her nose and raise her eyebrow at everything she sees in other people, never failing to miss a fault, but also never seeing the good side of things.

And she won’t stop there. She’ll constantly nitpick you, too, from the way you wear your tie to even the way you kiss. She’ll constantly put you down until you begin to believe her criticisms yourself.

#7 Queen-dependence. She has a handful of good, endearing qualities. For a time, you might even consider taking her to meet your parents. She’s the submissive type. In fact, so much so that she can’t make up her mind on her own. For a while, you’ll feel good because that puts you in a position where you can really feel like the man in the relationship. That is, until you realize that she depends on you for everything. Once you realize that she can’t live her life without you, you’ll quickly see that that kind of burden gets old really fast.

#8 The Desperate Chick. She’ll be needy, controlling, manipulative, and very talented in turning on the waterworks just to get you to do what she wants. She is motivated by a deep desperation to be with anyone, no matter who it is, all for the sake of just having someone. Hapless and desperate, she might follow you around for some crumbs of your attention, and if you don’t give her what she wants, she might threaten to hurt you or herself. This is definitely not the kind of added stress you want your relationship to foster.

#9 The Chatterbox. She’s nice, friendly, and great to talk to. However, as time goes by, you’ll notice that her conversational skills aren’t learned, they’re innate. Pretty soon, you’ll see that her ability to talk is awfully, insufferably, non-stop.

She’ll talk about herself, about her friends, her work, how her day went, about the barista that served her coffee that morning, and so on. Soon, you’ll learn just how much she LOVES to talk, and not just about herself, but about other people, too. Eventually, she’ll get herself *and you* into trouble because she just can’t keep her trap shut.

#10 The Playa. Charming and seductive, she’ll say and do everything that will make you fall under her spell in a split second. The problem is that she also plays the same game with other guys, even in your presence. She toys with your emotions, only vaguely committing to anything more than a casual relationship because her sights are still set on other guys. While this girl may be great for flings and one-night stands, you’d better steer clear if you’re looking for a more serious relationship.

#11 Ms. Jekyll-and-Hyde. You saw her, and it was love at first sight. She’s got everything you’ve ever wanted in a girl, and so much more. However, things take a different turn after a while. On the outside, she’s really great, but behind the curtains is a totally different person.

One way or another, you’ll begin to see her other half—the mean, manipulative, calculating, deceitful, and two-faced side. Sure, she’ll smile at your friends, but she’ll say the worst things about them behind their backs. This makes you wonder just what she says and does behind your back, too!

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Re: Types Of Girls To Avoid Dating by dukeprince50: 12:16pm On Oct 14, 2020
hmmn
Re: Types Of Girls To Avoid Dating by Davash222(m): 12:16pm On Oct 14, 2020
You for kuku tell us to avoid girls entirely.

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Re: Types Of Girls To Avoid Dating by Madibahisback: 12:17pm On Oct 14, 2020
I like your wrie up

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Re: Types Of Girls To Avoid Dating by Petyprincess(f): 12:22pm On Oct 14, 2020
Type of men to avoid!
1.broke men
2.stingy men
3.abusive men
4.cassanova
5.liar
6.team "baby when are you visiting me"
7.jealous men
8.audio redpilled men
9.talkative men
10. Manipulative men!

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Re: Types Of Girls To Avoid Dating by SamuelTurner(m): 12:23pm On Oct 14, 2020
Petyprincess:
Type of men to avoid! 1.broke men 2.stingy men 3.abusive men 4.cassanova 5.liar 6.team "baby when are you visiting me" 7.jealous men 8.audio redpilled men 9.talkative men 10. Manipulative men!
soro soke were

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Re: Types Of Girls To Avoid Dating by Pusyiter(m): 12:34pm On Oct 14, 2020
Hmmmmmm Babe, na men do you like this?
Eya!!!
Petyprincess:
Type of men to avoid!
1.broke men
2.stingy men
3.abusive men
4.cassanova
5.liar
6.team "baby when are you visiting me"
7.jealous men
8.audio redpilled men
9.talkative men
10. Manipulative men!

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Re: Types Of Girls To Avoid Dating by Nobody: 12:42pm On Oct 14, 2020
SamuelTurner:

Types of girls to avoid dating

Here, we cut to the chase and let our experiences be your teacher. Here’s a shortlist of the types of girls you should NEVER fall for. Behind the charming smiles, hot curves, bouncy hair, and sweet exterior may lie a personality that’s far from what you could have expected or even prepared for. Thus, be warned and avoid these types:

#1 The Material Girl. To her, your role in her life is to shower her with gifts as your way of loving her. After all, it’s all about the money and the objects and what you can give her. From the get-go, she’ll likely compliment your car and your watch, and she might even ask about your job and how much you make.

Her type seems to have a yardstick for the guys they date—and that’s your annual salary. She’ll be such a sweetie if you buy her a necklace, but never ever come to her empty-handed, because she’ll be the coldest witch you’ll ever know.

#2 The Barbie Doll. She’s pretty, she’s charming, and she has a great body. Every inch of her is perfect—well, except for her low IQ. While she may not have retained anything taught to her in school, she seems to have a PhD in bed. Plus, she makes guys look at you in envy when you two go out together.

However, just hope she doesn’t open her mouth to speak her mind because that’s when it will all go downhill. These types of girls may be great to be with temporarily, but you won’t be able to bring her home to meet Mom, unless you want to witness a disaster.

#3 The All-About-Me Woman. She thinks the world revolves around her, so she feels entitled to everything, even your love. You may admire her confidence and strong will, but underneath this exterior is a selfishness and self-centeredness that makes her insufferable. Be in a relationship with her, and you’ll find yourself constantly drained as you try to do what it takes to keep her happy, while she languidly takes what you can give without any reciprocity.

#4 Ms. Cripplingly Insecure. Men and women can both be achingly insecure, but this type of girl takes it to a whole new level. She’ll talk negatively about herself *or worse, about other people* just so she’ll feel good about her flaws. She’ll constantly fish for compliments and affirmations, completely believing that these will validate her self-worth.

#5 The Drama Queen. She’s the type who believes with all her heart that the world is out to get her. But don’t be fooled. Drama doesn’t just follow her—she has a way of whipping it up all by herself everywhere she goes. It’s like everyone and everything is against her, so you’ll hear nothing but how she’s the victim of everything her mind can conjure. The problem with her is that she’s incapable of owning up to her faults and taking accountability for her own actions. Soon enough, this blame game will seep into your relationship, making it all too toxic.

#6 The Nitpicker Extraordinaire. She can be considered a perfectionist who prides in keeping her world pristinely spic and span, and expects other people to be the same… or else. That, or she just has something to say about any fault she finds in other people. She’ll crinkle her nose and raise her eyebrow at everything she sees in other people, never failing to miss a fault, but also never seeing the good side of things.

And she won’t stop there. She’ll constantly nitpick you, too, from the way you wear your tie to even the way you kiss. She’ll constantly put you down until you begin to believe her criticisms yourself.

#7 Queen-dependence. She has a handful of good, endearing qualities. For a time, you might even consider taking her to meet your parents. She’s the submissive type. In fact, so much so that she can’t make up her mind on her own. For a while, you’ll feel good because that puts you in a position where you can really feel like the man in the relationship. That is, until you realize that she depends on you for everything. Once you realize that she can’t live her life without you, you’ll quickly see that that kind of burden gets old really fast.

#8 The Desperate Chick. She’ll be needy, controlling, manipulative, and very talented in turning on the waterworks just to get you to do what she wants. She is motivated by a deep desperation to be with anyone, no matter who it is, all for the sake of just having someone. Hapless and desperate, she might follow you around for some crumbs of your attention, and if you don’t give her what she wants, she might threaten to hurt you or herself. This is definitely not the kind of added stress you want your relationship to foster.

#9 The Chatterbox. She’s nice, friendly, and great to talk to. However, as time goes by, you’ll notice that her conversational skills aren’t learned, they’re innate. Pretty soon, you’ll see that her ability to talk is awfully, insufferably, non-stop.

She’ll talk about herself, about her friends, her work, how her day went, about the barista that served her coffee that morning, and so on. Soon, you’ll learn just how much she LOVES to talk, and not just about herself, but about other people, too. Eventually, she’ll get herself *and you* into trouble because she just can’t keep her trap shut.

#10 The Playa. Charming and seductive, she’ll say and do everything that will make you fall under her spell in a split second. The problem is that she also plays the same game with other guys, even in your presence. She toys with your emotions, only vaguely committing to anything more than a casual relationship because her sights are still set on other guys. While this girl may be great for flings and one-night stands, you’d better steer clear if you’re looking for a more serious relationship.

#11 Ms. Jekyll-and-Hyde. You saw her, and it was love at first sight. She’s got everything you’ve ever wanted in a girl, and so much more. However, things take a different turn after a while. On the outside, she’s really great, but behind the curtains is a totally different person.

One way or another, you’ll begin to see her other half—the mean, manipulative, calculating, deceitful, and two-faced side. Sure, she’ll smile at your friends, but she’ll say the worst things about them behind their backs. This makes you wonder just what she says and does behind your back, too!


I curve 1 & 3 , I tell em to just beat it like MJ cool
Re: Types Of Girls To Avoid Dating by Immortalzbon(m): 12:42pm On Oct 14, 2020
Davash222:
You for kuku tell us to avoid girls entirely.

Lol.. You just took the words from ma mouth
Re: Types Of Girls To Avoid Dating by MrNipplesLover(m): 12:53pm On Oct 14, 2020
Petyprincess:
Type of men to avoid! 1.broke men 2.stingy men 3.abusive men 4.cassanova 5.liar 6.team "baby when are you visiting me" 7.jealous men 8.audio redpilled men 9.talkative men 10. Manipulative men!


grin grin grin
Re: Types Of Girls To Avoid Dating by seunlier(m): 12:58pm On Oct 14, 2020
Just tell us type to date cos I'm still scanning for the girl who doesn't fall in any of these still no result found

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Re: Types Of Girls To Avoid Dating by mosdii(m): 1:41pm On Oct 14, 2020
Apt
Re: Types Of Girls To Avoid Dating by fati2001(m): 1:47pm On Oct 14, 2020
Petyprincess:
Type of men to avoid! 1.broke men 2.stingy men 3.abusive men 4.cassanova 5.liar 6.team "baby when are you visiting me" 7.jealous men 8.audio redpilled men 9.talkative men 10. Manipulative men!

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Re: Types Of Girls To Avoid Dating by odinson1(m): 2:44pm On Oct 14, 2020
Petyprincess:
Type of men to avoid!
1.broke men
2.stingy men
3.abusive men
4.cassanova
5.liar
6.team "baby when are you visiting me"
7.jealous men
8.audio redpilled men
9.talkative men
10. Manipulative men!

Dating an independent lady;
When you call her in the evening she tells about her day activities, you both gets to share ideas, solutions to problems, discuss productive ideas(note: there’s no morning call because she doesn’t have the time)

Dating a dependent lady;
She calls you in the morning , and starts telling you how she’s not eaten, needs money for hair, her data is not always enough, she’s always in need, endless need, when you have 20k in your account, 16k goes to her one way or the other just to prove your level responsibility 
You are always worried because you can’t satisfy her enough. When her phone rings it’s no other than toasters. No one calls her for anything serious except “come and visit me” I will take a wild guess and say you are A selfish, lazy And greedy dependent lady

And as for the Op

I been there bro, it’s not a nice experience. Currently I role with women that calls me to share business ideas and needs my intellectual inputs.

If you are in love with a woman and you haven’t done anything for yourself yet, and you don’t know how far journey you still have and you are a NIGERIAN, sorry bro.

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Re: Types Of Girls To Avoid Dating by ebhaleleme51490: 3:02pm On Oct 14, 2020
:Type of men to avoid!1.broke men2.stingy men3.abusive men4.cassanova5.liar6.team "baby when are you visiting me"7.jealous men 8.audio redpilled men9.talkative men10. Manipulative men!

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Re: Types Of Girls To Avoid Dating by virginprincess(f): 4:11pm On Oct 14, 2020
Petyprincess:
Type of men to avoid! 1.broke men 2.stingy men 3.abusive men 4.cassanova 5.liar 6.team "baby when are you visiting me" 7.jealous men 8.audio redpilled men 9.talkative men 10. Manipulative men!
grin grin grin, chai see finishing.

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Re: Types Of Girls To Avoid Dating by Strange57: 4:27pm On Oct 14, 2020
SamuelTurner:
soro soke were
grin
Re: Types Of Girls To Avoid Dating by IMAliyu(m): 4:36pm On Oct 14, 2020
You just described almost every type of Nigerian girl.

Now, you just have know your own personality and which one you can come to a compromise with.
Pick your poison, or choose to remain outside the dating sphere.

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Re: Types Of Girls To Avoid Dating by Hintona(f): 4:55pm On Oct 14, 2020
Petyprincess:
Type of men to avoid! 1.broke men 2.stingy men 3.abusive men 4.cassanova 5.liar 6.team "baby when are you visiting me" 7.jealous men 8.audio redpilled men 9.talkative men 10. Manipulative men!
Chai!!! this girl is too much grin

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Re: Types Of Girls To Avoid Dating by Nobody: 6:20pm On Oct 14, 2020
If you dodge all this ones for Nigeria wetin remain?

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Re: Types Of Girls To Avoid Dating by Axzobr: 6:23pm On Oct 14, 2020
The so called SU. They can waste ones time and emotions. They will just be playing you around till you hear they've gotten married to one baba

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Re: Types Of Girls To Avoid Dating by planetx13: 6:47pm On Oct 14, 2020
Just avoid Nigerian girls...

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Re: Types Of Girls To Avoid Dating by fabiano09(m): 7:58pm On Oct 14, 2020
Petyprincess:
Type of men to avoid!
1.broke men
2.stingy men
3.abusive men
4.cassanova
5.liar
6.team "baby when are you visiting me"
7.jealous men
8.audio redpilled men
9.talkative men
10. Manipulative men!
shut your mouth slut

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Re: Types Of Girls To Avoid Dating by Obodo999(m): 8:24pm On Oct 14, 2020
With this your long list, I don't think any girl is worth marrying.

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Re: Types Of Girls To Avoid Dating by jUeLiZ: 9:21pm On Oct 14, 2020
Petyprincess:
Type of men to avoid!
1.broke men
2.stingy men
3.abusive men
4.cassanova
5.liar
6.team "baby when are you visiting me"
7.jealous men
8.audio redpilled men
9.talkative men
10. Manipulative men!

I'm not surprised


so once u tell a girl let's date, u automatically owe her money abi...watsup with broke, stingy... like who doesn't get broke hanty... okay why are u complaining if u r not broke too and looking for one who will bare ur brokeness...abi if u r not broke why can't u too be at d giving end... must u always be at d receiving end.....?

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Re: Types Of Girls To Avoid Dating by Nobody: 9:25pm On Oct 14, 2020
Hmmmm op you tried,,,nice writeup ❤️❤️❤️,,,,,,,,,,


But dat girl above me crack me upgrin


Funny people full here aswear,,,,,,grin


She said the truth,,,,,grin

But in a very harsh way if compared to the op's one,,,,,,,grin


,,,,,,,,,,,,,,Lass lass,,,,,, everybody is not perfect,,,,,,
Re: Types Of Girls To Avoid Dating by Silentgroper(m): 9:38pm On Oct 14, 2020
SamuelTurner:
soro soke were
Lmao.. O fi weyrey eja panla yen sile
Re: Types Of Girls To Avoid Dating by Silentgroper(m): 9:47pm On Oct 14, 2020
Op . Are u related to tosyne2much or wristbangle. Those two were d god "10 things" back then

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Re: Types Of Girls To Avoid Dating by Silentgroper(m): 9:52pm On Oct 14, 2020
Zzor
Which do u belong?
Re: Types Of Girls To Avoid Dating by Nobody: 9:54pm On Oct 14, 2020
Silentgroper:
Zzor

Which do u belong?


im guilty of everything he mentioned,so men should just avoid me for their peace of mind

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