Ishilove:
I don't know if it is just me but friends can be made anywhere, not just on cyberspace. I'm an introvert but I have more friends than I can handle. Na me dey run from them sef. I don't understand your own kind of introversion that craves socialisation. Someone should school me

MhizLewa:


Why waiting for them to "school" you.... Can i say congratulations for having "more" friends ? Lol! Can be easier for some dear,.... Remember people are different huh! Besides, if u read through the post, u will deduce I recently moved from a place to settle here newly....

Back to ur question..... Lol! ��� U call urself an introvert.... claim havin lots friends and yet still question why an introvert like me seeks socialisation possibly from having friends Like seriously sis? � Dnt make me question ur thinking faculty pls!

Hugs & kisses dear!

MhizLewa:


Why waiting for them to "school" you.... Can i say congratulations for having "more" friends ? Lol! Can be easier for some dear,.... Remember people are different huh! Besides, if u read through the post, u will deduce I recently moved from a place to settle here newly....

Back to ur question..... Lol! ��� U call urself an introvert.... claim havin lots friends and yet still question why an introvert like me seeks socialisation possibly from having friends Like seriously sis? � Dnt make me question ur thinking faculty pls!

Hugs & kisses dear!

pocohantas:


We were having this discussion just yesterday and I said I really envy babes that still give out their contacts and make new friends, maybe they need enough people to tax urgent 2k or they are so sociable.

I don’t mean to sound rude, but I don’t need more friends. Let me service and maintain the few I have. It is probably cheap for others, but for someone like me who is committed to friendships/relationships- I find it very expensive (emotionally, physically and financially) to maintain them. So, I can’t handle many friends.

As for the OP, if you are bored on Island, it is either you don’t know road or you no get money. Like my boss will say, the second you wake on the Island, you start receiving debit alerts . Most Islanders are always willing to make new (fake) friends, both males and females- especially if you look creamy and work in a fine office. Their friendship no dey deep, it is all for cruise. Last last, it is either you get drained financially, because you will be incurring unnecessary expenses or na intense penising go end am.

Ishilove:

Watch out. Some insignificant specks of internet bits will say you are arrogant, needy and dull or whatever. (I couldn't understand the crap the fellow wrote because the English sef no balance).


Leave her. Eye go soon clear and body go tell am.

Too much foolishness abounds here for my delicate constitution.


*unfollows thread.

Ishilove:

Watch out. Some insignificant specks of internet bits will say you are arrogant, needy and dull or whatever. (I couldn't understand the crap the fellow wrote because the English sef no balance).


Leave her. Eye go soon clear and body go tell am.

Too much foolishness abounds here for my delicate constitution.


*unfollows thread.

pocohantas:


We were having this discussion just yesterday and I said I really envy babes that still give out their contacts and make new friends, maybe they need enough people to tax urgent 2k or they are so sociable.

I don’t mean to sound rude, but I don’t need more friends. Let me service and maintain the few I have. It is probably cheap for others, but for someone like me who is committed to friendships/relationships- I find it very expensive (emotionally, physically and financially) to maintain them. So, I can’t handle many friends.

As for the OP, if you are bored on Island, it is either you don’t know road or you no get money. Like my boss will say, the second you wake on the Island, you start receiving debit alerts . Most Islanders are always willing to make new (fake) friends, both males and females- especially if you look creamy and work in a fine office. Their friendship no dey deep, it is all for cruise. Last last, it is either you get drained financially, because you will be incurring unnecessary expenses or na intense penising go end am.

MhizLewa:

post grad course and CFA (proffessional) exam.
Peace!

Acrobatics01:


Oga @ishilove
With all due respect, I see no wrong for someone who wants to make friends on social media. BTW what's the difference from the ones you made offline?
if she has decided to follow one path and not the other, she's done no wrong.

This thread sef that was supposed to be fun has degenerated into war

KidDarkness:
MhizLewa, for someone in need of friends, you are stylishly rude. For Ishilove who a lot of people here respect because of her maturity and thick skin to get fed up with your attitude just means you totally need to work on yourself before making friends. Take it like an advice from a concerned individual

leisuretym:


she will drain you, she has already said parent are dead, no job and she want to go clubbing, beaching and hang out.
I wonder where she's staying around Ikate elegushi, may be in one of those Batcher house or Ilasan girls lodge , I will advice you to move close to God young lady.

dep07:

Sorry to intrude,I rather see it as someone standing up for herself.
She asked for friendship not money ,even if one has misgivings about making friends online,there are better ways to pass the message across,not coming across as miss/Mrs know it all.
After all ,some people have gotten married through social media.

MhizLewa:
Hi all,

Lol! Loneliness and boredom on weekends and even weekdays aint really cool. I'm a social nerd kind off and an introvert but I want friends oh! Good companions within lekki and environs..... Okay! gotta be honest here! Life has been somehow tough ever since I lost my mum last year, getting a job few weeks after her death with a fvcking (Pardon me) accommodation was more of a saving grace for me (I dnt even wanna talk about the hustle over the family house & properties & how I got booted out of our home by step brothers and weyrey family ......nah!) So, I have been in lekki for about 11 months (having moved from Alagbado) and my goodness.....just realizing I have been all about my job. I think it sucks...not to have friends...lol!!! I want to hangout the more, live, laugh, connect and enjoy life.

Okay! Call me Lewa (NRN)! 27 year old! Unilorin alumni! Omo yoruba pon bele! Curvy! Caramel! 6ft2'' (meaning I'm fvcking tall), I am an accountant (earned my ACA certification last year,.....couldn't be happier) and currently residing in Ikate elegushi, Lekki. I basically need people of like minds....we could both hangout (beaches, eateries, galleries, cinemas, even protest grounds....I dnt mind olohun! lol! etc.......) are you game? okies!!!!!! Whatsapp 09029989238.

Y'all should holla now oh!...at least mo ti soro soke oh! lol!.....

MhizLewa:

Babe.... Not to disrespect but ur "2k" impression lol!.... about people giving out their contacts online to make friends in this social media age shows how shallow minded u are.

Being committed in friendships n relationships is quite commendable.... Kudos to you hun!

Dear, your boss told you something and you binge on that... Formin the basis of your vain opinion here? Oops! Well, the standard of living here... Can be said to be high and that's why most residents here have income/earnings to match their expenditure.

On ur comment about "financial drain" and "intense penisin"..... Lmao! Be calming down ma.... I can understand the pepper my post is givin u! ���

FYI.... I am bored on the island not for ur shallow reasons up there but for a 9-5 job that fvckin sustains me... A weekend of commitment to joggling reading hours between post grad course and CFA (proffessional) exam.

Peace!

MhizLewa:



Babe.... Not to disrespect but ur "2k" impression lol!.... about people giving out their contacts online to make friends in this social media age shows how shallow minded u are.

Dear, your boss told you something and you binge on that... Formin the basis of your vain opinion here? Oops! Well, the standard of living here... Can be said to be high and that's why most residents here have income/earnings to match their expenditure.

On ur comment about "financial drain" and "intense penisin"..... Lmao! Be calming down ma.... I can understand the pepper my post is givin u! ���

FYI.... I am bored on the island not for ur shallow reasons up there but for a 9-5 job that fvckin sustains me... A weekend of commitment to joggling reading hours between post grad course and CFA (proffessional) exam.
Peace!

RightToReject:


Don't mind her and her ilk. The arrogation of sophistication, purity, and strongness (goodness in general) to themselves is their new-found modus operandi and marketing strategy, even when any discerning mind can always see through their neediness, dullness, feeble-mindedness, and greed - typical crass and opportunistic elements.

Don't allow her succeeds in making you feel inadequate because you're better than her and ilk.

Meanwhile, consider building your social life around associates rather than frenemies called friends, and focus on making your boyfriend/husband a true friend. One major hallmark of unresourceful and opportunistic people is their accumulation of too many frenemies called friends or longing for too many of them.

Thanks for the advice bro. God bless you dearly.

Ishilove:

Watch out. Some insignificant specks of internet bits will say you are arrogant, needy and dull or whatever. (I couldn't understand the crap the fellow wrote because the English sef no balance).


Leave her. Eye go soon clear and body go tell am.

Too much foolishness abounds here for my delicate constitution.

*unfollows thread.

MhizLewa:


Gbayi bro! Loud it dear! God bless u hun!

dep07:

Sorry to intrude,I rather see it as someone standing up for herself.
She asked for friendship not money ,even if one has misgivings about making friends online,there are better ways to pass the message across,not coming across as miss/Mrs know it all.
After all ,some people have gotten married through social media.

KidDarkness:

There's no problem with making friends online. She can stand up for herself without slightly sounding rude

Carchoice:
don’t mind them. All na cruise. They are always looking for Someone they will drain both financially and sexually. You go fvck so tay, malaria go catch you. It’s only on Lagos island I know what it means to be married nowadays. They marry but never stop having fun, no respect for the marriage vows.

MhizLewa:


Why waiting for them to "school" you.... Can i say congratulations for having "more" friends ? Lol! Can be easier for some dear,.... Remember people are different huh! Besides, if u read through the post, u will deduce I recently moved from a place to settle here newly....

Back to ur question..... Lol! ��� U call urself an introvert.... claim havin lots friends and yet still question why an introvert like me seeks socialisation possibly from having friends Like seriously sis? � Dnt make me question ur thinking faculty pls!

Hugs & kisses dear!

Nephilim:
@UyaiIncomparabl @pocohantas @ishilove
Let @Mhizlewa make friends in peace o

mariahAngel:


Her attitude explains it all.

MhizLewa:


Why waiting for them to "school" you.... Can i say congratulations for having "more" friends ? Lol! Can be easier for some dear,.... Remember people are different huh! Besides, if u read through the post, u will deduce I recently moved from a place to settle here newly....

Back to ur question..... Lol! ��� U call urself an introvert.... claim havin lots friends and yet still question why an introvert like me seeks socialisation possibly from having friends Like seriously sis? � Dnt make me question ur thinking faculty pls!

Hugs & kisses dear!

Carbon2Oxide:
This bvtch got pride...
Little wonder your friends flee from you and u got bored



How much da fuq do u earn!?

Accountant

pocohantas:


The problem is that you don’t read to understand. Financial drain means you will spend a lot hanging out, that is if you are open to paying bills too and in the longrun, it won’t be sustainable or you won’t see the need to keep up with that life. Intense penising? Most guys (on the Island) won’t keep taking you out because they are NICE. If they take you out the first time as courtesy, subsequently- you guys either define the “friendship” or they will stop taking you out!

UyaiIncomparabl:


Both you and the people liking your posts to fuel your morale are one of the problems we have in this country. You can always criticize someone constructively without coming off as crass and razz. I don't know, but are you always like this? Even with your friends and family? ***.

pocohantas:


Not nice... You should take that back, Uyi.

Thegamingorca: