victorian:
A guy was wooing me years back and we had to talk deeply because he wanted marriage and deep down I don't even fancy him as lover how much more a husband.
He showed me his fancy house, it was nice lovely house . When he wanted to touch me, I squirm and withdrew from his grasp.
He asked why am I avoiding his touch? With a surprise look on his face.
I replied nothing I'm just not ready to date, let's be friends.
He said he has so many friends and what he wants is marriage.
And he should lemme know this minute that 95percent of marriage is Al about sex! Because he can cook well , so good food is not his problem.
But sex is what marriage is all about.

I looked at this man with disgust.

I said well I don't think I'm ready for marriage.
Please marry someonelse.


Thank God he was a gentle man and he didn't pester me but allowed me to leave.

When I begin to think and wonder, how can marriage be all about sex?

Mehn I can't date him. No feelings whatsoever.

God will bless him with his bone of bone and flesh of flesh.

I can't deal abeg.

I'm saying this to ladies who jump into marriage with men they don't fancy, how. Much more love,, just because they want to adhere to society's bullies on " when will u marry" ?
"do u think u are still young"?
" keep deceiving yourself, u are getting old!

I said God in prayers, if I don't have the kind of man I want and there is no chemistry? I will never marry. And I don't care what anyone says. If the chemistry and love is not mutual? Forget it!

I rather remain celibate.

After many many years, God gave me what I want and the attraction is mind-blowing. It's good to be patient. Very good to be patient.

Sighs sorry madam it's well.

chukskafor:
What is the essence of the marriage madam?
Why come online to wash your dirty linen in the public?
At your age, i believed you should know better than wanting unsolicited "sorry" from us.
I believed your husband has family and kinsmen you can report as well as you, rather you chooses to come and throw pity party here, expecting cheap show of popularity.

DemonInvoker:


Would YOU stay in a sexless Marriage??!!If no then you are just blabbing...I pray you don't end up with someone with erectile dysfunction or Someone Who really doesn't feel like whenever you want to be intimate,then you would really know and be thankful to God for SEX.

Aboks:
U deserve it i dont understand why things like this cause problem in marriage

Some people are so selfish , why deny him what he paid for

What he paid for? So she is a commodity?

Am sure u are still single, for your information women are not commodity,
Women have pains they go thorough, and that might make them reluctant in having sex, a sensible man, knows what to do , to make his woman want him always, only animals, one minute men , stingy men, feels because of the dirty dowry paid they can treat a woman anyhow, it shows u were not trained .
Mtsheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew

chukskafor:
What is the essence of the marriage madam?
Why come online to wash your dirty linen in the public?
At your age, i believed you should know better than wanting unsolicited "sorry" from us.
I believed your husband has family and kinsmen you can report as well as you, rather you chooses to come and throw pity party here, expecting cheap show of popularity.

iamkheedah:
Popular Facebook page 'Oga NDU' reported that Happiness Omonogor's husband allegedly beat her up because she denied him S*x.

See post below:

https://www.facebook.com/101032495142388/posts/103630348215936/?app=fbl

VEXT:
Stupid women everywhere, divorce her and marry another woman...

zudozz:
U get luck say him no keel u..there ...Eeeediot!

pozehnani:
Jeez

What is it with men and sex though? Hm!
Can't they control themselves any longer? Mtchew!

Get well soon, Ma.

I'm ashamed of all the men talking trash here. See what sex has reduced the men folk to? SMH.

Writerholic:


This is a nons*nse yarn!
Sex is meant to happen when there's mutual agreement!

moneyissweet:
Madam you are even lucky your husband still want to have sex with you.

If na me 3 years i never even touch you talk less of having sex with you.

I guess your husband don't know Facebook and Twitter.

EndRape2:
,. Do you reason at all, or you just open your mouth and spill rubbish

Is divorce the solution, it is men like you ,that at old age, they become so useless without a wife,
What makes you think the second wife will not do same, the third or fourth will not do same,

Besides marriage talk is not for children nah

pozehnani:
Jeez

What is it with men and sex though? Hm!
Can't they control themselves any longer? Mtchew!

Get well soon, Ma.

I'm ashamed of all the men talking trash here. See what sex has reduced the men folk to? SMH.


Modified....

Look at all of you mentioning me on here. It's only when it comes to sex they see you flexing your muscles all over the place. Endsars protest, we didn't see you guys go chesting bullets o. It's only on top a woman. See them. *Yinmu and catwalks outta thread**.

Aboks:
U deserve it i dont understand why things like this cause problem in marriage

Some people are so selfish , why deny him what he paid for


Mtsheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew

fabiano09:
but why deny him his rightful property ?

Maski87:
Just because of ordinary sex,thats why you are beating someone like this.

pozehnani:
Jeez

What is it with men and sex though? Hm!
Can't they control themselves any longer? Mtchew!

Get well soon, Ma.

I'm ashamed of all the men talking trash here. See what sex has reduced the men folk to? SMH.


Modified....

Look at all of you mentioning me on here. It's only when it comes to sex they see you flexing your muscles all over the place. Endsars protest, we didn't see you guys go chesting bullets o. It's only on top a woman. See them. *Yinmu and catwalks outta thread**.

Mypeople2:
Na true , the men should go and chest bullets. Madam you did not observe that we have more male criminals than female criminals? Have you not observed that we have more widows than widowers? So the men should to die while the women will be enjoying the kids ?
Don't talk like that.While did she get married if not for sex ? See abeg, if you don't want to have sex and you want to deprive a man from having sex with you, please don't get married.Remain in your father's room cooking dinner for him.Period !

EndRape2:



So Facebook and Twitter , will make you meet better girls than the wife, u people keep rolling your self, can you pay Facebook and Twitter girls?


I just pity married men here, listening to all these brats that can not keep relationship for 2months , talking rubbish.



Nairaland is full of useless guys, that has been abused, use and from no homes,


I pity married men here

humilitypays:
Some men are shameless and stupid.


The woman is not fine to start with!

Secondly, she is old!

How is the husband still having erection for this kind old, ugly woman that look like an agbero at Ojuelegba under bridge

Guys, if your wife refuses having sex with you, don't beat her, don't even argue with her, just get a side chick, there are many sempe sempe chicks out there ready to fire your pipe till it goes down low, go get one.


I am sure her husband must be one uneducated tout that can't attract or get a pretty lady to kill his sexual frustration so he poured it out on the ugly old wife, too bad


To all guys reading, as soon as your wife reaches 45yrs, reduce sex, sex should be only when you feel like exercising, like once in 3 months. I still wonder how some men get erection to fvck old, ugly ladies with saggy boobs and big tummy, yuck, men una de try cos it beats my imagination the men that fvck most old, ugly, big tummy ladies I see around

Canvass:
I don't support domestic violence in any form or for whatever reason. What if she dies while beating her?

I have noticed but I still don't understand the reason. Most middle age women tend to deny their hubbies sex for days on end yet they go gaga once the man start philandering! As if that's not enough, they enjoy attention when given to them by other men not even on their husband's level and sometimes flirt with their admirers!
To understand woman takes a genius. Walahi.

azzima:
I have said it severally, most of these women rights ACTIVISTS are LESBIANS and UNDERCOVER LESBIANS .....This is a FACT especially here in the US. They are doing EVERYTHING in their power either to EFFEMINATE men or ensure that the traditional men as the head of the household standard is abolished. They RATHER see a man washing his wife's panties, backing the baby or men holding their wife's purse for her..,..THE DEVIL IS A LIAR!