Fountainofyouth:


You have a serious problem with comprehension,

If that is your way of insulting your father, good of you, going by your tribe,

It's very simple, comment in the universal language people can understand, instead of deviating, surely you are not an illiterate.

Nairaland SARS....Without rank and payment.

Munzy14:

Nairaland SARS....Without rank and payment.

Some people simply lack understanding....sad.

Fountainofyouth:



Is English that hard for you, that you can't communicate solely with it?

Who knows...
We have the rights to express ourselves however we can right?

CHoccolaTE:


You forced her and she covered face as if someone is raping her because guess what,

Forced sex is actually rape.

Yes, your being married doesn't change that. And here you are talking about how you felt rejected as if you are the victim here, my friend will you gedifok!!!

If she is still breastfeeding she will have very low to non existent sex drive because thats how the bodies of nursing mothers work, their sex drives nose dive because nature and evolution has programmed females to not want sex (pregnancy) when there is a little one still depending on them.

When I say marriage is not natural frustrated men will jump on my neck to start yarning rubbish. How is a man with very high sex drive supposed to cope for the two years his wife breastfeeds their baby with low sex drive? Or not even wanting sex at all. Some breast feeding moms dont even have ovulation or monthly cycle or period until they wean their babies so the vagina is extremely dry and sex is usually painful.

Stop raping your wife Mr man, help her get into the mood instead of having selfish sex like many of you married men do, you get married then start having only 30seconds sex that satisfies only yourself and yourself alone then you start wondering why your wife does not want to keep submitting her vagina for you to use like say na short time ashawo you carry.

Damn! You just said it all. You're my type.

@Hopespenser, as a Christian, why not seek Godly council from above, nobody here knows what your wife is feeling or why she is acting this way. So, no one here can help you.

Sir, your marriage is the most important thing in your life as we speak, not something you take lightly.

Take it as duty, let God help you uncover what challenge your wife is going through, her happiness is your happiness.

SHALOM.....!!!

HopeSpencer:


We don't marry two wives, as Christians

Is Obasanjo a Muslim? It is your life policy not to marry two wives. This is commendable and worthy of emulation. It is not because you are a Christian. Haven't you seen many so called Christians steal, kill, commit adultery, collect bribe, loot treasury? It is individuals' moral upbringing and not religious. IBB is a Muslim, he had one wife, even when his wife died, he refused to marry another. Atiku Abubakr is another Muslim with numerous wives and concubines, just like Obasanjo as so called Christian with several wives and concubines.

HopeSpencer:


No health issue except that she delivered through CS 10 months ago. She has been refusing sex since then. When I recently forced her, she covered her face. As if someone was raping her. I felt rejected and hate myself.

Give her time, she will come out of it. I think she is experiencing post-delivery trauma. Doctors and psychologists have a name for it. She will come over with time. For the time being, you can manage with your side chicks, but remember that will be adultery and sin, and the wages of sin is . . . . God will be lead you.

HopeSpencer:


No health issue except that she delivered through CS 10 months ago. She has been refusing sex since then. When I recently forced her, she covered her face. As if someone was raping her. I felt rejected and hate myself.

Sounds like she feels unattractive and undesirable. You forced her? Really?