smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours

men sha! how many man have you pass before the lady stop you... if not want you have in mind to do.. tell d truth

J

Before I make any comment, I will like to ask: sir, are you married or still single and searching?

The love a farmer has for a broiler is to prepare it for pot. What else ...?
Some guys are trying to cause quarrel to avoid Christmas expenses but, you want to dive into unexpected one with a lady. Help guys and avoid ladies.

Ayo2004:
Op wan chop kpekus dey disguise...him come dey use Uber driver front
Radarada

Haba! Bros be calming dan abeg. Can't someone be nice without ulterior motives

smartxyz:
If am cool with him just like the way i was cool chatting with the lady...Why not??

The truth is, people are not used to that so they will always feel you need something from them, since to them it doesn't look like a normal thing.

Guess no guy has ever done her favor without not asking for something in return.but she should have been a little patience n not asked that question that day

YOU NO SEE OLD MEN AND OLD WOMEN INCLUDING CHILDREN TO HELP ABI? OK, IF THAT MOTOR STOP FOR MIDDLE OF THE ROAD, SHEY NA THE GIRL GO HELP YOU PUSH AM COMOT FOR ROAD? I PRAY MAKE YOUR MOTO SPOIL ONE DAY MAKE YOU CALL ME TO HELP YOU PUSH AM AFTER YOU DON USE SPEED PASS ME FOR BUS STOP.

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him

God Bless you.

Op please come and live close to me so i can join you to work every morning...

I d' greatly appreciate that...btw, cheer up cos not everyone has the ability to appreciate good especially when twisted minds are everywhere.

senjutsu:

Haba! Bros be calming dan abeg. Can't someone be nice without ulterior motives

Indeed...nobody dey do that kin thing for no reason

Originalsly:
Smartxyz... you need to be Streetsmart. In general... in the society... men do not do a woman a favour without wanting something in return. You picked her up... very kind of you... never mind a bit risky... had a good chat ... she was comfortable with you and I'm sure considered you a nice guy seeing that you showed no signs of wanting anything in return... no contact info... no asking if she had a man etc..... the reason why she was happy. All that you messed up by asking to pick her up.... and that's the question that spoilt everything because she would now believe afterall... you want something in return... just like the other men. You should've said nothing... maybe she would've asked... or... you simply note the time you picked her up and most likely she will be there again waiting for a ride and will have no problem hopping in. Should you see her today... same scenario.... she may not want to hop in because she believes you want something. Always look first in the mirror bro before pointing fingers.

Would I wrong be if I say " bros bros u na shap guy. Tiri gbosa for u

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him

Nice question. If na he fellow guy, he will never offer to do so.

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him

If likes were money ehn, you'd have over 2000 of whatever currency you prefer.

EricSmallz:
You will still die regardless

Abeg elucidate oo


Wetin concern dealth with this matter ?


I don't get dat

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow

Man, would you have made such an Offer to him

Largest number of LIKES in a short while in Nairaland history.

How did this happen or our people don't discover Likes Cheat on Nl too

Stefenijoan002:
Guess no guy has ever done her favor without not asking for something in return.but she should have been a little patience n not asked that question that day

You are the only lady that has said something reasonable, all the others are busy encouraging guys never to assist a lady, as assisting a lady means you want something from her. WHO DID THIS TO WOMEN.

An innocent question to an innocent offer. And Oga is feeling upset. Think and answer her question properly. She no be mumu.

you may not have anything in mind, at the same time she may ask you that base on the rate of your reactions she saw..[color=#990000][/color]

Obynopositive:


U de mind some yeye men,that's how i was walking with a lady some years ago, a guy stopped, offered her lift,i wanted to enter he said no only the lady..

Ah... This one hot oo.
I got two questions for you please

1... Were you and the lady friends
2.. If yes how close were you two. And what was her response wen the driver said such thing to you.

Awaiting your response abeg

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him

I wonder why this foolish comment had so much likes. It means we have really got it wrong in this country. So he offered now to be helping her it means he must have some hidden agenda?? Some women, una brain sabi think nonsense. How do one become ordinary friends with a lady of this kinda mentality. God forbid

That lady on the first page has already said my mind, have got nothing else to tell OP.






I wonder why man hate man sef.

You should have just continually carried her without asking? It was a spooky question and it won't end well for the lady in the long run.

2dice01:


She asked the Perfect Question bro

No sane man will turn himself to an Uber driver every morning to please a lady you just met some minutes ago

Cus if she was a Male
You won't even see his hand when he wave

the question isn't perfect abeg. And yes a sane man would drop someone he met especially if the someone happens to leave close to him or his route. I have had this kinda offer years ago and I have benefitted from it. And I know I am not the only one. Stop been an hypocrite

e sure me die say you no go “offer” to carry your fellow man go work everyday...

She asked the right question because everybody know say na so e dey start...

But, you should’ve educated her instead of “driving off”....

This behaviour indicates a tendency to have wanted something somewhere down the line.
A masculine disappointment at being found out early in the game.
If you genuinely wanted nothing you would’ve insisted it was nothing and just did your good deed.
But YOU KNOW.

smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours

I don't think that you can blame the lady. It's not her fault. It's the fault of the kind of society we live in.

But for me, I might have taken the offer. Then the moment you become a mumu man, you'll not see me to drop and pick again. It's just like giving any random person my number, I'll pick the first time. That first call determines if I'll keep picking or if I'll block him immediately after the call. It all depends on the guy.

The kind of comments I read on this thread just shows how far Nigeria had gone down the drain. See mentality abeg. Chaii

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him

It comes naturally sist, a woman will do same to the opposite sex. I do same for many pple at my bus stop especially on my way to work but I find a particular lady friendly and smart. Tho I did not offer the everlasting ride like the op did but I always watch out for her.

Originalsly:
Smartxyz... you need to be Streetsmart. In general... in the society... men do not do a woman a favour without wanting something in return. You picked her up... very kind of you... never mind a bit risky... had a good chat ... she was comfortable with you and I'm sure considered you a nice guy seeing that you showed no signs of wanting anything in return... no contact info... no asking if she had a man etc..... the reason why she was happy. All that you messed up by asking to pick her up.... and that's the question that spoilt everything because she would now believe afterall... you want something in return... just like the other men. You should've said nothing... maybe she would've asked... or... you simply note the time you picked her up and most likely she will be there again waiting for a ride and will have no problem hopping in. Should you see her today... same scenario.... she may not want to hop in because she believes you want something. Always look first in the mirror bro before pointing fingers.

Kudos, you nailed it

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him

Let me tell you. It's only women that enjoy that kind of help. Men don't like it. A lady can enjoy that kind of offer for 5yrs without any qualms. If you carry a guy 3 to 5 days, he'll start dodging you cos of his ego and prestige.

So don't expect a guy making such offer to a fellow guy cos it may not work.

Obynopositive:


U de mind some yeye men,that's how i was walking with a lady some years ago, a guy stopped, offered her lift,i wanted to enter he said no only the lady...

I heard that this thing happens a lot in Abuja . What state did your happen in?