2yrs ago, a youth corper served in a company I managed. One Friday evening we both went out clubbing with 2 of my friends.

There were lots to drink and lots of dancing and body contact. It was fun and at the end of the night we both were under the influence quite obviously. One thing led to the other and we both had sex that night. I’m sure this wouldn’t have happened if we were in our right senses.

However, it happened and it was consensual, as in, no persuasion, no force we both wanted it and we both had it albeit under the influence nonetheless, although I initiated it.

Days later she grew wings and became nonchalant with her duties and I wasn’t gonna take any of that then she started threatening to report me to her ZI of taking advantage of her. I called her bluff and asked if I raped her.

Long story short I had to send her away for insubordination and nonchalant to duties.

My question here is: in light of the build up before we had sex that night, can I be done for for rape? Just watching my back just in case she came out in future accusing me of rape.

I need answers from lawyers, please.

This is Africa and not Europe. Proving a genuine rape case is even difficult in Nigeria here, not to talk of consensual sex.

You've got nothing to fear

lawyers in the house your attention is needed.

You had a great sex with her. Sex is best enjoyed when the both parties are tipsy. No fake moaning..

Girls fake moans alot during sex and it turns me off.

Go get ur lawyer Oga...that one no be rape. If she try that nonsense stunt, make sure u sue her for libel. Until them start to prosecute & convict them for false rape accusations their head no go ever correct. Nonsense.

No.......go and check page 419 paragraph 419 of the 1999 constitution of the federal republic of Nigeria for more details...wat I'm saying

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Yes, that was rape. She was under the influence of alcohol, hence, not capable of giving a valid consent at that point in time. You can't now say that the sex was consensual. You took advantage of her at her weakest point. This would be my argument if I am representing the lady.

Sometimes people enjoy all the fun and alcohol and then regret their actions and to make themselves feel good ,they put the blame on someone .

This is if your account of the incident is truly what happened.

Can true consent be given under the influence of alcohol?

Is it really consensual sex?

In her clear senses, will that girl sleep with you?

What makes you think she didn't plan all this

These crop of immature ladies that think with their kpekus don't understand what feminism is all about

popsy2:
Yes, that was rape. She was under the influence of alcohol, hence, not capable of giving a valid consent at that point in time. You can't now say that the sex was consensual. You took advantage of her at her weakest point. This would be my argument if I am representing the lady.

shoooooooooooooooots

Issokay

This argument for make brain if only one side is drunk and the other isn't but nah two of them get drunk so no case.

popsy2:
Yes, that was rape. She was under the influence of alcohol, hence, not capable of giving a valid consent at that point in time. You can't now say that the sex was consensual. You took advantage of her at her weakest point. This would be my argument if I am representing the lady.

Mind u I said the sex wouldn’t have happened if we were in our right senses. I was under the influence, too. Isn’t that a valid argument on my part?

Jbleenk:


Mind u I said the sex wouldn’t have happened if we were in our right senses. I was under the influence, too. Isn’t that a valid argument on my part?

But you initiated it.....

Under the influence right?

Jbleenk:


Mind u I said the sex wouldn’t have happened if we were in our right senses. I was under the influence, too. Isn’t that a valid argument on my part?

Drunkenness is not a defense to rape. You will only be nailing your own casket if you bring that argument to court. Even if you prove that you were drunk, it won't avail you.

My advice: don't tell the court that the lady was drunk nor you. Whatever you do, don't acknowledge that the woman was drunk. No consensual sex can be had in such a state.

Temmylee02:
shoooooooooooooooots

Issokay

This argument for make brain if only one side is drunk and the other isn't but nah two of them get drunk so no case.

My argument is in order. It matters not, whether the man was drunk during the act. It is a non-issue. The crime of rape is to protect women, who are considered the vulnerable gender. Once it is established that the woman was under the influence of alcohol or any substance, the man will be knocked for it. It may sound illogical to you, but that's the law.

popsy2:


My argument is in order. It matters not, whether the man was drunk during the act. It is a non-issue. The crime of rape is to protect women, who are considered the vulnerable gender. Once it is established that the woman was under the influence of alcohol or any substance, the man will be knocked for it. It may sound illogical to you, but that's the law.

why she no report the incident after the alcohol clear from her eyes the next day . case no dey there abeg.

If that is is the law o wrong nah.

popsy2:


My argument is in order. It matters not, whether the man was drunk during the act. It is a non-issue. The crime of rape is to protect women, who are considered the vulnerable gender. Once it is established that the woman was under the influence of alcohol or any substance, the man will be knocked for it. It may sound illogical to you, but that's the law.

AirmirthDY:



But you initiated it.....

Under the influence right?

Initiated what, both of them were drunk for goodness sake, she may even be the one to throw the first kiss at him....
When you r drunk, you do stupid things!!!

Oga, this is consensual rape. Argue with the lawyers pls.

Sundrus:
why she no report the incident after the alcohol clear from her eyes the next day . case no dey there abeg.

Ok

Here you are having sleepless nights because of just 5 minutes pleasure, something you can't even remember the sex styles you used. Is it worth the stress of getting drunk? Is it worth the stress of sleeping with a co-worker? Sex and alcohol have never made anybody great in this life, it has never made one respected too. Leave sex and alcohol out of your menu, it only give temporal pleasure and a lifetime of if's and why's.

Jbleenk:
2yrs ago, a youth corper served in a company I managed. One Friday evening we both went out clubbing with 2 of my friends.

There were lots to drink and lots of dancing and body contact. It was fun and at the end of the night we both were under the influence quite obviously. One thing led to the other and we both had sex that night. I’m sure this wouldn’t have happened if we were in our right senses.

However, it happened and it was consensual, as in, no persuasion, no force we both wanted it and we both had it albeit under the influence nonetheless, although I initiated it.

Days later she grew wings and became nonchalant with her duties and I wasn’t gonna take any of that then she started threatening to report me to her ZI of taking advantage of her. I called her bluff and asked if I raped her.

Long story short I had to send her away for insubordination and nonchalant to duties.

My question here is: in light of the build up before we had sex that night, can I be done for for rape? Just watching my back just in case she came out in future accusing me of rape.

I need answers from lawyers, please.

You could have ignore her and you went to far for suspending her, a lady that you had sex with! My bruh pray for the lady not to work towards your sack letter from the company.

popsy2:
Yes, that was rape. She was under the influence of alcohol, hence, not capable of giving a valid consent at that point in time. You can't now say that the sex was consensual. You took advantage of her at her weakest point. This would be my argument if I am representing the lady.

Was he not under the influence of alcohol too? Was he not taken advantage of too?

Jbleenk:
2yrs ago, a youth corper served in a company I managed. One Friday evening we both went out clubbing with 2 of my friends.

There were lots to drink and lots of dancing and body contact. It was fun and at the end of the night we both were under the influence quite obviously. One thing led to the other and we both had sex that night. I’m sure this wouldn’t have happened if we were in our right senses.

However, it happened and it was consensual, as in, no persuasion, no force we both wanted it and we both had it albeit under the influence nonetheless, although I initiated it.

Days later she grew wings and became nonchalant with her duties and I wasn’t gonna take any of that then she started threatening to report me to her ZI of taking advantage of her. I called her bluff and asked if I raped her.

Long story short I had to send her away for insubordination and nonchalant to duties.

My question here is: in light of the build up before we had sex that night, can I be done for for rape? Just watching my back just in case she came out in future accusing me of rape.

I need answers from lawyers, please.

You are guilty of the act bcus from your post the lady wouldn't have consented to it if she's in her normal senses. You decided to take her for clubbing inorder to get her drunk and take advantage of her.
Mr Man, u are very guilty and it's a deliberate act from you, stop giving excuses of getting drunk. You planned it and it went smoothly as u planned.

popsy2:
Yes, that was rape. She was under the influence of alcohol, hence, not capable of giving a valid consent at that point in time. You can't now say that the sex was consensual. You took advantage of her at her weakest point. This would be my argument if I am representing the lady.

You know nothing. He was under the influence of alcohol, she was also under the influence of alcohol. Both were under the influence of alcohol and they both had sex.
He can also charge the girl for rape too as he was under the influence of alcohol.
Your point is counterintuitive.
If both parties are under the influence of a substance, you can't say it is rape.

Also if the girl were to be asked if he was drunk and she says "NO he wasn't" this also prove she was quite aware of things happening around her hence, she wasnt drunk as at the time of sex.

Any rape case that involves you getting drunk on your own accord without being forced to get high isn't a strong case. Chances of winning are very low especially if the person involve hasn't being charged for anything before.

No evidence to prove she was raped. Her pants obviously wasn't torn as a clear sign of violence, nor are clothes.
She failed to report the case 24 hours after the incident
She reported to work the next day proof that she wasn't threatened not to talk.
The court can prove her accusation is based as a revenge for her getting sacked.

So many holes in her case

pk2me:
You are guilty of the act bcus from your post the lady wouldn't have consented to it if she's in her normal senses. You decided to take her for clubbing inorder to get her drunk and take advantage of her.
Mr Man, u are very guilty and it's a deliberate act from you, stop giving excuses of getting drunk. You planned it and it went smoothly as u planned.

It’s left for u as the lawyer to present proof that it was pre planned. Your word against mine I suppose. I maintain a clear stance that I was drunk and wouldn’t have engaged in sex with her if not.

Jbleenk:
2yrs ago, a youth corper served in a company I managed. One Friday evening we both went out clubbing with 2 of my friends.

There were lots to drink and lots of dancing and body contact. It was fun and at the end of the night we both were under the influence quite obviously. One thing led to the other and we both had sex that night. I’m sure this wouldn’t have happened if we were in our right senses.

However, it happened and it was consensual, as in, no persuasion, no force we both wanted it and we both had it albeit under the influence nonetheless, although I initiated it.

Days later she grew wings and became nonchalant with her duties and I wasn’t gonna take any of that then she started threatening to report me to her ZI of taking advantage of her. I called her bluff and asked if I raped her.

Long story short I had to send her away for insubordination and nonchalant to duties.

My question here is: in light of the build up before we had sex that night, can I be done for for rape? Just watching my back just in case she came out in future accusing me of rape.

I need answers from lawyers, please.

The fact that you are asking tells me you are keeping out a lot of details .

Was she knocked out when you penetrated her,?

This is rape . As she wasn't conscious and so her consent could not have been given.

The fact that she got disgusted with you days later tells me you either took advantage of her when she was passed out drunk or you are totally lousy in bed..

Which is it?

popsy2:
Yes, that was rape. She was under the influence of alcohol, hence, not capable of giving a valid consent at that point in time. You can't now say that the sex was consensual. You took advantage of her at her weakest point. This would be my argument if I am representing the lady.

Get out of here with your pilpul.

Intoxication does not make one immune from conviction if intoxicated during the course of a crime..

Where she wasn't deliberatly drugged without her knowing it becomes rape . But since she willingly got high on her own she can't claim lack of consent in her state.

VEXT:


Initiated what, both of them were drunk for goodness sake, she may even be the one to throw the first kiss at him....
When you r drunk, you do stupid things!!!

Read his write up again. The third paragraph.

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soundOsonic:


You know nothing. He was under the influence of alcohol, she was also under the influence of alcohol. Both were under the influence of alcohol and they both had sex.
He can also charge the girl for rape too as he was under the influence of alcohol.
Your point is counterintuitive.
If both parties are under the influence of a substance, you can't say it is rape.

Also if the girl were to be asked if he was drunk and she says "NO he wasn't" this also prove she was quite aware of things happening around her hence, she wasnt drunk as at the time of sex.

Any rape case that involves you getting drunk on your own accord without being forced to get high isn't a strong case. Chances of winning are very low especially if the person involve hasn't being charged for anything before.

No evidence to prove she was raped. Her pants obviously wasn't torn as a clear sign of violence, nor are clothes.
She failed to report the case 24 hours after the incident
She reported to work the next day proof that she wasn't threatened not to talk.
The court can prove her accusation is based as a revenge for her getting sacked.

So many holes in her case

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Ignorance and arrogance. I will forgive your naivety because clearly, you are not a lawyer, hence, lacks the minutest understanding of the topic. Good luck.

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BigBabyJesus:


Get out of here with your pilpul.

Intoxication does not make one immune from conviction if intoxicated during the course of a crime..

Where she wasn't deliberatly drugged without her knowing it becomes rape . But since she willingly got high on her own she can't claim lack of consent in her state.

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Okay. Thank you.