MISSCONGENIALITY:
Visit you say you dey hospital bed abi you born baby.
As a girl, if a guy ever says" VISIT ME" block and delete his number. It's another way of say, I want to Bleep your brains out.
If you are not in the mood to Bleep, just tell him you are not interested. Even ordinary discussion, he won't want cos even before you get there, he would already be up and kicking and ready for wild sex.

Briller:
I was almost a rape victim by just come and visit me. Fought tough and was almost strangulated by the zombie. After that experience, I stopped visiting any idiot that I have nothing going with.

saasala:
Because that is how it is and that is how it should be.

90% of the time, the guy had previously taken the girl out, spent some money on her and/or rendered some sort of financial assistance to her. Since she is not related to him by blood, nigga needs some sort of compensation so as not to feel like a fool.

90% of the time a guy asks a girl to visit him, he wants sex. 9 out of ten times a lady visits a guy, she has been offered the D.

And isn't just that the norm? Isn't that the way it should be? If I am not taking you out to the restaurant or bar or something and I tell you to come to my house (especially after asking for an urgent 2k, taken you out and spent some money on/for you), should you not know that I want to fvck you?

Na Naija girls dey do shakara na. Oyinbo girl knows that inviting me to your house means we might have sex, she might even be the one to make a move. South Africa and Ghana babes no get chill. If they come to your house and you dont F them they won't pick your calls again.

But trust this Naija babes with their "Its my first visit" Mantra. If you leave them on the first visit, they come with "Its just my second visit", but will keep asking you for money. She will bring her family problems for you to solve as if you be father Christmas.

If you are not my sister and you ask me to solve your financial problems when I was the first to approach you with "Let's date or let's fvck", once I render that help to you, you have instantly been obliged to pay me back with your pussay or you get the fvck out.

I can help ladies randomly without asking for sex in return but not the ones I toasted myself. I toast you, you no gree, you won come turn me to ATM. God punish your entire family and generation.

saasala:
Because that is how it is and that is how it should be.

90% of the time, the guy had previously taken the girl out, spent some money on her and/or rendered some sort of financial assistance to her. Since she is not related to him by blood, nigga needs some sort of compensation so as not to feel like a fool.

90% of the time a guy asks a girl to visit him, he wants sex. 9 out of ten times a lady visits a guy, she has been offered the D.

And isn't just that the norm? Isn't that the way it should be? If I am not taking you out to the restaurant or bar or something and I tell you to come to my house (especially after asking for an urgent 2k, taken you out and spent some money on/for you), should you not know that I want to fvck you?

Na Naija girls dey do shakara na. Oyinbo girl knows that inviting me to your house means we might have sex, she might even be the one to make a move. South Africa and Ghana babes no get chill. If they come to your house and you dont F them they won't pick your calls again.

But trust this Naija babes with their "Its my first visit" Mantra. If you leave them on the first visit, they come with "Its just my second visit", but will keep asking you for money. She will bring her family problems for you to solve as if you be father Christmas.

If you are not my sister and you ask me to solve your financial problems when I was the first to approach you with "Let's date or let's fvck", once I render that help to you, you have instantly been obliged to pay me back with your pussay or you get the fvck out.

I can help ladies randomly without asking for sex in return but not the ones I toasted myself. I toast you, you no gree, you won come turn me to ATM. God punish your entire family and generation.

Powerfly:
If he says 'come and visit me.' baby re-strategise and visit when you're on the second day of your menstrual period.
That's what i do to ensure nothing will happen.
don't announce that you're on your period.. Just surprise him.. Guys love surprises.

Sixfeetbelle:


Same story as yours except for the Togolese friend part. Like it's so appaling what Nigerian men are like cause of pussy. I have had a fair share of bad experiences cause of "come visit me" but there is this one experience that took the cake for me.

Imagine a guy I met on Facebook and barely knew invited me to visit him two weeks later and mumu me that didn't know scope back then went as per new friend. After we got past the pleasanteries, Oga wanted to turn it to a sex rendezvous. I was beyond shocked that a guy who barely knew me wanted to bleep me; like "nigga I could be an aids patient on a revenge roll. I could also be a spirit wife here to ruin men's destiny or some shit. Did he even reason that far?"

Anyway after that particular incident, I've concluded that "come visit me" means "come have sex" where Nigerian guys are concerned. Hands down.

Deepthoughts:
Same way any girl that say "please give me some money" shout be blocked, shikena.

luminouz:


Wrong...u never see men wey go fuq you with menses?

Mai dear, e go shock you oh

Kinjikitileking:
Anyways I have made love to three three of my ex's on their period

Sixfeetbelle:


Isn't it better you lay it out there and be rejected than to portray yourself as a nigga who's that desperate for sex he has to 'entice' a lady to get it?

Do you guys even reason what ladies can do to you if a supposedly harmless visit turns into sex she wasn't prepared for?

nonut:

One day, he will surprise you by diving in like that.
E go be like Nollywood for your eye.

Powerfly:


If u insist on having sex.. I'll tell u it disgust me.. If you force your way.. What happend in 2009 will repeat itself.

illicit:


That friend will keep reminding her of time.... they won't stay more than 45 mins....

Powerfly:


nothing like that. If he insist.. There are many diplomatic ways to turn him down.. If he uses force.. If he sees the next day.. Let him call me a bast*rd

99thEnemy:
Are you aware of guys they do call "blood hound" at all?

thesilentman:
You have not men that will still have their way despite that?

Powerfly:


I have bro. One ibo maniac guy like that. You don't wanna hear the lies i told him self.. Me self i off.

ityP:



Lmao. I really hope this no be blind threats. Cause if rapists dey die next day after their traumatizing acts, naija would be a better place

Powerfly:


U can't sleep with me without my approval..abi na rape e wan rape me,?

Dshocker:


Why block his number when everybody likes sex

Powerfly:


No time for blind threats. See.. I go around with a pen-knife. If i shout and help no come.. I go allow u rape me finish.. Dey form cry like say i be mugu.. But brotherman! If i leave u alive.. Then u wear beta jazz.. If not!.. U know na.

Gandollaar:
Dodger!
Are you afraid of three.some

ityP:


Nothing happened in 2019 abeg. That being said, I feel this castration law for rapists should be signed ASAP. Even when a lady agrees to have sex with you, if she come your house and she say she change her mind, let her be. There's nothing interesting about forced sex to be honest

Powerfly:


No time for blind threats. See.. I go around with a pen-knife. If i shout and help no come.. I go allow u rape me finish.. Dey form cry like say i be mugu.. But brotherman! If i leave u alive.. Then u wear beta jazz.. If not!.. U know na.

larryking540:


I tire ,sex is just over rated,to mostly nigeria girls ,other Africa country girls see it as nothing ,ghana,s.Africa ,name them

saasala:
Because that is how it is and that is how it should be.

90% of the time, the guy had previously taken the girl out, spent some money on her and/or rendered some sort of financial assistance to her. Since she is not related to him by blood, nigga needs some sort of compensation so as not to feel like a fool.

90% of the time a guy asks a girl to visit him, he wants sex. 9 out of ten times a lady visits a guy, she has been offered the D.

And isn't just that the norm? Isn't that the way it should be? If I am not taking you out to the restaurant or bar or something and I tell you to come to my house (especially after asking for an urgent 2k, taken you out and spent some money on/for you), should you not know that I want to fvck you?

Na Naija girls dey do shakara na. Oyinbo girl knows that inviting me to your house means we might have sex, she might even be the one to make a move. South Africa and Ghana babes no get chill. If they come to your house and you dont F them they won't pick your calls again.

But trust this Naija babes with their "Its my first visit" Mantra. If you leave them on the first visit, they come with "Its just my second visit", but will keep asking you for money. She will bring her family problems for you to solve as if you be father Christmas.

If you are not my sister and you ask me to solve your financial problems when I was the first to approach you with "Let's date or let's fvck", once I render that help to you, you have instantly been obliged to pay me back with your pussay or you get the fvck out.

I can help ladies randomly without asking for sex in return but not the ones I toasted myself. I toast you, you no gree, you won come turn me to ATM. God punish your entire family and generation.

SILENTandSMART2:
That shows who you are


I can never tell a girl to come to my house and think otherwise because they know who i am,


They know dat i don't do shit,

In life try to make sure dat the view dat people use to see you is positive,


OP work on yourself

larryking540:


for you to visit a guy ,in Nigeria present day society , I believe u trust him up to the extend even if he has sex with you ,u are cool with it ,

abi you go visit who u kw like ?

ityP:


My brother, I wonder why people carry the sex for mind sha. It's too overrated