pansophist:


You're looking for uyaiIncomparabl

She is fine, a Christian, but get small stubbornness sha, but about singing, I don't know lol. Anyways, you suppose like am.

Now the question is, are you deserving of her?

UyaiIncomparabl:


And you, what will you be bringing to the table?

I hope you are deserving of this woman that you seek? For you to want these attributes in a woman, you must as well surpass or be at par with what you seek.

UyaiIncomparabl:


And you, what will you be bringing to the table?

I hope you are deserving of this woman that you seek? For you to want these attributes in a woman, you must as well surpass or be at par with what you seek.

newinventions:


How can I get in touch with you Uyailcomparabl.

newinventions:


I love God. I love Him dearly. I know who I am in Christ Jesus. I am heaven conscious. The soul purpose of my journey on earth is to make heaven and the wrong woman can frustrate that purpose. I have seen men of God go astray just by marrying the wrong woman. Some even go as far as getting divorce just to have peace. I don't want that in my life.

I intend to take as many people with me to heaven, if Jesus tarries. My wife and children should be the first on my list. Eternity and immortality is very real. We all came to buy and sell on earth. We shall return to where we came from. The real journey begins after death.

maak400:

Sorry I didn’t get the gist well. What was the main reason you broke up with him? Anyways, all the best in your future relationship.

toren:



He was 10 men in 1. A staunch, very happy provider, confident go-getter with a very positive outlook towards life. Too positive for his own good. He'd declare with enthusiastic pleasure, "I know you love me" and I'd marvel in my head, "what kind of guy is this".

He likes to take charge of the problem of others as though they were his, he'd squash them and proffer working solutions. He hated to hear that I was having issues with anything. He'd quickly counter me with his usual response, "that's not a problem".

I'm from Lagos State and schooled in Lagos yet that i served in Lagos is a privilege I owe to this rare gem. He worked my NYSC to Lagos with his mum's influence. The "oga at the top" that helped and I quote her, "just name the organisation you want to serve in, I'll do that for you too".

He was generous. A giver. Open and honest. His integrity level was so high that I could never imagine him lying about anything. His phone was an open book. No girl was calling or chatting neither was he except with me. I may have been the centre of his world. I'm sure I was. He doesn't talk much about these sort of things. He simply was a doer, always actioning his words, never failing on a promise. The big things and little things. Little things like, "I'll call you", rest assured he would. We talked everyday unless we were together.

And when we fight, we'd make up like it never happened. We never carried a grudge to the next day. The way he handled issues with diplomacy and maturity, never involving third parties always awes me.

We were gist partners too, talked about everything and anything. Always teases about how I'm a talkative and in those moments he would quickly nod in agreement to all that I'm bothering him with to keep me from saying more. Lol. Don't mind him. Somebody that used to like my gist. Shebi we used to gossip together. Still calls me his best friend. Insists I'm his first wife.

He took me to meet his family within a year of meeting him. That was my first time in Abuja. Was always expressive about what he wants. What he wants he aims to get. Doesn't take no for an answer. Hardworking. Energetic. He can work any job to get by. In all the years we were together, he never took ill.

Don't even make me talk about his mum. She was gold. I think the love she has for her son, she projected on to me.

Ex and I made decisions about everything together. All that masculine energy, yet wasn't proud. We shopped together.. foodstuff and clothing. He was very assertive and would not let me do anything on my own. He was a superb cook too.

I think he loved me for the mere fact that I existed. Never asking anything in return or expecting much. I don't think he loved me for prospects either. I don't even think I contributed anything significant to his life. Though he would say I made him who he is today. That I "restructured" his life. Me ke? Funny. My ex being who he is, his excessive positivity always makes him see the good in people. I remember how he used to comment about how this and that person is nice. And I'd tell him, "No you can't know that. It's because he doesn't have money yet that's why you think he's nice. Wait let him become rich then come back to tell me he's nice". Lol.

In spite of everything, he got lucky. I don't see why he shouldn't. Posterity just has to be kind to and reward a good man as he. What I'm saying is, he found a good woman and that's all that he deserves. I believe he's happy now or at the least, not too sad. Though compatibility isn't same as was with me, she's just like me, he said. And that whenever he sees his children, he forgets his unhappiness.

Looking back, I see that, on a silver platter, he gave me things I never for a second thought I should place value on. The "emotional and financial security" that was him is second to none. To know that your man will never cheat on you even if you were walking on one feet is the greatest peace of mind a girl can only pray to have.

I also realize now that I may have amplified his flaws in my head. Even traits that were never there I imagined.

I read your previous thread and liked it, but I don't have the strength to read this one.

pansophist:


I will. Thank you.

But I'm broke, will you sponsor ?

Abeg

Persephone1:
You can publish your book on Amazon KDP for free and you will make lots of money from it. You are a good and passionate writer.

pansophist:

Persephone1:
I take this for "doing that already"

Good job and Congrats.

pansophist:


You get sense. How you take know?

Persephone1:
You can publish your book on Amazon KDP for free and you will make lots of money from it. You are a good and passionate writer.

CaveAdullam:


"Abeg biko make una show person road for this Amazon kdp".

Thanks in advance.

Persephone1:
Cc
Pansophist help a brother.

I'm still learning myself while Pan is into it already.

CaveAdullam:


"Abeg biko make una show person road for this Amazon kdp".

Thanks in advance.

pansophist:


Google "how self publish on amazon", tutorials yapa. But but, don't be too optimistic about it, like everything, the 80/20 rule applies. Over eighty percent of publishers don't make a cent, so it doesn't mean that if one put something there then boom, the dollars starts rolling in.

So write due to the passion and competence of it, not to make money. We live in a time where everyone is a writer, content creator, publisher, and more. There is nothing special about these jobs if one doesn't make money off it.

CaveAdullam:


" make I yarn you small gist for DM".

pansophist:


Ok

demanuel:

I sent you an email. Please kindly reply. Thank you Sir.

pansophist:


I no see anything

demanuel:

It must have gone into your spam box.

pansophist:


not there.check if you wrote it correctly. PansophistE at gmail.com

CaveAdullam:


"Abeg biko make una show person road for this Amazon kdp".

Thanks in advance.