SweetHearted:
I am from a family whose first born is a female. She is followed by 3 other females. I am the 5th child and the last born is also male.

When we were younger,my sisters use to beat us because they were older and stronger than us. The eldest sister will beat the 2nd child to the last child.The same with the 2nd child. She beat the 3rd to the last child.

So I was brought up under authoritative females.

This has affected me because I find it hard to accept a gentle lady.

I only feel attracted to authoritative and violent ladies.

I find such ladies so attractive that I have never and can never date a girl unless she is authoritative, stronger and more assertive than me.

I always want to be close to women that behave like my sisters when we were younger. My sisters loved me but they showed the love through inflicting of pains.

So I tend to associate a woman's violent behavior to love. I seem to have compassion on women who behave violently and authoritatively.

I only find it easy to be working under a woman. I can't lead but I want to be led by woman. I can only work in a place if the head is a woman.

The last place I worked as a teacher, the head of our department was a woman. She complained that I was so obedient and submissive to her that I never even try to challenge her in any of her decisions unlike other teachers. She doesn't like such men, according to her.

Please I want to know if there is any man that is like me out there.

If so, what do you make of it.

SweetHearted:
I am from a family whose first born is a female. She is followed by 3 other females. I am the 5th child and the last born is also male.

When we were younger,my sisters use to beat us because they were older and stronger than us. The eldest sister will beat the 2nd child to the last child.The same with the 2nd child. She beat the 3rd to the last child.

So I was brought up under authoritative females.

This has affected me because I find it hard to accept a gentle lady.

I only feel attracted to authoritative and violent ladies.

I find such ladies so attractive that I have never and can never date a girl unless she is authoritative, stronger and more assertive than me.

I always want to be close to women that behave like my sisters when we were younger. My sisters loved me but they showed the love through inflicting of pains.

So I tend to associate a woman's violent behavior to love. I seem to have compassion on women who behave violently and authoritatively.

I only find it easy to be working under a woman. I can't lead but I want to be led by woman. I can only work in a place if the head is a woman.

The last place I worked as a teacher, the head of our department was a woman. She complained that I was so obedient and submissive to her that I never even try to challenge her in any of her decisions unlike other teachers. She doesn't like such men, according to her.

Please I want to know if there is any man that is like me out there.

If so, what do you make of it.

Chii59:
Nwaezeemmanuel what sayest thou?

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh


I swear you need serious deliverance. Are you a Christian? If you are then you need to know this. Even the Bible support the husband to be the head and the wife the neck.

Please don't envasage such kind of women thinking because you grew up with violent ladies. They ain't funny, you will be use and dump like rags. I know some ladies will like the kind of your type if you are rich cause she will control you.

Marrying a violent woman is like living abject hell I swaer. Cause they moment you vex her, she will beat the living day light outta you and pray you don't fall to those with anger, all the home appliances gone.

The following are result you will get if you marry one:-
1. You will die because of frustration.
2. Your kids won't respect you.
3. They can turn against you anytime cause mummy will rule them.
4. You will just hate your existence because of her (your wife) nagging.

The way out is,
1. be the boss, have your own say . don't always nod to people's decision.have an objection with valuable facts.
2. Go for intensive deliverance.
3. Watch debate to be able to defend your decision when some one buzzed you.
4. Move with guys than women.
5. Stop admiring aggressiveness or violence.

With the above you can change gradually Sir.
That's my own verdicts !!

tnerro1:
When she kills you and you are dead, don’t come here to complain oooo

nwaezeemmanuel:
After seeing his childhood story, i would say it may have affected a part of his judgement reaching adulthood.

Possible childhood trauma suspected. Especially since he solely equates a woman's violent behaviour to love.

nwaezeemmanuel:
After seeing his childhood story, i would say it may have affected a part of his judgement reaching adulthood.

[b]Possible childhood trauma suspected.[/b]Especially since he seems too needy for a woman with violent behaviour.

Could be another fantasy. But even those can be misleading in the real world.

coolsegun2002:


The fascinating about the guy is that he knows he has been psychologically damaged from childhood....he said so, yet instead of looking for therapy.... he’s looking for others like himself so that he can feel good knowing he’s not alone.....


Indeed.....misery loves company....

SweetHearted:


Please I want to know if there is any man that is like me out there.

If so, what do you make of it.

Sarita01:
There are many men like you but I don't think you'll find anyone to admit it on nairaland cos they don't wanna look less macho. But it's still kinda hot to see calm males

SweetHearted:
I am from a family whose first born is a female. She is followed by 3 other females. I am the 5th child and the last born is also male.

When we were younger,my sisters use to beat us because they were older and stronger than us. The eldest sister will beat the 2nd child to the last child.The same with the 2nd child. She beat the 3rd to the last child.

So I was brought up under authoritative females.

This has affected me because I find it hard to accept a gentle lady.

I only feel attracted to authoritative and violent ladies.

I find such ladies so attractive that I have never and can never date a girl unless she is authoritative, stronger and more assertive than me.

I always want to be close to women that behave like my sisters when we were younger. My sisters loved me but they showed the love through inflicting of pains.

So I tend to associate a woman's violent behavior to love. I seem to have compassion on women who behave violently and authoritatively.

I only find it easy to be working under a woman. I can't lead but I want to be led by woman. I can only work in a place if the head is a woman.

The last place I worked as a teacher, the head of our department was a woman. She complained that I was so obedient and submissive to her that I never even try to challenge her in any of her decisions unlike other teachers. She doesn't like such men, according to her.

Please I want to know if there is any man that is like me out there.

If so, what do you make of it.

udoakwa:
Violent lady ye find, violent lady you shall see, shout a very big thunderous Amen...

SweetHearted:
[s]I am from a family whose first born is a female. She is followed by 3 other females. I am the 5th child and the last born is also male.When we were younger,my sisters use to beat us because they were older and stronger than us. The eldest sister will beat the 2nd child to the last child.The same with the 2nd child. She beat the 3rd to the last child.So I was brought up under authoritative females.This has affected me because I find it hard to accept a gentle lady.I only feel attracted to authoritative and violent ladies.I find such ladies so attractive that I have never and can never date a girl unless she is authoritative, stronger and more assertive than me.I always want to be close to women that behave like my sisters when we were younger. My sisters loved me but they showed the love through inflicting of pains.So I tend to associate a woman's violent behavior to love. I seem to have compassion on women who behave violently and authoritatively.I only find it easy to be working under a woman. I can't lead but I want to be led by woman. I can only work in a place if the head is a woman.The last place I worked as a teacher, the head of our department was a woman. She complained that I was so obedient and submissive to her that I never even try to challenge her in any of her decisions unlike other teachers. She doesn't like such men, according to her.Please I want to know if there is any man that is like me out there.If so, what do you make of it[/s].

Chii59:

Honestly. He needs a woman who knows how to show tough love when needed. Simply because he was raised that way.

Truvel:
Not All Av It Ooo. I'm A Gentle Guy, I Don't Want A Gentle Woman. I Want A Woman Dat Won't Take Shit 4rm Anyone. If U Dare Say Any Rubbish Abt Her Guy In Presence Or Absent, She Will Blast U. Yes, Dat's D Kind Of Woman I Want. Do U Know Why? I'm A Gentle Guy, I Barely Talk, I Barely Exchange Words With People.

Nairalandnigga:
All women are under my foot.
Both the good, the bad, and the ugly are all under my foot