SweetHearted:
I am from a family whose first born is a female. She is followed by 3 other females. I am the 5th child and the last born is also male.

When we were younger,my sisters use to beat us because they were older and stronger than us. The eldest sister will beat the 2nd child to the last child.The same with the 2nd child. She beat the 3rd to the last child.

So I was brought up under authoritative females.

This has affected me because I find it hard to accept a gentle lady.

I only feel attracted to authoritative and violent ladies.

I find such ladies so attractive that I have never and can never date a girl unless she is authoritative, stronger and more assertive than me.

I always want to be close to women that behave like my sisters when we were younger. My sisters loved me but they showed the love through inflicting of pains.

So I tend to associate a woman's violent behavior to love. I seem to have compassion on women who behave violently and authoritatively.

I only find it easy to be working under a woman. I can't lead but I want to be led by woman. I can only work in a place if the head is a woman.

The last place I worked as a teacher, the head of our department was a woman. She complained that I was so obedient and submissive to her that I never even try to challenge her in any of her decisions unlike other teachers. She doesn't like such men, according to her.

Please I want to know if there is any man that is like me out there.

If so, what do you make of it.

nwaezeemmanuel:
It's quite expected. A lot of people seek validation here.

Really concerned for him, it's okay to want a woman that isn't overly dependent and can handle herself.

But this needy attraction to violent women from his love life to his workplace is concerning.

SweetHearted:
I am from a family whose first born is a female. She is followed by 3 other females. I am the 5th child and the last born is also male.

When we were younger,my sisters use to beat us because they were older and stronger than us. The eldest sister will beat the 2nd child to the last child.The same with the 2nd child. She beat the 3rd to the last child.

So I was brought up under authoritative females.

This has affected me because I find it hard to accept a gentle lady.

I only feel attracted to authoritative and violent ladies.

I find such ladies so attractive that I have never and can never date a girl unless she is authoritative, stronger and more assertive than me.

I always want to be close to women that behave like my sisters when we were younger. My sisters loved me but they showed the love through inflicting of pains.

So I tend to associate a woman's violent behavior to love. I seem to have compassion on women who behave violently and authoritatively.

I only find it easy to be working under a woman. I can't lead but I want to be led by woman. I can only work in a place if the head is a woman.

The last place I worked as a teacher, the head of our department was a woman. She complained that I was so obedient and submissive to her that I never even try to challenge her in any of her decisions unlike other teachers. She doesn't like such men, according to her.

Please I want to know if there is any man that is like me out there.

If so, what do you make of it.

SweetHearted:
I am from a family whose first born is a female. She is followed by 3 other females. I am the 5th child and the last born is also male.

When we were younger,my sisters use to beat us because they were older and stronger than us. The eldest sister will beat the 2nd child to the last child.The same with the 2nd child. She beat the 3rd to the last child.

So I was brought up under authoritative females.

This has affected me because I find it hard to accept a gentle lady.

I only feel attracted to authoritative and violent ladies.

I find such ladies so attractive that I have never and can never date a girl unless she is authoritative, stronger and more assertive than me.

I always want to be close to women that behave like my sisters when we were younger. My sisters loved me but they showed the love through inflicting of pains.

So I tend to associate a woman's violent behavior to love. I seem to have compassion on women who behave violently and authoritatively.

I only find it easy to be working under a woman. I can't lead but I want to be led by woman. I can only work in a place if the head is a woman.

The last place I worked as a teacher, the head of our department was a woman. She complained that I was so obedient and submissive to her that I never even try to challenge her in any of her decisions unlike other teachers. She doesn't like such men, according to her.

Please I want to know if there is any man that is like me out there.

If so, what do you make of it.

tnerro1:
When she kills you and you are dead, don’t come here to complain oooo

Skepticus:


Come clean, dude. You are a masochist.

I won't hate on your choices but as a weak man, you'll serve a great purpose of being a doormat in the world of dominant men and alpha-women.

I've seen some threads in the romance section where some guys share the same fantasy of seeking dominating and aggressive women for love.

You should check them out.

Sharrpguy:
SIMP Pro Max ���

Sharrpguy:
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vickydevoka:
70% of men are attracted to stubborn women. Buh dat one no be for marriage mata. Marriage requirements for me is , average or good looking gal, financially o.k to some extent, n good attitude

Sarita01:
There are many men like you but I don't think you'll find anyone to admit it on nairaland cos they don't wanna look less macho. But it's still kinda hot to see calm males

gunners160:
Who told you? he is OK and perfectly alright. He was born to serve women like Nigerian Youth Service Corps. Pls allow him to kindly carry out his responsibilities diligently. Don't you knw when he was coming down to earth, that was part of his job description?

gunners160:
You want to knw if there are other men like you out there? Yes, there are several men like you in fact one even disgraced us and went to a reality show to display his level of foolishness. Meanwhile the so called lady he is asslicking is winning endorsement deals while he is busy wearing a short nika.
You can add him up on Instagram or Facebook so that he can be your role model. If possible open a WhatsApp page titled SIMPS group

coolsegun2002:
Instead of finding ways to heal old pain....the new norm is to find other psychologically damaged people like them and start asking for rights from goverment and validation from fellow humans....


When they don’t get it....they’ll say its hatred and ‘phobia...

blingxx:


all women get their wahala .what if the type you are looking for is just another time bomb waiting to explode

blingxx:


all women get their wahala .what if the type you are looking for is just another time bomb waiting to explode

Chii59:

Yawns Dreamer.

SweetHearted:
I am from a family whose first born is a female. She is followed by 3 other females. I am the 5th child and the last born is also male.

When we were younger,my sisters use to beat us because they were older and stronger than us. The eldest sister will beat the 2nd child to the last child.The same with the 2nd child. She beat the 3rd to the last child.

So I was brought up under authoritative females.

This has affected me because I find it hard to accept a gentle lady.

I only feel attracted to authoritative and violent ladies.

I find such ladies so attractive that I have never and can never date a girl unless she is authoritative, stronger and more assertive than me.

I always want to be close to women that behave like my sisters when we were younger. My sisters loved me but they showed the love through inflicting of pains.

So I tend to associate a woman's violent behavior to love. I seem to have compassion on women who behave violently and authoritatively.

I only find it easy to be working under a woman. I can't lead but I want to be led by woman. I can only work in a place if the head is a woman.

The last place I worked as a teacher, the head of our department was a woman. She complained that I was so obedient and submissive to her that I never even try to challenge her in any of her decisions unlike other teachers. She doesn't like such men, according to her.

Please I want to know if there is any man that is like me out there.

If so, what do you make of it.