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Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Burgerlomo: 3:30am On Nov 20, 2020 |
Afikoo: Stop looking for work and start to Google/YouTube search for how you can make a legitimate passive income online while you're sleeping. |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Kenmatt(m): 5:00am On Nov 20, 2020 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Don't be afraid of the real man. That's where your love and sheild is assured. |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by newoffer: 6:12am On Nov 20, 2020 |
Do not force any lady into marriage, You pay is manageable except Na slay Queen she be. Our problem is trying to please people. 2016, I was earning 17500 naira when got married Bro. I reduce the people's expectation by doing the needful. Today, life don change. If she no reason you please let her go. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Tochiology: 6:28am On Nov 20, 2020 |
Afikoo:My man my have you heard of virtual esl teaching job before? |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by ebenezer202l(f): 8:09am On Nov 20, 2020 |
pretydiva:the guy is financially establish already as a job of 80k is pretty cool considering the fact that there are no jobs. Your myopic sense and shallow way of reasoning was too low to comprehend that the ball is in the girl's court that she should go get a job and stop being a leech. 8 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by ebenezer202l(f): 8:12am On Nov 20, 2020 |
Afikoo:you're a simp and a very bloody one. There are no jobs out there, my elder brother's monthly remuneration is 60k and he's already married with two kids and they're living fine. Guess what? the wife is also employed too, so you with your 80k wants to please a woman by not telling her to go get a job. Times have changed and everything now is mutual. Tell her to go get a job if she's even interested in the marriage. Escabado: yomi007k: Jessepaid: Jamestown123:The dude still has this mentality that a man must be the sole breadwinner while the woman contributes little financially. well I don't blame him, it's obvious he's enslaved in the love entanglement hence the desperation to please the lady's parents. His remuneration of 80k is very okay, what he needs is just a capital to start a side business as a back up while maintaining the 80k job cos there are no jobs in the country and he's so lucky but the love and eagerness to please a lady won't make him see himself as being so lucky and one amongst few that is blessed with a job after graduation. He should suspend marriage, save from the salary and start a side business, reduce cost of living, get a single room with lesser rent charges and hustle like there's no tomorrow. He shouldn't be desperate for marriage especially to a woman that contributes Nothing financially or else na suffering you want welcome so. If that lady is at all interested in the marriage she should go get an 80k job too. Op never leave your job oh till you land a more better one 17 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by ebenezer202l(f): 8:14am On Nov 20, 2020 |
FanOfMyself:this is programming and it's always very hard to grasp |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by MedicH: 8:23am On Nov 20, 2020 |
Okay you're earning 80k a month, the useless thing you want to marry is earning zero. But somehow marriage plans should be put on hold because you have to earn more while the worthless thing continue to learn skill. Like she has spent the previous years of her worthless life watching mark angel comedy and learning make up or probably eating shawarma and cassava and now it's time to learn a skill. Pls she is not ur friend and definitely not your wife. If you make this mistake, you're just very very very doomed. Don't even sweat it. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by femi4: 8:26am On Nov 20, 2020 |
Afikoo:Suspend the wedding and switch to a more profitable profession. Who History help? You didn't help your future studying history in school. You have to change career path 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by akaahs(m): 8:37am On Nov 20, 2020 |
FanOfMyself:bro please, teach na i have all d requirement |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by pretydiva(f): 9:35am On Nov 20, 2020 |
ebenezer202l:You are the one with a very myopic and shallow way of reasoning. Your brain is so low that you couldn't decipher from op's write up that the girl is learning a skill. If you have a brain, try use it for once. It takes a leech to know one. Using people's comments to clout chase Now that you have been noticed, now swerve. |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by pozehnani(f): 9:46am On Nov 20, 2020 |
Wait a min... You're earning 80k yet your fiancee believes you can't start a family? Mind you, there are family men earning 30k and they are still pushing it and praying God picks their call ( which He'll surely do). With 80k, you're good to go for starters unless she's the greedy type that likes to live extravagant luxury lifestyle just to show off. Let her get a paying job asap so with her own contribution you guys can start a small family. The problem with most newly married couples is that they tend to rush themselves by having so many children within a short space of time and then everything will now jampack and box them into a tight corner. Start by having only one child. So you guys can have enough time to save and plan for yourselves. But waiting until you start receiving 300k might kill your interest in the relationship. I just hope this is not her way of discharging you courtesy advice from her family because I don't see any sense in her excuse at the last minute after glady going through the stages of dating and engagement. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by TransAtlanticEx(m): 10:01am On Nov 20, 2020 |
pocohantas:lol na small thing you go add untop 80k to reach your own salary na... Why you dey do like say difference too dey between you and am? The only difference be say you get support,e no get. Why are you shocked? 4 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by xest(m): 10:22am On Nov 20, 2020 |
ArticleBeast:ok |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by ebenezer202l(f): 10:38am On Nov 20, 2020 |
pozehnani:God bless you my dear sister. you're truly a woman that God will bless cos from your comment I can see the kind of Unique personality you possess if you scroll up you'll read my earlier comment where I said my elder brother even with 60k salary is married with two kids and they're living just fine cos the wife is gainfully employed too. They just need to cut some expenses except she's the luxurious type and he also needs save some money for a side business while continuing the 80k job cos in this country job dey hard to find. like you said, I feel the lady's family don't like him and they just use a flimsy excuse to discharge him. cc pretydiva (Ugly diva) you can see the comment emanating from a lady of intellect, you should be ashamed of yourself. Ozuor 2 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by ebenezer202l(f): 10:52am On Nov 20, 2020 |
femi4:that course is so useless. I.T courses are the best |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Saintinoo(m): 10:52am On Nov 20, 2020 |
Afikoo:Dear OP, though this is my humble opinion, for a fresh gradauate 80k pay is not bad, your girlfriend and her mother are not being considerate and sooner than later she will kick you out of her life. My advice to you is to forget about your girlfriend for now, continue your work, save and invest, look for a girl who will appreciate what you have. Do not allow some low life people put you into unnecessary pressure. 2 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by pretydiva(f): 10:59am On Nov 20, 2020 |
ebenezer202l:Hahaha. I laugh you in swahili. You Prolly was still in secondary school when I left the uni. Your acclaimed achievements adds no value to me. It's for your pocket only. I don't need to brag about my achievements here on a faceless forum. So I will leave you to keep wallowing in your ignorance . And for the records, it takes a hoe to recognise one� 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by chingle5(m): 12:02pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
FanOfMyself: i hv check it already anyway change it to fanofeverybody....... i hope it ring a bell |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by SavageResponse(m): 12:05pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
Afikoo: My advise to you would be to suspend the mariage plans and try and improve your finances. Once you get married you would be under intense pressure cos you will have more expenses that need to be taken care of. Think of something you enjoy doing and learn a skill in it so that you can broaden your income base 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by FanOfMyself: 1:26pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
chingle5:Oh my nigga... Socrates/Pluto |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by frozen70(f): 1:27pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
Afikoo: At this age and status of yours presently, don't allow anyone to push you around If you are OK with the suspension of the marriage plans, then go ahead with the suspension and if you think it's not necessary, just let them know that if because you have no money to start marriage preparation, you are willing to drop out of it so that their daughter will hook up with someone who is ready for marriage immediately You know what, you have to take charge or allow them to run your marriage for you 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by lilmaydee(m): 1:32pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
FanOfMyself:Please Sir/Ma, I will like to learn from you. |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by FanOfMyself: 1:38pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
lilmaydee:Please check my previous posts here and you will find my WhatsApp number. Please don't contact me if you haven't decided to start learning right away. You can make any further enquiries from me here and I will gladly answer you. Please you will have to make little commitments financially. Someone contacted me and wants me to teach him for free Nigerians never cease to amaze me at all. |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Sixfeetbelle: 1:46pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
pansophist: But... that's what marriage should be nah. Is it because economy is bad that's why you guys are shifting goal post? Did our mothers and grandmothers not get married to go and enjoy life? Why is our own going to be different? 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Ebenezer2021(m): 2:10pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:the point is that you should also contribute to the marriage and stop being a leech 5 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by pansophist(m): 2:11pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: But our mother understood their traditional responsibilities na, that is the difference. They washed plate, prepared pounded yam, babysit, were submissive, respected, and honored him, and even was happy being the fifth wife. That is your answer. 11 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Is Being Affected Because Of My Low Income. by Ebenezer2021(m): 2:14pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
TheLionofLasigi:this sums it all. God bless you for this post |
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