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Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Samakus(m): 9:21pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
WrittyWritter: All in all, wahala for who carry her come |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Samakus(m): 9:21pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
czarr: The bolded, it is. And I'm done 2 Likes |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Samakus(m): 9:23pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
baralatie: Mad oh |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Samakus(m): 9:25pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
Mcslize: Well said. Immediately, she made frantic moves to make me change my mind, I knew that this girl dey game . For her eye, I resemble John . Anyways we move. She likes me sha. I know when a girl likes me. 8 Likes |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by gunners160(m): 9:38pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
To be Frank with you, you are over reacting . And all those yeye advice "like let her be" she has a skeleton in her cupboard etc are what I call children advice. Wait, if she has a bf, is it a crime? Do you expect a grown up lady not to have a bf b4? Habi who goes to. buy clothes in d market naked? Date is an avenue were two adults get to know each other and if you Carr about her, get to knw her beta and ask questions. The answers to those questions is what will decide if she is worth it is not. Tell her you are disappointed in what she did but she should choose the next venue. Shallom 14 Likes |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Mcslize: 10:37pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
Samakus: If she likes you don't just bother taking her out. Just invite her straight to your grib. She will definitely come. Once a girl likes you, it makes things easy. You won't do much. 14 Likes |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by EmmySparky(m): 10:48pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
Op to catch monkey...behave like monkey...atleast compromise before u lick plate...it's just a date...she might have some guys f*cking her there too sha... 1 Like |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by chocboi78(m): 11:35pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
Eh change the venue na,Las Las na u go still fu*k am no b us 4 Likes |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Nobody: 11:54pm On Nov 22, 2020 |
Samakus: Lol Funny I guess she's not alone then,though I'm not that holy than thou type,I really do hate it when men invite me to a hotel,popular restruant or what have you for a date. Strolling or making use of a not too popular place will be much appreciated. In her case, 1) She might be an introvert, (I remember when I went swimming at a popular cool spot then,came out and all I could hear was okpor okpor from those around. Didn't actually know the meaning. More like an embarrassing day of my life). She might just be the shy type and definitely wouldn't want to be seen by familiar eyes or mingle with the crowd. 2)She is a popular aunty there. honestly, she might be well known around that area. Probably trying to not display herself to the other guys she have chopped on a chopping board. 3) She thinks you are after something else entirely. Why invite me to a rowdy place on a first date?? Doesn't make sense 4) She doesn't like the place. Come on,kill the pride and give her that benefit of doubt. Not everyone has the same taste or choice as you. It's your money fine,actually makes me think you might be way too controlling and proud. All ain't the same, try to see others from their own point of view. I personally, won't mind taken a glass of water so long you take me to a place I'm overtly comfortable. If you think she's hiding some other things,there's absolutely no harm in asking. You think she's into you. Why not ask her why she's afraid to come to the so called popular bar? An elder who knows what to do,won't go about seeking advice from people that will give him/her same opinion. 20 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by TJaguar(m): 12:51am On Nov 23, 2020 |
No cast her for that area. She's most likely running things in that area 1 Like |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Samakus(m): 5:36am On Nov 23, 2020 |
StacyO: The bolded though. Got me kikikiki Whatever that means Anyways, fair points. Worth considering. Way too controlling and proud? I don't think I am. Apologies if I sounded like that but my insistence and suspicion heightened when her excuses stopped adding up. More like, it became clear she's running away from something. 1 Like |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Samakus(m): 5:38am On Nov 23, 2020 |
Mcslize: This doesn't work for every girl especially ones you don't just only want to 'chop and run' |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Samakus(m): 5:41am On Nov 23, 2020 |
EmmySparky: What if op doesn't just want to lick plate? What if there was a genuine interest in her? |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Samakus(m): 5:43am On Nov 23, 2020 |
gunners160: Fair points. Of course I wasn't expecting a boyfriendless girl. Her relationship status matters not to me. I was expecting a little sincerity by the way. We spoke at length about it and the initial excuses turned to lies. So what sayest though? 1 Like |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by femi4: 6:37am On Nov 23, 2020 |
Samakus:Her ex or bf lives around that area. You don't understand her parables |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by gunners160(m): 8:21am On Nov 23, 2020 |
Samakus:She likes you but scared of ur reaction. Its normal to feel insecure and hide certain things because not all men are matured. Some men blow out of proportion. For now, avoid the date so u won't waste money on what you are not sure of. visit her at her place or she visits u at ur place. Joke about the disappointment in d date and how you wish to date her but scared she might not come out plain with you . Attack her conscience..... That all. I am also planned a date with a Lady, the first time I invited her, she was acting funny. I Snubbed the date idea and start talking on something else, now she is d one begging for the date but I am also using the opportunity to set my own rules. She likes you do be the one to set the rule.. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by gunners160(m): 8:22am On Nov 23, 2020 |
[quote author=gunners160 post=96342263] She likes you but scared of ur reaction. Its normal to feel insecure and hide certain things because not all men are matured. Some men blow out of proportion. For now, avoid the date so u won't waste money |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by EmmySparky(m): 2:37pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Samakus:He still has to be ca and observant and not just jump into conclusion |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Samakus(m): 5:21pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
gunners160: That's experience talking. Thank you bro |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by money121(m): 10:10pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Ok |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by pozehnani(f): 10:12pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Huh? Why would you suggest the venue and expect her to show up? In this time and age of increasing rituals and kiddnaping? She's smart for turning you down. On a norms, it is the girl that suggest the venue on the your first meeting because its much safer that way. 1 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by vanditijjani: 10:18pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Samakus: OP u can't kii yourself.. U finished your 2plate in peace. Maybe she's home yawning. But my opinion is u could have seek asked for her place of choice since its a first date and no hidden motive. |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by CzarChris(m): 10:18pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Cutehector:Guy, you literally took the words out of my mouth. OP, use your head. 2 Likes |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by ume1000: 10:18pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
BestAccessories:if foolishness could be measured you would be used as its SI unit 4 Likes |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by taibod: 10:19pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Cutehector: chai you be confirm guy man biko comma train me � |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by pozehnani(f): 10:19pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Cutehector: Keep quiet.! Cast kor, crew ni... Someone is trying to be careful and all you could say is this??. How can you possibly tell? What of the OP that suggested the place? Is he not a regular there? You guys tend to think you're smart. I Like how she stood the OP up. 3 Likes |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by FuckThaMod: 10:19pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Go and make money |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Ebuscoee(m): 10:20pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Meanwhile
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Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by wengerboy: 10:22pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Preshmane:Will she also pay the bills? Oga no allow girls use u drink garri. 4 Likes |
Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Jaelxchloe(f): 10:23pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
I echo what most people have said. BTW I am new so first post |
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