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Get In Here If Your Girlfriend Makes Unnecessary Demands From You by odinson1(m): 8:41am On Dec 10, 2020
Any lady or woman on earth who frequently demands for money or material things from you does not have any atom of love for you and the worst part is that she collects these things from you and still does not even pretend to love you at least for the things you are doing for her .



The right word to describe how she feels about you is "disgust" You disgust her and believe me , you are her side dude and not the main G.



She might even be giving her main guy all the money you've sending to her while still petting and begging him to be affectionate towards her .





Any woman that loves you will do anything to make you happy whether there is money or not and as a matter of fact , she will even be the one to cook food and bring for you , wash your clothes and possibly come through for you in financial needs .



Even when you are rich , a woman that loves you wouldn't want you to spend on her unnecessarily , she would suggest investments or reasonable things that would add value to your life that you could do with such money .





Stop buying love with money ! She is taking you for a fool . Man up and the right one will come along . Save up that money you are spending stupidly cuz she will still leave you for someone else . You have a future to build or at least remember your mother and siblings than wasting money .

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Re: Get In Here If Your Girlfriend Makes Unnecessary Demands From You by Kingsuave(m): 8:43am On Dec 10, 2020
So i had this roommate Issac during 100l session, he was dating this girl that stays in the same lodge with us.
This same girl was engaged to a guy where she hails from,

omor unto Fuckboys things na this my guy kpansh that girl on a steady throughout 100l, hunger self no near where we dey sakeoff that maga the update the biissh on a daily with enough currency grin

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Re: Get In Here If Your Girlfriend Makes Unnecessary Demands From You by Godada(m): 8:46am On Dec 10, 2020
sad
Re: Get In Here If Your Girlfriend Makes Unnecessary Demands From You by lkillbrokehoes: 8:56am On Dec 10, 2020
My woman is independent and have never asked me for nada, that is true love. you guys should stop dating broke girls
Re: Get In Here If Your Girlfriend Makes Unnecessary Demands From You by Nobody: 8:59am On Dec 10, 2020
soro soke
Re: Get In Here If Your Girlfriend Makes Unnecessary Demands From You by Kondomatic(m): 9:22am On Dec 10, 2020
lkillbrokehoes:
My woman is independent and have never asked me for nada, that is true love.
you guys should stop dating broke girls
Your partner, even if s/he is 1000% independent will once in a while need your assistance financially.


And you will need their financial assistance someday, it's all part of dating.



They may not demand unnecessarily like broke girls do but they will need you and you will need them so saying that you are in true love because she has never asked for money is being delusional.


Delusions are comforting Y'know.



And hey, love is love.


Nothing like fake love and true love.


If it's not love then it's something else.
Re: Get In Here If Your Girlfriend Makes Unnecessary Demands From You by lkillbrokehoes: 9:33am On Dec 10, 2020
Kondomatic:
Your partner, even if s/he is 1000% independent will once in a while need your assistance financially.


And you will need their financial assistance someday, it's all part of dating.



They may not demand unnecessarily like broke girls do but they will need you and you will need them so saying that you are in true love because she has never asked for money is being delusional.


Delusions are comforting Y'know.



And hey, love is love.


Nothing like fake love and true love.


If it's not love then it's something else.
I don't believe you, there's both real and fake love, any woman who doesn't ask you of money frequently truly love you because she's not after your money but because she loves you unconditionally, my woman never asked me for anything since we met, I only buy her gifts anytime I feel like and she does the same too, we both buy foods at home, pay our kid school fees and other necessary stuffs, she have never for once asked me to pay; we both contribute, that's how a relationship should be not the other way
Re: Get In Here If Your Girlfriend Makes Unnecessary Demands From You by Nanaborga(m): 9:34am On Dec 10, 2020
It’s difficult not to spend on a lady , we must spend but na with sense , I treat all my relationships like friends with benefits , if I observe she’s for the money then I will dagga and enjoy the kpekus more than I will spend , if she request for urgent 10k , then I go dagga more than three rounds before I give her , that’s the only way not to satisfy my conscience not that I’m stingy
Re: Get In Here If Your Girlfriend Makes Unnecessary Demands From You by Nazgul: 9:40am On Dec 10, 2020
Mr Op the problem isn't about giving to the girl. It's about her reciprocating. That's what love is all about.

I can't be spending my money on you knowing fully well that you've got nothing to offer me if I run into financial scarcity.

If I have a girl that can easily commit her resources to our relationship, then meeting some of her financial demands wouldn't be wrong.
Re: Get In Here If Your Girlfriend Makes Unnecessary Demands From You by Kondomatic(m): 9:43am On Dec 10, 2020
lkillbrokehoes:
I don't believe you, there's both real and fake love, any woman who doesn't ask you of money frequently truly love you because she's not after your money but because she loves you unconditionally , my woman never asked me for anything since we met, I only buy her gifts anytime I feel like and she does the same too, we both buy foods at home, pay our kid school fees and other necessary stuffs, she have never for once asked me to pay; we both contribute, that's how a relationship should be not the other way
Nobody loves unconditionally.
Re: Get In Here If Your Girlfriend Makes Unnecessary Demands From You by Mandela27: 9:45am On Dec 10, 2020
Nanaborga:
It’s difficult not to spend on a lady , we must spend but na with sense , I treat all my relationships like friends with benefits , if I observe she’s for the money then I will dagga and enjoy the kpekus more than I will spend , if she request for urgent 10k , then I go dagga more than three rounds before I give her , that’s the only way not to satisfy my conscience not that I’m stingy
If u send me 10k once I go loyal for u
Re: Get In Here If Your Girlfriend Makes Unnecessary Demands From You by paulolee(m): 9:45am On Dec 10, 2020
met her during lockdown BT shes now my ex since july immediately she seriously asked me to keep 70k for her birthday bash dis dec 28th..
d crazy tin is dt she keeps sending me daily love text message, sweet care n sure dope sex whenever i ask since d beginning of this month..
I jus pray dt 28th neva comes bcoz I kno am fuckin single n its too painful dt am approaching d deadline of my free kpekus n dt her sweet care...
Re: Get In Here If Your Girlfriend Makes Unnecessary Demands From You by lkillbrokehoes: 9:46am On Dec 10, 2020
Kondomatic:
Nobody loves unconditionally.
Perhaps, you have never been in love before
Re: Get In Here If Your Girlfriend Makes Unnecessary Demands From You by AfroKnight: 9:55am On Dec 10, 2020
lkillbrokehoes:
My woman is independent and have never asked me for nada, that is true love.
you guys should stop dating broke girls

Is she Nigerian? Does she live in Nigeria?

If yes, it could be for a couple of reasons.
1, You have hit the jackpot and found a truly independent young woman.

2, She’s just not ready to Bill you yet as other guys are taking care of her finances. One day she will decide to choose one of those guys who spend on her and will leave you in a spectacular way.

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Re: Get In Here If Your Girlfriend Makes Unnecessary Demands From You by MrTAnonymous(m): 10:02am On Dec 10, 2020
lkillbrokehoes:
Perhaps, you have never been in love before

I think he is right. There is no unconditional love anywhere, there must be a condition to why I love a person. Even Jesus Christ placed a condition on his love and that is to accept him as his Lord and Saviour.


Incase you don't know na me talk
Re: Get In Here If Your Girlfriend Makes Unnecessary Demands From You by cristy149: 10:05am On Dec 10, 2020
MrTAnonymous:


I think he is right. There is no unconditional love anywhere, there must be a condition to why I love a person. Even Jesus Christ placed a condition on his love and that is to accept him as his Lord and Saviour.


Incase you don't know na me talk
Jesus loves you wether you like him or not

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Re: Get In Here If Your Girlfriend Makes Unnecessary Demands From You by Kondomatic(m): 11:41am On Dec 10, 2020
lkillbrokehoes:
Perhaps, you have never been in love before
Perhaps you don't understand the meaning of unconditional.




Bring women home and sleep with them in the presence of your girlfriend let's see if she will still love you.
Re: Get In Here If Your Girlfriend Makes Unnecessary Demands From You by Kondomatic(m): 11:48am On Dec 10, 2020
cristy149:
Jesus loves you wether you like him or not
If that's the case then nobody is going to hell.


Love comes with a condition, saying you love a person unconditionally implies that you will still love them even if they murder your family.



Loving Jesus comes with a condition.

If you love me, you will keep my commandments



Even God's love which is the ultimate has a condition.



For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal. John 3:16

Nothing is free boss.
Re: Get In Here If Your Girlfriend Makes Unnecessary Demands From You by Theslumflower: 11:59am On Dec 10, 2020
Funny how they want the financial role to be shared 50/50 but never want chores and home management to be shared 50/50 too. You can't eat your cake and have it


Men are natural providers because it boosts their ego and gains them respect while women are natural home/care givers.


There is nothing wrong with your woman helping you out financially but making it her role is just insane and shows how less of a man you are. She can always help out when she can but it is not her job. Even if u guys want to share the burden, 80/20 is fine, 70/30 is fine but 50/50 is just laughable lol

That's if your are willing to change the kids diapers, go to the market, cook, clean, wash the toilet, make food for the kids and do their laundry 50/50 too. Then it's all settled

If not, stop wailing. The number of cry babies we have as men these days is just annoying.

Women are the ones chilling these days lol. How many threads do women open on Nairaland about men but check the number if threads they open about women cheesy

If you hate Nigerian women, foreign women are waiting for you oo cheesy cheesy

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Re: Get In Here If Your Girlfriend Makes Unnecessary Demands From You by cristy149: 1:02pm On Dec 10, 2020
Kondomatic:
If that's the case then nobody is going to hell.


Love comes with a condition, saying you love a person unconditionally implies that you will still love them even if they murder your family.



Loving Jesus comes with a condition.

If you love me, you will keep my commandments



Even God's love which is the ultimate has a condition.



For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal. John 3:16

Nothing is free boss.
Dude do you know the wages of SIN is DEATH, his eternal love for us is what made him sacrifice him so his blood could be used to wipe us clean. The only reason is because he isn't forcing us to accept that Jesus. He gave us a choice, and if you look at it, you only give people you love a choice after they offend you, else it will be instant punishment.
Re: Get In Here If Your Girlfriend Makes Unnecessary Demands From You by walter11590: 2:05pm On Dec 10, 2020
: Nobody loves unconditionally. Perhaps, you have never been in love before
Re: Get In Here If Your Girlfriend Makes Unnecessary Demands From You by odinson1(m): 3:07pm On Dec 10, 2020
cristy149:
Dude do you know the wages of SIN is DEATH, his eternal love for us is what made him sacrifice him so his blood could be used to wipe us clean. The only reason is because he isn't forcing us to accept that Jesus. He gave us a choice, and if you look at it, you only give people you love a choice after they offend you, else it will be instant punishment.

I dont think you know what the word "unconditional" means

Stop trying To bring Religious sentiments into this please,use Logic when Logic is Needed
Re: Get In Here If Your Girlfriend Makes Unnecessary Demands From You by thebosstrevor1: 3:22pm On Dec 10, 2020
lkillbrokehoes:
My woman is independent and have never asked me for nada, that is true love.
you guys should stop dating broke girls

So because she didn't ask you for money..it means true love.

Why are some guys living in delusions...why? God why?
Re: Get In Here If Your Girlfriend Makes Unnecessary Demands From You by cristy149: 3:54pm On Dec 10, 2020
odinson1:


I dont think you know what the word "unconditional" means

Stop trying To bring Religious sentiments into this please,use Logic when Logic is Needed
Lol... keep on using your logic

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