sule sule:

hell to the yeah, that is just the saddest thing ever

Goldieluks:

i don't think its a good idea,
what happened to the man been a man and a woman a woman,huh??

what happened to norms and values??
gone with the wind of change?

Goldieluks:





Normality or not,norms and values should not be thrown into the bin,
just because one has mix up with these controversial western culture and life style.

where i come from in Africa,it is the man who does the proposing not the other way round,call my
idea ''archaic'' if you want.that is the African culture and it remains the best still.

A man is meant to play his role and not the woman playing the role of a man,if he doesn't remember
to propose during the relationship,he should be reminded of his duty. SHIKENA!

BABE!:

@OP There's nothing bad in a woman proposing to a man! The problem is that we are stuck! It doesn't say anywhere in a religious book or any constitution that it's wrong, so therefore it's right. It just depends on what you believe in.

HaveSense1:

There's nothing wrong with a woman proposing to a man. We're all human beings in this world, and no one is above the other. Certain cultures and societies may think ill of it, but in my opinion there is nothing wrong at all about that practice.

Love is love, and it doesn't matter who pops the question first.

Goldieluks:





I am not trying to change anyone's idea or beliefs,
i am only saying that it is not RIGHT,stick to your point of view.
i am not to argue with anyone about their believes or way of putting their ideas through,
i wonder what would happen in the long run,when things starts going sour,the man would go''you proposed to me in the first place,
i didn't'' and in such cases,what would the woman do?? cry and regret ,i guess.where lies her dignity,by then??
sometimes,one have to think through some things before blotting it out,cause when stuffs starts happening,my dear,everyone would carry their cross
and some cross are heavier than others,truss me.


please you don't have to keep quoting me,stick to your ideas and i'll stick to mine,thank you.

Phate07:



I believe its only hard-core feminists that will feel comfortable in been the one to propose to their man. And as a confident African man, i wont accept such a proposal. Only wimps do.

Phate07:



Then i feel sorry for her man. He's leaving the bleeping decisions to the woman. And thats not always good in a relationship.

Phate07:



Its just that this is a 'man's world', and there are some things that are expected of a man. And thats one of them. Just a matter of 'what-is' and 'what-is-not'. Simple.

Phate07:



Sure. The same way i believe 'white is white' and 'black is black'.

Phate07:



Lol, am not 'straight-laced' if thats what you think. Though i have strong principles on some issues, i have been known to waver.

Make me.

Phate07:



Ok. Pele.