tyup:
Without going into much stories. My sis in the UK bout last month once shared a link to me bout the Hospital she works in had Vancancies for some foreign qualified Doctors or Nurse either practicing or internship worker. I had these besties one happened to be my Ex but we still vibe real good whilst the other happened to be a good friend of mine at school.

To cut the story short, after reading of how 9ja girls are really not appreciative of favors and reading of stories of how guys go the long length to help either their GF n friends and they later get to change in a shocking manner and especially those guys that would be like after all I've done for her she did this bla bla. I later got to finalise these girls are all the same no matter how close you think you're to them or what doubt you have bout them. Another problem was I had no Nursing Guy friend I really wanted to share the link with a guy but I checked thr I had no Gee who did or studied Nursing, the other MBBs friends I have are still in school/ serving. Well that was how I let the link slide and my sister probably found other people to fill in IDK sha

But do y'all think I wasn't at all fair to both girls?? Insults of any kind are welcomed sha

tyup:
Without going into much stories. My sis in the UK bout last month or so once shared a link to me bout the Hospital she works in had Vancancies for some foreign qualified Doctors or Nurse either practicing or internship worker. I had these besties one happened to be my Ex but we still vibe real good whilst the other happened to be a good friend of mine at school.

To cut the story short, after reading of how 9ja girls are really not appreciative of favors and reading of stories of how guys go the long length to help either their GF n friends and they later get to change in a shocking manner and especially those guys that would be like after all I've done for her she did this bla bla. I later got to finalise these girls are all the same no matter how close you think you're to them or what doubt you have bout them. Another problem was I had no Nursing Guy friend I really wanted to share the link with a guy but I checked thr I had no Gee who did or studied Nursing, the other MBBs friends I have are still in school/ serving. Well that was how I let the link slide and my sister probably found other people to fill in IDK sha
But do y'all think I wasn't at all fair to both girls?? Insults of any kind are welcomed sha

faithugo64:
How would you feel if someone somewhere refuses to help you because of what he/she thinks of your gender?
That was immaturity

UndauntedYOCA:
I think the best way to help is helping with no expectation of anything in return.

StacyO:

Op if this is true,expect same thing from another.
Someone else will deprive you of your shine in due time.

light099:


I think you only averted getting used and visciously spitted on after.

If any of them was really worth it, I trust your natural instinct and conscience to never allow you but since you were able not to allow it slip with no guilt, that's an indication you averted what would have been a terrible mistake.

StacyO:
When you let tricks get to you.


Lol
Op if this is true,expect same thing from another.
Someone else will deprive you of your shine in due time.

light099:

I think you only averted getting used and visciously spitted on after.
If any of them was really worth it, I trust your natural instinct and conscience to never allow you but since you were able not to allow it slip with no guilt, that's an indication you averted what would have been a terrible mistake.


It was not because of what he thought of their gender but what he thought of their gestures.
If he had another another sister or another female friend who was kind and helpful to him, he would have recommended her without hesitation.


Yeah, the Holy Bible did say something about that, it also told us to help our enemies but it never instructed us to give an enemy or potential enemy an edge over ourselves. That is why you're expected to tread with caution and allow wisdom which is the principal thing, to rule your heart when taking vital decisions.


Perhaps it doesn't exactly work that way.
Karma judges the intention, not the action. So he might be rewarded positively for this act, instead of being deprived.

Then from another perspective, don't you think like you've said, these ladies he deprived are getting rewarded for all their previous bad behaviours? So if tyup was being hired by Karma to pay back the ladies for their past bad behaviours; in due time Karma would reward him bountifully for a job well done.

StacyO:
When you let tricks get to you.


Lol
Op if this is true,expect same thing from another.
Someone else will deprive you of your shine in due time.

faithugo64:
How would you feel if someone somewhere refuses to help you because of what he/she thinks of your gender?

That was immaturity

TarOrfeeek:
There is nothing wrong with what you did.


Its the same way women use their tOtO.

They withhold it from low value men, while giving it freely to high value men.


You withheld your resource from low value people, while seeking to give it to higher value people.

Even God in heaven, our RP father, that decided that women must squat to piss - will be proud of you.


TRP

tyup:
Without going into much stories. My sis in the UK bout last month or so once shared a link to me bout the Hospital she works in had Vancancies for some foreign qualified Doctors or Nurse either practicing or internship worker. I had these besties one happened to be my Ex but we still vibe real good whilst the other happened to be a good friend of mine at school.

To cut the story short, after reading of how 9ja girls are really not appreciative of favors and reading of stories of how guys go the long length to help either their GF n friends and they later get to change in a shocking manner and especially those guys that would be like after all I've done for her she did this bla bla. I later got to finalise these girls are all the same no matter how close you think you're to them or what doubt you have bout them. Another problem was I had no Nursing Male friends, I really wanted to share the link with a guy but I checked thr I had no Gee who did or studied Nursing, the other MBBs friends I have are still in school/ serving. Well that was how I let the link slide and my sister probably found other people to fill in IDK sha

But do y'all think I wasn't at all fair to both girls?? Insults of any kind are welcomed sha

BigJoe19:
He has a reason for not helping, so what's immature in that?

Ablemed:


Nna ehn ur not at all wrong. me sef would have done same. those genders ain't worth any favor of any kind bruh

Sixfeetbelle:


But are you helping them because you expect them to be indebted to you or what? That's the real question here.