tyup:
Without going into much stories. My sis in the UK bout last month or so once shared a link to me bout the Hospital she works in had Vancancies for some foreign qualified Doctors or Nurse either practicing or internship worker. I had these besties one happened to be my Ex but we still vibe real good whilst the other happened to be a good friend of mine at school.

To cut the story short, after reading of how 9ja girls are really not appreciative of favors and reading of stories of how guys go the long length to help either their GF n friends and they later get to change in a shocking manner and especially those guys that would be like after all I've done for her she did this bla bla. I later got to finalise these girls are all the same no matter how close you think you're to them or what doubt you have bout them. Another problem was I had no Nursing Male friends, I really wanted to share the link with a guy but I checked thr I had no Gee who did or studied Nursing, the other MBBs friends I have are still in school/ serving. Well that was how I let the link slide and my sister probably found other people to fill in IDK sha

But do y'all think I wasn't at all fair to both girls?? Insults of any kind are welcomed sha

Ginaz:


What you did is extremely wicked and unchristian. God shines his light upon the wicked and the good. He shines his light upon the rich and the poor and gives them food to feed from the soil.
What if those girls were your sisters ? You judged them based on theories. May God have mercy on your soul .

Janet200:
You have a bad spirit you need to pray against. Spirit of jealousy. You have done the calculations of how successful they will be but you never had the thought of them helping you in future. You rise by lifting others up.

tyup:
Without going into much stories. My sis in the UK bout last month or so once shared a link to me bout the Hospital she works in had Vancancies for some foreign qualified Doctors or Nurse either practicing or internship worker. I had these besties one happened to be my Ex but we still vibe real good whilst the other happened to be a good friend of mine at school.

To cut the story short, after reading of how 9ja girls are really not appreciative of favors and reading of stories of how guys go the long length to help either their GF n friends and they later get to change in a shocking manner and especially those guys that would be like after all I've done for her she did this bla bla. I later got to finalise these girls are all the same no matter how close you think you're to them or what doubt you have bout them. Another problem was I had no Nursing Male friends, I really wanted to share the link with a guy but I checked thr I had no Gee who did or studied Nursing, the other MBBs friends I have are still in school/ serving. Well that was how I let the link slide and my sister probably found other people to fill in IDK sha

But do y'all think I wasn't at all fair to both girls?? Insults of any kind are welcomed sha

lanreHeda:
why must it be men always raising women up na ? haba

hashtagged:
Well bro it might seem like a bad decision to most people but it wasn't, these ladies won't reason you if they had such slots and even if you had helped them, that's it they won't remember you 100%.

My advice better look for a family member to link there like cousin, niece or nephew or your male padi cause these are the only people who will remember you

tyup:
Without going into much stories. My sis in the UK bout last month or so once shared a link to me bout the Hospital she works in had Vancancies for some foreign qualified Doctors or Nurse either practicing or internship worker. I had these besties one happened to be my Ex but we still vibe real good whilst the other happened to be a good friend of mine at school.

To cut the story short, after reading of how 9ja girls are really not appreciative of favors and reading of stories of how guys go the long length to help either their GF n friends and they later get to change in a shocking manner and especially those guys that would be like after all I've done for her she did this bla bla. I later got to finalise these girls are all the same no matter how close you think you're to them or what doubt you have bout them. Another problem was I had no Nursing Male friends, I really wanted to share the link with a guy but I checked thr I had no Gee who did or studied Nursing, the other MBBs friends I have are still in school/ serving. Well that was how I let the link slide and my sister probably found other people to fill in IDK sha

But do y'all think I wasn't at all fair to both girls?? Insults of any kind are welcomed sha

Janet200:


It’s not about gender, in his case he has no male friend that was suitable for the position. It’s jealousy ‘ make I come help them, make them better pass me’

mrblessed:
You are guilt-stricken because you are a good man, which is something good and commendable. But if it were these ladies who were in a position to render assistance to you, would they assist you? Your guess is good as mine. No lady assists a man, any man, without doing profound calcalation on what such assistance would fetch her. It is my view that you know these ladies very well, and can vouch they are not eligible to be assisted by you. You haven't done any wrong.

Heathrow44:
Tyup_ pls my brother has a nursing degree frm unizik & needs the link(he's always wanted t work in uk) call 08162842870

humilitypays:
instead of condemning you, people should reflect over this scenario. Especially ladies, this should be a wake up call to Nigerian ladies to change their ways.


Many guys are doing what this op did without telling anybody, and nobody can change their mindset towards ladies.


Ladies sit up! Some of you have ruined the chances of other ladies.


Ladies reflect on this, ask yourself why you as a lady is wicked and selfish to men in your life Ask yourself why you never add any meaningful value to the lives of your boyfriend, husband and male friends


As you reflect on this, make a resolve to be a good lady that makes positive impact in the life of anybody you come across.


Condemning the op won't stop plenty other men out there from doing same.

mrblessed:
You are guilt-stricken because you are a good man, which is something good and commendable. But if it were these ladies who were in a position to render assistance to you, would they assist you? Your guess is good as mine. No lady assists a man, any man, without doing profound calcalation on what such assistance would fetch her. It is my view that you know these ladies very well, and can vouch they are not eligible to be assisted by you. You haven't done any wrong.

MummyD2020:


Success is not monopolistic. Females have opportunities too. In some cases, more than their Male counterparts. Go figure

light099:

I think you only averted getting used and visciously spitted on after.
If any of them was really worth it, I trust your natural instinct and conscience to never allow you but since you were able not to allow it slip with no guilt, that's an indication you averted what would have been a terrible mistake.


It was not because of what he thought of their gender but what he thought of their gestures.
If he had another another sister or another female friend who was kind and helpful to him, he would have recommended her without hesitation.


Yeah, the Holy Bible did say something about that, it also told us to help our enemies but it never instructed us to give an enemy or potential enemy an edge over ourselves. That is why you're expected to tread with caution and allow wisdom which is the principal thing, to rule your heart when taking vital decisions.


Perhaps it doesn't exactly work that way.
Karma judges the intention, not the action. So he might be rewarded positively for this act, instead of being deprived.

Then from another perspective, don't you think like you've said, these ladies he deprived are getting rewarded for all their previous bad behaviours? So if tyup was being hired by Karma to pay back the ladies for their past bad behaviours; in due time Karma would reward him bountifully for a job well done.

maiquel:


I'm not pained... if you don't have anything to say just GTFO!
Are you him? Why quote me telling me about rights?
You're also a male goat.
And I'm not a she FYI.

mrblessed:
You are guilt-stricken because you are a good man, which is something good and commendable. But if it were these ladies who were in a position to render assistance to you, would they assist you? Your guess is good as mine. No lady assists a man, any man, without doing profound calcalation on what such assistance would fetch her. It is my view that you know these ladies very well, and can vouch they are not eligible to be assisted by you. You haven't done any wrong.

Heathrow44:
Tyup_ pls my brother has a nursing degree frm unizik & needs the link(he's always wanted t work in uk) call 08162842870

Kapilta:
Humans and selfishness. If you can't share with the one you called EX for whatever reason, how about d one u call friend?

tyup:
Without going into much stories. My sis in the UK bout last month or so once shared a link to me bout the Hospital she works in had Vancancies for some foreign qualified Doctors or Nurse either practicing or internship worker. I had these besties one happened to be my Ex but we still vibe real good whilst the other happened to be a good friend of mine at school.

To cut the story short, after reading of how 9ja girls are really not appreciative of favors and reading of stories of how guys go the long length to help either their GF n friends and they later get to change in a shocking manner and especially those guys that would be like after all I've done for her she did this bla bla. I later got to finalise these girls are all the same no matter how close you think you're to them or what doubt you have bout them. Another problem was I had no Nursing Male friends, I really wanted to share the link with a guy but I checked thr I had no Gee who did or studied Nursing, the other MBBs friends I have are still in school/ serving. Well that was how I let the link slide and my sister probably found other people to fill in IDK sha

But do y'all think I wasn't at all fair to both girls?? Insults of any kind are welcomed sha

humilitypays:
my dear, if men decide to shut the door of opportunities and success, women will suffer, you don't need to argue this. The opportunities women have were given to them by men out of emotional pity or feelings or empathy or sexual relationship. Should those stop, women will suffer immensely which I don't pray for cos I love fine girls with sweet bombom


All we are saying is you ladies should adjust and be kind and fair to guys around you, that's all hun

MummyD2020:


See how people are quick to conclude. What makes u feel his cousin is even worth it? Becos it's a cousin? Male padi dont stab their fellow buddies at d back abi? Go figure..

The guy was simply playing God.

RedPanthar:
Yes. It's not our job to domineer or dominate or determine people's destinies. That's not what redpill is about. Redpill is emotional control and mastery not woman-hating


If you withold what you can do, you're automatically playing God... And practising witchraft.


Let them be. Let them fly. Even if you'll get nothing in return. Even if there are no advantages per se you wish to exact. You just never may know what would come out of it down the line.


I've been of assistance to many male friends who are abroad and more successful, I don't feel entitled to their success so I don't feel bad in anyway.

GMBuhari:
emotional comment

seanwilliam:
make we hear word jare .. ye ye ye..


Ok God wey create people wey Dey sleep under bridges, or mad people wey Dey room about or people with critical medication conditions , or extremely poor people , will you now say God is wicked ?


I’ve noted something about naija girls, y’all sabi play victim cards when the game is not in your favor.. and to the bolded no one cares about that .. and I tbh I don’t believe that atall ..

fati2001: