khingTony:
She was not raped, the guy did not pay her the agreed amount, then, feeling cheated, she decided to claim she was "raped"



Stop defending an Olosho

khingTony:
She was not raped, the guy did not pay her the agreed amount, then, feeling cheated, she decided to claim she was "raped"



Stop defending an Olosho

demmymoney:
TRULY THE PUSSY IS A WOMAN'S POWER

AS LONG AS U COLLECT MONEY PLEASE DONT COME AND VISIT SAYING BLAH BLAH RAPED U

HE RAPED U AND U STILL COLLECT HIM MONEY,WHICH KIND OF MONKEY WORK BABOON CHOP B THAT

MOST RAPE ALLEGATIONS ESPECIALLY BETWEEN TWO ADULTS ARE ALWAYS FALSE

Camelot65:
But I learnt they agreed to have paid sex na

So, she had to wait till he couldn't pay up to make a rape allegation against him?

Na una sabi sha.

Sixfeetbelle:


But if she didn't collect the money, nko?

Shortyy:
You know what? I've given up on this topic.

If only women can respect themselves, set high standards for themselves, tell me how they'll be treated like trash, and taken advantage of?

When you know your worth and your standards, you'll not be taken for granted and mistreated.

MJBOLT:

you even get time to read all that nonsense

Sixfeetbelle:


You can still be taken advantage of, even on top knowing all your worth. But that is not my question.

Sixfeetbelle:


You'll call it nonsense cause you're like the kind of men that perpetuate these crimes. As far as you are concerned, once a lady is alone with you in any private setting, you have right over her body and any protest by her is met with brute force. That, my friend, is rape. It doesn't matter who the woman is.

demmymoney:


Then she should be taken seriously

MJBOLT:

when a hoe doesnt get paid for sex,she comes online to claim rape,i'm glad that man had multiple evidence to prove his innocence.your rant doesnt suprise me,women are hoes so defending hoes is normal for you.

Sixfeetbelle:


But Nigerians don't think like that and I want to find out why.

Sixfeetbelle:


Forget that story and focus on my question.

Why is her claim being dismissed?
Is it because she's a prostitute?
Can a prostitute not be raped?
Does the fact that she willingly went into the room with him mean he couldn't have raped her?

tobechi74:
This has to do with the way the society feel entitled to a woman body.
Women who have been raised religiously have been taught in some way by socializing influences, that they do not exist for themselves. They are to keep themselves holy and covered up, and to wait patiently in their fathers’ houses until a man approaches said fathers for marriage. It is in all the biblical stories and anecdotes describing model women of faith and religious principles.

This is problematic because not only would the woman lack individuality, there are no boundaries of consent. There would be nothing that says that she can say no to her husband. In Nigeria currently the law does not recognize marital rape as rape. So even when it feels like rape, when she knows that it is rape, when there is physical evidence of rape, she says nothing because she has been conditioned to think that the man has only taken what was his in the first place.  

Good girl/ Bad Girl Binary

Purity culture divides women into two groups ; the good girls and the bad girls and pray to God you don’t fall into the latter group. When a girl who is seen as a bad girl is abused sexually or physically, people see it as a punishment for her behaviour

https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/08/the-monster-we-feed/

RisenPhoenix1:
Yes she can. But she cannot prove it conclusively. And any evidence becomes an "I said, you said" situation. So it's better she doesn't do so.

And knowing that it is so easy to get drugged and raped once a woman meets a man in a hotel or his home, why is it so difficult for women to stop meeting men in hotels or at home? That alone implies complicit behaviour, if not consent. Unless the woman has a very good alternative reason to be in that hotel, almost all rape accusations are in fact, regret sex.

The reason why the dynamics are changing is because modern women somehow feel entitled to a skewed justice system. The destruction of a man's life due to a false rape accusation is not conceived to be as important as the emotional distress of a woman who is raped. This is wrong and should stop. The lives of innocent men must not be sacrificed at the altar of female aspirations for revenge and superiority.

MJBOLT:

your question is baseless because the lady was never raped and i'm sure we all know what rape is and anybody can be raped.

demmymoney:


Because most of the times is false allegations and the female collects money

Sixfeetbelle:


How can you be sure she wasn't raped? Are you dismissing her claims because she's a prostitute?

Sixfeetbelle:


So the majority cancels the minority then?

For fear of you being tagged falsely of accusing someone of rape charges, keep quiet and don't say anything?

MJBOLT:
https://www.nairaland.com/6321116/leaked-chat-shows-singer-queency

demmymoney:


Yes especially between two responsible adults

It's DEMOCRACY MY DEAR

MAJORITY CARRIES THE WIN

this girl sef
I already proved my point,find the people that said such and ask them.

Sixfeetbelle:


I don't need the link to make my point so please stop using it to reply me. My post is based on a comment which I clearly stated at the beginning of my post.

Before this part of the story surfaced, you people insisted it wasn't true and that she wasn't raped. I want to know the reason why? Is it because she's a prostitute?