onyxo76:
i got married 11 years ago, a few months to my wedding, i and a female co worker had some fun together since our spouses to be were not in town and we helped ourselves to prevent loneliness.
the female co worker also got married about a year after i did, and has 2 kids presently.
we have not seen each other since when i got married and had to relocate to another state.
she got my phone number from a friend some 4 years and we chat from time to time and sometimes request for some financial assistance from me to meet some needs, i send her some amount if i can but not everytime.
recently she has been asking that i pay her a visit in her city, that she would love to see me again etc.i have turned down her request severally but she keeps saying that i don't want to see her and so on.
i told her that ill try and pay a visit early next year and she's been saying i will stay the night to which i declined as i have no excuse to tell my spouse that i will be away from home for the night.
I'm considering cutting her off completely but I'm thinking of how to go about it, but at the same time i feel it will be quite harsh as she's quite a nice person, I'm simply not comfortable with her eagerness to see me, or is she having a troubled marriage ?

onyxo76:
i got married 11 years ago, a few months to my wedding, i and a female co worker had some fun together since our spouses to be were not in town and we helped ourselves to prevent loneliness.
the female co worker also got married about a year after i did, and has 2 kids presently.
we have not seen each other since when i got married and had to relocate to another state.
she got my phone number from a friend some 4 years and we chat from time to time and sometimes request for some financial assistance from me to meet some needs, i send her some amount if i can but not everytime.
recently she has been asking that i pay her a visit in her city, that she would love to see me again etc.i have turned down her request severally but she keeps saying that i don't want to see her and so on.
i told her that ill try and pay a visit early next year and she's been saying i will stay the night to which i declined as i have no excuse to tell my spouse that i will be away from home for the night.
I'm considering cutting her off completely but I'm thinking of how to go about it, but at the same time i feel it will be quite harsh as she's quite a nice person, I'm simply not comfortable with her eagerness to see me, or is she having a troubled marriage ?

onyxo76:
i got married 11 years ago, a few months to my wedding, i and a female co worker had some fun together since our spouses to be were not in town and we helped ourselves to prevent loneliness.
the female co worker also got married about a year after i did, and has 2 kids presently.
we have not seen each other since when i got married and had to relocate to another state.
she got my phone number from a friend some 4 years and we chat from time to time and sometimes request for some financial assistance from me to meet some needs, i send her some amount if i can but not everytime.
recently she has been asking that i pay her a visit in her city, that she would love to see me again etc.i have turned down her request severally but she keeps saying that i don't want to see her and so on.
i told her that ill try and pay a visit early next year and she's been saying i will stay the night to which i declined as i have no excuse to tell my spouse that i will be away from home for the night.
I'm considering cutting her off completely but I'm thinking of how to go about it, but at the same time i feel it will be quite harsh as she's quite a nice person, I'm simply not comfortable with her eagerness to see me, or is she having a troubled marriage ?

blackpanthar:


Bro stop deceiving ya sef.... you know you will have sex with her when you go... YOU ARE JUST TRYING TO GET CONFIRMATION or ASSURANCE.... see.... change your number and save your marriage else.... what may happen to you, you would not be able to come here and share it when consequences of such cheap infidelity backfires.


DON'T LET YOUR ERECTION CONTROL YOUR DIRECTION.

onyxo76:
hmm changing my number is a good idea but too many people and business patners are used to that number already. if i wanted to continue my affairs with her, i would have done so years ago, but I'm simply not that kind of person.

Starz825:

sleeping overnight should be a no no for you....that lady has a plan and you are the only option....
I don't trust ladies...
cut her off completely....I know she is a friend and she is very nice but this are being nice is turning into something else....u will spend the night...do you know what that means...it means let's continue our infidelity from where we stopped.

Bluezy13:
What's the big deal in telling someone that your wife will not be comfortable with you travelling to visit a female friend let alone staying the night

Descortes:
You don't have to cut her off totally. Just reject her proposal of you both spending time together and make sure you both don't ever meet eye to eye

Shortyy:
So what do you want?? A go-ahead order from Nairalanders to go and cheat in peace or what?

onyxo76:
an idea of what she is really up to? she claims that she is happy with her marriage but i think otherwise there is something she is hiding from me...

virginprincess:
Oga what is difficult in telling her that you can't sleep over, is better you don't go at all and if she still insist on you sleeping over i will then advice you to stop calling her and also stop taking her calls, infact blacklist her number so she can stop calling you, so this won't bring problem between you and your wife, nawa, wahala for who get ex.

Shortyy:


Oga leave married woman alone. Smh.

onyxo76:
i got married 11 years ago, a few months to my wedding, i and a female co worker had some fun together since our spouses to be were not in town and we helped ourselves to prevent loneliness.
the female co worker also got married about a year after i did, and has 2 kids presently.
we have not seen each other since when i got married and had to relocate to another state.
she got my phone number from a friend some 4 years and we chat from time to time and sometimes request for some financial assistance from me to meet some needs, i send her some amount if i can but not everytime.
recently she has been asking that i pay her a visit in her city, that she would love to see me again etc.i have turned down her request severally but she keeps saying that i don't want to see her and so on.
i told her that ill try and pay a visit early next year and she's been saying i will stay the night to which i declined as i have no excuse to tell my spouse that i will be away from home for the night.
I'm considering cutting her off completely but I'm thinking of how to go about it, but at the same time i feel it will be quite harsh as she's quite a nice person, I'm simply not comfortable with her eagerness to see me, or is she having a troubled marriage ?

tobechi74:
Next Tim she calls, give the phone to your wife to answer.

Let her discuss the issue with your wife so you and your wife will pay her a visit.

Let's see How she can pull this through

Patented:
If your wife was in your shoes what would u expect her to do?

blackpanthar:


Bro stop deceiving ya sef.... you know you will have sex with her when you go... YOU ARE JUST TRYING TO GET CONFIRMATION or ASSURANCE.... see.... change your number and save your marriage else.... what may happen to you, you would not be able to come here and share it when consequences of such cheap infidelity backfires.


DON'T LET YOUR ERECTION CONTROL YOUR DIRECTION.

Akunatakasi:


guy all this unnecessary comparison is shit