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|UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Where Do Wet Coochies Go? by ubunja(m): 3:57pm On Dec 19, 2020
Where Do Wet Pussies Go?
What women want in a boyfriend or a husband is a Provider. They choose a man for marriage by his ability to supply materially, not by the size of his dick, his appearance or his sexiness. All which means boyfriends and husbands - by nature - are NOT a woman's sexual fantasy, just her financial fantasy.
And so the question becomes: If boyfriends and husbands only supply a woman's financial needs - who supplies her sexual needs? If women date and marry for resources, who do they go to for sexual fulfillment?
Who is their sexual fantasy? Who do women get wet for?
Let's start here:
DOES DICK SIZE MATTER TO WOMEN?
For sex yes. But for a relationship no.
But what needs to be explained is the difference between "sex" and "a relationship".
Yes, for sex, dick size matters to women. 100% totally. But "sex" here DOES NOT mean sexual intercourse. But rather casual sex. Sex without love and commitment.
A woman can have sexual intercourse with a man she loves and also with a man she doesn't love, but casual sex is specifically sex a woman has with men she doesn't love and is not committed to. Men she wants to have fun with. This is the sex for which dick size matters.
Dick size matters if a woman is NOT serious with you.
Because this sex a woman has out of lust. Unfulfilled fantasies. And unsatisfied desires. For her own selfish ends.
LOVE GIVES, LUST IS SELFISH.
When a woman has sex INSIDE of a relationship with a man she loves, that sex is selfless on her part. It's her gift to her man. It's an expression of her love. And proof of her commitment. That sex is for HIM and all about HIM. Just as the entire relationship - sexually - is for HIM and all about HIM.
A relationship starts when a man sees a woman HE desires, who turns HIM on, and he pursues and wins her. So HE is dating his sexual fantasy. It's all about HIM as far as sex is concerned. That's why the frequency of the sex is about HIS appetite. And the sex only happens when HE wants it. When the woman wants it and she initiates, the man is offended. Because all sex in the relationship is supposed to be for HIM. Hence the sex starts and ends with HIS erection. And it's over when HE climaxes. It's never about the woman. Or her needs and her desires. Inside a relationship, when it comes to sex, a woman puts her man first, and herself last. She is selfless and self-sacrificing in this way.
But with casual sex - sex OUTSIDE of a relationship - the tables are turned.
GIRLS JUST WANNA HAVE FUN.
When a woman has casual sex with men she doesn't love, for the first time she puts HERSELF first. Finally the sex is for HER and about HER. She's feeding HER appetite. Ministering to HER lust. And fulfilling HER desires.
For committed relationship sex women have to prove themselves sexually to a man, but for casual sex men have to prove themselves sexually to a woman.
In a relationship a woman makes herself appealing to her man's eye to turn him on. But in casual uncommitted sex the men must make themselves appealing to HER eye and turn HER on.
Hence a woman will get her hair done, fix her makeup and wear lingerie for her boyfriend and husband, but when she goes to cheat, she just takes a shower and she's good to go. And sometimes she doesn't even take that shower. Yet she'll expect the men she cheats with to be clean, sharply dressed and smell good. Because it's not her who must turn the men on, it's the men who must turn her on: Do they make her vagina tingle? Do they make her panties wet? That's the litmus test. Is there sexual attraction?
Boyfriend and Husband make a woman's heart warm and fuzzy but the pussy remains disconnected. It stays cold and dry. Because attraction to boyfriend and husband is only a romantic attraction, not a sexual attraction.
Romantic attraction is not sexual attraction.
Romantic attraction is butterflies in the stomach. Sexual attraction is the wet panties. Or in men, the hard dick. You may love someone and feel butterflies in the stomach, but that someone may not make your dick hard or pussy wet. Because that's only a romantic attraction. Women date and marry for romantic attraction.
On the other hand you may not like someone, or even hate them, but everytime you see them your dick stays hard for ages or your pussy drips for days. That's sexual attraction. Men date and marry for sexual attraction, while women do One Night Stands, Friends with Benefits, No Strings Attached sex, Booty calls, flings, hookups via dating apps etc, for this type of attraction.
If women date and marry for resources, THIS is who they go to for sexual fulfillment. If boyfriends and husbands supply women's financial needs, THIS is where women's sexual needs are supplied: In casual sex and short term encounters.
SHORT TERM MATING VS LONG TERM MATING.
Women deal with men in two ways - Short Term and Long Term.
Anything labelled "Short Term" is exclusively about sex. Or Lust. It is casual, and temporary. Only the top 20% of the male population is here. But women can not marry here because they're not husband material. Although the best babies come from here.
Meanwhile anything labelled "Long Term" is about resources. Or more accurately: about Love. Since the only proof of love a man can give a woman is money, so money and love, to women, end up meaning the same thing.
Long Term mating is serious and permanent. The bottom 80% of the male population is here.
As a rule, Short Term Men get the best sex from women. And they get it free. While official Boyfriends and Husbands get substandard mediocre sex. And they pay for it.
To have a clearer understanding of the difference between short term mating & long term mating; and to understand where women go to for Lust & where they go to for Love: study the two pictures below, and read the captions - See the places the pussy has been that another man will put on a pedestal.
And given a choice women will choose to get pregnant HERE, in this dirty room. Surprisingly, a baby by this broke bum, will be genetically superior to a baby born to a proper husband. EDIT: i will add the two pics in my first comment on the thread.
Women place more value in a baby from a one night stand, or a Friends With Benefits, than a baby from a loving 10 year marriage. You would think that something as permanent as a child must be made inside a permanent long term relationship, the fact is it's only under short term dating that a woman deals with the hottest guys with the best genes. This goes back to the fact that women marry for money not because they find their husband sexy. In a marriage a woman is dealing with a man who finds her sexually attractive, but who she finds merely financially attractive. The men a woman herself finds sexually attractive are those men she has to deal with temporarily because she can't marry them: The one night stands, the friends with benefits and the social media hookups. Hence a wife will refuse to give her husband of 10 years a baby, but get pregnant by some random guy she meets only for an hour at a party.
Who a woman gets pregnant by, is who makes her panties wet. And vice-versa who makes her panties wet, is who a woman wants to get pregnant by. That's the relationship between pussy and womb.
Screw a woman good and strong, and she'll scream, "Give me a baby", not because she wants a baby but it's the womb speaking. But even without sex, a woman on the street, whom you DON'T EVEN KNOW, can say to you, "me and you will make beautiful babies!" Again, not because she wants that baby but it's the womb speaking. If she wants your baby, you make her panties wet.
Any man women find sexually attractive they'll want his baby. And vice-versa any man who has many babies women will find him sexually attractive. That is why a guy who impregnates one girl, will soon impregnate two. And three. And such a guy will usually be broke and jobless. Broke unemployed men are the most fertile men.
DESIRE CAN NOT BE NEGOTIATED.
Short Term Men - those men who make a woman's panties wet and who she deals with temporarily, out of lust - can be broke, younger or married, it doesn't matter. Because what a woman wants from these men is a temporary thing - just sex. And because it's only about sex, a woman will have very high sexual expectations from these men.
That's why, for example, with hookup apps like Tinder, if a man is anything less than a 9 or a 10 lookswise, he really shouldn't bother because he'll meet with total, complete failure. It's all about sex here. Not depth of mind, not career achievements, not level of education, not goodness of character and not size of wealth. For casual sex - for fun - only one thing matters: When a woman views your picture, DOES HER VAGINA TINGLE? DOES HER PUSSY BECOME WET?
If not she doesn't bother even greeting you. Because no amount of hearing you out will make her vagina twitch. No amount of you expressing yourself can make her panties wet.
Desire can not be negotiated.
Just like IF you yourself don't find a girl sexy, there's nothing she can say or do that will convince you otherwise. It's either a girl gives you an erection or she doesn't. It's either you feel her or you don't. Desire can not be negotiated. It's either 1 or 0. On or Off.
That is why you must work on yourself and become the best version of you, then watch out for those girls who find men like you sexy. Then ONLY deal with those girls. Those girls are called YOUR TRIBE.
For example, maybe you have a friend who seems to win short girls easily. Or maybe you yourself always finds it easy to get church girls. Short girls are your friend's tribe. Church girls are your tribe.
Every man must identify his tribe and zone in on it: Which type of women are always happy to see you? Which type of girls are you most comfortable around because with them everything is always so easy, so relaxed and so natural? That's your tribe. Focus on it.
This is the Key that opens Legs.
It's the guiding principle of Players.
When you look at a Player it appears like he gets every girl he wants. But look closer and you'll see that a Player only gets those girls WHO WANTED HIM ALREADY. And those are the only girls he gives his time.
This is why you'll see one Player focus more on married women. While another specializes on pregnant women. While yet another deals mostly with older women. Each of these Players has identified his tribe. He has worked out which type of women want him. And dealing exclusively with that type his success rate is unbelievable.
Good men are amazed at how a Player treats women anyhow yet they stick around and make excuses for him. Good men have been raised to believe "be good and good things will happen to you"; and so they seek to earn a woman's love through good deeds. They don't understand that the heart wants what the heart wants. Women want who they want. And they want the Player. Does the Player want them? It doesn't matter. Good guys, like the guy in this song, just don't get it:
That is why when you meet a girl you like you never take her number. But you give her YOUR number. Wait for her to initiate contact. She has to like you enough to call you. If she never calls she never liked you. Taking her number and calling her later was going to be a waste of your time and airtime.
POWER OF PACKAGING.
When women deal with a man out of love, they'll accept mediocre looks and lackluster bedroom performance as long as the man can provide. But when women deal with men solely for sex women here want only the absolute best.
They raise the bar very high on packaging. What appeals to the eye.
So, the men women have casual sex with - the men women deal with temporarily - have to be fine. They have to be tall. They have to be fit. They have to make the pussy tingle on sight.
And they have to have big dick. But not merely for pleasure. But for the same reason that men want women to have a big ass: The visual impact. A woman with a small ass has to work extra hard and romance a man more to get him to the level of arousal that a woman with a big ass gets him to merely by her turning around.
That's the power of packaging.
A skinny out of shape man who looks weak and unappealing has to suck and lick on a pussy for ages to turn a woman on and get her juices flowing, meanwhile a fit man with a six pack and abs has just to take off his shirt and her juices will flow.
Again, that's the power of packaging. It has visual impact.
And a huge dick has that visual impact. Before we even talk about how it stretches out a woman nicely, rubbing her Gspot and hitting the life-changing "Bottom of the Vagina" that Cam'ron sings about in Bottom of the Hole.
It's about the visuals.
The weaker the visuals the colder a woman starts out and the more effort it takes to get her engines running and the more pounding she needs to hit her climax. The stronger the visuals the hotter a woman starts out and the less effort it takes to get her engines running and the less pounding she needs to hit her climax. And the strongest visuals are as good as sex - Sometimes a woman is so visually impacted by a man's body that she only has to sit next to him and she'll orgasm.
But we've jumped too far ahead. Let's rewind and start at the beginning...
HOW THE PUSSY WORKS.
You can not just take a woman, bend her over, fvck her and expect her to be well lubricated, in the mood and to actually enjoy the sex. The female sexual machinery requires time and effort. We can all agree on that.
Do you want to make sex memorable for your woman tonight? Then begin seducing her IN THE MORNING before you leave for work:
As you walk out, leave her a sexy note. When you get to work call her and wish her a good day. At tea time call her and ask what she's up to and what she's having for her breakfast. Between tea time and lunch time, as you do your work, send her sexy texts. At lunchtime, have flowers delivered to her. Around 3pm call her and tell her to be ready when you get home you're taking her on a dinner date at a nice restaurant. After work pass by the mall and get her some good chocolate to surprise her with. Get home, freshen up, take her out and treat her to a nice time.
Do all this and when you finally hit the bedroom later on, the sex will be fireworks for her. Because pressure has been building the whole day. Her trains have been gradually picking speed over the hours. And now all her systems are online and on fire.
All that care, attention and romantic interaction you gave your woman the whole day from sunrise to sunset IS THE EQUIVALENT of you sitting on the bed and your woman twerking for you and giving you a lap dance.
Men have a switch that flips their sex mood on and off, and they don't need a whole day of romantic attention to build their mood. For men sex begins INSIDE the bedroom and ends INSIDE the bedroom.
But for women it's the opposite.
Sex for women begins far OUTSIDE the bedroom. Hours... days even...BEFORE the actual sex. The sweet minute by minute attentions. The kind hour by hour interactions. That's where sex begins for women. Get this ----------> Men need sex to feel special, women need to feel special to have sex.
And why do you need to build a woman's mood far far away from the bedroom?
Because what you tell a woman WHEN YOU DON'T WANT SEX is what a woman values. What you do for a woman when sex is nowhere near happening is what she treasures. A compliment about her ass you give a woman when you're about to fvck her is about as empty as a desert and as hard to believe as a torture confession. Because your woman knows you just want to fvck that's why you're saying all these things. BUT a compliment about her ass, whispered to her ear in public, it hits different. And carries an element of genuineness. Because you're not seeking to immediately profit from it.
Here's an idea: Imagine the world is divided into two sections. Let's call one section "Bedroom" and another "Outside World".
Now, while to you as a man, what matters is what happens at "BEDROOM", to women what matters is what happens at "OUTSIDE IN THE WORLD." Everytime you think of doing something nice for your girl, do it at "Outside In The World". All your nice gestures, your gifts and your sacrifices, do them at "Outside In The World". Think of the outside as your woman's bedroom. Instead of bringing her flowers at home, bring them to her workplace - in front of the whole world. That will hit different.
What you do for your girl out there is sweeter for her than what you do for her behind closed doors. This is why dates, outings and trips are so dear to women. Women enjoy doing stuff with you out there, the same way you enjoy doing stuff with them behind closed doors. While you date a woman specifically for BEDROOM action, a woman dates you specifically for OUTSIDE WORLD action.
So, to please a woman sexually, sex must be the last thing in a long string of sweet things you've spent the day doing for her. That's what puts her in the mood.
That's how the pussy works.
WHICH THEN BRINGS US to those men with tempting bodies and big dicks. What these men do is, by the sheer power of how they look, by the devastatingly delicious visuals alone, they flip a woman's switch, bringing her sexual machinery roaring to life in an instant. Without the guy raising so much as a finger.
Now THIS is the man who can just take a woman, bend her over, fvck her and expect her to be well lubricated, in the mood and to actually enjoy the sex. Because this man has only to cross her line of vision and a woman's temperature rises and her vagina starts tingling. By the time that man greets her she's dripping like a tap and her clitoris is throbbing.
If this man pulls her into a private area, bends her over and fvcks her, she will orgasm within minutes. With a sexy man women don't work hard for their orgasms.
The man's delicious body = Average Joe's whole day of seduction work. Where Joe has to spend the whole day seducing his woman with texts messages, phone calls, flowers, chocolate and dinner dates to get her in the mood, a sumptuous man with a tempting body gets her in the mood within seconds. That is why it is said that a woman knows within the first 3 seconds if she'll sleep with a man or not. Because in those seconds her pussy has told her. She has felt that tingle. Or not.
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|Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Where Do Wet Coochies Go? by RedPanthar: 3:58pm On Dec 19, 2020
Lol funny title dawg
I hope the website is doing well
Thanks for going through the sweat In cooking up this brilliant piece as usual.
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|Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Where Do Wet Coochies Go? by dasanchez1(m): 3:59pm On Dec 19, 2020
Here we go
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|Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Where Do Wet Coochies Go? by MEGA4BILLION(m): 3:59pm On Dec 19, 2020
Is this an handout?
Just asking for a friend.
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|Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Where Do Wet Coochies Go? by SweetBuns(f): 4:08pm On Dec 19, 2020
What exactly is the point of all these write-ups?
This is simply a time wasting activity and I don't see what any sane man would benefit from this
Sheesh... You guys should find something doing that'd be useful to society. Not all this crapp
|Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Where Do Wet Coochies Go? by Newman20(m): 4:14pm On Dec 19, 2020
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|Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Where Do Wet Coochies Go? by Firstorderwizard(m): 4:38pm On Dec 19, 2020
Coded redpill nuggets of wisdom can only be decoded by redpilled men
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|Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Where Do Wet Coochies Go? by holuwasheyiWGP(m): 4:39pm On Dec 19, 2020
It's another banger for you know who it is
Nice write up bro.
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|Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Where Do Wet Coochies Go? by PUSSYHOE(m): 4:58pm On Dec 19, 2020
advice your gender men have developed the world enough na make una close toto go contribute too.
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|Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Where Do Wet Coochies Go? by SonOfUbunja: 6:00pm On Dec 19, 2020
The question to answer is can a man be both? Can he be the one that provides financially and the one that tears her pussy apart and make her pussy dripping wet?
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|Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Where Do Wet Coochies Go? by marsman: 6:09pm On Dec 19, 2020
In your mouth
|Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Where Do Wet Coochies Go? by ubunja(m): 7:05pm On Dec 19, 2020
Booked for my two pics...
|Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Where Do Wet Coochies Go? by Kalatium(m): 7:10pm On Dec 19, 2020
SonOfUbunja:Ubunja this question is for you
|Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Where Do Wet Coochies Go? by ThreeEyedRaven: 7:16pm On Dec 19, 2020
Ubunja, set awon...
|Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Where Do Wet Coochies Go? by ThreeEyedRaven: 7:17pm On Dec 19, 2020
Ubunja, set awon...
|Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Where Do Wet Coochies Go? by ubunja(m): 7:20pm On Dec 19, 2020
SonOfUbunja:yes a man can be Provider and Pussy-Tearer all-in-1. Easy. Just meet women where the wet pussy goes. Meaning where Women go to for Lust, meet them there. learn to start your relationships from the Friends With Benefits and the Booty Calls side.
That's a whole another Miseducation in itself. But here's the gist of it: Find a girl who gets wet for you. Initiate a friends with benefits or a Booty Call situation. Fvck her till she catches feelings for you. Then date her.
I'm sure you've heard how many women complain how they start casual sex things with a guy then end up falling for the guy and the guy doesn't feel the same way and he dumps them? This is the door you enter. And it has a lot of benefits for you as a man.
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|Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Where Do Wet Coochies Go? by ubunja(m): 7:29pm On Dec 19, 2020
Somehow I don't think this writeup is going to go down well with official boyfriends and husbands.
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|Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Where Do Wet Coochies Go? by karkinase(m): 7:49pm On Dec 19, 2020
ubunja:that's a banger...
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|Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Where Do Wet Coochies Go? by MrPresident1: 7:57pm On Dec 19, 2020
The ancients knew all these, that's why they instituted the PATRIARCHY in order to protect men
Men are the weaker vessel
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|Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Where Do Wet Coochies Go? by PUSSYHOE(m): 8:08pm On Dec 19, 2020
it hurts eating leftovers and paying huge for it.
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|Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Where Do Wet Coochies Go? by IceColdVeins(m): 8:20pm On Dec 19, 2020
ubunja:swears I feel attacked
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|Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Where Do Wet Coochies Go? by LikeAking: 8:23pm On Dec 19, 2020
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|Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Where Do Wet Coochies Go? by Femzaremz(m): 8:28pm On Dec 19, 2020
SonOfUbunja:yeah cristiano ronaldo is a perfect example!
|Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Where Do Wet Coochies Go? by Femzaremz(m): 8:33pm On Dec 19, 2020
ubunja:or extremely handsome guys dat have d looks to go with d money eg leonardo dicaprio cr7 brad pitt etc
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|Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Where Do Wet Coochies Go? by forke(m): 8:44pm On Dec 19, 2020
Great write up... You the real alpha
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|Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Where Do Wet Coochies Go? by Creeza(m): 11:02pm On Dec 19, 2020
Dude just summarized the ancient Chronicles of Solomon's wisdom...
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|Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Where Do Wet Coochies Go? by Shortyy(f): 11:16pm On Dec 19, 2020
They stay up all day and night obsessing over women and their bodies. Very pathetic
|Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Where Do Wet Coochies Go? by ubunja(m): 11:39pm On Dec 19, 2020
Femzaremz:as long as that's how a girl feels about you. As long as she thinks you're extremely handsome. The trick of the Game is to be sexy and irresistible BY FINDING A GIRL WHO THINKS YOU'RE SEXY AND IRRESISTIBLE. It's not so much that you're extremely handsome but that you find a woman WHO THINKS YOU ARE EXTREMELY HANDSOME. Guys miss that part. Work with your Tribe.
Money distorts the game. So we don't use it a lot at this level of Game.
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|Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Where Do Wet Coochies Go? by Akinbahm(m): 11:41pm On Dec 19, 2020
I haven't read it all but the little I read says that a lady who had s3x with you might be on long or short term if you as a guy realise u r on the latter mode improve on your testicle prowess and if the former, as a man one as to improve both on his resources and sexual prowess to key is wife down.
Note: its amoral in nature u choose what works for u and leave the rest. Dont blame the game u blame the game changer.
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|Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Where Do Wet Coochies Go? by ubunja(m): 11:54pm On Dec 19, 2020
Akinbahm:yes. It's all a Game really.
Its like a football team. And a woman is the coach. As a man you should know what number a woman has assigned you in the Game. Where in her life has she placed you. Are you the Striker? The Defender? Know what you mean to a woman. NOT WHAT SHE MEANS TO YOU. Everything must be from a woman's point of view.
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|Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Where Do Wet Coochies Go? by Akinbahm(m): 12:02am On Dec 20, 2020
A lady I met around May/June period I wanted sth serious from her only to realise she's only attracted to me s3xually I was forced to free her around late October when I realised she has someone she's romantically attached to. She's only catching cruise with me sexually...
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