Icedplane:
A girl that I was dating, took her to my parents and even met her people chatted with her ex who ditched her and married another girl. The other girl died and this ex wants her back.

She said if she see's someone else she would move ahead but if not she may consider him back. All these happened like 4 months before I met her.

Now I have introduced her to all my family and even met some of her family.

Sent her mum money for Christmas, she still has the guts to reply the guys compliment of the season even after I warned her months back and asked her to block the guy which she did.

What pains me was the new phone I bought for her was what she used.

Now she's begging my mum to beg me.
Am done

� children!

baba you've not found a wife
you'd probably end up raising her ex's kids if ya not careful

Icedplane:
A girl that I was dating, took her to my parents and even met her people chatted with her ex who ditched her and married another girl. The other girl died and this ex wants her back.

She said if she see's someone else she would move ahead but if not she may consider him back. All these happened like 4 months before I met her.

Now I have introduced her to all my family and even met some of her family.

Sent her mum money for Christmas, she still has the guts to reply the guys compliment of the season even after I warned her months back and asked her to block the guy which she did.

What pains me was the new phone I bought for her was what she used.

Now she's begging my mum to beg me.
Am done

Run, 2 months down the line, she will learn to hide things better.

If you stay, prepare for regular dna tests.

Kobicove:
What exactly is the offence here? Replying a season's greeting?

no problem, until it's your girlfriend

Icedplane:
A girl that I was dating, took her to my parents and even met her people chatted with her ex who ditched her and married another girl. The other girl died and this ex wants her back.

She said if she see's someone else she would move ahead but if not she may consider him back. All these happened like 4 months before I met her.

Now I have introduced her to all my family and even met some of her family.

Sent her mum money for Christmas, she still has the guts to reply the guys compliment of the season even after I warned her months back and asked her to block the guy which she did.

What pains me was the new phone I bought for her was what she used.

Now she's begging my mum to beg me.
Am done

She'd be a fool to go back to him.

Did you ask her why her ex chose to marry his dead wife over her?

Kriss216:



If this is her only offence, then, I think you're been insecured and unnecessarily naive.

Another offence is that she used the new phone he just bought for her, lol. Final solution is for one to get married as soon as possible and get out of these heartaches that could mess ones life up.

Omo the girl sef wetin she wan use the 'compliment of season do'. After breaking my heart ruthlessly, when the ex eez not mad. He shud goan tell that to the other 199.999 million Nigerians.

But this OP sef, it is plenty in your body.

Not a big deal.
Buy yes, men are HYPER JEALOUS!

Lol, I learnt one thing from Nigerian women ...and that is , I cannot come and kill myself. The more you say stay away, the more them draw closer to the nigga. Talk ur mind , if she no listen ignore her ...she will come dancing back.

Icedplane:
A girl that I was dating, took her to my parents and even met her people chatted with her ex who ditched her and married another girl. The other girl died and this ex wants her back.

She said if she see's someone else she would move ahead but if not she may consider him back. All these happened like 4 months before I met her.

Now I have introduced her to all my family and even met some of her family.

Sent her mum money for Christmas, she still has the guts to reply the guys compliment of the season even after I warned her months back and asked her to block the guy which she did.

What pains me was the new phone I bought for her was what she used.

Now she's begging my mum to beg me.
Am done

just compliment of the season she replied?? Guy with this your insecurities u can get married, that's the hard truth.... He didn't tell the boy she loves him not discussed any private issue with him just compliment and she replied which is totally polite.... I sorry for anybody that will eventually marry you....

JustCruise:
Wait bro, you want to break up cos of a compliment?

Better to break up with a compliment than to blame him for tolerating the compliment.
His compliment leading to her visiting. Visiting to getting laid. Getting Laid to break up. Breaking up to opening a thread on Nairaland and you blaming him and calling him a simp.

Sanchez01:



Need I say more?

Bf or after has nothing to do with it.

A guy who left his girlfriend and go for another girl for marriage, yet the girl is still considering moving back to the ex, now when she meets
another serious guy, who had presented her to his parents, yet the girl still galvanating' with ex who broke her heart.

Icedplane:
A girl that I was dating, took her to my parents and even met her people chatted with her ex who ditched her and married another girl. The other girl died and this ex wants her back.

She said if she see's someone else she would move ahead but if not she may consider him back. All these happened like 4 months before I met her.

Now I have introduced her to all my family and even met some of her family.

Sent her mum money for Christmas, she still has the guts to reply the guys compliment of the season even after I warned her months back and asked her to block the guy which she did.

What pains me was the new phone I bought for her was what she used.

Now she's begging my mum to beg me.
Am done

Did you say her Ex or her enemy?

Kriss216:



If this is her only offence, then, I think you're been insecured and unnecessarily naive.

Better to be than sorry!

Oyiboman69:
Don't kill yourself with irrelevant things cos what you wrote up there is not that bad

na so dem dey talk..all this useless people for nairaland...my guy,run oo..unless u want die young... Its obvious she is still in love with the guy..take the decision now before u regret it later in future.. ..make I tell u the truth ?That guy stl dey Bleep am..bitter truth bro

Kobicove:
What exactly is the offence here? Replying a season's greeting?

The offense is not that she responded to his complement, but disobedience. She unblocked the guy after he has been blocked, and still went ahead to give the guy her new number. I am sure some of us calling this guy names would do worst. Una never wear the shoe so una no know how e de pinch am for leg.

cedricksly:
just compliment of the season she replied?? Guy with this your insecurities u can get married, that's the hard truth.... He didn't tell the boy she loves him not discussed any private issue with him just compliment and she replied which is totally polite.... I sorry for anybody that will eventually marry you....

With ur mentality, you will become woman rapper, a servant in ur territory.

Bye

Anyway before you go,......only handful of my exes I can't get back to their pants, even the one I broke their hearts, if new guy doesn't man up to defend his territory, intruder (ex) will invade

She doesn't have regard for you I tell you. She's probably still with you because of the monies you throw around.

Kapilta:
Nah he's neither insecure nor naive. Op is just mad and stupid. He's a useless attention seeker.

I think you should take that word back. Is like you don't know what "Exes" do to marriages and relationships. From good morning Ebuka, the next thing will be goodnight love.
And before you know what's happening, one round of sex is done and dusted. That's how some men train bastards.
This life aren't balance. You should know that. Peace

@op alone.

Your present actions are correct, though you made an earlier mistake by trying to marry a woman with an ex. Never marry a woman with an ex, and if they try to guilt trip you by calling you insecure, mistrustful, low esteemed, thank them. Still, never marry a woman with an ex.

Oh, and lest you fall for the same trick, they never block the exes they really fall for. They'll befriend them on FB, twitter and everywhere, and they'll memorise their phone numbers by heart so that they can pretend to delete the numbers from their phones if the marital pressure gets too much. But they'll never stop communicating with them. And they'll jump back together into bed the first chance they get. Then you enter the realm of paternity fraud, DNA testing and all that mind wasting rubbish. And as a man, you need to focus on your career and business, not on all that ISH. So once more, don't marry a woman with an ex. It's not worth it.

“What pains me was the new phone I bought for her was what she used.”

cedricksly:
just compliment of the season she replied?? Guy with this your insecurities u can get married, that's the hard truth.... He didn't tell the boy she loves him not discussed any private issue with him just compliment and she replied which is totally polite.... I sorry for anybody that will eventually marry you....

guy it's Betty too be insecure than end up raising someone else kids

Seniorwriter:
Kid everywhere in NL romance section....
As an adult always weigh your options and be ready to take your eventual decision.
If you are not mature enough you'll always be insecure.....don't take decisions in a hurry ....when it comes to love matters or issues regarding emotions no one can actually advise you more than what your heart tells you..
Search deep within yourself ...ull get your answer.

Proactivity Leads To Productivity!!!
© Seniorwriter

oya..Methuselah I see u..ancient of days with lots of experience... My guy no mind these fools oo..that girl ain't loyal mehn..na so them go push enter pit after everything na dem go still say didn't he see or notice her infidelity wen they were dating ?Baba stand your ground oo

Na 'ex' matter be this oo! Sometimes old firewood no de quench. Just try to find out if she still wants to be with him, and if yes, flee!

globalresource:
GUY YOU ARE NOT READY FOR MARRIAGE IF WHAT YOU TYPE UP THERE IS HER OFFENCE AND WHY YOU WANT TO DROP HER

YOU WILL HAVE SERIOUS PROBLEM IN MARRIAGE

YOU ARE INSECURE
YOU BETTRR REMAIN SINGLE THEN

monkey

grossintel:
What exactly is her offence here, she's a cheat for replying her ex's seasonal greetings? Some of you ladies deserve a thug as a partner.

Can you withstand the fact that your girl keeps on replying her ex chat,on a regular basis ?
Before you judge others,try imagine yourself being the one who's in the op shoes..
No man can take it,be him an alpha or a beta male.... sometime,I do pretend as if I ain't angry when my gf replies or receive calls from other guys,but deep down,I dey vex and she knows it..

Kriss216:



If this is her only offence, then, I think you're been insecured and unnecessarily naive.

Ok. So he should wait until they start chatting and fixing dates? Or you are gullible enough to believe it wont go past compliments of the season once or twice a year?

Kriss216:



If this is her only offence, then, I think you're been insecured and unnecessarily naive.

Pls don't say that
My girl enjoyed total freedom
Until I got to find out she was fucking her ex
Mind you I didn't know when they even started behind my back cus I love and I trust
Got to find out and dump her sorry ass.....

chinnasa:
Marriage is not ment for boys it for men. Just this and got angry. Bros dont bring a private matter that can be solved in seconds to us jst to shame her.

ARE A MAN OR A TEENAGER?

just take look at yourself ,u can't even ask or make a complete sentence.. Block head

You are very stupid. Let all men be done with all your sisters if they commit any misdemeanor. Rubbish!

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