Psych412:
seriously, I hate men like you.
your type are too weak to make thier stand and move on.
why can't you move on. she told you she's done with the relationship yet you are begging her to mend the relationship back
if you were my brother I would have knock that your big head
Op if you accept and marry that lady, you will regret it(may be in the other world, when she finally kills you).
sissy OP

Psych412:
seriously, I hate men like you.



your type are too weak to make thier stand and move on.




why can't you move on. she told you she's done with the relationship yet you are begging her to mend the relationship back.



if you were my brother I would have knock that your big head.




Op if you accept and marry that lady, you will regret it(may be in the other world, when she finally kills you).



sissy OP

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Exactly, oga someone break up with you cut your losses and go, and stop being an obsessive creep. I don't know what you wanted us to tell you, keep chasing her like a creepy perv or for us to say she is a bitch for breaking up with you
I always say this you can never own anybody, someone doesn't want to be with you just accept facts and go.
I have experienced breakups, painful and otherwise and I always accept facts you need to stop sulking and man up bro, you are a guy for Pete's sake

Henrywalker:
This is exactly why relationship nowadays are all scam, 4 years of your life with a woman you ain't going to marry? Well that's so sad.
Even if you guys get back together, it would still end in premium tears. So stay back and out!!!

Fuckhypocrite:
WTF

That gyal is jus playing with ur emotion like ball.


Am waiting for nairaland redpillers association ( NRA) To call you simp!

Descortes:
There's an adage that says "if you cherish something, set it free. If it comes back to you, then it was always yours, but if it doesn't, it never was"


Let her be.

Dpsychologist:
Why disturb yourself over someone that doesn't love you

coming2america:

When its their turn, they always go to open a new anonymous account

Martinez39s:
Monkey S—I—M—P—A—N—Z—E—E.

Psych412:
seriously, I hate men like you.



your type are too weak to make thier stand and move on.




why can't you move on. she told you she's done with the relationship yet you are begging her to mend the relationship back.



if you were my brother I would have knock that your big head.




Op if you accept and marry that lady, you will regret it(may be in the other world, when she finally kills you).



sissy OP

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Exactly, oga someone break up with you cut your losses and go, and stop being an obsessive creep. I don't know what you wanted us to tell you, keep chasing her like a creepy perv or for us to say she is a bitch for breaking up with you
I always say this you can never own anybody, someone doesn't want to be with you just accept facts and go.
I have experienced breakups, painful and otherwise and I always accept facts you need to stop sulking and man up bro, you are a guy for Pete's sake

coming2america:
Hello Nairalanders,

Save A Soul plsease.

I dated this girl for like 2yrs, known her for 4 and we have been apart for a little more than a year. She is 28 now, and she was only23 when i knew her and we started dating when she was 24. She is a recent graduate too,(2yrs) but still job hunting and/or hoping to start a business.

I am in my mid 30's and quite ready to settle down. Everything was cool between me and this girl till sometime last year when we fell out. She is hyper, very insecure, has trust issues and a tad temperamental.

Both families knew about our relationship and we were meant to be married.

I loved her whole heartedly but due to these flaws of hers(which i was ready to tolerate) things got awry between us, we got into a heated argument and a minor fracas(no violence or insults)/but she packed her things and left.

Just like that.

Her father even called me to tell me, i shoukdnt worry, things woukd settle between me and his daughter very soon.

I was really broken and I have tried to get back with her since. No way. She blocked me everywhere-on social media, whatsap, regular line, everywhere. She never as much as uttered a word to me since she left.

The few times we ran into each other, she embarassed me thoroughly and only ever told me we can never come bacl together.

Fast forward, early this month, she finally picked my call for the first time in a year ( the call, from an official line) and we spoke.

She ranted, shouted and reminded me what she thought i did. I apologized and she said she had forgiven me but we can never come back together. I should stop calling her and move on,she was going to block this line i had used to call her.

She didnt.

Then i discovered all my lines she had blocked,(for more than a year) all three lines were unblocked and i could actually call her from either. I did on my main line and she returned my call. I was shocked. I called her later and we spoke again, like mature adults for the first time in a long while.

I was happy.

We agreed to have dinner and talk things over and she got me to assure her i wont be nasty to her if we did agree to meet.

I gave her the assurance and she said she will think about our date and when we can actually have dinner within the week. I suggested a date and time.

When the day came, she wont take my call and when i called her when it was time, she went ballistic on me again, warning me never to call her again, that we were done and we could never get back together again and I should leave her alone, she was going to block.my numbers.

She still didnt, and has refused to pick my calls till today. What could she be upto? I really want this woman as we have been togetger for so long, but I am jist frustrated by her antics.

I am not hard up for women or female company and i have the very best and creamest, but this my former fiancee has me tottering towards depression.

What do I do?

backbone503:
Your desperation has relegated your bargaining power in that relationship. That girl go carry you play ball.

Ask yourself this: why isn't she equally afraid of losing you? Or having the desire to reignite the relationship?

seasy:


I understand you very well.
When you genuinely love someone, you don't let go easily. It hurts really.
I'm presently going through something similar, even got new sim cards and they all got blocked.
Like some people adviced here, just let her be for now, if it's meant to be, she will come back to you. I know how difficult this is too.
And the depression part, please, look for other things to occupy your mind, get very busy.
The more you keep trying to reach her, the more she keeps acting up. Trust me, even worse was done to me, and I'm regretting pushing for too long and not letting it go.
God be with you.

virginprincess:
Op she doesn't want you again na, is it by force? seriously if i'm close to that lady i will surely advise her to marry you, because is men like you that go to the extent of washing their wife undies just to pls her, by the time she turn you into her houseboy you will have sense by force since you don't what to have sense.

coming2america:


Thanks bro. I would try to heed your advice. Not as if i havent tried before. And not as if i do not have better girls...but, errhhh

after reading this comment, I feel glad for not giving you a single advice because you have a dead self esteem,
Keep embarrassing yourself before a general pussy

coming2america:


Be caaalming daawn na, sis.