Too bad

thesicilian:
Sorry for your predicament. But a man does not just suddenly wake up and run away with 3 children because of the regular "shares of ups and downs in marriage". And how was he even able to process his and the kids travel documents without you knowing?
Start the story from the beginning.

Uhm I respect ur reasoning

uruba23:
Well I believe you both are not divorced that is a good sign, that he abscond with your children is also a good sign that he loves them. Just calm down since you and his brother are still communicating use him as a line for mediation perhaps he wants to introduce his kids to native food unfortunately this is not the time to be traveling to Nigeria anyhow since he is a coded person that he could get all the arrangement set without you knowing shows he can handle himself here. So before you make anything official get someone to arbitrate between you both.Let hope they didn't use touch and follow for him.

They left Nigeria for the UK. His brother said he was able to reach him and he said he's not out for divorce. But I know the deceptive part of him. I lived with him for 10years.I just didn't know he could pull this kind of stunt.

ON GOD! things are happening

So what do u want me to do

thesicilian:
Sorry for your predicament. But a man does not just suddenly wake up and run away with 3 children because of the regular "shares of ups and downs in marriage". And how was he even able to process his and the kids travel documents without you knowing?
Start the story from the beginning.

thank you whomever you are..you said my mind exactly,how was he able to prepare these documents without your knowledge...you obviously didn't care cos you were too into your job or distracted with some other things of no relevance and forgetting to uphold your family...my feelings for you is hum mm...still thinking

Na so ....na man de always bad

TemiBami2020:


They left Nigeria for the UK. His brother said he was able to reach him and he said he's not out for divorce. But I know the deceptive part of him. I lived with him for 10years.I just didn't know he could pull this kind of stunt.

He is a joke. Approach the British embassy but before you do so report a missing man and three children with the Nigerian police, copy blogs with his picture and the kids.

Create noise to escalate it, then approach the British Embassy with the details from his family, carry your wedding certificate and other legal documents, you may want to do so with a lawyer.

I am guessing they are below 18. So he needs your consent to take the kids. However, push for a case of missing three people, father and three kids with 200 million Nigerians to escalate it.

Perfectsouth:
This man just used my masterplan..
I need to device other means to go about mine without her even having a say at all.

Shares of ups and down my left yansh..
Only God knows the hell that man has been through, now he is free...
Smart man, he would have been planning this for a while and believe while he was planning this, he will be in his best behavior and even be the best husband to his wife just to make his plans a success

Your comments just made my day. I needed this laugh. Compliments of the season bro

your user name is funny temi bami, are you yoruba?

You can't be so good, and he soo bad.

All these stories sef.

Anyways, ur husband was still wrong to make such abscond. May you find him.

Similar incident happened in my town, the man took all his children and traveled to US leaving the wife behind.

So he took the children to UK high commission to apply for a visa and you not awear I guess


He picked up rhe visa still
You dint notice any sign off traveling

Madam just find a good lawyer that can help

And contact the Uk-Nigerian ambassador if possible..

Keep calm your kids will be safe with your husband...


Never stop praying

Zero eight zero four one nine............. i don’t forget the rest

Harrykn:
Mad oh
Mad oh
Who get US Embassy customer service number help a sister.

But sister oh, what's this thing that made your hubby [del]absconded [/del] Travelled w_o_you?

D's woman is a good woman which is probably why d man too advantage of her. Madam relax ,he gonna come back after his honeymoon with some oyimbo nyash.

thesicilian:
Sorry for your predicament. But a man does not just suddenly wake up and run away with 3 children because of the regular "shares of ups and downs in marriage". And how was he even able to process his and the kids travel documents without you knowing?
Start the story from the beginning.

op u have been replying other messages but for reasons best known to you alone, this one up here(that is the first response to ur post)does not deserve ur response....aunty please stop wasting our data and gedifok

TemiBami2020:


They left Nigeria for the UK. His brother said he was able to reach him and he said he's not out for divorce. But I know the deceptive part of him. I lived with him for 10years.I just didn't know he could pull this kind of stunt.

Go to UK high Commission and report him there. For him to have taken your kids out of the country without your knowledge or consent he must have either faked your death or used someone who isn't you to sign a consent form. Either ways, it's a serious immigration fraud to travel with minors using fake documents (death certificate or fake signature). This can get him deported and blacklisted if he's found guilty.

AltCtrlDel:
I'm a man but men are scum


You guys should stop criticising the OP. Be sensitive and consider her mental health.

If y'all can't render any meaningful advice or directions then read and move on

Your father is a scum too

Zzor:
For the man to have done that, you must be a bad wife and him taking the children along means he's a good and responsible man who loves his family, I hate women who treats Good men badly.

did they hack your account ni?

Are your kids over 18? For him to traveled to the UK with them, both parents content is needed unless he claimed you’re dead and provided a proof

Your man is still in Nigeria jawe..

Draslo:

Please release the account back to the owner. Zzor would never type this.

dem dan hack her account

Zzor:
For the man to have done that, you must be a bad wife and him taking the children along means he's a good and responsible man who loves his family, I hate women who treats Good men badly.

I held you to a high esteem. I didnt expect this judgement from you. Simply because you don't know the full story so it's wrong to tag her a bad wife at this stage.
Maybe you could have asked some leading questions before reaching conclusion.

@Op, meet the family and believe things may work from there. That is if you want peace.
But if you have money and time for war, contact the police with strong evidence, interpol will bring all of them back to nija. e no hard

TemiBami2020:


They left Nigeria for the UK. His brother said he was able to reach him and he said he's not out for divorce. But I know the deceptive part of him. I lived with him for 10years.I just didn't know he could pull this kind of stunt.

From the way you sound the man just dodge a bullet.

He is abroad with your children, your plan is to get then deported so you can continue your accusation and counter accusation.

Or they should just deport the children to naija back...

What is really your problem??

benjijosh:
Are your kids over 18? For him to traveled to the UK with them, both parents content is needed unless he claimed you’re dead and provided a proof

Your man is still in Nigeria jawe..

person wey just dey whine us

please check aunty ngozis place

OYENIYIJK:
This one loud øøø
God will help you sister.
Check that link

No link pls

what has tribe got to do with this

simbrixton2:
your user name is funny temi bami, are you yoruba?

This thread looks like the outcome of a thread I read not too long ago o.

https://www.nairaland.com/6296493/finally-decided-move-after-15#96727940

Though it's different moniker.
But seems the husband ran away after finding out the truth about what this woman did in that thread.

3 kids are in same picture.
Supportive wive.
Acoholic and smoker.

I cant balance. Sister shey you dey whine my nipple ni

My dear go to human rights.

Tools4sale:


For once in ur life... U talk something reasonable...

keep quiet, that comment can trigger suicide nawa for some people

Why