Tonitoniton:



Well, I didn't touch her accusation against her father for some reasons,
1 it is her words against her fathers since there is no proof.
2 her mother disproved her, same with her other siblings and relatives
3 no child of seven or eight can be raped without tell tales that will attract her mothers attention.
4 no African mother can cover up such rape case and still be with her man.
5 some of this children are satanic agents planted into families to ruin it.
6 she has shown signs of a prodigal child.
7 she has shown signs that she is mentally sick. The suicide confirms it.
8 she shown the signs that she is a bad child because her nucleus and extended family would being her first point of call to address such matter and not on social media.



Most of these so call new generation ladies are very sick in the head. One killed her self late because mo abudu stole her rape case intellectual property. This girl is in that category.

Am not finding excuse for her father what so ever. But, I know what am saying. Am a counsellor and I have seen these ladies do things that will shock u.

In addition. I just noticed u are a lady. Can u do any of the things she has been doing to her family with a clear eye? Do u believe any African parent will not find out about such abuse.? How can a child of that age not have bruise considering she her virgina is not formed to with stand such pressure ? U mean her mum cant notice such bruises while bathing her or notice her discomfort from the pain from time to time? Let's not conclude in a haste.

Like I said, am not finding excuses for her dad. I for one, hate rape with passion.

It is only weak and useless men that rapes.

There is a serious curse on every rapist.
They dont end well.
They die miserably.

Recently in another African country, a young woman found out her daughter was being abused sexually by a relative. She did the right thing, and reported to the police.
Guess what, she was called an 'evil woman' for doing so by other relatives.(And even asked her to go back to the police and ask them to retract the report)
Yeah, the mother probably knew. But in order to 'save her marriage', and in order to 'protect' herself, and her other children from further abuse, she hid it.
Add the fact that having your father exposed as a rapist means the end of the family unit as it exists for the affected child...meaning the end of security and peace for the child.....violated as it is...

So everyone keeps quiet. The cases you see in the news of fathers being exposed...the daughter or son was brave enough to report.Or the mother.

And mind you, it happens in many parts of the world, including the developed world. People hide these things because of many reasons....

Omihanifa:




You should have sent this to her DM on Saturday when she hinted that she was going to take her LIFE

where him know the girl... abi you just want to show yourself

Komu1048:


Madam, [b]the pastor needs to be prayed [/b]for. No pastor in his right mind will sleep with another man’s wife let alone his own daughter. So it’s a spiritual attack, that’s what the mother and the uncle understands. That’s if the lady is even saying the truth

Ah, yes and all will be forgiven and the pastor will become a clean slate.

Christianity: the religion where anything goes.

Codedlyon:
i stopped going to church when I realized my pastor is a liar and a thief.

All of them are and are very proud of it.
Highly narcissistic and control freak.

Poverty in the land made millions to run to them for succour. I prefer Nigerian politicians to these people at least I know they are politicians. Religion has been a control tool all over the world. Religion and politics always go hand in hand if u want herd mentality.
They roll with the politicians( they perform occultic magic for them) that's why they are untouchable.
Has never done anybody any good.
And yeah, the bible from genesis to revelation is all about magic and witchcraft.

Tonitoniton:



Well, I didn't touch her accusation against her father for some reasons,
1 it is her words against her fathers since there is no proof.
2 her mother disproved her, same with her other siblings and relatives
3 no child of seven or eight can be raped without tell tales that will attract her mothers attention.
4 no African mother can cover up such rape case and still be with her man.
5 some of this children are satanic agents planted into families to ruin it.
6 she has shown signs of a prodigal child.
7 she has shown signs that she is mentally sick. The suicide confirms it.
8 she shown the signs that she is a bad child because her nucleus and extended family would being her first point of call to address such matter and not on social media.



Most of these so call new generation ladies are very sick in the head. One killed her self late because mo abudu stole her rape case intellectual property. This girl is in that category.

Am not finding excuse for her father what so ever. But, I know what am saying. Am a counsellor and I have seen these ladies do things that will shock u.

In addition. I just noticed u are a lady. Can u do any of the things she has been doing to her family with a clear eye? Do u believe any African parent will not find out about such abuse.? How can a child of that age not have bruise considering she her virgina is not formed to with stand such pressure ? U mean her mum cant notice such bruises while bathing her or notice her discomfort from the pain from time to time? Let's not conclude in a haste.

Like I said, am not finding excuses for her dad. I for one, hate rape with passion.

It is only weak and useless men that rapes.

There is a serious curse on every rapist.
They dont end well.
They die miserably.

Didn't you read that the mother didn't believe her??

Illiterate counsellor!

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Can you please expatiate @bte]Don't u go to church?Why will you kill a life you can't create?Person that didn't kill himself still find it difficult to make heaven??

Righteousness2:
It's unfortunate she had to take her Life.

You may have been Battered,
You may have been Shattered,
You may have been Scattered,

In all these,
The truth remains that
Suicide is not the way out.
Suicide is Murder
The Consequences of Suicide cannot be Compared to whatever Here..
Suicide is an Expressway to Hell!

Burdens are Lifted at Calvary
Take your Burdens to JESUS

You should be talking about the Rapist father called a Pastor.

This is strange!

Hmmmm

This life

It's unfortunate

Donjazzy12:

Just keep quiet. Did you read the part where even her mother didn't believe her? Why was he not arrested? It is like you don't know what some children of nowadays do. You must be the child molester hiding behind your keyboard to type rubbish! Otondo!

You obviously have very low IQ. No need to respond to you..

Will she go to heaven or hell?

Etinosa1234:


https://lifestyle.thecable.ng/renua-femi-giwa-amus-daughter-who-alleged-father-raped-her-at-7-commits-suicide/

Omihanifa:

For a lady to damn the reputational consequences of disclosing that she has suffered sexual abuse at the hands of no other than her father and pastor for that matter, then she must have been subjected to a lot of torture indeed.

Majority of these clerics (Christian and Muslim) are deeply involved in occultic practices

If you Biliv clerics are using occultic powers to gain more power and influence, you should as well believe that demonic power can enter anybody to destroy reputation of any clerics.

You cannot just be on the side of accuser just
because she is a certain gender

I have seen s s 2 female girl, 15yrs who nearly poison her own mum, just cos mum not allow her to go out as she wanted for waywardness

Hmmm So why do she have to wait till now before after 19 years of the incident ....

Devil is not a real niggarr

DMerciful:
They asked you to keep it a secret but it seems you cannot respect their wish

The mumu wey u be, did i revealed her identity? Na so una dey fail exam. Ode omo

NeoWanZaeed:
Was raped at 7. Spoke out at 26. Then c0mmitted suicide. I think twitter fame don enter her head. If she is telling the truth. . Its late. .very late. . Killing herself is n0nsense though. That w0nt ascertain to us she is telling the truth though. . But if its true. . May the Lord expose d dad

Her looks, contents of her open letter, suicide, shows something is wrong with the girl, in fact I doubt her accusation

THIS COULD BE A LIE.
SHE WAS MENTALLY UNSTABLE BECAUSE OF HER ADDICTION TO HARD DRUGS.

hstar:

This what I even wanted to ask
That how come she didn't get pregnant?

Please, how did you get her to talk, such dat she could share such traumatic experience with you

I don't know if you get me?

For a girl to be able to open up to you about what she sees as a shame

And she confide in you

How did you do it?

How did you build the relationship?

I have such talent too, I get pple talking by sharing what happened to me with them

But I also want to learn from you please

I look forward to your lenghty explanations, please

I have all night

Thank you dagger111

I will not be able to reveal such here as this is a public forum. Though, i looked her eyes deeply one day and i challenge her what exactly is wrong with her cos she don't seems cool to me. So when she got home, she chat me that she want to reveal some things to me and she will do so the next day if she come to my side. She was telling me d next day and also weeping seriously. I tried calming her and also gave her words of encouragement. I can tell you that i av dated 4-5days and 3 were sexually abused by their relatives at tender age. They all revealed all to me. And that's why i don't blame any girl acting weird most times.

ziondaughter247:


You obviously have very low IQ. No need to respond to you..

You obviously have NO IQ!

Sixfeetbelle:


Do schizophrenics accuse their parents of rape? Did the schizophrenic girl you know accuse her dad of rape?

If you read my post and perhaps did some research on the disease, you should be able answer those questions yourself. But again, like I said earlier, I'm not saying her parents didn't do what she's accusing them of, but just that there could be other possibilities. While rape accusation must be taken seriously, thorough investigation must be carried out to ensure an innocent life is not destroyed needlessly. And that innocent life could be yours.

Evilgenuis:
In a sane country the pastor father criminal have a case to answer RIP
young maiden.
It's better to die happy than live in misery

why death
this girl is hot
I will have taking you any way for a wife but now you gone how for do then
RIP

Fiscus105:



Her looks, contents of her open letter, suicide, shows something is wrong with the girl, in fact I doubt her accusation

YOU SPOKE MY MIND

BabbanBura:


You still breathing? Thought u wanted to end it like this lady here? Better stop scamming people by begging upandan!!!

I bet you're a kid

Jemiwizzy:
I bet you're a kid

Yeah but matured enough to be independent thereby maintaining my dignity by not littering everywhere begging for alms instead of being lazy to legitimately work and earn a living

straight to hell!!
...you filthy pvssy!

She took the painful situation too far.

BabbanBura:


Yeah but matured enough to be independent thereby maintaining my dignity by not littering everywhere begging for alms instead of being lazy to legitimately work and earn a living

sometimes I wonder if children like you are worth chatting with what is wrong with you? I clear remembered how you accused me last time you lied to people that you sent me money to go to hospital are you sick ? have I ever in my entire post posted I need medicine aid ? better mind your useless life o.
if am sick I don't think I will remember Nairaland talk more of you besides I don't know you so please leave me alone before I call you out

Wot ever is hidden in the presence of man is seen clearly by GOD

Dagger111:



I will not be able to reveal such here as this is a public forum. Though, i looked her eyes deeply one day and i challenge her what exactly is wrong with her cos she don't seems cool to me. So when she got home, she chat me that she want to reveal some things to me and she will do so the next day if she come to my side. She was telling me d next day and also weeping seriously. I tried calming her and also gave her words of encouragement. I can tell you that i av dated 4-5days and 3 were sexually abused by their relatives at tender age. They all revealed all to me. And that's why i don't blame any girl acting weird most times.

Thanks for sharing

Don't worry, He is coming to meet you. He is a CONSUMING FIRE I hope you can withstand His Presence!

NkemChukwudi:


Bleep your biblical bull crap!

I dey house, tell your Jewish God to come and meet me there! Nonsense!

1Sharon:


Didn't you read that the mother didn't believe her??

Illiterate counsellor!

U wrote like what u are, ignoramus.

If u as a mother get such complain from ur daughter what would be the first to do? Is it not to check her private part to ascertain if it is true or not?

Do u think the mother didnt do that because disbelieving her claim?

Do u think a mother will keep quiet when her 7yrs old daughter is defied?


Dont let so much social media propaganda and lies u have been consuming wildly beoud ur sense of reasoning .

U people just want his father destroyed because he is a pastor.

Omihanifa:




You should have sent this to her DM on Saturday when she hinted that she was going to take her LIFE

He is sending it now to others who may be conceiving the idea, because believe me,they are plenty.

Claudiusdeux:


Recently in another African country, a young woman found out her daughter was being abused sexually by a relative. She did the right thing, and reported to the police.
Guess what, she was called an 'evil woman' for doing so by other relatives.(And even asked her to go back to the police and ask them to retract the report)
Yeah, the mother probably knew. But in order to 'save her marriage', and in order to 'protect' herself, and her other children from further abuse, she hid it.
Add the fact that having your father exposed as a rapist means the end of the family unit as it exists for the affected child...meaning the end of security and peace for the child.....violated as it is...

So everyone keeps quiet. The cases you see in the news of fathers being exposed...the daughter or son was brave enough to report.Or the mother.

And mind you, it happens in many parts of the world, including the developed world. People hide these things because of many reasons....

Yes, u have a point.

Like I said, am not in support of rapists or other form of violence against women and children.

What am trying to say is that her allegation may or may not be true and that we should not conclude in a hurry.

If u noticed she complained against all her family members both neuclus and extended for hating and not believing her.

I have seen many of such cases that were not true. The accusers are most of the time under spiritual attack or influence making them to believe what isnt true.

I may not be able to go into details here, but, there a lot of things that may give rise to how she felt before taking her own life.

The summary of it is that, the enemy wanted her to end the way she did, she only played into the enemies hand, she agreed with the enemy to ruin her promising life.