pansophist:


Swallow the redpill or I am the redpill?

CalliDora1:
She knows the Calibre of men she's talking about. Biko.

My dear, be patient. Your rightful man will soon locate you.

DBestDoc:
It’s only on NAIRALAND I read very funny comments like “ men are scared of marriage “ blablabla, yet every Saturday you see weddings all around town, wedding pictures on social media.

I can’t count the number of people I know that got married between November and December second week.

I guess it’s either the couples are lesbians or the Nairaland boys are making their comments from MECURY.

You abuse and disrespect women so much, yet you can’t stop chasing them. I read comments here everyday and I can’t help but smh at the level of venom spewed on this space against women. It’s too bad.

I hope your baby mamas (as we’ve all agreed that marriage is out of the question for you guys) will not birth female children oo, ‘cause what goes around comes around too.

Keep deceiving yourselves oo. It’s going to be a new year in 48hrs but unfortunately, some people will continue wallowing in foolishness and self deceit.

Una well done.

Fantasticcc:
Marriage adds nothing to men nowadays...... I see no reason a comfortable man will use his money to tie himself down with an overused cunt in the name of marriage...

Men controls commitment the same way women control sex... But a rich man controls both......

Kingosytex:
U wan use your big big grammar scatter dem abi? Your plans will not work?

On a serious note, I think Fantasticcc made some important points. Most men are not really interested in this marriage stuff nowadays, they do really to keep a baby mama somewhere than tying one self down in the name of marriage.

Loss of independence, loss of romance and probable financial strain are some of the reasons why most men detest marriage.

winterfell007:


What can you get without being married? I'm really shocked at the level of sociopathic men we are raising in our society who thinks you're doing a women a favour by marrying them

Lastmankc:
Marriage? That shit dey fear me

knowhowk:
Marriage ..Okay ooo ,Wetin dey for Marriage sef ..No be for everybody Joor ,Come carry women wey go dey Nag Nag from Morning till nite ,Guys don dey wise up now oooo .Just find one lady Yansh am Get Kids ,Work hard pay there Sch.Fees .U just stay Ur own Jejely ...

sammirano:


Thank you. The breed of ladies today are almost worthless with vain pride.

Real guys that are serious are looking for a woman that will totally submit to them. But these ladies arent even ready to partially submit. Before you say jack they are divorced, which stupid man will want to jeopardise his life with such a woman.

Yusufisraelj:



My broda in this my short life, most ladies can be handled even the one way you day talk say stubborn, guy she needs who can understand her thinking pattern and know how to communicate to her without touching the tripping wires.

There are very few ladies that can't submit, most times it depends on how the man handles the lady. Sincerely.

OyinO:
Men! Men!! Men!!!
How many times did I call you?
Be wise, Marriage is a thing of the past.

Jenna3:


This is all nollywood, because men these days are looking for financially stabled women not one that will depend on them 24/7.

ogbonti:




yes ooo - no one has been able to explain why women outlive men in marriages - say with like 25 to 30 years in naija

I will tell you why - they package all their life and family wahala and bring it to your door step - and you will never enjoy your life again in peace

over time - the stress piles up and Mr. Death comes knocking and barely 3 months after dying other smart men - who didnt follow the foolish route of marriage start drilling her hole mercilessly and by now - the mumu of a husband who absorbed all the stress is 6 feet below being eaten by ants



GUYS - BE WISE!!!!!

Hassanmaye:

We go give you our IMO girls to marry

ruffDiamond:
quota system abok1 lawyer,nonsense, I no fit marry awusa at all ,even in my next life!I no sabi their food rara,

pansophist:
What has changed ? These days, it seems like men are scared of women. They just do not trust them. Especially high flying career woman like these. I know many of them, I study with some, and their good days was in college when they were hot and partying like crazy. Then, lots of good men were invincible. Female nature is the kind that finds good men boring when they are young.

Anyways, men want good wives, not professionals. Women have changed alot, but men taste and requirements are still as old as a crocodile. For men its simple, be submissive, young, somewhat attractive, and give him peace of mind. Being a legal practitioner where you argue and figh cases is masculine, sorry, its not attractive. Same way a woman hardly finds a man that she is his breadwinner attractive either.

Even women seems not to understand their own nature, which is that they start life early from about 16, and onwards, they are riding on a superpower to get any man they want. Most squander this opportunity by chasing degrees, rejecting eligible suitors and end up alone as time goes by. Of course a woman can do both, which is, to study and search for a good man, not pausing one for the other. Or believing she has time as a man. Life has a way of teaching us lessons and sometimes, we may not recover from it.

Hope you find a good man that will marry you, but please, be submissive and don't make the home a battleground.

Chirowman:
Marriage this days self is somehow , both some men and women don't respect the marriage vows . That's why baby mama is gaining ground on to open marriage way.

Rexnegro:
Husband no scarce it's just that most ladies are looking for hushpuppi with a touch of pastor sam adeyemi hahahahahahahaha .

Ugandatales:


Damn! This is the bitter truth. I had this girl that used to form I don't like sex, this and that. Then I found out all she did with one guy cos the guy gave her 30k. Damn! That sh*t almost made me cry.

Okoroawusa:
I am waiting for that time that they said that 7 women will be running after one man for him to marry them. I have my list of Nairaland ladies already...

Na joke o!

Godpikin4real:
No, I can't, I'm waiting for an illiterate like U 2 come teach me.

Hassanmaye:
Wicked boy

Hassanmaye:

You must marry my bro

lefulefu:
In her case she is a northerner so her own is even more easy
her parents could arrange a bride groom for her
is it not the way its done in the north?

DAramis:


True, this remind me of a quote I saw online regarding to wooing a woman. It goes like this:

I'm not afraid of rejection but I'm afraid of getting stains on my integrity and dignity, on which I would never ever compromise on.

Most of these women, ruins a man not only with words but with their actions and inaction just simply because a man who they felt didn't meet their standards woo them.

Josywhyte:


True talk man. I've been in that position before and she told me openly that i didnt meet her standard. Guess what? She's now looking for me and i told her she can't meet my standard too

Akuruoulo:



CALL ME MORE NAMES . I LOVE SEEING YOU EXPRESS HOW STUPID YOU ARE.

Toks2008:


Some ladies have this vague inflated sense of self importance and i just wonder.

Most of them think the world revolves around them. I think the more educated a lady is the more difficult it may be for her to find a purposeful relationship.

This is why Guys are now settling for semi educated or totally uneducated ladies just to have marital peace and YES i know some uneducated ladies can be a piece of work too but statistics have shown that it is safer and better to go for unassuming ladies if a man truly wants peace.

Sophistication is the bane of many ladies.

Toks2008:


Some ladies have this vague inflated sense of self importance and i just wonder.

Most of them think the world revolves around them. I think the more educated a lady is the more difficult it may be for her to find a purposeful relationship.

This is why Guys are now settling for semi educated or totally uneducated ladies just to have marital peace and YES i know some uneducated ladies can be a piece of work too but statistics have shown that it is safer and better to go for unassuming ladies if a man truly wants peace.

Sophistication is the bane of many ladies.