Kondomatic:
She's too good because she's got over 0.5 already.

A child reduces a woman's chance of getting her choice of man by at least 50% same way being broke reduces a guy's own by 90%.

She knows this so she's making up for it with the good character she's portraying

Give her a husband and watch her become a Lannister after she gives birth to a male child.




So many good single moms out there though but none for me.

Woman show good character .. Problem
Woman shows bad character ... Problem
Kondomatic, you have a big problem.

coputa:
those that were divorced are lions, they can't stay with a man

very wrong sir, very far from the truth. Not everyone that is divorce have bad character, some are good but the partner isn't.

olabrinks:
Hi guys

I just want to know if it will be possible for a single mom in her 20s to find a husband. It’s just a topic I was discussing with a friend,

A mother of a son

Let’s discuss, what she should expect
Her limitations
How she should go about dating
And the possible experiences you’ve had dating single moms or being a single mom dating yourself.

Are you seen as less than and do you veiw single Moms as nothing ?

it is not having a child before that matter it is your character I swear with the kind of character you have you're better than those who are not single mothers.
and let me tell you am proud of for keeping that baby see others killed or abort their which make them mothers of graves. any man that settle down with you will never regret it because you will know the right thing to do. I am proud of you.

With all the bullshit somepeople here are saying is even getting me irritated,as a single mom is not mandatory to remarry after all it will even be worst than the first time you are with the father of your son so as a single mom I will advise you to look for a better work to to provide a better life for your son and yourself remarry my foot

orookomama:
it is not having a child before that matter it is your character I swear with the kind of character you have you're better than those who are not single mothers.
and let me tell you am proud of for keeping that baby see others killed or abort their which make them mothers of graves. any man that settle down with you will never regret it because you will know the right thing to do. I am proud of you.

may God bless you

culf:



very wrong sir, very far from the truth. Not everyone that is divorce have bad character, some are good but the partner isn't.

don't argue too much with them please there have their choice you don't need to prove anything to anyone

Littlemom2021:
don't argue too much with them please there have their choice you don't need to prove anything to anyone

Thank you.

culf:


Thank you.

you welcome men are not Worth been with, nomatter what you do it will never be enough for them they will look for one excuse or the other to use against you

Littlemom2021:
you welcome men are not Worth been with, nomatter what you do it will never be enough for them they will look for one excuse or the other to use against you

They are good men, as they are bad ones too.

Don't give up on love, I told myself that a long time ago, no matter how many times you've been left heartbroken, don't give up, those ones are just not good enough for you. They ones that will love you genuine, will love you and accept your other side are still out there waiting for you.

For the sake of her child, she should first find a stable job before she could even think of finding a husband.

She mustn't expect the man to come and take care of the child financially, unless he himself decides to do it willingly.

olabrinks:
Hi guys

I just want to know if it will be possible for a single mom in her 20s to find a husband. It’s just a topic I was discussing with a friend, and I thought I would make enquires on her behalf.

A mother of a son who is 5 years old

Let’s discuss, what she should expect
Her limitations
How she should go about dating
And the possible experiences you’ve had dating single moms or being a single mom dating yourself.

Are you seen as less than and do you veiw single Moms as nothing ?

culf:



They are good men, as they are bad ones too.

Don't give up on love, I told myself that a long time ago, no matter how many times you've been left heartbroken, don't give up, those ones are just not good enough for you. They ones that will love you genuine, will love you and accept your other side are still out there waiting for you.

don't stress out they have their different issues if not one it will be the other which is why I am telling you that they are all the same

Samantha123:
For the sake of her child, she should first find a stable job before she could even think of finding a husband.

She mustn't expect the man to come and take care of the child financially, unless he himself decides to do it willingly.

Exactly she shouldn't even think of remarry self

That's a bit extreme.. she can still remarry as long as she's able to cater for her child..

Some of these men also have children that they left behind, now can you tell me that they too don't deserve to get married simply because they have children outside of wedlock?

Littlemom2021:
Exactly she shouldn't even think of remarry self

Littlemom2021:
don't stress out they have their different issues if not one it will be the other which is why I am telling you that they are all the same

every human being have the other side( bad side) none is perfect but they are people that don't keep looking at the other person's bad side, its almost normal to them. That person for you and for everyone is still out there.
Trust me, people are different so are guys. I know some very cool, honest and nice guys.

happy new month.

culf:



every human being have the other side( bad side) none is perfect but they are people that don't keep looking at the other person's bad side, its almost normal to them. That person for you and for everyone is still out there.
Trust me, people are different so are guys. I know some very cool, honest and nice guys.

happy new month.

wish you all the good things happy new month too

Samantha123:
That's a bit extreme.. she can still remarry as long as she's able to cater for her child..

Some of these men also have children that they left behind, now can you tell me that they too don't deserve to get married simply because they have children outside of wedlock?

that's actually their business I have said my own

It seems like you're one of those bitter single mothers that some nairaland guys usually talk about here.

I'm not trying to bash you or anything like that, but you really need to heal and move on because not all men are like your ex and baby daddy.

Don't hate them based on your past experiences because you can still get married and be happy with the right man.

Littlemom2021:
that's actually their business I have said my own

Littlemom2021:
wish you all the good things happy new month too

. Amen, thank you dear.

wish you same. Have a good day

Samantha123:
It seems like you're one of those bitter single mothers that some nairaland guys usually talk about here.

I'm not trying to bash you or anything like that, but you really need to heal and move on because not all men are like your ex and baby daddy.

Don't hate them based on your past experiences because you can still get married and be happy with the right man.

thumbs up for you madam

Littlemom2021:
may God bless you

amen