oz4real83:
The people u don't trust cannot harm u because u will always be on guard around them. It is those people u trust and love that can harm u, you lose your guard around them and they stab you when u least expect, that is why it is called "heartbreak".

idu1:



100k one child and a father. 150k 2 children and a father. if you are in Kwara state let's talk.

AltCtrlDel:
Help!!! Pls Where Can I Do DNA/Paternity Test & How Much?

I got this from a friend via WhatsApp. But I don't know how to edit the screenshot to cover his name and details.

"Men are dying from emotional battery and verbal abuse. Women get attention when a finger is laid on them or they even cut themselves to get injuries and their feminists coven takes it up from there.

How does a man explain emotional bartery and abuse in court or to a relation or friend? Baba based on our discussions, pls help me find out where I can discretely do paternity tests for my kids and also the cost.. You're more SM savvy than I am. One love Gee"


Please help a brother

frankson1:




I've seen lots of "big boobs, big bumbum" and very pretty ladies who are dedicated. I don't know what you're talking about.

AltCtrlDel:
Help!!! Pls Where Can I Do DNA/Paternity Test & How Much

cococandy:
I love how men encourage promiscuity. They cheer one another on when they behave like people with no self control. They call women who agree with them good women for tolerating such nonsense. Then, when the results of their actions come calling, they are crying about DNA tests.

The fact that you guys are “polygamous in nature” should tell you that many of you dipping in the same wells. What’s the natural outcome of that?

And you are the “logical ones”. Phew

After crying on this thread, you’ll go back to life as usual. Spreading your seeds in one another’s gardens and having others spread in yours.

The kids are just a result of community efforts. They should be a community responsibility as well.

CalliDora1:


Do you trust boko haram? Go spend a night in sambisa forest even without losing any guard and see .

CalliDora1:



Ok. I rest my case.

CalliDora1:


Pls when your brain finish initializing....., I need you to explain " marry in the Lord".

CalliDora1:
Why would you even marry a woman you don't trust well enough in the first place?

It serves you guys right because when they say marry in the Lord, you'll laugh yourselves to scorn now you're all running Helter skelter like headless chickens looking for DNA that is not lost.

I want big boobs, I want big bumbum, I want beautiful face. At the last, no peace of mind as every man wants her too.

Marry the will of God and have some peace.

Nobody should come for me o. It's just daybreak and my brain is still initializing.....

CalliDora1:
Why would you even marry a woman you don't trust well enough in the first place?

It serves you guys right because when they say marry in the Lord, you'll laugh yourselves to scorn now you're all running Helter skelter like headless chickens looking for DNA that is not lost.

I want big boobs, I want big bumbum, I want beautiful face. At the last, no peace of mind as every man wants her too.
Ode, even pastor dey care for another man pikin, thinking the pikin is his... Marry in the lord in 2021

Marry the will of God and have some peace.

Nobody should come for me o. It's just daybreak and my brain is still initializing.....

Greenishland:
Wahala for who no marry born again wife o

Whiteshield:


She is not a Christian, she is an hypocritical churchgoer who is bitter, full of hatred, envy and jealousy.

JBoy9:



I didn't mean to be rude. Besides, it is a new year. But madam, with all due respect, your phone light seems to be brighter than your brain

AnonymousRebec:


Are you sure you understood his post. It is because he doesn't trust bokoharam he will be on full guard. Imagine if his relative whom he trusted killed him, is that not a bokoharam act too.

What he is saying is that you should take caution of the people you don't trust but be more cautious of the people you trust because when they disappoint you, it can almost kill you if you're not careful. At the end of the day, God knows why he said to trust in man is vain. Only trust God. Don't even trust yourself because yourself will still disappoint you.

oz4real83:
because I don't trust boko haram, I won't go to sambisa forest, I am on my guard and because of that, they can't harm me. U have difficulty in understanding issues.

decimator:
Just did mine in Nov 2020. 2 children and myself cost 250k.
Test excluded me as the biological one. I plan to sue her for false allegation, character assassination, obtaining by tricks etc. except I get a public apology.

cococandy:
I love how men encourage promiscuity. They cheer one another on when they behave like people with no self control. They call women who agree with them good women for tolerating such nonsense. Then, when the results of their actions come calling, they are crying about DNA tests.

The fact that you guys are “polygamous in nature” should tell you that many of you dipping in the same wells. What’s the natural outcome of that?

And you are the “logical ones”. Phew

After crying on this thread, you’ll go back to life as usual. Spreading your seeds in one another’s gardens and having others spread in yours.

The kids are just a result of community efforts. They should be a community responsibility as well.

IMASTEX:

* @ 1st bolded: If there isn't a word like betrayal, then trust won't have been in the dictionary. People do change due to natural phenomenon and interest can be dynamic.

* @ 2nd bolded: A lot of news are still coming from that angle too. There is a popular prophet whose wife & him starting doing cheating competition. They both secretly had a child for another person even as a couple. Be anointed and running a home as a couple are two different thing. Else marriage counselors & religious people would have had the best marriages in the world with zero divorce cases.

* @ 3rd bolded: You dey fear down in case of any gba gbos abi!
In conclusion, marriage is first a contract perhaps sealed by affection & love. Thus the contract should be periodically reviewed to ensure both parties are still in line or haven't derailed, with love & understanding each party can quickly point out each other's fault and make necessary corrections before it gets out of hands. The religious notion of once in forever in, has also given one of the partner the opportunity to become too bossy or become too relevant thereby misbehaving without been checkmated, and disliking been liberal & accountable to each other. Las Las, no formular for marriage, the ultimate goal is staying happy together. So couple should seek what work for them.

Happy New Year.

pocohantas:


Should be somewhere in the bro code.

Ladyhippolyta88:


LMAO coco you nor go kee person

eyinjuege:


Very hypocritical.
They seem to forget while egging each other on that the alfa male is probably quaffing their own wife or girlfriend.
They have to chose a side. Either condemn cheating or accept the fact that it will reach your side too one day.
On NL, alpha males only seem to mean sex and women affairs. Disgusting because real alpha personalities have so much more about them than this.
Real alpha males are not really about that life, and control in their relationships is just a tiny fraction of who they are. They are really easy to get along with, and that's why some mentally damaged goods on NL can't believe the definition of alpha male.
Russell Wilson is a typical example of an alpha male, but our dear alfa lads on NL cannot believe this because he married an accomplished single mother.
They are the exact opposite of what some NL folks think alpha men are.
Here's an interesting read about alpha males and their traits:
https://nextluxury.com/mens-lifestyle-advice/alpha-male-traits-characteristics/
I find it so annoying when some people who haven't been able to have any control over anything in their lives are calling themselves alfa male. Wannabe alphas.

ProphetM0hammad:


When you get pregnant for another man, then speak up and take the child to the rightful owner.

eyinjuege:


Very hypocritical.
They seem to forget while egging each other on that the alfa male is probably quaffing their own wife or girlfriend.
They have to chose a side. Either condemn cheating or accept the fact that it will reach your side too one day.
On NL, alpha males only seem to mean sex and women affairs. Disgusting because real alpha personalities have so much more about them than this.
Real alpha males are not really about that life, and control in their relationships is just a tiny fraction of who they are. They are really easy to get along with, and that's why some mentally damaged goods on NL can't believe the definition of alpha male.
Russell Wilson is a typical example of an alpha male, but our dear alfa lads on NL cannot believe this because he married an accomplished single mother.
They are the exact opposite of what some NL folks think alpha men are.
Here's an interesting read about alpha males and their traits:
https://nextluxury.com/mens-lifestyle-advice/alpha-male-traits-characteristics/
I find it so annoying when some people who haven't been able to have any control over anything in their lives are calling themselves alfa male. Wannabe alphas.

irrefragable:
It is not a matter of cheating - we already believe married women do that - it's a matter of making a man train a child that's not his by deceiving him.

AltCtrlDel:


Alot of men are interested in this. I hope it's affordable. Last time I checked it cost about N350,000 per person

Glitterze:


It's so funny how, if the cheating MD was a nairalander and came to discuss his sexcapades here on romance section of nairaland, his fellow men would have hailed him and called him an alpha male, and would have with the same mouth condemned the actions cheating women (mind you I don't support cheaters though, whether male or female there's no excuse). It's really pathetic and hypocritical