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Men, You Must Take Care Of The Baby Even If DNA Confirms The baby Is Not Yours by Nobody: 7:52pm On Jan 02, 2021
Men, you must take responsibilities of the child even if the DNA confirms that the baby is not yours - Barr. Vivian

Nigerian Barrister took to her Twitter handle to advice men not to neglect the baby even if DNA confirms the baby isn't theirs.


She wrote:


Men if DNA confirms the baby is not yours, it doesn't change the fact that you must take responsibility of the baby.

Women go through a lot in marriages and women deserve better.

When a married man impregnates a woman, his wife will be told to forgive and endure.

Every gender should be treated fairly.

https://mobile.twitter.com/VivianRora/status/1345146460514504707

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Re: Men, You Must Take Care Of The Baby Even If DNA Confirms The baby Is Not Yours by Nobody: 7:53pm On Jan 02, 2021
Makes sense to some extend

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Re: Men, You Must Take Care Of The Baby Even If DNA Confirms The baby Is Not Yours by Janesouthall: 7:55pm On Jan 02, 2021
U are mad... U are fvcking mad!!!

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Re: Men, You Must Take Care Of The Baby Even If DNA Confirms The baby Is Not Yours by Nwodosis(m): 7:57pm On Jan 02, 2021
The barrister is right if the wife paid the groom price on her husband's head and the husband also lives in the wife's house.

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Re: Men, You Must Take Care Of The Baby Even If DNA Confirms The baby Is Not Yours by Nobody: 7:57pm On Jan 02, 2021
People wey Wan run mad plenty this year sha...

She is a barrister?
He be like say na for Iya bashira beer parlor dem call some people to bar sha

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Re: Men, You Must Take Care Of The Baby Even If DNA Confirms The baby Is Not Yours by Righteousness2(m): 7:58pm On Jan 02, 2021
Taking care of the Baby is not a Problem..

The Problem is Deceiving the man, only for him to get a visit from another man claiming He wants his child..

Or Deceiving the man only for Him to be told at the Embassy that his blood and the kids he claims are his do not Match..

If it is a confession, it's not a big deal. You Forgive and move ahead..

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Re: Men, You Must Take Care Of The Baby Even If DNA Confirms The baby Is Not Yours by Lashist(m): 7:59pm On Jan 02, 2021
sapphiere:
Makes sense to some extend
Lol...if at all you marry, dont forget to always sleep around wella so you can give your husband another man's child cheesy

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Re: Men, You Must Take Care Of The Baby Even If DNA Confirms The baby Is Not Yours by donbachi(m): 8:00pm On Jan 02, 2021
Take care of wat?his love for dat child dies instantly.

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Re: Men, You Must Take Care Of The Baby Even If DNA Confirms The baby Is Not Yours by LutanFyah: 8:00pm On Jan 02, 2021
This Shepeteri vivian no get sense right from time, so no need to engage the clown.

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Re: Men, You Must Take Care Of The Baby Even If DNA Confirms The baby Is Not Yours by Dpsychologist: 8:01pm On Jan 02, 2021
Its seems this paternity fraud issue is now Trending on NL.

If a husband Impregnates his woman aside from his wife. Even though it is not right, his wife has no business in raising the child, it solely the man's responsibility.


However, if a wife got pregnant from a man apart from her husband. The women will never have an intention of taking care of the child herself but will try to deceive the man into believing the child was his, that is why it is called paternity fraud.

No man should be made to take care of a child that is not his.

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Re: Men, You Must Take Care Of The Baby Even If DNA Confirms The baby Is Not Yours by lilvicky68(m): 8:02pm On Jan 02, 2021
Madam you well?

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Re: Men, You Must Take Care Of The Baby Even If DNA Confirms The baby Is Not Yours by Nobody: 8:06pm On Jan 02, 2021
Lashist:

Lol...if at all you marry, dont forget to always sleep around wella so you can give your husband another man's child cheesy
Men have been sleeping around bringing babies from other women for their wives to care for.

Case study is 2face who brought in children from other women and Annie is caring for those children as her own.

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Re: Men, You Must Take Care Of The Baby Even If DNA Confirms The baby Is Not Yours by Martinez39s(m): 8:07pm On Jan 02, 2021
Queen Vivian, just like other women, is full of trash.

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Re: Men, You Must Take Care Of The Baby Even If DNA Confirms The baby Is Not Yours by Draslo(m): 8:08pm On Jan 02, 2021
sapphiere:
Makes sense to some extend
Of course you think it makes sense. Mumu. Will you raise the child of your husband's side chick? Hypocrite!

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Re: Men, You Must Take Care Of The Baby Even If DNA Confirms The baby Is Not Yours by dollytino4real(f): 8:09pm On Jan 02, 2021
this advice sounds like encouragement for women to go into adulterous life

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Re: Men, You Must Take Care Of The Baby Even If DNA Confirms The baby Is Not Yours by gfon(m): 8:10pm On Jan 02, 2021
Madam vivian seems you want fried thunder to locate you.A man having a child outside marriage and letting his wife know is different from your wife making you raise another child. Well i can't even fall for that trick,once the kid doesn't possess my complexion or any physical traits of mine,na straight DNA test asap.Once again thunder fire you respectfully ma.

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Re: Men, You Must Take Care Of The Baby Even If DNA Confirms The baby Is Not Yours by hgnbello: 8:11pm On Jan 02, 2021
Shediot. Sense Far Away Frm U.

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Re: Men, You Must Take Care Of The Baby Even If DNA Confirms The baby Is Not Yours by Mystiquefia: 8:11pm On Jan 02, 2021
sapphiere:
Men have been sleeping around bringing babies from other women for their wives to care for.

Case study is 2face who brought in children from other women and Annie is caring for those children as her own.

Who takes financial responsibility for the upkeep of those children?
It is traditionally permissible for African men to have children from different women because we own up to responsibilities.
Why not go to India, marry several husbands, cater for their needs and recycle your children amongst them.
You women are demonic in the way you think and our eyes are getting clearer by the day

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Re: Men, You Must Take Care Of The Baby Even If DNA Confirms The baby Is Not Yours by Madibahisback: 8:14pm On Jan 02, 2021
Righteousness2:
Taking care of the Baby is not a Problem..

The Problem is the Deceiving the man, only for him to get a visit from another man claiming He wants his child..

Or Deceiving the man only for Him to be told at the Embassy that his blood and the kids he claims are his do not Match..

If it is a confession, it's not a big deal. You Forgive and move ahead..

So You have this sense and ability to reason before?!

So why'd you choose not to use it before??
Preserving it for future purpose or what?

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Re: Men, You Must Take Care Of The Baby Even If DNA Confirms The baby Is Not Yours by Dpsychologist: 8:14pm On Jan 02, 2021
sapphiere:
Men have been sleeping around bringing babies from other women for their wives to care for.

Case study is 2face who brought in children from other women and Annie is caring for those children as her own.

Its a choice. She can chose not to. Moreover, he is the one taking care of the finance, so he burden is still on him.

In case of a man who marries a baby mama it is his choice because he already knows the child is not his.

The problem is the woman trying to play a game on him by carrying another man's child in her womb and claiming its his own.

If he doesn't do DNA Test he will never find out. That is fraud.

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Re: Men, You Must Take Care Of The Baby Even If DNA Confirms The baby Is Not Yours by iamyemiakins(m): 8:14pm On Jan 02, 2021
sapphiere:
Makes sense to some extend

sapphiere:
Men have been sleeping around bringing babies from other women for their wives to care for.

Case study is 2face who brought in children from other women and Annie is caring for those children as her own.

For you and the barrister, on the left side of ur brains there's nothing right and on the right side of ur brains, there's nothing left.

Afi extend na

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Re: Men, You Must Take Care Of The Baby Even If DNA Confirms The baby Is Not Yours by Nobody: 8:15pm On Jan 02, 2021
Mystiquefia:


Who takes financial responsibility for the upkeep of those children?
It is traditionally permissible for African men to have children from different women because we own up to responsibilities.
Why not go to India, marry several husbands, cater for their needs and recycle your children amongst them.
You women are demonic in the way you think and our eyes are getting clearer by the day
Rubbish

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Re: Men, You Must Take Care Of The Baby Even If DNA Confirms The baby Is Not Yours by debbydams(f): 8:19pm On Jan 02, 2021
Isokuso.. Nothin musa nogo see for gate sha undecided

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Re: Men, You Must Take Care Of The Baby Even If DNA Confirms The baby Is Not Yours by Nobody: 8:20pm On Jan 02, 2021
Mystiquefia:


Who takes financial responsibility for the upkeep of those children?
It is traditionally permissible for African men to have children from different women because we own up to responsibilities.
Why not go to India, marry several husbands, cater for their needs and recycle your children amongst them.
You women are demonic in the way you think and our eyes are getting clearer by the day
What is financial responsibility compare to;
Cooking for the child,
Waking up at midnight to check on the child,
Wash the child's clothes,
Dress the child up for school.

If we should trade places and men take over domestic chores while women only bring in money, I bet most men if not all the men would faint.

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Re: Men, You Must Take Care Of The Baby Even If DNA Confirms The baby Is Not Yours by Nobody: 8:24pm On Jan 02, 2021
Dpsychologist:


Its a choice. She can chose not to. Moreover, he is the one taking care of the finance, so he burden is still on him.

In case of a man who marries a baby mama it is his choice because he already knows the child is not his.

The problem is the woman trying to play a game on him by carrying another man's child in her womb and claiming its his own.

If she doesn't do DNA Test he will never find out. That is fraud.
I said she makes sense to SOME extend.

But remember men also lie to their wives that they don't have other kids outside only to later discovered they do.

Please enough with the financial bla bla bla.

You can't compare financial support to bring a child up.

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Re: Men, You Must Take Care Of The Baby Even If DNA Confirms The baby Is Not Yours by Mystiquefia: 8:26pm On Jan 02, 2021
sapphiere:
What is financial responsibility compare to;
Cooking for the child,
Waking up at midnight to check on the child,
Wash the child's clothes,
Dress the child up for school.

If we should trade places and men take over domestic chores while women only bring in money, I bet most men if not all the men would faint.

The difference here is Deceit vs choice..
Use your chicken head think small this year

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Re: Men, You Must Take Care Of The Baby Even If DNA Confirms The baby Is Not Yours by Mystiquefia: 8:31pm On Jan 02, 2021
sapphiere:
I said she makes sense to SOME extend.

But remember men also lie to their wives that they don't have other kids outside only to later discovered they do.

Please enough with the financial bla bla bla.

You can't compare financial support to bring a child up.

You so unintelligent, cooking up BS like you lack basic education.
The woman in this same scenario isn't catering for the financial needs of the man's child, is she?
Since you want to be a surrogate to different men, be ready to handover the the financial needs of your bastard children to their original father or quit the marriage to be with him, is that too much to ask?
How can you even underrate financial provisions to the extent that you're trying to equate it with ordinary domestic chores?
You're evil

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Re: Men, You Must Take Care Of The Baby Even If DNA Confirms The baby Is Not Yours by Nobody: 8:32pm On Jan 02, 2021
Mystiquefia:


The difference here is Deceit vs choice..
Use your chicken head think small this year
So men don't lie to their wives that they don't have kids outside their matrimonial homes and later got busted?

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Re: Men, You Must Take Care Of The Baby Even If DNA Confirms The baby Is Not Yours by Regex: 8:33pm On Jan 02, 2021
sapphiere:
Men have been sleeping around bringing babies from other women for their wives to care for.

Case study is 2face who brought in children from other women and Annie is caring for those children as her own.

Annie accepted. She wasn't deceived into caring for those kids. Silly really fits you.

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Re: Men, You Must Take Care Of The Baby Even If DNA Confirms The baby Is Not Yours by Nobody: 8:35pm On Jan 02, 2021
Regex:


Annie accepted. She wasn't deceived into caring for those kids. Silly really fits you.
Okay!

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