Victory662:
Hi fam.
This is seriously serious.
Sometimes in 2019, I was in a romantic relationship with a lady. she's so cute, jovial and friendly. I loved her so dearly. But the problem was that we were just getting along as nobody ever said anything about relationship. So one day I decided to be more explicit. I told her that, it's obvious we are into each other. But considering how most love adventures ends in premium tears in Nigeria that I want to know if she has someone else. Reason is that sometimes so guys do call her when we are together, and she sounds almost romantic as she does when I call her. So I told her: " look, we know in this part of the world, no lady is single; we either pair or snatch. Maybe I've been pairing though but can I snatch now, cos I'm getting serious with you." I told her that I'm very serious and my decision will be from her answer....
She said that she has someone else... That they've been together before we met. But she's not in the state, so that's why we even got along. I asked her if that's her final, she said yes. I asked if she loves him, she said yes. I asked if she sees no future in us, she said her hands are tied, and she's sorry.
I told her I'm fine and my happiness is that she's happy the way things are going but I can't continue with her seeing she has someone else. She laughed it off as if what I said meant nothing.
The next day when she was ready to go, I saw her off but I ended everything in my mind. I deleted her number and pictures.
Two days down, she called and asked why I've not called her. I told her I can't call her again... That she should focus on her relationship and make it work. She said I can't do that, that we can still continue. I told her we can't. I stopped her from coming to my place, I pick her call anytime I want to and just cut her off. When she realized I was serious, she called and said I'm wicked that I just dumped her like a piece of sh*t and it's unfair. I told her I didn't, that she made her choice and she has a fiance to take care of. She said she has no one. Then I told her it's late, cos I've made my decision... We are friends till date though but I don't feel anything for her anymore.

Another one again last year, on 31st December. I asked the same question to another lady, she said again that she has someone. Now I'm moving on and she has started calling. I'm not a clingy person. I only decide to stay or leave without emotional stress.

Reasons why I ask these questions is that humans are tricky I myself inclusive. And I don't snoop into people's private lives. And I tell this to anybody close to me. I believe whatever anybody tells me is the truth, but if I finds out it's lies, I will bounce. No going back. It's better for me to know my place. If I'm she tells me I'm a side man, and I decided to stay, fine; I will act like a side man. than telling me I'm the main man while I'm actually mumu9 on ur contact list.

Is that questions really bad to ask a lady??

Victory662:
Hi fam.
This is seriously serious.
Sometimes in 2019, I was in a romantic affair with a lady. she's so cute, jovial and friendly. I loved her so dearly. But the problem was that we were just getting along as nobody ever said anything about relationship. So one day I decided to be more explicit. I told her that, it's obvious we are into each other. But considering how most love adventures ends in premium tears in Nigeria that I want to know if she has someone else. Reason is that sometimes some guys do call her when we are together, and she sounds almost romantic as she does when I call her. So I told her: " look, we know in this part of the world, no lady is single; we either pair or snatch. Maybe I've been pairing though but can I snatch now, cos I'm getting serious with you." I told her that I'm very serious and my decision will be from her answer....
She said that she has someone else... That they've been together before we met. But she's not in the state, so that's why we even got along. I asked her if that's her final, she said yes. I asked if she loves him, she said yes. I asked if she sees no future in us, she said her hands are tied, and she's sorry.
I told her I'm fine and my happiness is that she's happy the way things are going but I can't continue with her seeing she has someone else. She laughed it off as if what I said meant nothing.
The next day when she was ready to go, I saw her off but I ended everything in my mind. I deleted her number and pictures.
Two days down, she called and asked why I've not called her. I told her I can't call her again... That she should focus on her relationship and make it work. She said I can't do that, that we can still continue. I told her we can't. I stopped her from coming to my place, I pick her call anytime I want to and just cut her off. When she realized I was serious, she called and said I'm wicked that I just dumped her like a piece of sh*t and it's unfair. I told her I didn't, that she made her choice and she has a fiance to take care of. She said she has no one. Then I told her it's late, cos I've made my decision... We are friends till date though but I don't feel anything for her anymore.

Another one again last year, on 31st December. I asked the same question to another lady, she said again that she has someone. Now I'm moving on and she has started calling. I'm not a clingy person. I only decide to stay or leave without emotional stress.

Reasons why I ask these questions is that humans are tricky I myself inclusive. And I don't snoop into people's private lives. And I tell this to anybody close to me. I believe whatever anybody tells me is the truth, but if I finds out it's lies, I will bounce. No going back. It's better for me to know my place. If I'm she tells me I'm a side man, and I decided to stay, fine; I will act like a side man. than telling me I'm the main man while I'm actually mumu9 on ur contact list.

Is that questions really bad to ask a lady??

fati2001:


your story too length

SmellySperm:
op do giveaway na

Victory662:
Lazy Nigerian yoot

Victory662:

Zzor:
You are an ashawo man, jumping from one lady to another and seeing nothing wrong with it because you have penis.

Olunmercy56:
Congratulations... Your head dey there. She wants to eat her cake and still have it. She is doing shakara

Yellowblack:
Op your story too long... Abeg summarize am make I advice you

fati2001:

Kapeter:
This OP acting like a sissy. Well maybe you are not the type that love marking register sha. Tell me you are engaged to satan and marry to Jesus, once you give me dat attention, i no go stop untill i use you count scores. If you don't want, don't give me attention from the start and don't keep me.

Zzor:
You are an ashawo man, jumping from one lady to another and seeing nothing wrong with it because you have penis.

Kapeter:
Fati how far nah?

Nazgul:
My brother it's all a game. A mind game.

Most ladies do it (especially the much younger ones) cos they love the attention, care, comittment, finances... etc they benefit from these guys hence their decision to deceitfully pile them up, and torture them emotionally from time to time.

Others will tell you outrightly that they're with someone like the ones you met, cos they're not prepared to remain faithful to only you. They've not fully made up their mind on who to choose from the numerous admirers falling "head over heels" for them. So whenever it becomes obvious that she has cheated, she can easily defend herself by telling you that you were aware of her relationship but choose to date her anyway. And that defence will definitely silence any kind or form of protest you planned on making thereby leaving you with no option than to endure her promiscuous lifestyle.

You did the right thing by cutting off all ties with them. Life is too short to waste on deceitful people, any girl you choose to share your life and emotions with, must reciprocate by proving to you that that you've become a part of her life, and not keeping you on the fence to extort and torture you emotionally.

blinking001:
OP you're the man. You deserve to be worshiped by our ever increasing population of sissy men. Nothing is more threatening yet simultaneously attractive to a woman than a man who is aware of his own value to women.

Victory662:
Hi fam.
This is seriously serious.
Sometimes in 2019, I was in a romantic affair with a lady. she's so cute, jovial and friendly. I loved her so dearly. But the problem was that we were just getting along as nobody ever said anything about relationship. So one day I decided to be more explicit. I told her that, it's obvious we are into each other. But considering how most love adventures ends in premium tears in Nigeria that I want to know if she has someone else. Reason is that sometimes some guys do call her when we are together, and she sounds almost romantic as she does when I call her. So I told her: " look, we know in this part of the world, no lady is single; we either pair or snatch. Maybe I've been pairing though but can I snatch now, cos I'm getting serious with you." I told her that I'm very serious and my decision will be from her answer....
She said that she has someone else... That they've been together before we met. But she's not in the state, so that's why we even got along. I asked her if that's her final, she said yes. I asked if she loves him, she said yes. I asked if she sees no future in us, she said her hands are tied, and she's sorry.
I told her I'm fine and my happiness is that she's happy the way things are going but I can't continue with her seeing she has someone else. She laughed it off as if what I said meant nothing.
The next day when she was ready to go, I saw her off but I ended everything in my mind. I deleted her number and pictures.
Two days down, she called and asked why I've not called her. I told her I can't call her again... That she should focus on her relationship and make it work. She said I can't do that, that we can still continue. I told her we can't. I stopped her from coming to my place, I pick her call anytime I want to and just cut her off. When she realized I was serious, she called and said I'm wicked that I just dumped her like a piece of sh*t and it's unfair. I told her I didn't, that she made her choice and she has a fiance to take care of. She said she has no one. Then I told her it's late, cos I've made my decision... We are friends till date though but I don't feel anything for her anymore.

Another one again last year, on 31st December. I asked the same question to another lady, she said again that she has someone. Now I'm moving on and she has started calling. I'm not a clingy person. I only decide to stay or leave without emotional stress.

Reasons why I ask these questions is that humans are tricky I myself inclusive. And I don't snoop into people's private lives. And I tell this to anybody close to me. I believe whatever anybody tells me is the truth, but if I finds out it's lies, I will bounce. No going back. It's better for me to know my place. If I'm she tells me I'm a side man, and I decided to stay, fine; I will act like a side man. than telling me I'm the main man while I'm actually mumu9 on ur contact list.

Is that questions really bad to ask a lady??