Thinkherbell:
If i love a man, I wouldn't look at any rich person twice. No matter how rich the person is.

Sounds plain , bt still cnfusing to me

asdfjklhaha:

Many guys are like that especially the broke ones, you will say with them, encourage them, support them, even lend them money you don't have, yet that will never be happy for you when good things come your way, they want. They see suffering as a way of proving to them that you love them. Even hanging out with anyone becomes a problem, honestly dating toxic guys is terrible. You can run mad with stress. Thank God I'm free.

keep quiet! It's a good thing he left you. You Nigerian girls mentally is absurd.
A sensible girl will never accept a Greek gift nor hangout with different guys.
Your boyfriend isn't toxic, he is just a sensible human.

asdfjklhaha:

Many guys are like that especially the broke ones, you will say with them, encourage them, support them, even lend them money you don't have, yet that will never be happy for you when good things come your way, they want. They see suffering as a way of proving to them that you love them. Even hanging out with anyone becomes a problem, honestly dating toxic guys is terrible. You can run mad with stress. Thank God I'm free.

THANK GOD U ARE FREE

If I reject the gift make i die see ehh bobo no go know at all.. someone should gift me a private jet na � or 38m building. Or 5m as thanks for being cute gift or bae come over to new Zealand and work then process your admission (this country hard oo).

Nazgul:

Depends on the gift bro...if it's something you need, you'll definitely use it.

Leave her/him biko. To talk is easy

Akuruoulo:
100% TRUE

I am surprised a guy agrees to this.

Magnoliaa:
Why is it an "either/or" situation? Will receiving a gift from an admirer make me think less of the person I'm with or what?

Worth doesn't matter as much as its intention from my lover... Same for an admirer - just a slight difference. If it's TOO expensive, then I'm not taking it. It'll leave me feeling indebted. If it's not and the admirer gave of their will (I don't care for whatever motive), I WON'T feel indebted or be tricked into feeling so. You gave me the gift, and I'm going use and enjoy it freely till its last.

I can't put myself in a place where I'll constantly have to be checking if I'm hurting people with what I do or say or receive or give and...

Also, gifts can sometimes be expressions of friendliness and appreciation, etc. I don't attached much negativity and distrust to it.

BRAINS

The admirer is not giving you a gift. It's a bribe!

Ecclesiastes 7:7 "...bribe corrupts the heart "

The admirer is not giving you a gift. It's a bribe!

Ecclesiastes 7:7 "...and a bribe corrupts the heart "

t00dugged:
I am surprised a guy agrees to this.

I ALWAYS STAND FOR THE TRUTH SIS.

Akuruoulo:
I ALWAYS STAND FOR THE TRUTH SIS.

Good to know.

Godpikin4real:
An old friend of mine would tell me she doesn't reject gifts. Well, for me, if I like d admirer beta dan d lover boi, I'd simply accept.

I CNCUR MA

t00dugged:
Good to know.

Thanx ma

oyinella:
I doubt consider anything my lover gives me as cheap, it doesn't matter what it is

I love what u said sis. I hope its nt just said

Thinkherbell:
If i love a man, I wouldn't look at any rich person twice. No matter how rich the person is.

You're lie oo madam

felong:

Your boyfriend is very childish, that you are broke doesn't mean you should frown at your girlfriend when people try to show her care. Such guy will block your progress because of his selfish ego, it's a good thing you left him.

Oga don't talk like that in relationship what Mr A can take Mr B may not take it you gat to understand that men we jealous modern women because majority of women are not straight forward so don't blame de guy

t00dugged:
I find the comments of people here very funny. If a man gifts me an expensive lingerie I will definitely turn it down , in reality it does boil down to the kind of gift.


Who say e like suffer head ,good for am ,I cant turn down a car gift or millions of money just to soothe the ego of some man ,only on the condition that the lover can get me same or more than. Who nor like better thing?

that's why you can easily switch your man for good life. I only pity guys that fall deep love to women because love doesn't exist in women as they can be easily bought.

I hope you know that behind every gift there is a motive. Your rich Admirer will eventually get what he/she truly wants from you one day !

Op,you must have heard or read about the unfortunate story of Tunde Thomas. I can bet you it started with expensive gifts nonsense like this. It always ends in premium tiers.

Be contented with what your true Lover can afford and don't even look the way of any rich Admirer with ulterior motive.

Pegi23:
If I reject the gift make i die see ehh bobo no go know at all.. someone should gift me a private jet na � or 38m building. Or 5m as thanks for being cute gift or bae come over to new Zealand and work then process your admission (this country hard oo).

You won't make a good wife.

fineboynl:
that's why you can easily switch your man for good life. I only pity guys that fall deep love to women because love doesn't exist in women as they can be easily bought.

lol, and love exists with men?. Men don't accept gifts from women because their ego is stopping them not out of loyalty to their partner ,let's be clear on that.

Nuttella:
I don't accept gifts anyhow, some gifts might have spiritual GPS to monitor my life. Fear people.

Are you living in the village?

felong:

You won't make a good wife.

How typical.

Definition of a good wife by Nigerian standard: a good wife is someone who stops chasing her dreams, who puts everyone first including her in-laws before her needs ,who takes care of her home before herself,who is more selfless than jesus christ ,who is ready to suffer poverty with her man,who is willing to go through more than the trials and tribulations jesus christ went through ,infact a good wife should be ready to die on the cross for her marriage.

Aksnoopy:
keep quiet! It's a good thing he left you. You Nigerian girls mentally is absurd.
A sensible girl will never accept a Greek gift nor hangout with different guys.
Your boyfriend isn't toxic, he is just a sensible human.

Am not the cause of your frustration stop throwing it at me

I don't give anything to any Admirer because how many admirer give gift and beside who admirer help I can't give any lady gift without looking for return except casual girl friend and that's why I don't have any girl/lady as casual friend

t00dugged:
lol, and love exists with men?. Men don't accept gifts from women because their ego is stopping them not out of loyalty to their partner ,let's be clear on that.

You done overdose on the pink-pill.

pocohantas:


You done overdose on the pink-pill.

my sister nor be any pill o. It's a fact even from the comment of guys here one can deduce it . I don't need any pill to point out the obvious

t00dugged:
How typical.

Definition of a good wife by Nigerian standard: a good wife is someone who stops chasing her dreams, who puts everyone first including her in-laws before her needs ,who takes care of her home before herself,who is more selfless than jesus christ ,who is ready to suffer poverty with her man,who is willing to go through more than the trials and tribulations jesus christ went through ,infact a good wife should be ready to die on the cross for her marriage.

Nope the definition is someone who gives her word and stand by it. If you have a guy, he definitely isn't the richest or most handsome or most intelligent in the world, others will come, if you dump him for other better then him, how many more will u keep dumping before you realise that you have become a failure in life? It has nothing to do with suffering and poverty it's all about your integrity

Smiles.
Quiet poetic u know.

Originalsly:


....I had my eyes on you... but I drive a Toyota ... an old one... that can sooo easily be overtaken ....... even by Innoson!

t00dugged:
my sister nor be any pill o. It's a fact even from the comment of guys here one can deduce it . I don't need any pill to point out the obvious

Don’t mind me. Since the guys say their own is red, I decided to play around with colours. Yes it is more about ego for men. Same men that’ll reject gifts would willingly accept knacks. The latter fuels the ego, the former doesn’t.

Thinkherbell:
If i love a man, I wouldn't look at any rich person twice. No matter how rich the person is.

Women say "A." and acts the opposite, don't let a woman game. Sty onto ur game gents.

t00dugged:
lol, and love exists with men?. Men don't accept gifts from women because their ego is stopping them not out of loyalty to their partner ,let's be clear on that.

how would you father feel and even you and your siblings if your mom drive home with a mercedes benz and told you all that a man gift it to her?

hmmm! i see!

na wetin you dey tell us for here be that sha

chewwie:
I don't accept gifts because I hate being indebted to someone.