TransAtlanticEx:
Money is a very powerful control tool.
It can control men too,but wouldn't work on a man that knows how to make his own money.
So who do you turn to in this scenario?The woman.

Thank you Master.

A perfect scenario would be seeking to marry the daughter of a wealthy man(knows how to make money) who is indifferent about our relationship. But there exists his lazy wife, mother of my girlfriend who leeches on her husband.

To use money judiciously for the purpose of control, I'll have to spend it on the wife of the wealthy man and gain her total support. She'll in turn talk good about me and influence the thought process of her indifferent husband about me.

I'll then get their daughter on a platter of gold alongside her shares in her father's company.

I stand in awe of you master, you are a great teacher.

Kaimaonyeana:


A bottle of wine would have settled this whole ish. Maybe because i'm igbotic but i can't go to an inlaw's place for the first time emptyhanded as a man. Just my opinion.

Though naija girls dey fall my hands, ,it's just lik going to c a new born baby...


Courtesy demands "at all at all"na him Bad pass

The way mariangeles carry this matter for head, no be small thing oh. Even quoting the Bible out of context Lmao!

This thread has been nothing but entertaining.

Fiscus105:


Because he was aggressive and stop talking to her when she told him how her mother felt .

A mature guy will say, I sorry it doesn't come up to me, the issue would have died a natural death

Let’s see. Man thinks to himself: “Let me go and see my MIL and get to know her more, it’ll strengthen relations in the family”, he thinks it’s a good idea and will probably make his potential wife happy.
He makes the mistake of not buying a gift (I don’t see it as much, but apparently, it’s a taboo in some cultures...fine).
His wife also didn’t see wrong, but thought it best to inform the guy of the mistake he made...not a bad decision.
What happens? She tells him she’s angry with him and that it would’ve been better if he didn’t go at all, then she hung up on him while he was trying to explain himself.

Even if we agree that not buying a gift is the worst thing on earth, why shatter his efforts like that? He was actually putting effort, only to hear “it would have been better if you didn’t go”. She didn’t even say “just go with a gift next time”.
Anyone would be seriously pained after that.

Now, the man is “irresponsible”, an “animal” and a potential “wife beater”.
No wahala. He will apologize.

Fiscus105:


Because he was aggressive and stop talking to her when she told him how her mother felt .

A mature guy will say, I sorry it doesn't come up to me, the issue would have died a natural death

Any man who quickly block his gf on trivia issues is aggressive in nature and potential wife beater

Though op might use heavy tongue, nevertheless

Also, I don’t think she stated anywhere that he blocked her. They just haven’t spoken to each other.

drmikeadams:


Though naija girls dey fall my hands, ,it's just lik going to c a new born baby...


Courtesy demands "at all at all"na him Bad pass

As in eh. A lot of people are here trying to justify rubbish. U are visiting your girlfriend's mum whom you haven't seen in a while empty handed, it doesn't speak well of that guy. Even when i was an undergraduate, going to the village to visit my grandparents, i always bought bread and then, drinks and gala for my cousin. It's just courtesy. The only thing i don't like is how the o.p approached the issue. She could have done so in a more mature way.

truthsayer009:
The way mariangeles carry this matter for head, no be small thing oh. Even quoting the Bible out of context Lmao!

This thread has been nothing but entertaining.

You even had to bold the mention?? Okwa m a ria la!

DrayZee:

Also, I don’t think she stated anywhere that he blocked her. They just haven’t spoken to each other.

you children boys should be there debating on my matter with your free MB. A guy that has already called me last night apologising to me

Fiscus105:



If you carry this toxic orientation into ur mariage .....i know it will wane down before you tie the knot, but if you try it, women will find it hard to leave with you

leave those small children dear. The guy already called me last night apologising.

Trayceey:
you children boys should be there debating on my matter with your free MB. A guy that has already called me last night apologising to me

Of course he did. It didn’t take much for me to know he was a proper guy. But you’re taking the side of the person who called him an animal.

Comedy Central

Trayceey:
leave those small children dear. The guy already called me last night apologising.

This is what I love to read.

I wish you good success, peace and mutual understanding in your relationship.

izzou:


So in Igbo tradition, na only the guy dey go Iku aka n'uzo abi?

I just dey ask

Yes. Abi no be you wan marry their daughter?

DrayZee:

Of course he did. It didn’t take much for me to know he was a proper guy. But you’re taking the side of the person who called him an animal.

Comedy Central

Then animal nor normal human being

Everyone has animalistic nature, when one displaying it, people will label him or her animal

Trayceey:
leave those small children dear. The guy already called me last night apologising.

I'm very sure he had discussed it with grown up sane guys and not nairaland urchins. They faulted him and quickly came back to his sense.

You too should watch tongue on how to table
issues down with one your guy most especially from family sides, his and urs

Fiscus105:



If you carry this toxic orientation into ur mariage .....i know it will wane down before you tie the knot, but if you try it, women will find it hard to leave with you

It as nothing to do with been toxic, let just call it redpill. if the requisite to having a wife @home is to be a fool for her then i don't wana marry.

Trayceey:
you children boys should be there debating on my matter with your free MB. A guy that has already called me last night apologising to me

Aunty with a luxury data ... keep decieving yourself. ofcus naa him go beg buh remember if you fool us you can't fool yourself. enjoy d cruise

GIANTPLUSHUB:


Traceey, we have passed that culture things. Now, everyone is trying to be careful and put somethings into test. You see, your man did nothing wrong at all.

How about he does not takes anything to your house but he gives you peace and comfort in marriage and always support if any situation arises in your own family side?

You need to think and go beg your man. So far he's a good guy to you. Somethings just need wisdom. Since he's into going to your house without buying something along. Next time, whenever he wants to go, try and meet him up and handover something to him to give them at home. Maybe as time goes on, he will get used to it. Do this with calm and good words, like you just want your family to see him as a more better good man.

All the very best.

God bless you for this! We need more of you on Nairaland

Fiscus105:



Utterances are enough to know urchins, you married and you talk like this, not even married woman, I pity the poor man who finds himself In ur claws, anyway a girl who was impregnated and bundled to man's house......... we know how she will reason when other sound minds are contributing

Thou I don't believe in epistle u commented above.

Go and check meaning of riffraff and relate it with the way he-she like u behave

Really? Lmao,

So stupid people are in abundance on this forum, wonderful

Continue to assume and speculate your brain out, na you go tire las las.

Trayceey:
leave those small children dear. The guy already called me last night apologising .

I almost screamed ope oo! when I read this



Happy the little ish has been settled.

Trayceey:
leave those small children dear. The guy already called me last night apologising.

The guy is wiser than I thought. He just did what I wanted to advise him to do. Congratulations to the nigga

Those who know, know.

Mariangeles:


You even had to bold the mention?? Okwa m a ria la!

Nsogbu onye no nairaland.

ethicallyright:

Thank you Master.

A perfect scenario would be seeking to marry the daughter of a wealthy man(knows how to make money) who is indifferent about our relationship. But there exists his lazy wife, mother of my girlfriend who leeches on her husband.

To use money judiciously for the purpose of control, I'll have to spend it on the wife of the wealthy man and gain her total support. She'll in turn talk good about me and influence the thought process of her indifferent husband about me.

I'll then get their daughter on a platter of gold alongside her shares in her father's company.

I stand in awe of you master, you are a great teacher.

Which one is master again, character dey this place sha

TransAtlanticEX why is this one calling you master? Wetin happen abeg?

truthsayer009:
The way mariangeles carry this matter for head, no be small thing oh. Even quoting the Bible out of context Lmao!

This thread has been nothing but entertaining.

Reason why I want it on FP, I don't know why lalasticlala doesn't want to do the needful.

Trayceey:
you children boys should be there debating on my matter with your free MB. A guy that has already called me last night apologising to me

What a sassy attitude, be consoling and deceiving yourself that he has apologised, you will soon open another thread for us, e nor dey tey

Now that I've told her what she might likely do, she wouldn't dare open another thread, we know her type

NoToPile:



I almost screamed ope oo! when I read this



Happy the little ish has been settled.

Thanks darling. As you're happy for the progress of others, so shall people celebrate you too

JovialJune:



Which one is master again, character dey this place sha

TransAtlanticEX why is this one calling you master? Wetin happen abeg?

Hahahahaha

This was funny.

Fiscus105:


I'm very sure he had discussed it with grown up sane guys and not nairaland urchins. They faulted him and quickly came back to his sense.

You too should watch tongue to discuss with your guy most especially from family sides, his and urs

thanks

Trayceey:
Thanks darling. As you're happy for the progress of others, so shall people celebrate you too

You are welcome sis

Mariangeles:


This is what I love to read.

I wish you good success, peace and mutual understanding in your relationship.

Thanks darling. As you're happy for the progress of others, so shall people celebrate you too

JovialJune:



Really? Lmao,

So stupid people are in abundance on this forum, wonderful

Continue to assume and speculate your brain out, na you go tire las las.

He-she hymaphrodite is talk, you say that to animal kingdom

JovialJune:



Really? Lmao,

So stupid people are in abundance on this forum, wonderful

Continue to assume and speculate your brain out, na you go tire las las.

Says he-she hermaphrodite, u say that to animal kingdom