emmyN:
From where the word "virgin" was originated, it was never meant to be used on male folks but strictly on females. In other words, men never were and can never be virgins. I think the ladies came up relate the word with the male gender in a forceful bid at emasculation, and they seem to be succeeding with some.

You ladies better keep your virginity because we would demand it of you. No excuse .

I would love to learn where it originated from.

And what made it a females thing.

That "inexperienced" part is what I'm always afraid of. I pray my future wife don't cheat on me because of that. The way young men and women indulge in extramarital affairs these days is alarming.
Even married people are not left out.
May God help us.

You're just wasting your time aunty. Virginity wasn't made for boys/men so it won't be used against us.

TheSuperb:
That "inexperienced" part is what I'm always afraid of. I pray my future wife doesn't cheat on me because of that. The way young men and women indulge in extramarital affairs these days is alarming.
Even married people are not left out.
May God help us.

Lol

There's still time to learn.
Don't bother yourself so much about that.
Besides,make sure to get a wife who isn't so promiscuous.
Someone who has the same sex libido as you.

You'll be fine,don't stress too much about that. For now channel your energy into something useful.

AustineJohn908:
You're just wasting your time aunty. Virginity wasn't made for boys/men so it won't be used against us.

This is what you say to make yourself feel good.

Little wonder those that choose to keep it know what they really want. Not remote controlled or led by lust.


Just try and stay away from sex cause,the females who you claim it was meant for, are the ones suffering from this misplaced priority. Even through so much pressure.

fellow virgins lets gather here and encourage ourselves.

Raggy:
fellow virgins lets gather here and encourage ourselves.

They'll see you as weak. kikikikikiki

StacyO:


This is what you say to make yourself feel good.

Little wonder those that choose to keep it know what they really want. Not remote controlled or led by lust.


Just try and stay away from sex cause,the females who you claim it was meant for, are the ones suffering from this misplaced priority. Even through so much pressure.

I'm still a virgin but still I don't pray to be that when I'm 25. I'm 21 now though, but nevertheless, I feel that virginity wasn't made for the man.
You all think it only the females that are suffering pressure when it comes to sex who say I no dey suffer m. I have a gf and she got everything we would have had sex by now but I'm stalling for now but the pressure is still much on me to when it comes to sex. so don't think it only the females that feel that

baralatie:

doesn't work that way!
when it comes to people and love any combo can happen.

an olosho can end up meeting a straight up never had sex,seen a ladies panties grown up man

and a master play boy with records can meet up with a straight never seen a naked man chest in her life.

and there is the classic olosho meets play boy

then there is the rare straight up guy meets straight up lady

with all the variants in between

With majority not always ending on good notes.

StacyO:


This is what you say to make yourself feel good.

Little wonder those that choose to keep it know what they really want. Not remote controlled or led by lust.


Just try and stay away from sex cause,the females who you claim it was meant for, are the ones suffering from this misplaced priority. Even through so much pressure.

I'm still a virgin but still I don't pray to be that when I'm 25. I'm 21 now though, but nevertheless, I feel that virginity wasn't made for the man.
You all think it only the females that are suffering pressure when it comes to sex who say I no dey suffer m. I have a gf and she got everything we would have had sex by now but I'm stalling for now but the pressure is still much on me to when it comes to sex. so don't think it only the females that feel that.

StacyO:

They'll see you as weak. kikikikikiki

Wetin concern me. Nice pic though, U look beautiful.

AustineJohn908:
I'm still a virgin but still I don't pray to be that when I'm 25. I'm 21 now though, but nevertheless, I feel that virginity wasn't made for the man.
You all think it only the females that are suffering pressure when it comes to sex who say I no dey suffer m. I have a gf and she got everything we would have had sex by now but I'm stalling for now but the pressure is still much on me to when it comes to sex. so don't think it only the females that feel that

You having sex at that age shows that the pressure is already weighing down on you.
It's quite understandable.
I just hope you know who the girl is and who she fcvked last??



mmmmm.

Raggy:
Wetin concern me. Nice pic though, U look beautiful.

Thank you.

StacyO:
Thank you.

U're welcome

StacyO:


You having sex at that age shows that the pressure is already weighing down on you.
It's quite understandable.
I just hope you know who the girl is and who she fcvked last.



mmmmm.

You don't get me. I'm still a virgin. haven't had sex yet but I have a gf who would have given it to me if I needed it now now self but for now I'm stalling, I don't want it YET but it doesn't mean I will love to still be a virgin when I'm 25

AustineJohn908:
You don't get me. I'm still a virgin. haven't had sex yet but I have a gf who would have given it to me if I needed it now now self but for now I'm stalling, I don't want it YET but it doesn't mean I will love to still be a virgin when I'm 25

Why I asked that question

Or didn't I put question mark??

StacyO:


Why I asked that question??

Or didn't I put question mark??

Cause I want you to know that virginity aren't really for boys one way or the other we go break m without marriage. and also about your talk about the females and pressure they go through for sex, just wanna let you know that not only the females go through pressure that's why I used my self as an eg

StacyO:


Do well to point out the places for me

I'm just messing with you. Most of it is true. hope you're one too??

AustineJohn908:
Cause I want you to know that virginity aren't really for boys one way or the other we go break m without marriage. and also about your talk about the females and pressure they go through for sex, just wanna let you know that not only the females go through pressure that's why I used my self as an eg

That's just entirely your opinion too.

Generalization isn't such a good thing,is it??

Anyway,your choice.

Never heard of any advantages though.
All just on a "dis" level.

That as well,might be my opinion too

SarutobiEky:
I'm just messing with you. Most of it is true. hope you're one too??

Berra

StacyO:


Berra

haha...don't you sleep?

SarutobiEky:
haha...don't you sleep?

Tranquillity.

StacyO:


Tranquillity.

all right. Bask in it. Na sleep get me so.

baralatie:

so as you dey now.your own sexometer is reading zero man sexed per second bah

Funny.




I for one know you're aware that, that was sarcasm in it's simplest form

Reminds me of the story of Hugh Hefner, the guy who started and still runs the Playboy Franchise/Mansion.

The way I remember it, he went to war and promised to stay faithful to his fiancée.

He stayed faithful throughout the war, even though most men at war got or bought cheap sex from the locals were they were stationed.

When he returned, I believe after the marriage, his wife confessed that she had sex while he was away.

He felt betrayed and decided to sleep around. The wife did not want to agree but had no choice.

That, my friends, was how the original Playboy was born.

StacyO:
Male virginity is not something regarded as normal. The society have decayed to the extent that normal things are seen as abnormal.

9 out of every 10 males you come across today have five to fifteen sexual history.
They tell you this feeling all proud about it.

Enquiring from a man then,asked him how many ladies he has slept with.
His reply was 50 and he said it with his head up high.

How will you even live to believe that such a man will want to channel his energy into something useful again?

Then again,mothers please try to encourage your male children to keep themselves till marriage. It might be hard to do but ,at least,it's worth it.
Because,if 6 out of every 10 males are virgins,don't you think the girl child will be free to keep hers?Rape and sexual harassments are sure to reduce.
Let's help save the future generation from conc. immorality.


Being a virgin as a male doesn't mean you're weak.

Many men who ventured into sex are regretting their actions now. Why cause, sex is a remote control on it's own.


Here are some of the advantages and disadvantages of being a male virgin.

ADVANTAGES;

1) Lower chances of cheating while married.

2) You're certain that his destiny is still intact. Many men venture into the act of having sex early without knowing the implications of sleeping with different strangers.

3) He's pure and free from any form of connection with other women.

4) He has self discipline.

5) He has self respect and dignity.

6) You both grow in love and happiness,free from EX stories.

7) Very interesting to be with.

He knows what he wants and when he wants it.

9) He is not controlled by lust.

10) He has an entirely different positive energy.



Disadvantages and some of the stereotypes associated with it;

1) Virgin males are inexperienced: In as much as this might be true,I still believe that virgins are far more interesting than non virgins.

They learn new things everyday and just waiting for the perfect day to unleash it all.

They are generally weak and are mostly nerds. This is as a matter of fact a "solid LIE".
Being a virgin doesn't make you weak,you can be a virgin and still have mind control over ladies.

Let no one tell you you're not man enough if you're a virgin.


Lastly,never pray for a virgin wife if you're not one.

Ladies never feel you owe anyone the right to pick a second hand machine.
Any man whose body count is above 5,please watch well ooo.

I pray everyone gets blessed with a partner who has the same sexometer as them.

Ignore any irrelevant comments below and ask any IMPORTANT questions you have.

Feel free to drop your questions using the comment box down below

Interesting... I don't think virginity is weakness for guys. There are other intimate or fun stuff one can do as a substitute.

StacyO:


That's just entirely your opinion too.

Generalization isn't such a good thing,is it??

Anyway,your choice.

Never heard of any advantages though.
All just on a "dis" level.

That as well,might be my opinion too

Yea, for the women it in the "dis" level not for the men. there is no disadvantage in being a non virgin for guys

The way some men make guys feels as though they are weak for been a virgin is just saddening. Is there any theory that says virginity is only for female? Even if there is, i care less, all i know is that no man will make me feel less of myself for doing what i feel is right, i won't bow to peer pressure because only weak men do.
Appreciate yourself if you are virgin because keeping oneself in a world filled with lust and immorality is not a mean feat.

StacyO:


Funny.




I for one know you're aware that, that was sarcasm in it's simplest form

oooooooh!

see I have female clients who are interested bin this sexometer stuff they are very serious about it.these ladies the sexometer will come in a built 4 ft by 4ft so that a man will step inside and get scanned before been allowed into the house.
if a man enters the sexometer scanning and the machine start blowing alarm like( fire alarm).they will now look at their computer to see what is the problem with the man.
these ladies they say it to save them from embarrassment, disappointment and trouble.they imagine a man with sexometer reading like dangote truck or the sexometer reading of a jack hammer aaaah
them no want.



so back to the business.how much for the sexometer nau?

StacyO:

With majority not always ending on good notes.

this is a different area of discuss

baralatie:
this is a different area of discuss

All connected to the same topic.

StacyO:


All connected to the same topic.

no is not


the act and art sexual abstinence is a different discuss

from the art and act of successful,fruitful relationships.

one deals with one's self,beliefs and training

the other is interpersonal skills,experience,faith,problem and conflict resolution skills and productivity outcomes