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This is coming at a time when DNA and paternity fraud is rife....

Maybe her two kids were not from her first husband ( paternity fraud); hence the separation......

MyOpinion1:


Since you are good with writing, I wouldn't mind

Olunmercy56:
You know the best for you, having two kids is not a bad things, you have to love those kids as your own and be ready to be responsible financially and materially.

BabaIbo:
I am a young man in my thirties and she should be in the same range(I didn't ask her about her age because I don't really lay emphasis on age). We are from neighbouring towns.

As my heading reads, recently I met a lady online and we have been communicating well and I noticed she ticked most of the boxes of what I want in a woman.

Prior to now, I told myself I will stay away from anything woman because I just started a business last year and I want it to grow and balance before thinking of any thing women or marriage.

Recently, I noticed I am developing strong feelings for her, strong enough to lead to the alter.

Now the problem is, she is a single mother of two, we don't stay in the same city and the father of those kids seems to live in a neighbouring city to where she lives(although to a good extent the father of those kids is not a problem).

My question is what will you advice me to do in this situation?
*Go on and start a relationship with her.
*Keep her as a friend, although she may get hooked by another man along the line.

Anybody here who have been in similar situation, should help share their experiences too.

Note: She has never been married.
She is working and comfortable, money a problem is not a problem, i.e no unnecessary billing associated with some relationships.

ultimateprof:
If I'm in your shoes I will marry her and these are my reasons: sometimes in life, women like her makes good wife because she has seen it all and shes ready to submit to who so ever that is willing to marry her and accept her the way she is. If she didn't love you and trust you, she will not even mention to you that she has two kids.Truthful and trustworthy women like her are very rare and difficult to find this days more especially in Nigeria.

Lot of women have given birth when they were in primary / secondary school, but later marry as a virgin to their present husbands now without telling the mugu that they are tokunbo raised to power two.

Another reason why I will like you to follow my advice is that this same woman is hardworking and your heart have already accepted that she has almost all the qualities that you desired in a woman. Why not follow your heart? Your heart cannot deceive you, most of these op here are just novice concern this matter.

Above all, I'm talking from experience and I sincerely believe that you will not regret it. Remember that why DNA trend is on today is because
of people who followed what other people said and as well as relig

Nigeria girls are liars and for this one to come out and state it boldly that she has two kids without covering it; guy believe me you've found a treasure, please, cherish her.

Oluwaleinad14:



Would you have say this if he happens to be your brother or close relatives...you really need to be checked.

Odkosh:
See them.


Bros, never take care of another man child.

BabaIbo:

What do you mean by that?

Please, interpret your adage

phymo083:
if the ex is actually an abuser how come she open her wide stinking pussy for him..to extents of having babies?(no2)95percent of Single mum will always paint d ex black in front of anybody to be able to win pity from everybody....mind you whether the ex is bad or good,the Single mum always have the part they played on their failed marriage too but they will never reveal dat side to you...Nobody fakes love than a single mum looking for a man to call (Awon DaDDy Wa)

Olunmercy56:


Yes! One man's food is another man's poison, if he is in love, I'll support him with my prayers

shestrong:


Why come to nairaland for this kind of matter when you know they'd discourage you. Please follow your heart.

ultimateprof:
If I'm in your shoes I will marry her and these are my reasons: sometimes in life, women like her makes good wife because she has seen it all and shes ready to submit to who so ever that is willing to marry her and accept her the way she is. If she didn't love you and trust you, she will not even mention to you that she has two kids.Truthful and trustworthy women like her are very rare and difficult to find this days more especially in Nigeria.

Lot of women have given birth when they were in primary / secondary school, but later marry as a virgin to their present husbands now without telling the mugu that they are tokunbo raised to power two.

Another reason why I will like you to follow my advice is that this same woman is hardworking and your heart have already accepted that she has almost all the qualities that you desired in a woman. Why not follow your heart? Your heart cannot deceive you, most of these op here are just novice concern this matter.

Above all, I'm talking from experience and I sincerely believe that you will not regret it. Remember that why DNA trend is on today is because of people who followed what other people said and as well as religion .

Nigeria girls are liars and for this one to come out and state it boldly that she has two kids without covering it; guy believe me you've found a treasure, please, cherish her.

vickydevoka:

You are right, buh it's not easy. Raising the child dat is not yours wen de ladies grow hu Dem go pay bride price to

BabaIbo:
I am a young man in my thirties and she should be in the same range(I didn't ask her about her age because I don't really lay emphasis on age). We are from neighbouring towns.

As my heading reads, recently I met a lady online and we have been communicating well and I noticed she ticked most of the boxes of what I want in a woman.

Prior to now, I told myself I will stay away from anything woman because I just started a business last year and I want it to grow and balance before thinking of any thing women or marriage.

Recently, I noticed I am developing strong feelings for her, strong enough to lead to the alter.

Now the problem is, she is a single mother of two, we don't stay in the same city and the father of those kids seems to live in a neighbouring city to where she lives(although to a good extent the father of those kids is not a problem).

My question is what will you advice me to do in this situation?
*Go on and start a relationship with her.
*Keep her as a friend, although she may get hooked by another man along the line.

Anybody here who have been in similar situation, should help share their experiences too.

Note: She has never been married.
She is working and comfortable, money a problem is not a problem, i.e no unnecessary billing associated with some relationships.

positivevibez:
The sugar go sweet for two years after that e go sour

BabaIbo:


My intentions are pure, as I am not the promiscuous type.
I'm only asking for advice from people.

Who start something without planning?

Bro, you are sounding like you a Pro or perfect human.

BabaIbo:
I am a young man in my thirties and she should be in the same range(I didn't ask her about her age because I don't really lay emphasis on age). We are from neighbouring towns.

As my heading reads, recently I met a lady online and we have been communicating well and I noticed she ticked most of the boxes of what I want in a woman.

Prior to now, I told myself I will stay away from anything woman because I just started a business last year and I want it to grow and balance before thinking of any thing women or marriage.

Recently, I noticed I am developing strong feelings for her, strong enough to lead to the alter.

Now the problem is, she is a single mother of two, we don't stay in the same city and the father of those kids seems to live in a neighbouring city to where she lives(although to a good extent the father of those kids is not a problem).

My question is what will you advice me to do in this situation?
*Go on and start a relationship with her.
*Keep her as a friend, although she may get hooked by another man along the line.

Anybody here who have been in similar situation, should help share their experiences too.

Note: She has never been married.
She is working and comfortable, money a problem is not a problem, i.e no unnecessary billing associated with some relationships.

coputa:
Yes,the biological father receives the bride price,but as a step father that took care of them,what they will do for you will be more than the pride pride the run away father will get.

vickydevoka:

Gate man for real?

foleskay:
I dont even know why i detest single mothers. I met a lady on nairaland last year and we got along, it was after two months she told me she's a single mother. I lost interest totally but did not reveal it to her. There was a time I went to her parent house and I saw d kid. A boy of 7 yrs. I I said to myself, this boy would grow up and starts giving me problem by claiming parts of my properties. I just told d lady after few months that it can't work out tho after series of fvking . I had to manipulate her to believing my excuse. Uptill now she still calls to abuse and threaten me ask for d 8k sh borrowed me. And by God's grace she's gonna hv her money back this month.

Sonfethopia:


she doesn't necessarily need to tell him she have 2 kids. he may just find out freely.

secondly single mother's are evil, they pretend to be all loving and caring till after marriage. let he marry a single baby daddy also. not a young boy wen wan start life.

Uspic:
The woman in question is here and she's saying you should come and marry her

Bouz:
If he was your brother, i hope you would advice same.

Naijahops:

see them this is how this one will ruin someone life thinking that she is giving advise pele o adviser.