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|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Hassanmaye(m): 11:21pm On Jan 17|
Ilekokonit:What do you mean by a horse D
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by luminouz(m): 11:21pm On Jan 17|
Polygamy never killed our forefathers...
Better sit up or I will marry 2 wives after you
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Hndrrxxx(m): 11:21pm On Jan 17|
Bro use your head and you dy blow grammar upandan like a Prof. ;DWhat dude is saying is that once the woman get married to you she lose all the will to compete so she doesnt use sex to entice you anymore but with polygamy other girls to compete with they start the competition and sex offering among themselves
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|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by omoyankee3(m): 11:22pm On Jan 17|
Spoken so eloquently. Broken down so succinctly.
I usually wonder how polygamy became a crime in western society. There must have been intense lobbying from wives/girlfriends of those politicians to outlaw it.
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Hassanmaye(m): 11:23pm On Jan 17|
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Nobody: 11:23pm On Jan 17|
Google should do.
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by ogianyo(m): 11:23pm On Jan 17|
Wow. This is the reason I joined nairaland many years ago. In the last few years the influx of very young persons into the forum led to a reduction in the quality of discussion. I ve enjoyed reading through the arguments. Non of you is wrong just as non of you can be absolutely right. Polygamy does not necessarily mean access to more sex. If it did most polygamists would not still need to keep mistresses when they can afford it. So I think trying to solve the problem by taking on more wives is not likely to work. The issue of a sexual balance between couples is a special blessing because nothing warns either of you as to how things will turn out in that dept after kids come. The lady that submitted that the rigours of running the home with children and probably holding down a job leads to physical exhaustion which takes its toll on libido is probably closer to the truth. Also it must be added that child birth takes a heavy toll on the physical condition of a woman's sexuality. It takes understanding and serious skills on the part of a husband to help a woman not feel very unsexy and with attendant toll on libido.
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|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by kayzeesoft(m): 11:26pm On Jan 17|
They'll use sex to starve you in order to make you beg for it. It makes them feel superior especially when they see you really love them and you're not a cheating type.
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by thinkmoney(m): 11:26pm On Jan 17|
bizme:You many at times will observe that your urge for sex is not usually in it's highest after an hectic day. This is same reason why child rearing and house chores takes a toll on women's urge. STRESS IS WHY THEY APPEAR TO LOOSE INTEREST IN SEX
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by luminouz(m): 11:26pm On Jan 17|
So y'all were blind when he dated you abi?
Weren't y'all screaming that he is so fuqin good in bed, immediately after crediting ya accounts?
Since you want to eat ya cake and have it, here is what you end up getting.
See lame excuses everywhere
CalliDora1....pack well abeg. Only you dey complain of house chores and again, na husband bedmatic skills. The way una tire wrapper with bulging tummy and flappy breasts around the house is enough to kill a virile libido. That he still wants you sexually is testimony material.
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by ogianyo(m): 11:27pm On Jan 17|
ogianyo:I believe that lots of communication can help couples get to where the issues are and what solutions will work. A lots of things work together to make a woman sexually pliant.
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by catherine1998: 11:28pm On Jan 17|
RisenPhoenix1:Bros I have followed all your thread in this topic, to be honest, you are too much, keep it up.
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by SeriouslySense(m): 11:29pm On Jan 17|
sure all the theories of bedmatics, the discoveries, and current research
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by luminouz(m): 11:30pm On Jan 17|
A sexual woman won't count all that nonsense. Men that hustle at alaba, bodija and Co nko? Dem no dey stressed? Have you ever seen these labourers work before at a construction site? Or a carwatchman along the busy lagos-ibadan expressway? These mudafuckers always are stressed and still come home to fuq. So what's your point?
If stress is the problem,why is my friend complaining that his wife's stress disappears once he credits her account?
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by holocron: 11:30pm On Jan 17|
Approximately One every 10 - 15 years of his life span because It will take that long for the novelty of sex to wear off for each successive wife. Let's say a man starts at 30 or 35, then one after 10 years. The 4th one at 60 just like Trump or Ned, can then stay to the end.
Note: Oyibos are already practicing this.
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Nobody: 11:31pm On Jan 17|
Don't be mentioning me for rubbish. Ok? I'm not your mate.
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by luminouz(m): 11:31pm On Jan 17|
Sounds like a bright idea
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by luminouz(m): 11:32pm On Jan 17|
Check my moniker and date of registration...then kneel down and close ya eyes...
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by SimplyFacts: 11:33pm On Jan 17|
Looks like Ishilove is she indeed
Sir,,,, is giving some torches
Buh she's one in a million,,,
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Nobody: 11:34pm On Jan 17|
Lol.. grandpa nairaland and you'll be behaving like omo ikoko. Huh.
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by nathanomochi(m): 11:35pm On Jan 17|
What about with virgins?is it same ?cos it is not as if they use sex to catch the man in the first instance. So an objective answer may seem strange sha or that's should be an exception
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by blackmaine: 11:38pm On Jan 17|
mariahAngel:brother ever since white people wey carry one man one wife ideology come Men begin dey die before 70, and part of it na family wey dey do am with wife as the head , brother if you want leave long for this life marry like five wives if you fit carter for them but one man one wife, bro that woman go just put you for pocket
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by picklighthouse: 11:39pm On Jan 17|
Ignorance is at the heart of the problem. Whether its the man or the woman that shys away from his/her marital responsibility as it relates to sex, the problem is nothing but sheer ignorance. And I strongly advice people to learn. Learn the purpose of sex in your relationship. Learn the temptation you expose your spouse to when he/she is denied sex.
And please forget about polygamy as a solution. That's a joke. You want to solve a problem by creating several others? Spare yourself that avoidable problem. You don't want it in your life believe me.
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Yoighaman(m): 11:39pm On Jan 17|
So your own issue is the catering part? Once that is resolved, you support RisenPhoenix1's assertions?
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by ehinmowo: 11:40pm On Jan 17|
No be low libido. Na see finish dey cause am. Once a woman gets married, she felt no need for many things. Once she has kids, she has little or no need for the hubby.
Only a woman that is kept on her toe by the 'presence ' of other females (colleagues, old friends etc. No overdo am sha) will always be on her toes tp always want to satisfy you. Once a woman is certain that she has secured your commitment and 'lock' your emotions where she wants it, forget it.
Someone was talking about polygamy. While i don't support polygamy, the very knowledge that you are not against polygamy, will make a woman to strive to ensure that will not happen. That's why many women want to tangle you withe their Pastors. Because by revering a mutual clergy, she can be certain that you don't stray in certain direction.
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by WelcomeToBiafra: 11:44pm On Jan 17|
Please no girl is a Nigerian.
Nigeria does not have any girl, but only terrorists government agencies and officials.
We must protect our innocent girls/female at all costs from every sexual harassment by Nigeria terrorist system of governance.
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|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Olakunleyakub(m): 11:44pm On Jan 17|
A god fearing woman will always try to balance her sexual life with her husband in respective of the situation knowing fully well that sex is one of those things that hold marriage together unless if the woman is a cheat or does not love the husband again.
The solutions is for the man to marry another wife if the woman can't continue to satisfy him slcexually but this might not work for everyone!
I think the point here is for both of them to see a counselor .
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by mariahAngel: 11:48pm On Jan 17|
Thank God I'm not alone on that one
...but crack dey learn work where that Risen guy dey sha
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Kuns84(m): 11:50pm On Jan 17|
Nah, the reverse is the case girl, crackhaus is king.
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by tarantino1: 11:50pm On Jan 17|
Majority of the women also gain unnecessary fat everywhere as well. They have no right to demand fit men.
Look at your mummy and see if I'm lying
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|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Molahnelson(m): 11:51pm On Jan 17|
Women will not agree about polygamy because they hate competition
but I'm sorry to say this, the solution is for you to married just 2 wife only if you're not a pastor or a minister of God
This is just my opinion I'm saying this based on the happening in the society, because after some years of marriage a one wife will treat you with disdain, but if you have them two the competition will not allow her messed up with you.
I advice men you can marry two wife if you have money to cater for them , rather than going about committing adultery, in the name of mistress
|Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Hahjascho(m): 11:53pm On Jan 17|
RisenPhoenix1:Your conclusion ruined it all... polygamous lives have always led to butting more than what one can chew.
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