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Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by UDOKABESTLUV(m): 4:00pm On Jan 13
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Nigerian man declared missing in Lagos found dead; See the suicide note he shared hours before he went missing

Nigerian man, Dele Bandele, who was declared missing by his friends and family on Tuesday, January 12, has been found dead.

Bandele, an advertising agent, was last seen at Omole Phase 2 and his last location was the 3rd Mainland Bridge.

Sadly, his body has been found.

Hours before his disappearance, Bandele left an apparent suicide note on his Instagram page in which he detailed his struggles with depression, He stated that he had battled with depression for seven years and was about to go find peace. He asked for forgiveness from anyone whom he might have offended.

He asked for everyone to pray for him to find rest and peace.

This is terribly heartbreaking Broken heart

If you are a young man struggling with depression and deep suicidal thoughts, please kindly talk to someone.

I know it’s tough. But please I beg you.
Kindly try to reach out to someone.

Suicide kills more men than women.
But few men speak up.

https://mobile.twitter.com/DrOlufunmilayo/status/1349341845697028096

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by squash47(m): 4:03pm On Jan 13
Wahala full this new year.

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by NextD18: 4:08pm On Jan 13
"The noise got too loud, but now the noise can stop"

That statement was deep coming from him. To even think he battled depression for 7 years while carrying out his daily activities makes me believe depression got no particular symptom to get people's attention to you.

You can look and appear like the happiest person alive in the public, social media or gathering, whereas you are mentally struggling and battling a lot.

You can battle it for 10 years without even knowing you are battling depression because you'll have to nurture your system on how to cope and endure overthinking, unrest and no peace of mind. All these will be endured without speaking to anyone because you've gotten use to it and feel it's normal until it hits you to the point you can't endure anymore which normally leads to suicidal thoughts.

Please learn to speak up when you start loosing your sanity and peace of mind.

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by habsydiamond(m): 4:08pm On Jan 13
No matter how bad this year is or will be. My people, friends, I and family will celebrate success upon success. We will never be elements of bad news... Amen.

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Kriss216: 4:16pm On Jan 13
embarassed

LIFE IS LIKE A PARTY, WHEN YOU STOP HAVING FUN, LEAVE.

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Raysleek: 4:17pm On Jan 13
That devil is a liar. Depression is a spirit. Whenever you feel down and depressed like this, confront that devil and tell it to loose hold of your mind. Dont give up, Don't give in. Its not you, its the devil. Close all doors to the devil

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by LoveNbeloved(f): 4:36pm On Jan 13
cool

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by NeoWanZaeed(m): 4:42pm On Jan 13
Where is the ig page screen grab? We all go through depression. Na NL a dey use cruise mine. . All is about m0ney. .all i nid is a smartph0ne and get an online job. Its always about m0ney. No am0unt of m0ney or w0man wahala worths my life . . Mo kuti . .if u want to help me out. Quote me please o

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by dyera: 4:45pm On Jan 13
This post reminds me of rudeboy's song 'audio money'.

Slow down slow down
Why you wan kill yourself?
Why you wan pa yourself?
Living fake life vida loca
Calm down calm down
Why you wan kill yourself?
Why you wan pa yourself?
Living fake life vida loca

If the man had listened to this song in the last moment of his life, he would not have killed himself.

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Stockquality: 4:45pm On Jan 13
Who gives a damn bro,now u dead by yourself. Happy whr u r now

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by lekki1444: 4:45pm On Jan 13
shocked
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by KnightsTemplar(m): 4:46pm On Jan 13
Depression is real, so sad. May you rest in peace. It is not necessary about life's difficulties, this is a mental state, that that would have required medical attention.

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Godpikin4real(f): 4:46pm On Jan 13
Blood of Jesus. This handsome guy just wasted his life just like dat?
Truly, depression is real. Let's always try 2 reach out 2 friends and loved ones. Who knows, u might be touch a depressed soul.
RIP.
U can't cure depression by killing itself.

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by NwaNimo1(m): 4:46pm On Jan 13
His punishment should be to reincarnate immediately in Borno state.



190 million Nigerians are depressed!

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by ODJ124(m): 4:46pm On Jan 13
Depression is more deadly than covid -19...

life hasn't been fair to this handsome guy...



Thread seen...

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Kingjay007: 4:46pm On Jan 13
Sad.

Suicide is never the answer.

The other side is not quiet and peaceful for everyone. It's a continuation of this one, always remember this. Actions on this side translate to the other side in death.

*I know this by books and tales from peoples visions and experiences over time.

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by futurerex: 4:46pm On Jan 13
Suicide is not an option and can never be. It is low self esteem, not depression that leads to suicide. RIP

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Odingo1: 4:47pm On Jan 13
Why killing yourself, the life you never created. You don’t think about your parents, families and love ones.
I don’t understand why people commit suicide, the world itself is a hostile place, one have to endure any misfortune of life. If one fail here you try another place, if a man or woman you love break your heart you move on.

Nothing dey happen, na today.

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Zeinymira(f): 4:47pm On Jan 13
Depression is a terrible mental illness where it is almost impossible to think outside the fog. But the most deceiving phrase of all time is *RIP"
Who told you it is greener at the other side? Who told you, you'll find peace?
So don't be in a hurry to commit suicide, the number of years you'll spend in the grave is greater than the one you will spend on Earth. In life there are plenty trials and test, just be calm and wait for the ease.

Once you start considering suicide or you're having suicidal thoughts, speak up. There's no shame in talking to a psychiatrist

May Allah safeguard us all

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Mide3367: 4:47pm On Jan 13
embarassed
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Doctee: 4:47pm On Jan 13
He no go find peace him wahala just begin no matter the hardship don't even have the thought of your own life, may Allah ease our affairs

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by southniyikaye(m): 4:47pm On Jan 13
O GA o
Last year, I was so close to taking my life..
I think the thread is still here somewhere..
There is this particular nairalander in portharcourt that reached out to me.. Said he stocked his shop for December and everything got burnt or looted, I can't remember right now.. He promised he was gonna send me something to feed..
Like 2-4 people promised same.. It was those promises that I held on to even though it never came through but it delayed that suicide attempt..
When I look back today, I regret ever wanting to take my life looking at how bright and promising the future is...
I am happy I created that thread cos sincerely, I already tied a rope to the ceiling fan with a stool beneath it..
Something just told me"why don't you just tell nairalanders what you passing through?
Help came later from nairaland and places I least expected...
Depression kills when you let it overwhelm you..
LET'S ASSUME BEING DEPRESSED PEAKS AT 100%, WHEN YOU FEEL 1%, PLS TALK TO SOMEONE ASAP...

SEE AS FINE BOY JUST WASTE..

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by pickatyouu: 4:47pm On Jan 13
This is sad.
Depression is real and a lot are going through shit and need to talk to a sincere person.

To all of us still alive, please let's keep living.

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by ipobarethieves: 4:47pm On Jan 13
sad Suicide isn't the solution.U dnt cut off Ur head cos u have headache.Every Problem have solution.Every trouble have expire date.Never give up

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Mikepenny5(m): 4:48pm On Jan 13
You didn’t create yourself, your taking your life it’s really mad
Yes everyone pass through a phase in life that they feel saddened, giving up is a foolish word
Now you killed yourself will you be happy where you are now .

The worst part hope say no be woman make you kill yourself cos from his note I felt that way.
Rip
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by bluefilm: 4:48pm On Jan 13
Was he gay or something?

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by elmessiahs(m): 4:49pm On Jan 13
depression is real, it could lead to death, while to others its freezing them.

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Oleku93(m): 4:49pm On Jan 13
Suicide is not the way out. It's even a sin!

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