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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by bluefilm: 5:10pm On Jan 13
Oizatobad:
EVEN IF YOUR GAY GIRLFRIEND LEAVE YOU GOD WANT YOU TO CHANGE

Je ne comprends pas, monsieur
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by fuckaholic25(f): 5:10pm On Jan 13
mental health can never be over emphasized!! I see some people saying " talk to friends", friends can never lift him out of that state, in fact , some friends might even be catching "cruise", the only people that can are the therapists, psychologists coz depression fuccks with the mind, soul and even the spirit!! 7 years of being low, sad, depressed yet he doesnt even show it facially, a real fighter!!! may his soul rest in peace that he longs for!!

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Omoslim26: 5:12pm On Jan 13
AFONJACOW:
otu nnegi Wawa tongue
Nkitą lashia ghi ike
Ozu ri ka ghi
gha choba ife i ghae ji ndu ghi whę mhę i si mba
You are a big disgrace disappointment and shame to your late mother
Shun bigotry

Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by chatinent(m): 5:12pm On Jan 13
What if his killers wrote the suicide note as subterfuge?
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by IYANGBALI: 5:13pm On Jan 13
squash47:
Wahala full this new year.
e be like sey the year na pro max compared to 2020
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by legba1(m): 5:14pm On Jan 13
I belief we are wired differently, what I have had to grapple with for eight years going now would have killed many long ago, yea I nursed the thoughts it all one or two times in the past but....me die, ko I will keep fighting and I encourage all whos battling depression to FIGHT....FIGHT AND KEEP FIGHTING.

We"d all be fine. NL, comedy skits and my neibors and church ....and GOD kept me going....

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by MoIbrahim: 5:14pm On Jan 13
We are always quick to shout suicide.

Hope there will be investigation sha o.

UDOKABESTLUV:
Update From NAIJA COVER . COM

Nigerian man declared missing in Lagos found dead; See the suicide note he shared hours before he went missing

Nigerian man, Dele Bandele, who was declared missing by his friends and family on Tuesday, January 12, has been found dead.

Bandele, an advertising agent, was last seen at Omole Phase 2 and his last location was the 3rd Mainland Bridge.

Sadly, his body has been found.

Hours before his disappearance, Bandele left an apparent suicide note on his Instagram page in which he detailed his struggles with depression, He stated that he had battled with depression for seven years and was about to go find peace. He asked for forgiveness from anyone whom he might have offended.

He asked for everyone to pray for him to find rest and peace.



https://mobile.twitter.com/DrOlufunmilayo/status/1349341845697028096
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Lazykulture: 5:14pm On Jan 13
Raysleek:
That devil is a liar. Depression is a spirit. Whenever you feel down and depressed like this, confront that devil and tell it to loose hold of your mind. Dont give up, Don't give in. Its not you, its the devil. Close all doors to the devil
What are you saying
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Icetech: 5:14pm On Jan 13
He must have battled with a bad behavior he couldn't live with any more from his note. Only if he accepted Christ and got the grace to live right!
Now am not even sure he got the peace he craved for? May God help us in this life and lead us not into temptation!

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by alasan007(m): 5:16pm On Jan 13
Too bad he ended it he could have think about the agony and pain his parent would go through wen u commit suicide u r just transferring the pain and agony to ppl that loves u especially parent there’s always light at d end of d tunnel
Don’t be ashamed to ask for help wen needed not everyone will judge you, RIP to the man earlier last year I went through something serious too for helping my brother n then he betrayed me but here I’m stronger n more wiser everything is a lesson
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by richmanrichard: 5:16pm On Jan 13
UDOKABESTLUV:
Update From NAIJA COVER . COM

Nigerian man declared missing in Lagos found dead; See the suicide note he shared hours before he went missing

Nigerian man, Dele Bandele, who was declared missing by his friends and family on Tuesday, January 12, has been found dead.

Bandele, an advertising agent, was last seen at Omole Phase 2 and his last location was the 3rd Mainland Bridge.

Sadly, his body has been found.

Hours before his disappearance, Bandele left an apparent suicide note on his Instagram page in which he detailed his struggles with depression, He stated that he had battled with depression for seven years and was about to go find peace. He asked for forgiveness from anyone whom he might have offended.

He asked for everyone to pray for him to find rest and peace.



https://mobile.twitter.com/DrOlufunmilayo/status/1349341845697028096
what happened to beer/liquor/weed/pussy? Thats y i dnt judge any1 addicted to any of this.Egbor good9t
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Greenishland: 5:16pm On Jan 13
I want to appeal to every Nigerian who is depressed and suicidal not to waste themselves.

You can help us to wage war against Fulani herdsmen or Bandits and die in the process at least it's more honourable to die fighting for others than to just waste your life and perhaps wake up in hell.
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by sacajawea: 5:17pm On Jan 13
dyera:
This post reminds me of rudeboy's song 'audio money'.

Slow down slow down
Why you wan kill yourself?
Why you wan pa yourself?
Living fake life vida loca
Calm down calm down
Why you wan kill yourself?
Why you wan pa yourself?
Living fake life vida loca

If the man had listened to this song in the last moment of his life, he would not have killed himself.
You are such a dumbass, fuckiing Idiot
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Lawsaite: 5:17pm On Jan 13
It sounds funny and cowardly to most people cause you don't know what we pass through in this life. My second year of battling constant depression. Mood swings are a norm to me. Loneliness is my paddy paddy. Till I find peace and rest from this world and it's chaos which I never voluntarily asked for. cry

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by RIDOO: 5:17pm On Jan 13
NeoWanZaeed:
Where is the ig page screen grab? We all go through depression. Na NL a dey use cruise mine. . All is about m0ney. .all i nid is a smartph0ne and get an online job. Its always about m0ney. No am0unt of m0ney or w0man wahala worths my life . . Mo kuti . .if u want to help me out. Quote me please o
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That "mo kuti" got me laughing...lt is well.
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by lakefist(m): 5:17pm On Jan 13
habsydiamond:
No matter how bad this year is or will be. My people, friends, I and family will celebrate success upon success. We will never be elements of bad news... Amen.
Amen
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by AstuteAyo(m): 5:18pm On Jan 13
U Bleep up!!!
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Lawsaite: 5:18pm On Jan 13
arantess:
suicide is never an option and i consider it a weak thing to do...he dosent love his mum or friends or folarin because if he did he would stay alive for them..
he wrote about resting in the after life...how? when you killed yourself,
abeg no sypmathy for peole who commit suicide, such a weak thing to do
It's not weakness. It's beyond weakness, trust me
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by northvietnam(m): 5:21pm On Jan 13
One coward/Weakling Down .....

Spoilt kid, u done try well by giving ur generation a very bad name ...

I remember one fool when we dey grow up, wey go hang for fan .... yeye boy, him younger don automatically become only son . God so lucky , her elder sister got job in CBN ... now the family is living large and the small boy don grow studying in UK

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Megaflex(m): 5:22pm On Jan 13
mrkings84:
Hey young man, know this...
No amount of tales is worth you committing suicide. Hell awaits your soulae you can't rest in peace!!
Judgemental mofos
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Jibsy203(m): 5:22pm On Jan 13
Afonjas and suicide are like bread and butter,dsame tin Awo thought them before taking rat� poison
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by delishpot: 5:22pm On Jan 13
Even in death, he is still leaving his battle for others. Enslaving them in his mental jail. Tasking them to pray for him, for his soul as if his peace now depends on how well they pray.
why did he not ask for that otayer to overcome while alive?

Pls my people, succide dose not solve jack.
You cross over to another raealm. Your body will be silent here but what makes you; you still carries rhe burden. You cross over to feel pain and regrets at the waste of opportunity of not fighting till the natural end. Yes, take it from me. Its the fact.

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by gypsey(m): 5:25pm On Jan 13
Raysleek:
That devil is a liar. Depression is a spirit. Whenever you feel down and depressed like this, confront that devil and tell it to loose hold of your mind. Dont give up, Don't give in. Its not you, its the devil. Close all doors to the devil
It is not devil, devil doesn't exist, it is stress, stress leads to depression, depression leads to suicide. There are medications for depression. The devil doesn't exist. If you are suffering from depression seek medical treatment. If you believe it is the devil you will never recover. Trust me i know!

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Ikpunekenwa: 5:26pm On Jan 13
Raysleek:
That devil is a liar. Depression is a spirit. Whenever you feel down and depressed like this, confront that devil and tell it to loose hold of your mind. Dont give up, Don't give in. Its not you, its the devil. Close all doors to the devil
Just shut the fu<k up, you are just saying nonsense. undecided undecided embarassed lipsrsealed
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by LongNipple(m): 5:27pm On Jan 13
Chai....people are really going through things.

Be Kind. For Everyone You Meet Is Fighting A Battle You Know Nothing About.

I think I'm weird. For sometime now, I will just be on my own and my spirit will be disturbing to either reach out to a friend or at least pray for them.
I don't know why undecided
That's was how I was on my own sometime last year. One spirit kept on disturbing me to reach out to some persons. I didn't know why? Sometimes I will pray for them othertimes I would be giving excusing saying "Why Me?"

That was how my heart kept disturbing me to reach out to one my friends. It's was so intense. I couldn't becos for no reason this guy stopped speaking to me. We've been friends since childhood.
Everyday, the spirit would be disturbing me to ateast pray for him or reach out but I couldn't becos he ignores me when I speak to him.
Until one evening I heard that he died the previous day. According to people, they said he kinda had some Mental issh.
My heart broke.
Was the spirit trying to tell me something about my friend

Some weeks later, it kept on disturbing me again. This time to reach out to someone on my Facebook friend list. We don't even speak. I kept on fighting the spirit saying "Why Me"?..."Why"

Then one day, i remembered what happened to my friend and so I just sent this person a text message to know how things were with him.
I wasn't even expecting a reply becos we have only chatted just once in life and it lasted just 2mins.

To my surprise...this person replied me saying he had a Mental Breakdown and is currently on Medications. I was so shocked.
He thank me for reaching out and even tried calling me via Facebook Call so we could chat more.

Where am I going with this story. Maybe I'm Weird. Maybe I'm Strange with a spirit that tells me things about those in my circle but as humans let's try to reach out to people once a while. I know we all are busy and all but just try. A simple text message of "How Far"? goes a long way in preventing suicide.

Some people just need people to talk to. Others just need friends. Some people are going through things in their head that you can NEVER imagine in this world. Let's learn to reach out to people or at least pray for those in our circle.
There are other experiences I have had but time won't permit me to narrate. In all, always remember.

Be Kind. For Everyone You Meet Is Fighting A Battle You know Nothing About.

Modified
And if you are depressed, try and be happy. Happiness is a choice. You choose to be happy regardless. Money brings happiness but there are people with all the money yet they are not happy. Encourage yourself. The Bible says "David encouraged himself in the Lord". Do things that make you happy. Read your bible. Embrace God. Don't look or compare yourself with your mates cos you all are running different races. Nobody really knows what's going on in your head. I think I'm an Empath so I feel people's inner energies. When u start having these negative energies, shake it off with prayers and words from the Bible. And lastly, Know GOD. It is God that is keeping the strongest of people going in life. Believe me.
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Trip440: 5:27pm On Jan 13
Stockquality:
Who gives a damn bro,now u dead by yourself. Happy whr u r now
your a punk. you don't know how serious this is. if life don't make mean anything to you then your not human.
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by reubenobi(m): 5:28pm On Jan 13
NwaNimo1:
His punishment should be to reincarnate immediately in Borno state.

yeye..
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by NeoWanZaeed(m): 5:31pm On Jan 13
RIDOO:
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That "mo kuti" got me laughing...lt is well.
Na person wey don lose hope dey c0mmit suicide. That thing suicide no know boundary. Even elon musk go get smthn wey go dey make am feel depressed
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by OscarJaden(m): 5:31pm On Jan 13
I've also being battling depression too for a week now but anytime I come out on nairaland to talk about it

Nobody will ever give me a listening ear,some will even mock me and call me a scammer...

#it is well
Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by Dchampion65: 5:31pm On Jan 13
May God comfort the Mama, who through thick and thin, hard work, sleepless night, hunger and perseverance nurtured you to this age.

Hope you have found the peace you are searching for.

Heartless.

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Re: Missing Dele Bandele Commits Suicide Over Depression (Suicide Note) by baggioni: 5:31pm On Jan 13
Raysleek:
That devil is a liar. Depression is a spirit. Whenever you feel down and depressed like this, confront that devil and tell it to loose hold of your mind. Dont give up, Don't give in. Its not you, its the devil. Close all doors to the devil
You understand wella. God bless you

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