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|Story Of My Life(i Need Advice) by Tspize7: 2:37am On Jan 14|
I started dating this girl, back then in 2017. She got pregnant a d she gave birth to my son. I accepted her and the baby, this girl was unexposed, since she was a secondary school drop out. She learnt hair dressing and make up, since my mum said I can't marry a drop out. My parents even assisted in buying jamb form for her, she scored 134 but yet still since we promised her parents we will send her to school. We bribed to get admission fr her, almost 80k. She got admission into federal college of education Zuba. Paid her school fees, house rents, textbooks, bought foodstuffs ,kitchen utensils I can't remember everything. This same gal went to sch around January 2020 by march 2020 I found out she was ducking another guy in school and yet still the guy had the guts to tell me to tell my wife(baby mama)to learn how to close her legs. We had issues and to be sincere I know I messed up by beating her up and I swear that was the first time. This gal in particular, ve gone to see her parents oh . she did not even deny it, she ran away from home leaving our 1year 10 months old son then. She returned after 3weeks, she was still forming right. My parents and I decided she ain't good fr me and I swore not to allow her take my son. Am I wrong?
|Re: Story Of My Life(i Need Advice) by InfernoNig(m): 3:11am On Jan 14|
Yes, You are wrong for ducking and getting a girl in her HOE PHASE pregnant.
Yes, you are wrong for sending her to school which exposed her to her HOE PHASE. Even if you want to do train her education wise be sure it's a school close by and one she could go from home everyday.
Yes, you are wrong for beating her. I know it's painful but what happened to informing her family about what she did and ensure every marriage plan ceases to continue (cos she will cheat after marriage).
Now, my advice is just take her as your baby mama. Take custody and Take care of your son and move on. Nothing good will come out if you marry her, except you don't want Peace of mind.
I can only imagine how many guys drilled her in school.
|Re: Story Of My Life(i Need Advice) by 44Bulldog(m): 3:15am On Jan 14|
DNA test ASAP
|Re: Story Of My Life(i Need Advice) by ebexofficial: 3:46am On Jan 14|
You are not yet married to her, maybe she is not interested in you or she is now wiser.
Let her be for now.
She passed through hell when you got her pregnant at that tender age and you continued bleeping her, the trauma may make her hate you, all you can do is to treat her with more love.
|Re: Story Of My Life(i Need Advice) by heniford2: 3:57am On Jan 14|
InfernoNig:just shut up ur Advice is baseless
|Re: Story Of My Life(i Need Advice) by InfernoNig(m): 6:21am On Jan 14|
You are stupid
|Re: Story Of My Life(i Need Advice) by tgmservice: 7:40am On Jan 14|
I had exact same experience
|Re: Story Of My Life(i Need Advice) by Tspize7: 12:08pm On Jan 14|
Tell me about it...
My baby mama is ungrateful, tho ve forgiven her. Even if she did not ask to be forgiven.
|Re: Story Of My Life(i Need Advice) by Tspize7: 12:12pm On Jan 14|
Thanks for your contribution, yea I bleeped up for sending her to school. When she got pregnant, she was already 20, so is not a kid. Bro I can't and will never marry her..
Enlighten me on the baby mama stuff, how do I go about it..
|Re: Story Of My Life(i Need Advice) by Tspize7: 12:16pm On Jan 14|
Don't jump to conclusion, when she got pregnant she was 20 years of age already. Beside she started the love stuff first. When will were still together, if I don't touch her at night, she will pick offense. Except she is on her period, we were really in love. I was shocked when I found out about her promiscuous behaviour.. Sha her mother did not marry her dad, I guess it runs in the blood. Fear EDO gals
|Re: Story Of My Life(i Need Advice) by InfernoNig(m): 1:28pm On Jan 14|
Understand your role to play in all of this and respect the boundaries established by you, her and her family. Don't try to be a second mother to the child. Instead, just try to build a solid relationship with your kid. Make your feelings clear: This is really important. And try not to sleep with her.
|Re: Story Of My Life(i Need Advice) by Tspize7: 5:23pm On Jan 14|
Her detest her, ve forgiven her. I will rather sleep with a corpse than sleep with her.
|Re: Story Of My Life(i Need Advice) by InfernoNig(m): 5:29pm On Jan 14|
It's ok. Don't make her your enemy. Spread the love but know your boundaries.
|Re: Story Of My Life(i Need Advice) by LadySarah(f): 5:34pm On Jan 14|
Team Baby Mamas,come give your own advice
|Re: Story Of My Life(i Need Advice) by heniford2: 5:43pm On Jan 14|
InfernoNig:your stupidity is beyond ur own understanding
|Re: Story Of My Life(i Need Advice) by SimplyFacts: 5:43pm On Jan 14|
Firstly, the use of yet still in your post is annoying. You can just use of the two in a sentence. Take note
Secondly, if all that you put up there is real, I would advise you to move on. She has pride & oloshoism; she can't be submissive to you.
Thirdly, do not raise your hands against a lady again. Learn to control yourself & walk away
|Re: Story Of My Life(i Need Advice) by Tspize7: 5:46pm On Jan 14|
This gal in question hates me with passion, its a long story. Omo I am still shocked, fear women.
She can't forgive herself, after all we did for her. Bro even shame won't allow her look into my face. Its been almost a year I saw her sha, my son will be 3 by march 29th. She is still enjoying campus life.
|Re: Story Of My Life(i Need Advice) by Tspize7: 5:50pm On Jan 14|
Am still surprised how she is still friends with blessing, the so called gal she ran to her place and spent weeks at her place. This gal cane with mercy to my house, she told us in presence of Mercy that my baby mama do cook and go to the so called Guy's place to spend weekend. She still said Mercy vehemently denied our son, I still wonder if your friend can cast tour parole like this and you're still friends. Sometin is fishy, or is it that my baby mama is just dumb?
|Re: Story Of My Life(i Need Advice) by InfernoNig(m): 6:25pm On Jan 14|
It's life. Just move on.
|Re: Story Of My Life(i Need Advice) by InfernoNig(m): 6:26pm On Jan 14|
Is this the best u can come up? No doubt, coming from a brain leaking sense
|Re: Story Of My Life(i Need Advice) by heniford2: 5:02am On Jan 15|
InfernoNig:such a waste semen your parents will be regretting having you
|Re: Story Of My Life(i Need Advice) by InfernoNig(m): 5:19am On Jan 15|
From you mama rotten cunt ba?
|Re: Story Of My Life(i Need Advice) by Privatepart00: 6:15am On Jan 15|
Stop sounding like you did the girl a favor.
You know she wasn’t exposed before pulling her panties down.
It is more bad you couldn’t expose her in bed .
Learn to carry your cross wholeheartedly.
You probably went for the easy girl to see her panties.
Glad she’s becoming exposed willingly in the institution.
Continue enjoying the rope you untied.
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