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Best Way To Resolve This Girls Issue by ArcFresky(m): 11:04am On Jan 14
I met this nice young girl pushing 27 but still in final year uni, intelligent, smart, just the way I like them.
Took 2 years to get her contacts from FB, Started talking for hours, seemed nice..

Our courses are related, architecture and civil engineering.. So I was already dreaming of big things.

Tested the water by asking all those normal and abnormal questions that will make a girl understand the direction the boy is going.

Girl too was encouraging.

Then she asked for #20k to register for COREN, I gave her #10k no questions asked.

We fixed a date to meet and met.

Next thing I asked her out and she flared up, that I was passing my boundary.

Like.... WTF!!!!

I am very busy person, So I just assumed maybe I am rushing things, so I just chilled, calls reduced untill we no longer really talked.

Next thing from her, is please send me credit or data, which made me feel like a cash cow,
I ignored her until she started flashing.

Girls can be confusing, what sort of boundary allows you to ask from monetary gifts?

I am thinking of telling her to GFH, but I think professional relationships should be nurtured.

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Re: Best Way To Resolve This Girls Issue by vibbb: 11:13am On Jan 14
Did you just say professional relationship should be nurtured ? When you are not even in a relationship yet.
You better join Stingy Men Association of Nigeria before the form runs out. Obviously you are just one of her magas.

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Re: Best Way To Resolve This Girls Issue by holocron: 11:17am On Jan 14
It's part of the game of shit-testing. Play along. Accept the call and with a straight face affirm your willingness to give but on her fulfillment of your conditions, and don't waiver. She may accept or vex and go. Then forget her. If she decides to come back it means she has finally accepted your terms.

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Re: Best Way To Resolve This Girls Issue by Nazgul: 11:18am On Jan 14
It's clear she's not really into you. That's why she's telling you not to rush things but contradicting her own words by requesting for financial assistance from you.

The best reply you can give to her whenever she asks you for money or card is to tell her not to rush things as well.

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Re: Best Way To Resolve This Girls Issue by Salt06(m): 11:28am On Jan 14
Give her a deafening silence

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Re: Best Way To Resolve This Girls Issue by DaddyRochie1642(f): 11:59am On Jan 14
vibbb:
Did you just say professional relationship should be nurtured ? When you are not even in a relationship yet.
You better join Stingy Men Association of Nigeria before the form runs out. Obviously you are just one of her magas.




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Re: Best Way To Resolve This Girls Issue by paulolee(m): 12:10pm On Jan 14
I started having problem with ur post when I first read where you said "it took 2 years to get her number, maybe shes related to dangote..
secondly she asked for 20k and you gave her 10k which also pained me but maybe you are #lavish, you asked her out and she flared up talking about u passing ur boundaries that wasnt constructed when ahe asked for money abi?
now shes calling, flashing and disturbing you for credits and data forgetting about her said boundaries and you scared of telling her to GFH and even block her number online and even offline...
guys dey this country sha o...

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Re: Best Way To Resolve This Girls Issue by densiks: 12:11pm On Jan 14
Send her number to me,after two weeks she’ll call you and accept your relationship request.

You can thank me after that has been done.

You should be hanging a very big L sign on your neck.
Re: Best Way To Resolve This Girls Issue by ArcFresky(m): 1:53pm On Jan 14
Salt06:
Give her a deafening silence

E loud gan

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Re: Best Way To Resolve This Girls Issue by Deentertainer(m): 1:53pm On Jan 14
My guy pls make she no cash out with you

Meanwhile 500gb,1tb external drive is available with different movies of your choice.
Check my signature.
Re: Best Way To Resolve This Girls Issue by ArcFresky(m): 1:53pm On Jan 14
densiks:


You should be hanging a very big L sign on your neck.

Lol, you think so?
Re: Best Way To Resolve This Girls Issue by ninetiethcrown7(m): 2:13pm On Jan 14
E b tins!

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