PrinceofAgoAre:
Lol. So you'd choose death over hw many minute pleasure. It's nt like they are going to take d whole day, what if dey are d 40sec kind of men.
when it comes to unwanted pregnancy or watever, postinors, post pills are available.
std's can be treated right! , nd it's nt lyk she wont go 4 medical examination afta d ordeal.. Nawa 4 u oo.

And who told you rape is pleasure? Forceful sex with six guys can never be pleasurable, stop using porn to judge. Men who rape are hardly 40 secs men, most take drugs before embanking on that journey. And fvcking a woman without getting her in the mood will hurt and bruise her insides. Now imagine that happening over and over again until they sixth person

I don't have any problem with his wife opinion, the only problem i have is the suggestion that every woman should think that way, if you want to recommend something for society, you must recommend what is valuable, honorable and high standards, so society keeps improving as a whole, i understand at her own discretion, she can get comfortable with the rapist, to save her life, apologies, if i am wrong.

Before rape, one should have a character without fear, should know how to understand the criminals, should plan home security, and even how a woman can defend herself, don't be so quick to accept bad things

Tajbol4splend:



There's no better way to express herself to her husband, he's got to understand because he doesn't have a choice than to, it's the reality that is not acceptable, don't tell me you would rather die

I'll rather die than go through that ordeal. One guy, maybe, anything higher than that, I'll choose death.

Don't tell me as the husband, that you will look at her the same way after the rape? That you won't look at her everyday and not remember this event? That she can move on with her life happily after this event?

cooooooks:
This is not a new situational question and the responses are usually 50-50.

50% think like your wife and 50% think like the lady who died.

Nothing your wife said is shocking. She would be acting like 50% of women in such a situation.

Also, let us not act as if many women do not experience sexual assault and rape as young adults, including in relationships.

How many experience it with six guys at a time?

na wa for u o

CalliDora1:
It's not right for her to make such a statement. It just goes to show how shallow some peoples' brains can be.

Does She think rape is pleasurable? For all she knows, the lady would have still died from being raped by those hefty men or worst still gotten infected with a deadly disease or ended with an unwanted pregnancy that will torment her for life.

The lady died a hero. And her death didn't go unavenged. so why is your wife saying she died for nothing?? She's narrow minded and cheap. You're not overreacting. In fact, if you can, show her my comment, let her learn how to reason and talk in matters like this.

Watch similar thing in this new movie


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uGI1kWWcXfw

She should not have made that statement even though that was her own opinion. We are different people, some people will rather die than allowing criminals to climb on them having sex with them. In her own case that is what she would have done, but in the case of the other lady, that is what she did.

Hardgun:
She was right at the wrong time.

No! At the wrong place

eallstar:

So if female robbers visit your apartment
Demanded u sleep with them or get killed?
Please I need your answer first YES or NO?

You people stop comparing men with women. Can you imagine a woman receiving six different types of sperm from six men, in this case you are talking about, man will be giving out, but in the other case the woman is receiving six different types of sperm. It is disgusting.

Some women lack sense. Survival instinct or not, must she say such nonsense to her husband.

You are overthinking a simple thing. Reverse the situation. 6 beautiful girls want to rape you or kill you if they don't have there way. What will you do? In fact, if my wife is in such a situation, I would prefer she picks rape and being alive. If she's alive, we can seek the service of a psychologist to help through the trauma. I will also support her 100%.

She said the right thing, but a wise woman won't say it out in the presence of her husband. I blame her for that.

Six guys? The kind of life afterwards won't be worth it for me. Just one is highly traumatic talk more of six. May God not allow us encounter such situation.

But in a situation that is your head they point the gun,and they wanted to rape her...won't you say she doesn't love u,if she resist rape?.dnt be selfish

u even get time to dey sit down n be watching movies and gossiping with ur wife

CalliDora1:
It's not right for her to make such a statement. It just goes to show how shallow some peoples' brains can be.

Does She think rape is pleasurable? For all she knows, the lady would have still died from being raped by those hefty men or worst still gotten infected with a deadly disease or ended with an unwanted pregnancy that will torment her for life.

The lady died a hero. And her death didn't go unavenged. so why is your wife saying she died for nothing?? She's narrow minded and cheap. You're not overreacting. In fact, if you can, show her my comment, let her learn how to reason and talk in matters like this.

aunty, will u chose to die rather than be raped and face a chance of living? Abeg calm down.

Fact is that the woman shud not have spoken. Some things are better left unsaid. But if it becomes a matter of life and death, abeg she will be smart to chose life

Sixfeetbelle:


I'll rather die than go through that ordeal. One guy, maybe, anything higher than that, I'll choose death.

Don't tell me as the husband, that you will look at her the same way after the rape? That you won't look at her everyday and not remember this event? That she can move on with her life happily after this event?

just pray u don't ever have to make such choice. But trust me, u will choose to live

CalliDora1:
It's not right for her to make such a statement. It just goes to show how shallow some peoples' brains can be.

Does She think rape is pleasurable? For all she knows, the lady would have still died from being raped by those hefty men or worst still gotten infected with a deadly disease or ended with an unwanted pregnancy that will torment her for life.

The lady died a hero. And her death didn't go unavenged. so why is your wife saying she died for nothing?? She's narrow minded and cheap. You're not overreacting. In fact, if you can, show her my comment, let her learn how to reason and talk in matters like this.

See who is accusing someone of being shallow. For your mind, you don make sense abi? See, some things are easier said than done. You think its easy to die

adeadeyera:
Put yourself in her position.
Some female robbers storm your home and demand that you sleep with them or get killed.
Your answer to this poser will determine whether you're sensible or just plain dumb.
So, because she's married to you, she should die senselessly abi?

you really don't have to go harsh on him.. He's jst asking doesn't it feel off?

Is everything OK at home?

E go shock pass Aso rock matter! Between the death and life with an option which will take? Stop behaving childishly...

CalliDora1:
It's not right for her to make such a statement. It just goes to show how shallow some peoples' brains can be.

Does She think rape is pleasurable? For all she knows, the lady would have still died from being raped by those hefty men or worst still gotten infected with a deadly disease or ended with an unwanted pregnancy that will torment her for life.

The lady died a hero. And her death didn't go unavenged. so why is your wife saying she died for nothing?? She's narrow minded and cheap. You're not overreacting. In fact, if you can, show her my comment, let her learn how to reason and talk in matters like this.

Yea, she was been unreasonable... 6 hefty men will murder her with hefty dickkks. There are somethings that shouldn't be said at all. She could have said, God forbid i find myself in such a situation.

CalliDora1:
It's not right for her to make such a statement. It just goes to show how shallow some peoples' brains can be.

Does She think rape is pleasurable? For all she knows, the lady would have still died from being raped by those hefty men or worst still gotten infected with a deadly disease or ended with an unwanted pregnancy that will torment her for life.

The lady died a hero. And her death didn't go unavenged. so why is your wife saying she died for nothing?? She's narrow minded and cheap. You're not overreacting. In fact, if you can, show her my comment, let her learn how to reason and talk in matters like this.

What are u saying. U will Open and still suck dia balls if it were to b u at d sight of weapons

Go and see both a marriage therapist and a psychologist.

Canadianelenu:
Recently, the increase in armed robberies and banditry has become a disturbing trend in Nigeria. It is even more horrendous when the men of the underworld not only steal when they attack but will also rape any unfortunate female caught in the invasion.

My wife and I were watching a real life crime documentary one evening and in the documentary, a lady was shot and killed after resisting rape advances from 6 men who invaded her residence.

Fortunately, the criminals were later caught using forensic evidence and paraded by law enforcement. These men were tough looking strongly built men who no doubts would have torn the lady apart if they had succeeded in raping her.

However, the shocker was when my wife of 4 years said, and I quote “she just died for nothing and has caused her family a lot of grief...if it were me, I would just let them have their way and live to see another day”.

Although this sounded very right, it also sounded very wrong at the same time and has since been messing with my head as I cannot get the picture out of my mind. We could both see that they were 6 hefty men and yet she felt she should have................

Ladies, am I over reacting and men, what do you think? How can something feel so right and so wrong simultaneously?

adeadeyera:
Put yourself in her position.
Some female robbers storm your home and demand that you sleep with them or get killed.
Your answer to this poser will determine whether you're sensible or just plain dumb.
So, because she's married to you, she should die senselessly abi?

I will vote you as president even though you ain't contesting, u Sabi pass the present one wey dey on board!
I'm pleased.........

adeadeyera:
Put yourself in her position.
Some female robbers storm your home and demand that you sleep with them or get killed.
Your answer to this poser will determine whether you're sensible or just plain dumb.
So, because she's married to you, she should die senselessly abi?

If the Armed robbers where Gay and want to do u instead of your wife or shoot you if you refuse....... Ngwanu!

lekonso:

You people stop comparing men with women. Can you imagine a woman receiving six different types of sperm from six men, in this case you are talking about, man will be giving out, but in the other case the woman is receiving six different types of sperm. It is disgusting.

Answer my question first YES or NO?
So u prefer her to die and after like 6 months or
a year u marry another woman and b4 that six months u find someone to dey enjoy first cos she's not your sister or blood relation?
See let me tell you little secret, no matter what happens in this life being situation or challenges
No matter how big the problem is, it's doesn't worth to loses Ur precious life for. Instead look for a solution, a way out.

So what u are saying is that they shuld her abi??hmmmm if they kill her ur comment will b like she shuld hav let them do it to stay alive abi

CalliDora1:
It's not right for her to make such a statement. It just goes to show how shallow some peoples' brains can be.

Does She think rape is pleasurable? For all she knows, the lady would have still died from being raped by those hefty men or worst still gotten infected with a deadly disease or ended with an unwanted pregnancy that will torment her for life.

The lady died a hero. And her death didn't go unavenged. so why is your wife saying she died for nothing?? She's narrow minded and cheap. You're not overreacting. In fact, if you can, show her my comment, let her learn how to reason and talk in matters like this.

Oga grow up. Youre the one messing with your own head. Smart wife dumb ass insecure husband

What if the robbers give the option of either they kill you the man or rape your wife, am very sure you will prefer to die? Ewure.

What do you mean?

Is rape by 1 less traumatizing than rape by 6?

Are you stratifying rape trauma?

Sixfeetbelle:


How many experience it with six guys at a time?

lekonso:

You people stop comparing men with women. Can you imagine a woman receiving six different types of sperm from six men, in this case you are talking about, man will be giving out, but in the other case the woman is receiving six different types of sperm. It is disgusting.

What about the robbers pointed the gun on ur head
and said they will kill you if your wife do not allow them? and they mean business
So what's your comment on this?
Pls reply urgently
I think you will choose death right?
The situation can be in any form, it can even be the husband they will point the gun at, and tell him to tell his wife to cooperate or they shoot him