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Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by kc4christ(m): 10:07pm On Jan 16, 2021
people change


my own is that why do ladies dress OK why dating and decide to enter wrapper mood after marriage



that my concern.


thanks.

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Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by chevkosticks(m): 10:08pm On Jan 16, 2021
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Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by LoveTalk(f): 10:08pm On Jan 16, 2021
kabanayol9:

For where, forget that thing, you are who you are especially when money � come show, your real attitude comes alive.
Boda, money and success don’t change people; they merely amplify what is already there.
Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by briggson07(m): 10:10pm On Jan 16, 2021
Please I need advice am 25 years old male and I have a young chubby female friend...
I think we are sexually attracted to each other but am afraid I don't want to ruin the platonic relationship we have been enjoying for the past 5 years,

Note am not in love but I feel so much for her as well am confuse please op and members I need help.

Thanks
Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by openmine(m): 10:10pm On Jan 16, 2021
LoveTalk:

There may be a day in your life where you go about your business, not suspecting anything, when you realize that someone close to you changed almost overnight.

This change can be a change for the better or the worse. Whatever it is, it is always a little bit strange when people change so abruptly.

In these situations, it can be quite helpful to have a couple of inspiring statements at hand that help you to better cope with the fact that people change. Many of these quotes stem from some of the wisest men and women that ever lived on this planet. Consequently, their advice on how to deal with people that have changed can be quite helpful and encouraging
Like i said ab initio,people willingly decide to change because they believe its the right decision to make not because of an individual!

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Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by Originalsly: 10:11pm On Jan 16, 2021
To the topic....do people really change if they love someone? Some do most don't. I don't think we're talking about pretending to change... that's a different topic. I have known people who have changed all because of loving someone.... some changed for the better ...... some changed for the worse ... and some simply went mad. Don't you know of ehmmm.... holy rollers that have tumbled from grace and be like the worst of the worst prostitutes?.....and guys that were ehmmm.... Satanic become real MoG?Bottomline.... some really changed because they loved someone.
Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by LoveTalk(f): 10:12pm On Jan 16, 2021
openmine:

Like i said ab initio,people willingly decide to change because they believe its the right decision to make not because of an individual!
Well, I concur
Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by debbydams(f): 10:12pm On Jan 16, 2021
Yes if it's true love
Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by LoveTalk(f): 10:13pm On Jan 16, 2021
Sepetonri:

No o, they gaz delete my account this night. Eyin MODs werey da? Come out o else thunder destroy you.
You can talk to me.
What's the problem?
Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by Akakanfirstclass(m): 10:15pm On Jan 16, 2021
substitute the word Change with grow...
shebi everything don clear you now..

people grow
everybody grows
growth in attitudes/habit
growth in sense of perspective
growth in standard of relationship
growth in moral standards and mentality

when we see diz growth we call it change..

change(growth) is constant
adult can never think like a toddler

we grow by what we learn..
so if u affect(teach) a person any new standard to what they already knew(initial character)
they tend to learn the new standard (grow)
which appears as if they change...

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Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by Kingstanding: 10:18pm On Jan 16, 2021
LoveTalk:
Hi Cuties and Fellas!

We've seen a lot of people fall in love in different ways.

Some people promise to change if you could give them chance to come into your life.

Many people have been victims of this in the past.

A guy or lady will promise to change and become a better person but the reverse is the case once you allow them in your life.

I don't know if people do really change when they love someone.

Please let's discuss this question:

Do you believe people can change if they love someone?
. God is the only one that cannot change. What is love to human being?
Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by Wartsnigeria: 10:20pm On Jan 16, 2021
Yes people actually change, it's only on social media they will tell you peope don't change, even the violent people also change.

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Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by lanre4islam(m): 10:21pm On Jan 16, 2021
To maintain love, trust is needed. When in Iove people do sort of things to win their partner trust, including changing their real self.

Along, the line of pretending to be good for him/her, some people were motivated to truly change for better while some resume their old/real self once they execute their agenda.

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Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by LoveTalk(f): 10:22pm On Jan 16, 2021
Kingstanding:
. God is the only one that cannot change. What is love to human being?
The way we think about change is all that matters. If we welcome change, we can quickly spot the fantastic opportunities that change brings into our lives. At the same time, if we try to run away from change, we will never be open to seize these wonderful opportunities.
Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by valentineuwakwe(m): 10:22pm On Jan 16, 2021
yes...wen you truly fail in love......but you can always be your best teacher so try falling in love and see if you won't change!
Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by Happy2020: 10:23pm On Jan 16, 2021
Of course someone can change.
People also wear masks to make it appear that that have changed or they are a certain way. Eventually the mask comes off but often it’s years later and you have invested much time and
Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by jaxxy(m): 10:25pm On Jan 16, 2021
LoveTalk:
Hi Cuties and Fellas!

We've seen a lot of people fall in love in different ways.

Some people promise to change if you could give them chance to come into your life.

Many people have been victims of this in the past.

A guy or lady will promise to change and become a better person but the reverse is the case once you allow them in your life.

I don't know if people do really change when they love someone.

Please let's discuss this question:

Do you believe people can change if they love someone?

Yes people can change depending on some factors.

1. How strong the habit
2. How self discipline they are to quickly adjust
3. How much they value the one in their lives
4. Coincidence of being ready to change and need that push.

Mind u Most cases don’t play out this way. Instead it get worse. My submission are for rare cases.
Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by LoveTalk(f): 10:26pm On Jan 16, 2021
Sepetonri:

No o, I'm not talking or are you a MOD too? Better shift before small thunder touch you. undecided. Mynd44 and others delete this account now or ban me for life. I have told you my own.
Sha be calm
Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by Nobody: 10:27pm On Jan 16, 2021
Yeah,I Can Change or Pretend to Coz of Love..Like I Stopped Smoking in Front of my House Coz my Mum Doesn't like it...The only opinions that really matter to me are that of the ones I Love and Cherish(Like My Dad and Mum).I Care about those close to me(Like My GF) and How they feel about my Shiit,So if I can bend to impress them,I will..But Random Peeps and their thoughts really mean nothing to me.

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Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by LoveTalk(f): 10:27pm On Jan 16, 2021
jaxxy:


Yes people can change depending on some factors.

1. How strong the habit
2. How self discipline they are to quickly adjust
3. How much they value the one in their lives
4. Coincidence of being ready to change and need that push.

Mind u Most cases don’t play out this way. Instead it get worse. My submission are for rare cases.
Great piece.
Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by Mrbenny001: 10:29pm On Jan 16, 2021
change is relative.. but a mature lover can actually influences you.. which can cause some changes in person's life
Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by dona2us(m): 10:33pm On Jan 16, 2021
Yes
Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by TyroneP(m): 10:34pm On Jan 16, 2021
People change a lot. Sincerity of purpose is one of the things lovers forget to have as their watchword. Most times, they get distracted by few situations and they stop loving one another. Most of these situations may be a strong indications that one of them is falling out of love. Excellent communication helps lovers to explore deeper thoughts of how they feel about one another thereby giving room to correct any mistake or bad behaviour in love instead of falling out of love. And from experience, when someone stops loving you, it can result in depression if you find it hard to get over it on time.

LoveTalk:
Hi Cuties and Fellas!

We've seen a lot of people fall in love in different ways.

Some people promise to change if you could give them chance to come into your life.

Many people have been victims of this in the past.

A guy or lady will promise to change and become a better person but the reverse is the case once you allow them in your life.

I don't know if people do really change when they love someone.

Please let's discuss this question:

Do you believe people can change if they love someone?
Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by prince2pac(m): 10:35pm On Jan 16, 2021
SmellySperm:
we wey no get lover nkor?undecided
good question bro, help me ask
Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by Marofav(m): 10:35pm On Jan 16, 2021
A simple book: MODEL MARRIAGE by Dag Heward-Mills answers this question and many more. I'd recommend it for anyone about getting into a relationship, in one, about to get married or already married. It's a Marriage Compendium


LoveTalk:
Hi Cuties and Fellas!

We've seen a lot of people fall in love in different ways.

Some people promise to change if you could give them chance to come into your life.

Many people have been victims of this in the past.

A guy or lady will promise to change and become a better person but the reverse is the case once you allow them in your life.

I don't know if people do really change when they love someone.

Please let's discuss this question:

Do you believe people can change if they love someone?
Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by Nobody: 10:36pm On Jan 16, 2021
Nazgul:

Only an encounter with God can change a person permanently.

Anything outside that would be a temporary change. Meaning the person will return back to his/her default state once the love infatuation dies off

Nobody truly changes...I can boldly confirm this.

That's why it's always advisable to marry someone who possess the qualities you want in a spouse and not someone who you'll spend your whole life trying to bend to your taste.
Gbam.

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Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by SmartPolician: 10:36pm On Jan 16, 2021
Namkbank:
People don't change

Don't buy that NONSENSE we were told.

People change and people change people.

The only thing constant in life is change

According to psychology, two factors make us who we are today: Environment and genetics.

School, parents, friends, etc. fall under the environment. On the other hand, thinking faculty, hormones and others fall under genetics.

Characters are developed from the agents of socialization (environment) and they are subject to change.

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Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by UnknownT: 10:37pm On Jan 16, 2021
They don't change. Blessing didn't change after catching her cheating many times in Uniben.. I they change in their next relationship, na Dem know
Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by Nobody: 10:37pm On Jan 16, 2021
InfernoNig:
Yes. I reduced my womanizing habit and I am close to stopping it. grin
You go still give one geh belle.
Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by worldclass68(m): 10:41pm On Jan 16, 2021
Yes...my very first back in 2010 Sha...I almost die, as if this girl dey for my back even if I'm walking, eating or doing anything, I added milk into my cream so that I'll look nice and fresh for her... grin
Mumu wey I be, girl wey no even gree Las las undecided
Waiting pain pass be say, she admitted that I loved her truly, and yet them use me to catch cruise grin, well me being me, I ingnored her and I got my sense back cool


Nonsense love, Bleep love.. didn't worth it angry
Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by Banter1(m): 10:43pm On Jan 16, 2021
LoveTalk:
Hi Cuties and Fellas!

We've seen a lot of people fall in love in different ways.

Some people promise to change if you could give them chance to come into your life.

Many people have been victims of this in the past.

A guy or lady will promise to change and become a better person but the reverse is the case once you allow them in your life.

I don't know if people do really change when they love someone.

Please let's discuss this question:

Do you believe people can change if they love someone?
Yes! I'm a testimony even though we are not together anymore

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