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Re: Stingy Men Association: What The Bible Says by Divepen1(m): 3:06pm On Jan 17, 2021
You have misconstrued the bible ganni...
1. The giving aspect is to GOD... And not man.
Paul was asking them to prepare for giving on Sunday. Jesus was talking about your seed multiplies after giving to God.
2. Charity is to the poor and needy. It is not for those that just 'WANT'. I'm not saying you shouldn't do as you wish with your money, but I'm only showing you want the bible is saying there.

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Re: Stingy Men Association: What The Bible Says by mcjohny(m): 3:57pm On Jan 17, 2021
[quote author=Akell post=98133958]When Christians are stingy they usually never realize it. You can give and still be stingy. There are some people who give, but with a grudging heart. They think “Aww, do I really have too?” There are some people who offer things, but in their mind they hope the other person says no.

We must not be lovers of self and lovers of money. We must think about others just like Christ thought about us. Give with a cheerful heart not expecting anything in return. Be generous and love others just like Christ loves you. Stinginess is not part of the Christian life.

People are worth more than material things you must never forget that. Where are you storing up your treasures? Would you rather buy stuff or help the poor? Why not readjust your giving today and be a blessing to others. It is so hard for rich people to enter into Heaven.

What does the Bible say?

1.  Proverbs 28:22-24 The stingy person hastens after riches and does not know that poverty will overtake him. T
Re: Stingy Men Association: What The Bible Says by don89(m): 4:03pm On Jan 17, 2021
PROVERB 31-3==..Don't spend all your energy on sex and all your money on women; they have destroyed kings.
Re: Stingy Men Association: What The Bible Says by adekS1(m): 4:10pm On Jan 17, 2021
Our association is becoming more popular by each passing day that some ppl are now quoting Bible against it.

You better go n check proverbs,it specifically addresses it that except a man want to enter poverty thats when he shd be spending carelessly on ladies.

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Re: Stingy Men Association: What The Bible Says by kokomilala(m): 4:17pm On Jan 17, 2021
You missed the whole point.and essence of the scriptures you cited.They don't fit in at all in this context.I know it's all about banters.The Bible does not say give to entitled liabilities; to irresponsible women.You can give on compassionate or humanitarian grounds,but not in a give-and- take relationship.

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Re: Stingy Men Association: What The Bible Says by bezimo(m): 4:46pm On Jan 17, 2021
I am a registered member

I am not stingy towards kingdom matters..
I am not stingy to my family
I am not stingy to close friends..guys.

But you see these useless self entitled 9ja girls..that feel you owe them..I operate full stingy mode...i give no shishi to them.

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Re: Stingy Men Association: What The Bible Says by bezimo(m): 4:49pm On Jan 17, 2021
maak400:
We’re only stingy towards broke hoes that are after our pocket. We give to our mothers, sisters and friends. cool

Gbamsolutely!
What I said
Re: Stingy Men Association: What The Bible Says by Coinbased: 4:57pm On Jan 17, 2021
Go get a job
Re: Stingy Men Association: What The Bible Says by InvertedHammer: 5:48pm On Jan 17, 2021
MadamExcellency:


Stop spewing nonsense.

The bible says they wrote as were moved by the Holy Spirit.
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Of course.

Would you expect the Bible to say anything different?

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Re: Stingy Men Association: What The Bible Says by izubext007: 6:23pm On Jan 17, 2021
well I understand wot the pastor is posting here . but, SMAN........stand against wasting ur money on those olosho that keep washing our head with fake love.

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Re: Stingy Men Association: What The Bible Says by helicoptarr: 6:53pm On Jan 17, 2021
There's no correlation between SMAN and this biblical intervention.

The context of stinginess here must be fully understood before antagonism.

The question is:

If a lady that clearly isn't loyal to you asks you for money for pedicure, manicure, Brazilian hair, iPhone 12, should I oblige and be generous?

If I refuse to fall for such ladies' manipulations, they'll call me STINGY. That's the Stingy SMAN is referring to.

However, I think it should be changed to

SMART MEN ASSOCIATION OF NIGERIA

or

PRUDENT MEN ASSOCIATION OF NIGERIA

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Re: Stingy Men Association: What The Bible Says by Mypeople2(m): 9:01pm On Jan 17, 2021
Queenlovely:
stupid adults behaving like children is what we have in Nigeria,

let us just think for a minute, use ur brain do small mathematics.

have you ever heard rich white guys complaining about women.

when you decide to befriend a shallow thinker what were you expecting.

this SMAN thing means all our girls are gold diggers
My dear being stingy depends on the lady .When I was dating my ex girlfriend. I didn't know there was anything like being stingy ..until we broke up and she immediately got married.When I started looking for a replacement that was when I knew the good ones have been married off.To see a lady that is not stingy now is like looking for the heart of an ant .Have you realized that it is very difficult to borrow money from a female friend than a male friend ? Why is it that guys give to ladies but when it is time to borrow, you borrow from your guys ?
Re: Stingy Men Association: What The Bible Says by Hallabee1(m): 10:27pm On Jan 17, 2021
is OK ...

Re: Stingy Men Association: What The Bible Says by Cousin9999: 12:03am On Jan 18, 2021
Now what say you, stingy men?

Re: Stingy Men Association: What The Bible Says by Dijita: 7:32am On Jan 18, 2021
Tcwork:

See how Christians use the bible as a tool to sell personal views
So you believe dashing babes IPhone 12 would take you to heaven?
There is no single blessing for being nice to babes. If you have charity, give to the poor. It's not about spoiling your babe.
Kindly leave the bible out of this.

You ought to read the article. Are you giving the babes out of the generosity of your heart or with the expectation of sleeping with her? The bible is not talking of the transactional giving. The bible is talking of the giving to help those in need. Bible encourages us to give to those in need babes or men. It does not talk of giving to those in want. I am sure you understand the difference between need and want.

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Re: Stingy Men Association: What The Bible Says by Tcwork: 8:08am On Jan 18, 2021
Dijita:


You ought to read the article. Are you giving the babes out of the generosity of your heart or with the expectation of sleeping with her? The bible is not talking of the transactional giving. The bible is talking of the giving to help those in need. Bible encourages us to give to those in need babes or men. It does not talk of giving to those in want. I am sure you understand the difference between need and want.
Then you need to understand what the stingy men thing is all about and how it came about.
The article is miss directed
The stingy men association is basically a joke with the aim of teach men to be prudent and in control of their cash. It's about self-control and the ability to say no to a beautiful girl even if it means not getting to date her.
I read the article and I felt it's a disservice especially coming from a man
Re: Stingy Men Association: What The Bible Says by FruitCakes(f): 10:45am On Jan 18, 2021
Akell:
When Christians are stingy they usually never realize it. You can give and still be stingy. There are some people who give, but with a grudging heart. They think “Aww, do I really have too?” There are some people who offer things, but in their mind they hope the other person says no.

We must not be lovers of self and lovers of money. We must think about others just like Christ thought about us. Give with a cheerful heart not expecting anything in return. Be generous and love others just like Christ loves you. Stinginess is not part of the Christian life.

People are worth more than material things you must never forget that. Where are you storing up your treasures? Would you rather buy stuff or help the poor? Why not readjust your giving today and be a blessing to others. It is so hard for rich people to enter into Heaven.

What does the Bible say?

1.  Proverbs 28:22-24 The stingy person hastens after riches and does not know that poverty will overtake him. The one who reproves another will in the end find more favor than the one who flatters with the tongue. The one who robs his father and mother and says, “There is no transgression,” is a companion to the one who destroys.

2.  Proverbs 23:6-8 Do not eat the food of a stingy person, do not crave his delicacies; for he is like someone calculating the cost in his mind. “Eat and drink,” he says to you, but his heart is not with you; you will vomit up the little bit you have eaten, and will have wasted your pleasant words.

Give not with a grudging heart

3. 2 Corinthians 9:7-10 You must each decide in your heart how much to give. And don’t give reluctantly or in response to pressure. “For God loves a person who gives cheerfully.” And God will generously provide all you need. Then you will always have everything you need and plenty left over to share with others. As the Scriptures say, “They share freely and give generously to the poor. Their good deeds will be remembered forever.” For God is the one who provides seed for the farmer and then bread to eat. In the same way, he will provide and increase your resources and then produce a great harvest of generosity in you.

4. 1 Chronicles 29:9 The people rejoiced at the willing response of their leaders, for they had given freely and wholeheartedly to the LORD. David the king also rejoiced greatly.

5. Romans 12:8 If your gift is to encourage others, be encouraging. If it is giving, give generously. If God has given you leadership ability, take the responsibility seriously. And if you have a gift for showing kindness to others, do it gladly.

6.  Proverbs 11:24-27 One person is generous and yet grows more wealthy, but another withholds more than he should and comes to poverty. A generous person will be enriched, and the one who provides water for others will himself be satisfied. People will curse the one who withholds grain, but they will praise the one who sells it. The one who diligently seeks good seeks favor, but the one who searches for evil—it will come to him.

7. Deuteronomy 15:8-11 Instead, be generous and lend them whatever they need. Do not be mean-spirited and refuse someone a loan because the year for canceling debts is close at hand. If you refuse to make the loan and the needy person cries out to the LORD, you will be considered guilty of sin. Give generously to the poor, not grudgingly, for the LORD your God will bless you in everything you do. There will always be some in the land who are poor. That is why I am commanding you to share freely with the poor and with other Israelites in need.

Treasures in Heaven 

8. Luke 12:16-24 Then he gave an illustration: “A rich man had a fertile farm that produced fine crops. In fact, his barns were full to overflowing—he couldn’t get everything in. He thought about his problem, and finally exclaimed, ‘I know—I’ll tear down my barns and build bigger ones! Then I’ll have room enough. And I’ll sit back and say to myself, “Friend, you have enough stored away for years to come. Now take it easy! Wine, women, and song for you!”’  “But God said to him, ‘Fool! Tonight you die. Then who will get it all?’ “Yes, every man is a fool who gets rich on earth but not in heaven.” Then turning to his disciples he said, “Don’t worry about whether you have enough food to eat or clothes to wear. For life consists of far more than food and clothes. Look at the ravens—they don’t plant or harvest or have barns to store away their food, and yet they get along all right—for God feeds them. And you are far more valuable to him than any birds!”

9. 1 Timothy 6:18-19 Tell them to use their money to do good. They should be rich in good works and generous to those in need, always being ready to share with others. By doing this they will be storing up their treasure as a good foundation for the future so that they may experience true life.

10. Matthew 25:34-40 Then the King will say to those on his right, ‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world. For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me, I was naked and you clothed me, I was sick and you visited me, I was in prison and you came to me.’ Then the righteous will answer him, saying, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you drink? And when did we see you a stranger and welcome you, or naked and clothe you? And when did we see you sick or in prison and visit you?’ And the King will answer them, ‘Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of these my brothers, you did it to me.’

Be generous

11. Proverbs 22:9 The generous will themselves be blessed, for they share their food with the poor.

12. Luke 6:38 give, and it will be given to you. Good measure, pressed down, shaken together, running over, will be put into your lap. For with the measure you use it will be measured back to you.

13. Proverbs 19:17 Whoever is kind to the poor lends to the LORD, and he will reward them for what they have done.

Reminders


14. Proverbs 11:26-27 The people curse him who holds back grain, but a blessing is on the head of him who sells it. Whoever diligently seeks good seeks favor, but evil comes to him who searches for it.

15. Galatians 6:9-10 Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers.

16. 1 Peter 4:8-10 And above all things have fervent charity among yourselves: for charity shall cover the multitude of sins. Use hospitality one to another without grudging. As every man hath received the gift, even so minister the same one to another, as good stewards of the manifold grace of God.
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Re: Stingy Men Association: What The Bible Says by Paramountgift(f): 11:59am On Jan 18, 2021
Although this is a Christian platform but that doesn't undermine the fact that unbelievers will cross this. Believer or unbeliever, this information is very important for your soul. No one is above God, and His commands are ultimate. Pls, read this till the end for your good and that of others. Thanks as you comply.

For you that does not believe in God, Jesus Christ or anything Christianity, always bear in mind that you did not create yourself, and that the body you live in will give away one day. When this happens, your soul will be required of you by your maker. What will you tell God about how you lived your life here on earth?

How would you feel if your creation goes against your will, do you ever stop to think about how God feels whenever you discard His commands and disregard His existence.

...For we are but sojourners here in earth..
The life we live on earth is only a fraction of eternity.

Romans 14:10; ..for we shall all stand before the Judgement Seat Of Christ..

The word escape means to break free from confinement or control. The context of this subject suggests a dangerous situation that needs to be fled from. It also an unpleasant and precarious situation that needs to be separated from.
The Bible is replete with clear warnings to mankind to flee from destruction. In the days preceding Noah, God saw that the afflictions of men were only evil continually and would have destroyed them without notification, bit the righteous and holy God would not do that rather. He decided to inform righteous Noah of his s intentions and used him to prepare the Ark to save his family and preserve all species of animals from the wrath of God and the destruction that was to be unleashed on that generation.
Gen 6:5-7
God eventually destroyed man and all living creatures that remained on earth. This is a salutary lessons to all the humans in this generation to repent of their evil deeds. The rain of Noah's dispensation that destroyed nearly every soul alive then, came suddenly on the people and they could not escape. The people were eating, drinking, marrying, making merriment and doing all sort of things as is being done today until the floods came and destroyed them.
Matt 24:38-39
God also revealed to Abraham of his intentions to destroy Sodom and Gomorrah, to enable him intercede for the city. The result was the deliverance of Lot and his family from the great inferno.
Gen 19:17
If God did not spare the generation of No ah and the cities of Sodom and Gomorrah because of their sins, please note that he will not spare this generation, including sinners, no matter the excuses.
2 pet 2:5-9
Nearly all the adult Israelites that left Egypt by the Lord's mighty hand could not enter the promise Land because of sin and rebellion against God.
Sin in man makes sacrifices abominable and unacceptable to God. Sin in man makes him a willing companion of unquenchable fire of hell. In all dispensations, those who sinned against God without genuine repentance recieved their doses of varying degree of punishment.
Heb 10: 28-29
Jesus died to save man from the unbearable and sore judgement and the accompanying interminable suffering that will be the lot of billions of people. Yet, man has shunned this great work of grace and has chosen to bear the consequences instead.
Dear friends, it must be clearly stated that more than 95% of adults what are dying today end up in hell fire because of one sin or the other.
Be rest assured that if you shun the instruction of the Lord which says, 'strive to enter in at the strait gate', you can never say no to the command of the devil in hell(with great torments and pain), whose interest you serve as an unrepentant sinner on earth.

We must therefore be courageous to cut off those things that lead us to condemnation in hell fire, no matter how dear they may appear to us materially, physically and spiritually. Let no one be deceived, unquenchable fire with worms that can never die, awaits all sinners.
If you do need to wish to face eternal suffering in hell fire, please ensure that you escape from the following; adultery, fornication, worldliness, unforgiving spirit, anger, malice, strife, bitterness, fear, envy, list, pornography, lying tongue, deceit, fraud, extortion, covetousness, pride, wickedness, ungodly dressing such as tight fitting and skimpy dresses, body exposing dresses, perming of the hair, dying of the hair, wearing of attachments and unnatural hair/extensions. In summary, anything that's not your hair, or changes the natural state of your hair.
For validation, check this scriptures: Rom 1:28-32, Gal 5:19-21, Zephaniah 1:8.
Along with this, you must desist from painting the body, nails, toes lips, tattoos, bleaching the skin, wearing extra lashes, etc. For validation, see:
Prov 7:10, Jeremiah 4:30.
No one knows his or her time, if you want to escape the damnation of your soul in hell fire, please ensure you put off all adornments ( earrings, necklaces, Leg/hand chains, Bangles, beads, etc) For validation, see:
Deut 7:25-26, Isaiah 3:18-23, Zeph 1:18, Zeph 1:8
You may want to argue about this, but this is not the time to win any argument. It is a time to wait on the Lord and hear him speak to you.
All those who wrestle scriptures to justify their lustful desires do so to their destruction. The exhaustive list applies to both men and women. Husband's tell your wives and wives do suit.
We must all note that we have a creator, 'God Almighty'. We are not our own, we all have destinies to fulfill on earth in line with God's will. It is not the will of God that any man should perish. If you have doubts, pray earnestly and seek the face of God to reveal to you, and He will.
There is a general new trend of wordiness in the church today. People can wear anything (including sensitive parts exposing clothes), drink anything (including strong drinks), dance to any tune of music, allow choreography, immoral dances and different forms of unholy amusement on the pulpit. Yet, the Ministers of the gospel do not see anything wrong in them.

People tatoo their bodies, get funny and demonic haircuts, women wear trousers and seductive tights and yet the churches as well as their Ministers are very comfortable with them. All that matters is the prosperity of the people and the increased number of excited unrepentant sinners for the gain of the ministers.
Please note that hell fire awaits you if you fall into the above indicated sins, whether as a member or as a minister that allows them in your church.
If you are in a ministry where salvation, sanctification and Holiness if individual members and the entire church is not emphasized, then you are an unprofitable servant already on a dark tunnel to hell fire. Matt 25:30
Fortunately, there is a way out. As long as you are alive, it is never too late to amend your ways.

Escape for your life by leaving that ungodly and antichrist church and look for a place where righteous living, inward and outward purity is emphasized continuously.
If you continue to attend that gathering where you do not need to repent despite your sins, you are willingly sinning against God, and the result is judgement without mercy (hell fire).
Heb 10:36-27

If you really want to escape hell fire, please do the following:
1. Acknowledge that you are a sinner and that you cannot save yourself by yourself (pslm 32:5;51:1-5, Rom 3:23)

2. Identify your sins and confess them to God in repentance asking him to forgive you (Rom 10:9, James 5:16, 1John 1:9)

3. Repent of all your sins asking God for the grace to be holy (Ezek 14:6, Acts 2:38;3:19, Acts 8:22;17:30)

4. Determine not to go back to your sins (Dan 1:8, Phil 3:7-8, Rom 6:1-6)

5. Look for a Bible believing and Holiness preaching Church where biblical truths are preached without compromise (Acts 20:20, 26-27, 31-32, Rev 3:7-10)

6. Seperate from the world and worldliness for your spiritual development (2 Cor 6:14-18: Rev 18:4-5)
Thank you!

Feel free to ruminate over the message consecutively..it will profit your soul. Also share to your friends, family and colleagues. Our lives here in earth are 70- 100 if your strength can take you. But life after death is forever..eternity...

where will you spend yours?
Heaven or hell? No riches here on earth or city can be compared to the beauty of heaven, and no suffering here on earth can be compared to the pain and anguish of hell.
Make your choice now...Jesus or Satan!
It's a two way thing, there's no neutral ground.

I hope and pray that you will make the right choice..
Some years back, I would have spat at anyone that brought this kind of message my way, until I got a personal convinction from Jesus Christ Himself.
I also urge you brethren to pray for the baptism of the Holy Spirit. There's nothing more valuable than a exclusive walk with God.
Thanks again.
Re: Stingy Men Association: What The Bible Says by MichaelSokoto(m): 9:21pm On Jan 18, 2021
GAZZUZZ:
No weapon fashioned against the movement shall prosper grin...




We move... grin
Baba u sef don join? even collect ID join?

u gbaski oojaree!

grin
Re: Stingy Men Association: What The Bible Says by Nobody: 12:26pm On Jan 19, 2021
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bezimo:
I am a registered member

I am not stingy towards kingdom matters..
I am not stingy to my family
I am not stingy to close friends..guys.

But you see these useless self entitled 9ja girls..that feel you owe them..I operate full stingy mode...i give no shishi to them.
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Will you sharap there and stop writing rvbbish
Re: Stingy Men Association: What The Bible Says by bezimo(m): 8:34pm On Jan 19, 2021
divinecode101:
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[s]Will you sharap there and stop writing rvbbis[/s]h

Look at this possessed rubbish nonentity. Abeg get out go look for your mate to banter with.Gerrahia! You lucky this is not social media I would have blocked your useless rubbish poverty decorated destiny from been a useless nuisance here..
Re: Stingy Men Association: What The Bible Says by Nobody: 9:37pm On Jan 19, 2021
bezimo:


Look at me. a possessed rubbish nonentity. Abeg i will get out go look for your mate to banter with.Gerrahia! I am lucky this is not social media I would have blocked my father who useless rubbish poverty decorated destiny from been a useless nuisance here..

Ok, who did you type this na grin grin

We have heard you though
Re: Stingy Men Association: What The Bible Says by Akell(m): 11:04pm On Jan 19, 2021
FruitCakes:
Op I'm currently in need of cash, will you please help me��

Your account details please.

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