My sister is in her late 20s. Smart, ambitious and hardworking. She's been dating this guy since she was in the uni ( she's a graduate) and from the look of things, she's in love with the guy. Then there comes another guy B whom really loves her and wishes to marry her. He's been disturbing her since years but my sis has been adamant because of the guy A. The problem is, guy A seems to be a lazy dude, finished school since and has been on nothing. In fact, my sis caters for his needs sometimes. Anytime he's been asked about the next level, all he talks about is traveling abroad since like 3 years he's finished school. Now the problem is my mum is disapproving the relationship, reason because, the same happened to her and she's scared same thing might happen to her only daughter too (she's been the man of the house even though my dad's alive) .My sister, at the other end, is being solid that she doesn't want the guy B because she doesn't love her and it's guy A she wants, never minding his negativities. Asides from been lazy and unambitious though, Guy A is spiritual, cool and gentle.

Guy A is lazy.just because new guy don show and e be like him soft small.una wan push her give the guy.dont push ur sister into depression,because.u dont want wat happened to ur mum,happen to her.allow her to leave guy A by herself.every reletionship must not lead into marriage.but,forcing one into it.is an everlasting calamity.

Hmm since your sista loves guy A and he is not financially stable yet, the best she can do is to help him grown financially, tell her to stop catering for his needs, let him take responsibility and start something maybe a business and your sista could be great help to him since she loves him. Trust me you don't want to marry someone you don't love neither do you want your sista to do the same. Let them work together and build something for themselves. Since he has no job and no money to travel abroad, let him start something together with your sista and one-day it might turn a family business for them and help them grown financially together. He should not be waiting for miracle or any sorts of magic to happen

jbreezy:
My sister is in her late 20s. Smart, ambitious and hardworking. She's been dating this guy since she was in the uni ( she's a graduate) and from the look of things, she's in love with the guy. Then there comes another guy B whom really loves her and wishes to marry her. He's been disturbing her since years but my sis has been adamant because of the guy A. The problem is, guy A seems to be a lazy dude, finished school since and has been on nothing. In fact, my sis caters for his needs sometimes. Anytime he's been asked about the next level, all he talks about is traveling abroad since like 3 years he's finished school. Now the problem is my mum is disapproving the relationship, reason because, the same happened to her and she's scared same thing might happen to her only daughter too (she's been the man of the house even though my dad's alive) .My sister, at the other end, is being solid that she doesn't want the guy B because she doesn't love her and it's guy A she wants, never minding his negativities. Asides from been lazy and unambitious though, Guy A is spiritual, cool and gentle.

Federalcase:
Hmm since your sista loves guy A and he is not financially stable yet, the best she can do is to help him grown financially, tell her to stop catering for his needs, let him take responsibility and start something maybe a business and your sista could be great help to him since she loves him. Trust me you don't want to marry someone you don't love neither do you want your sista to do the same. Let them work together and build something for themselves. Since he has no job and no money to travel abroad, let him start something together with your sista and one-day it might turn a family business for them and help them grown financially together. He should not be waiting for miracle or any sorts of magic to happen

okay thanks

CuteMike01:
It is uncommon to see a woman chase a man without ambition. Hope she isn't under...

Lool..naah she's not under a spell..The guy is her first love and they've been dating since her second year in school. So it's quite normal..

donbachi:
Guy A is lazy.just because new guy don show and e be like him soft small.una wan push her give the guy.dont push ur sister into depression,because.u dont want wat happened to ur mum,happen to her.allow her to leave guy A by herself.every reletionship must not lead into marriage.but,forcing one into it.is an everlasting calamity.

Actually, we aren't pushing her. We just want the best for her. That's all. I've told e everyone to support her no matter her choice.

jbreezy:
My sister is in her late 20s. Smart, ambitious and hardworking. She's been dating this guy since she was in the uni ( she's a graduate) and from the look of things, she's in love with the guy. Then there comes another guy B whom really loves her and wishes to marry her. He's been disturbing her since years but my sis has been adamant because of the guy A. The problem is, guy A seems to be a lazy dude, finished school since and has been on nothing. In fact, my sis caters for his needs sometimes. Anytime he's been asked about the next level, all he talks about is traveling abroad since like 3 years he's finished school. Now the problem is my mum is disapproving the relationship, reason because, the same happened to her and she's scared same thing might happen to her only daughter too (she's been the man of the house even though my dad's alive) .My sister, at the other end, is being solid that she doesn't want the guy B because she doesn't love her and it's guy A she wants, never minding his negativities. Asides from been lazy and unambitious though, Guy A is spiritual, cool and gentle.

U don't have a single sense at all